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 cherryyblossom
Joined: 7/19/2009
Msg: 66
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 onlydateIF
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 67
 HeresL00kingAtYou
Joined: 8/20/2009
Msg: 68
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/22/2011 2:29:02 AM
If a woman sends naked or semi naked pictures before we meet, it doesn't happen. I figure she's a slut or has mental issues. I don't care what she looks like.
 LVDOTDRS
Joined: 5/25/2010
Msg: 69
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Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the firs
Posted: 11/22/2011 3:53:06 PM
I would think that if a woman is doing that before you ever meet...you should definitenely be worried about diseases and be certain to use protection...
 BLoNde__ANgeL
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 72
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 1/21/2012 9:33:17 PM
she could be a tease, exposing her bod to get her jollies, or an exhibitionist. Maybe her ex dumped her & told her she wasn't sexy...or maybe she wants to get laid...there is not one answer, it depends on each situation...
 Dee4166
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 74
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Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2014 3:01:41 AM

This true , seem a lot of women happy with cyber sex right , they are getting generous tips or gifts on http://freecamsprofiles.com/
Its a surprise a woman beauty lies in her body


Looking to make some extra $$$ for the Holidays there, sweetheart???

LMAO
 Eternityboresme
Joined: 8/20/2014
Msg: 75
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2014 4:06:19 AM
To people with the same questions as the OP, you can't assume consent. Even if the person sends you erotic texts and photos, doesn't mean and should never be assumed that you're going to get laid. Without consent -- ongoing consent, too -- you're not entitled to get them to bed on any date, without that.
 sigungq
Joined: 1/4/2013
Msg: 76
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Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2014 2:15:39 PM
No OP, it means she's a tease, and has no intention of meeting anyone. It's called a "virtual relationship". Get with the 21st century already.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 77
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the firs
Posted: 11/21/2014 2:54:09 PM
I tend to agree that a woman who shows herself naked on camera is not likely to actually show up. Just likes to tease. However if she does show, (not going to happen) she could be one screwed up person and/or wants some kind of compensation. If you know what I mean.

As for a woman masturbating to pics and messages from a man she doesn't find attractive, that is totally screwed up and why would she do it? Plenty of attractive men willing to go along with all that, online.

I used to show myself in seductive pose on camera but never anywhere near naked. Just for fun. The guys would be wanting to meet up and of course it never happened. They would be wanting one thing and one thing only. The novelty wore off after the indecent comments etc.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 78
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/21/2014 11:19:52 PM
exploringlifetogether

how many have you seen more than the first date by the way? Would you want a woman who gets naked with a stranger on cam and then has casual sex with that stranger, probably when she is high or half pissed, for a long term prospect? I kind of think not. Finding 5 screwed up women on here to bonk, must be some kind of record!! . If you are even telling the truth.

Even condoms cant protect against all STD's and if you and the girls are as promiscuous as you say, sooner or later you will be dealing with it or become the baby daddy, or both.
 Strings6
Joined: 7/14/2007
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Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/22/2014 3:58:45 AM
A woman who would send me nude photos before we met is a woman I do not need,i have lived long enough to know the cart does not pull the horse and taking time to get to know somebody first does matter and will bring better results....yes there are exceptions but I never experienced one.
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 80
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/22/2014 8:10:58 AM
It doesn't guarantee anything. Pretty much any scenario is possible from having sex on the first date / meeting to never going out on a date with this woman at all to a woman using old or fake photos. Some women have sent me naked pictures before meeting. However that was on a sex ( not a mainstream dating ) website. I never sent X rated pictures of myself prior to meeting a woman though.
 forumfellathesequel
Joined: 7/28/2014
Msg: 81
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/22/2014 8:16:00 AM
Even if they do, as we all know, there's still no guarantee it is really them in the picture, too me it falls in with the picture sprawled out on the bed, or the bikini shot, it just cries desperation..LOOK AT ME!!! CHOOSE ME INSTEAD!
Personally I find a picture of a woman in a nice sundress or tight jeans much more sexy!
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 3/30/2014
Msg: 82
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/22/2014 9:37:03 AM
Sending me a boob or butt shot, how dare she do that! Naughty girl!

The only time I've gotten these are from women that are currently separated or widows.

The widow was upset I didn't reciprocate the sexting, stating she just lost someone and misses intimacy. Understood, but the sexting thing felt like a litmus test from her. I'm simply not going to text a few pages from the Kama Sutra to her. Never met her. Real? Who knows. She was on Match so I imagine she was.

Did meet the other ones but never had sex, probably because they knew I was seeking long term and I didn't take the hint to have quick sex. Who knows.

Women can get away initiating the sexting stuff. Doesn't bother me at all.

That being said, they're just flocking there feathers to land a date with you. I wouldn't take it too serious.

Most women are shocked to learn I don't enjoy using profanity in the bedroom either. Guess that makes me a prude:)
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 83
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/25/2014 7:43:03 AM

Did meet the other ones but never had sex, probably because they knew I was seeking long term and I didn't take the hint to have quick sex. Who knows.


So you met them? Every single one of the women that at some point sent me photos of her in some degree of nudity or talked sexually, eventually cancelled and did not meet. So at least you got to meet them.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/25/2014 9:05:47 AM

InnerGorilla
So you met them? Every single one of the women that at some point sent me photos of her in some degree of nudity or talked sexually, eventually cancelled and did not meet. So at least you got to meet them.


It’s funny how that works. Here on a “dating site”, I have encountered a number of women who wanted to “cybersex”. That is, talk dirty through emails or even phone, exchange naughty pictures, etc. Of course none of these women will ever meet you. They will talk about it, they will talk it to death. “Yes, I’ll meet you Monday at Starbucks at 8 p.m. Now tell me what you’re going to do to me when we meet.”

Conversely, if you get on a real “sex site”, as opposed to a “dating site”, there are some women interested in “cybersex”, but most of them are after the real thing. And they do NOT want to talk dirty, they want you to treat them with a certain amount of respect and dignity. Then when you do meet, they will boff your brains out.

Like I said, it’s funny how things work.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 85
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/25/2014 2:54:32 PM
Clooneystutor
You are saying that you didn't take the opportunity to bonk the separated women? Couldn't have been too hot then. Or you felt they would do it with just about anybody not too ugly??'

That you are actually getting to meet women and are being offered sex, you better share your secret with the other poor guys on here who never get a meet or even a phone call.
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 3/30/2014
Msg: 86
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/25/2014 3:41:06 PM
My secret? I wait to be contacted first:)

On Match? I don't wink but I'll look at their profiles.

They see me look and get curious..

Not complicated.
 Strawberry_Jello
Joined: 5/13/2014
Msg: 87
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Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/25/2014 3:48:35 PM
Well I recently had 2 different guys wanting cyber/phone sex before meeting. One wanted to exchange sexy messages thru Yahoo Messenger. The other wanted me to participate in phone sex. Both times I told them I don't do that, haven't done that, don't want to do that, don't know how to do that, and derive no significant pleasure from solitary self stimulation. They both dropped communication because I suggested getting to know them in person before expecting me to feel aroused by them. Seems like they were trying it to test my degree of sexuality. Wrong way to go about it IMO. I have no idea if either of them ever intended to actually meet me.
Oh well, keep fishing.


That you are actually getting to meet women and are being offered sex, you better share your secret with the other poor guys on here who never get a meet or even a phone call.


He has good photos and a well written profile.
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 3/30/2014
Msg: 88
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/25/2014 7:02:13 PM
^^^
Thank you for your kind words:)

Getting dates is easy peasy.

I'm picky. I'm also impatient, and not about getting into bed either.

I have low tolerance for bs, as in:

Pre-Sex Nonsense
Venue changers - upgrading the date to a dinner date. (We already agreed on a venue beforehand)

Cawk teases - They always mention sex first and make it clear what their boundaries are. Sex is the reward I must earn. I haven't even touched these women btw. They'll even cuddle with you to keep you on the line.

Relationship Experts - Inquiring about my past marriages and touting the success of their parents relationship, on a first date.

Phone Screeners - Require more then one phone call before scheduling a date.

Post-Sex Nonsense

Endless Courtship Ladies - No quiet nights at home mister watching DVDs! That's a booty call! We need to go out and have an experience first at your expense! (I don't mind going out once in awhile, but after 12 hour shift, I'm allowed to have a night in)

Escorts - They'll sleep with you but don't want the exclusive label. YUCK. Apparently I check enough boxes to get laid, but not a 'girlfriend'. I'm either bad in bed or they're turned off by my 3 marriages. I don't think its bad sex since they want to keep seeing me, minus the exclusive part. Go figure.

Mostly, I meet escorts and Relationship Experts.

I think both genders are quick to view someone as short or long term material (i.e. settling).

I'm the guy that's good for now but not forever.
 Strawberry_Jello
Joined: 5/13/2014
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Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/25/2014 9:18:36 PM
Well despite our differences, sex, age, your better photos, we seem to have similar problems.

I get some dates, it's not really easy, but I do get them. I'm also picky, impatient and intolerant.

I don't get Pre-Sex Nonsense, I get sex nonsense. As in sexting, phone sex requests, intimate sex questions before meeting, etc. OK, I get it. Guys don't want to waste time on a non sexual woman. So I try to find a balance between acknowledging I AM sexual, and getting too specific. Usually this does not work.

I don't get Venue changers. I get let's go cheap, real cheap. Like "let's meet at the mailbox, at the YMCA, at a park, at McDonalds, etc." OK, I get it. Guys have been taken advantage of, so I go along with cheap or free. Still doesn't work.

I don't get Cawk teases. I get prick teases. Yup, guys who hint at the great sex and great relationship we're going to have, and then they disappear.

Oh yes, I do get Relationship Experts, men who quiz me for a few minutes, then they tell me what my problems are. One guy said I'm afraid of men. ROTFLMAO. I SHOULD be afraid, but I'm definitely not. Of course these men are like the rest of us here, refugees from failed relationships, and have no business giving me unrequested advice.

Yes, I get Phone Screeners, calls that consist of a series of questions, like a job interview. I try to be pleasant, joke around, ask a few myself, and answer their questions, got nothing to hide. Then I never hear from them again. WTH, am I supposed to be all breathy in a first call? I dunno.

No Post-Sex Nonsense lately. No sex lately. LOL.

No Endless Courtship, no opportunity. Usually one and done. A few were two dates, and then either poof, or some kind of weird emotional explosion.

I don't get Escorts, I get Stud Muffins, "I'll do you, but don't even think of expecting to get to know me first" As if that's normal and expected to fock someone you don't even know. Yeah, they don't want the exclusive label, or any label, or even any discussion. DOUBLE YUCK. Apparently I also check enough boxes to get laid, but not a 'boyfriend'. A few say sex first, and MAYBE a relationship after, IF they like the sex. Really? LOL. I'm pretty sure I'm not bad in bed, but they aren't getting a chance to find out. Their loss, seriously.

Then there are the Instant Relationship Guys. They declare I'm THE ONE on a first date, and bring up being exclusive. But it collapses quickly after I fail to swoon, or they show their significant personality defects, lying or controlling behavior.

There are Endless Messengers, guys who do ping pong messaging, but don't ask for a date. I try to let the guy ask, mostly due to my age bracket, aggressive doesn't seem to work. A few I actually shamed into asking me by hinting that they were afraid. So they did ask for a meet, but had an attitude at the meet, so I didn't try that again.

Mostly, I meet Stud Muffins, and Relationship Experts.

I'm the gal that's good for now but not for a LTR.

I know I should have better photos, but I'm so tired of the nonsense, I'm thinking of just giving up. Several men have advised me to "show more cleavage" as if that would bring me better results, as if I don't get lots of offers for sex already, LMAO.
 forumfellathesequel
Joined: 7/28/2014
Msg: 90
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/25/2014 9:30:34 PM
Sounds like you 2 kids should hook up then....wow, I feel just like Cupid :D
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 91
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/25/2014 10:58:15 PM
re Clooneystutor
Good photos?? Not really. Cant spell "faint" either. A small thing but it bugs me. lol! The profile is quite well written I grant that. Three marriages can be a bit offputting especially to women who don't want to be the fourth along with exes in the background, no doubt.
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 3/30/2014
Msg: 92
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date?
Posted: 11/26/2014 11:21:43 AM
You spelled can't wrong.

You are spot on. My challenge is finding a woman who will tolerate being #4.

Played the commitment card 3x. Need to learn a new trick or be more grateful for 3 date flings while they last.
 moonbeamlover
Joined: 5/3/2014
Msg: 93
Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the firs
Posted: 11/26/2014 2:30:35 PM

To each his/her own. I would hope the exhibitionist party asks before sending! I would be pretty upset to get that type of mail without warning. Many people like to use their webcam for purposes as such, but do they realize who is really on the receiving end? This is very risky behavior.


tell me about it... have my phone facing up at a clients and all of a sudden have a full frontal leaves NOTHING to the imagination text pic shot of them feeling uh happy... exactly what I want to convey to my clients...

people should ask before they send that kind of pic what kind of pic a person actually wants to receive...
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