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 RedDelPaPa
Joined: 5/21/2011
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Breast implantsPage 12 of 14    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14)
So what happens when a woman goes and gets herself a boob job only to discover several months later, that it hasn't improved her life in the slightest? In fact, it set her back financially? Or even worse, what happens if she meets a guy that she attracted to who makes a negative comment about her obvious fake breasts?

Personally, I don't like fake breasts either. They don't look natural. They're not shaped right, they don't bounce naturally, and I can easily spot them from a distance.

And it seems that is the majority consensus with men. I don't know. I'm trying not to be judgmental. I'm just saying. I see a lot of very pretty women with fantastic figures getting boob jobs and I'm left asking what the hell for? You looked fabulous before. Now you just look, well, fake.
 GJBrown
Joined: 9/12/2011
Msg: 231
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Posted: 11/18/2013 8:37:01 PM
The fake ones...
love em!
real ones...
Love em more!
implants can be huge but very perky. Huge real ones sag but most men do enjoy the natural bounce affect. I say real > fake. But fake is fun too. But like most black men I'm more of a butt guy! haha see porn star Daphne Rosen! 8)
 MS.ICENI
Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 233
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Posted: 11/20/2013 12:46:51 PM
Any woman who gets breast implants will, in all probability, need to get future surgery...very often to have them removed. As far as this woman is concerned, they still haven't been proved to me that they are safe in the long term. The only reason they should be used is for a woman who has had a mastectomy (for reconstruction) or some other serious conditiion. Seems like lots of people, both men and women, have bought into the hype...fake is sexy.
 SuperSaiyanGoku
Joined: 3/18/2013
Msg: 234
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Posted: 11/20/2013 7:49:37 PM
Only a small percentage of women get breast implants as a result of breast cancer. Breast implants under this condition is totally fine with me. With that being said, there is something very attractive about a woman who is so insecure about herself, that she is willing to have surgery(breast implants) in an attempt to improve herself. That's super hot!!
 Lexti
Joined: 3/14/2013
Msg: 235
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Posted: 11/22/2013 8:00:35 PM
Implants have come a long way. Not only can you get different sizes, but different shapes and textures as well, with some that look and feel very natural. I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman wanting to feel better about herself or her physical appearance. Everything we do in life has a risk associated with it. You simply have to measure what the risk is worth to you.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
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Posted: 11/29/2013 2:28:34 AM
Its funny but when I wear my" super bra"..I am not considered thin.
Eyes pop out and its not THAT much different. 2 inches in one place? Really it makes a huge difference in how BOTH sexes look at you.
If I wear a sports bra I'm told I look thin.

Boobs are powerful, like it or not, showing cleavage or not.
I would love some extra, but not big.
A good sex life would change that.

Look at these pics
http://ajetun.blogspot.com/2012/11/photos-80-year-old-woman-with-silicone.html
80 year old has 40 year old looking breast. To ODD.
 ozarkguy
Joined: 11/15/2007
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Posted: 11/29/2013 7:51:34 AM
Peppermint--Ewwwwww! I'll NEVER look at one of your references again.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
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Posted: 11/29/2013 2:26:32 PM
^^^^^^^^^^Awwwwww come on!!

Hot, huh?
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 241
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Posted: 12/8/2013 4:13:56 PM
holy cats, pepper, that picture was.....was....

well, I'm not sure what. I'm guessing the lady lost weight in a variety of places to get wrinkles like that. But if her guy finds it hot, well...I can always look in another direction.

I'll agree with the poster above, in a perfect world a woman who accepts what she has is great. but safely agumenting what you already have, and realizing you need to be the whole package in order to stand out from the pack, is great, too. In other words, increasing the cup size and decreasing your class level, isn't making you look any hotter.
 GhettoFoot
Joined: 9/4/2016
Msg: 243
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Posted: 1/16/2017 2:19:42 PM

She was a AA cup and never felt feminine. She didn't go crazy in size or get them to flaunt, just something to balance her figure and hips.


In cases like that, I can understand wanting implants. I knew a woman like that too, with ample hips and ass but no boobs. She went to a large B/small C. She looked better afterwards. No woman wants to be completely flat-chested or flat-assed (unless they have some psychological disorder like anorexia). Even the ones with HUGE titties who want a reduction don't want to go down to a AA cup, not that that's possible anyway. The smallest cup size I've ever seen after a reduction was a B and even that's rare.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 1/22/2017 10:08:47 AM
I prefer natural over fake boobs myself. I think the issue is more with a woman's personal self confidence than the reaction she gets from men. Even though I am a breast man, I think a woman who has a beautiful ass or face is just as sexy as a woman who has large breasts. Look at Milla Movovich, the woman does not have any boobs or butt whatsoever, but is one of the sexiest women I have ever seen. I know a woman who is on the large side, and would normally not be my type, but her bubbly, sarcastic, yet positive personality and confidence makes her attractive to me. If she wasn't already married, I would definitely consider her for serious dating.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 1/22/2017 2:34:05 PM
most men I know dont care if the boobs are fake, they are visual creatures and this is what turns them on. They go for a blonde even when they know it is not natural for instance. High heels that emphasise a derriere. All trickery and fake but they dont care.

Often the men will pay for the implants as well but sooner or later there can be problems with them. They can mask any signs of breast cancer for instance.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
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Posted: 1/25/2017 4:12:34 PM

most men I know dont care if the boobs are fake, they are visual creatures and this is what turns them on.

Well, women are just as much "visual creatures" as men are, if not more typically. But to note -- guys aren't Just into how they look, although that obviously carries most of the weight. It's also how they feel... which nowadays, fake boobs can feel/be better than real ones. So I'd say how it looks, but also how it Feels.
 jco415
Joined: 1/4/2017
Msg: 247
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Posted: 1/25/2017 4:39:39 PM

most men I know dont care if the boobs are fake, they are visual creatures and this is what turns them on


Well, almost every man I've ever talked to about this subject hates fake boobs...the few that liked them tended to be they guys who would take whatever they could get!
 LetitiaLeGrande
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Posted: 1/25/2017 11:42:24 PM
sure and I guess botoxed lips still feel real as well. The point is that all this surgical enhancement can present health dangers and not to mention the money that women feel they have to spend in order to look more desirable. A few wrinkles on a man and some grey hair are not necessarily
the kiss of death.
 Trevork52
Joined: 1/2/2007
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Posted: 1/26/2017 6:31:35 AM
I must really be an odd one out here! I would pay for a woman NOT to have any implants for purely cosmetic reasons!
 CarefreeBeauty
Joined: 5/30/2014
Msg: 250
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Posted: 1/26/2017 7:00:19 AM
NWG456---
But to note -- guys aren't Just into how they look, although that obviously carries most of the weight. It's also how they feel... which nowadays, fake boobs can feel/be better than real ones. So I'd say how it looks, but also how it Feels.


Fake feels better than real?

Sad, disturbing and 'telling' on so many levels<

SMH

;-(
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 251
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Posted: 1/26/2017 8:12:19 AM
Nowadays they come in flavours

I can't decide which I like better , cinnamon or maple syrup !
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 252
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Posted: 1/26/2017 9:09:12 AM
The more beautiful a person is, the more options they have. (until they become a grandma, lol) Some people have so many options they cheat without giving it a second thought, they don't care about it - they don't have to worry, there is always another sucker waiting in the wings.

Sometimes the average woman has value.
 CarefreeBeauty
Joined: 5/30/2014
Msg: 253
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Posted: 1/26/2017 10:19:05 AM

The more beautiful a person is, the more options they have. (until they become a grandma, lol).....

Sometimes the average woman has value.


I am totally speechless.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 254
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Posted: 1/26/2017 10:20:38 AM
"I am totally speechless."




So am I .....whenever I'm tasting either cinnamon or maple syrup !

( WINK )
 Nestaron
Joined: 3/22/2016
Msg: 255
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Posted: 1/26/2017 11:38:41 AM
Hope those implants were well paid for, excuse me there is a lady over there that seems to have more of intelligence. Oh yeah I am visual alright I see every women has tits, ass, and a vagina so really what is the uniqueness she has fake ones.. I got to wonder if men walked around carrying a dildo would women run up and say I like your dildo. The intelligence is astounding but yet I am not surprised.
 jco415
Joined: 1/4/2017
Msg: 257
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Posted: 1/27/2017 10:42:53 AM
^^^^ Um...yup!


Everyone is equal....but some are more equal!
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 1/31/2017 12:02:38 PM
I've been with a few women who had inplants. No complaints from me since I didn't have to pay for them...
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 1/31/2017 12:32:30 PM

Fake feels better than real?

Can. CAN. There are some real bad ones out there (yes, including original real ones). A boob job *can* make one with an awful set better, and can with some feel better. It depends on what it's replacing.

Nowadays they come in flavours

I can't decide which I like better , cinnamon or maple syrup !

I think maple syrup's only available in Canada. :(

The more beautiful a person is, the more options they have. (until they become a grandma, lol)

I agree, and it's true whether one likes it or not -- but not sure about the last part there. Some women will be grandmas at only 40. And even into senior citizen age, there's articles about a lot of sex going on in the nursing homes. I'm imagining the prettier ones get the pick of the litter. Especially since guys die off faster and it's "Finally!" a Reverse sausage-fest for the guys.

Penis enlargement = sad lonely loser, get a life etc etc.

Well, if he was Abnormally hung like a newborn male kitten is, I don't think that'd be had. If he was an average sized guy who wanted to be like a porn star, yeah. There are women (and men) who understandably roll their eyes at gals with good decent natural b00bs who get a chest operation, as if she were a guy with just an average pee-pee who wished for a surgical enlargement. But since breast implants/modifications are so improved and more routine nowadays (as pen!s enlargements aren't of course), that can be had more readily.

Sex toys: Same double standard.

Yeah, if a guy's going to buy a "flesh-light", true. But that double-standard is carried out by guys about other guys on the subject just as much too -- so it's not entirely a female vs male thing.

Pornography: Same double standard.

I've never met a gal who likes to watch porn touching herself on a Wed night, who gets upset if her BF does the same at home on a Wed night, too.

Hiring an "escort": Same double standard.

Gals hire male escorts thinking it's kosher? :) I figured that market was bone (no pun intended) dry. I always believed it violated the laws of physics that a guy could have sex with a woman AND get paid for it! ;)
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