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 textodd11
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 141
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By the way, are most guys like me and HATE breast implants?


Nope. Love 'em absolutely LOVE them. Was I conditioned that way? Am I deficient for thinking that way? Maybe. Doesn't matter becasue I still love them and from the number of implant procedures done annually, I'm obviously not alone.
 sinnbadd
Joined: 11/28/2008
Msg: 145
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Posted: 12/16/2008 11:08:15 PM
I was married to a beautiful woman inside and out, only problem was with her self esteem when it came to her body, she was real petite at 5, 3" and maybe 100 lbs. and I always thought she had beautiful breasts, you know they were perfect for her size in my eyes and I always complimented her on this but it was never enough, she had been teased while growing up and way back in high school and this hurt always stuck with her. Well once we were financially comfortable enough that she could afford implants she went to get them done, not without some discouragement from me mind you, but she paid it no mind and got it done anyway. She went up 2 cup sizes, and the transformation not only to her body but her entire personality was unbelievable, it seemed like overnight that we went from a happy couple with three kids to her being this selfish, stuck-up **** that would go out all the time, dressed to show them off of course, she started stripping for a living, which, if you knew her before you just wouldn't believe it and from there it was only a matter of time before she had started cheating on me with someone she met at the club she works at. Ya know I don't know what else to blame this transformation on but the implants and I have to say to this day she remains the ugliest person I have ever known. We have since gotten divorced and I am trying and probably going to get custody of our daughter because of the way she still lives her life. In the past year she has moved 4 times, all of them have been into different guys houses, and the stories that the kids tell me would just make you sick ( I still she my step-girls as well). Anyway, to say the least I am definitely against someone getting implants, especially if you have someone in your life that loves you more than anything as you are. Hope this helps man.
 textodd11
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 146
Breast implants
Posted: 12/17/2008 6:49:33 AM

To me... breast implants are gross and are a character flaw showing shallowness.


To me, being judgemental of others without any insight to their person, but strictly judging them and inferring atributes to them based on their outward appearance is the ULTIMATE character flaw.

It is no different than saying:
1. All non-natural blondes are stupid.
2. Overweight people are gluttons.
3. People with tattoos are criminals.

There is no definitive link between how one chooses to look and the content of their character.
 Steve_in_FL
Joined: 7/24/2008
Msg: 155
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Posted: 12/27/2008 4:48:21 PM
I feel compelled to say that I find a great many of the posts in this thread to be offensive.

I ask the the people who feel compelled to pontificate, and state as Holy writ, why any woman might get implants, how dare you? Are you a mind reader? The only people qualified to issue an authoritative opinion on this subject are women with implants. And if you are a guy, you are certainly not competent to give an opinion - you are merely guessing, based on your own assumptions, fears and prejudices. You might be right in some cases, but certainly not in all. And when you join your jealous sisters in blindly labeling them all as sluts, I lose all respect for you. (And have you ever noticed how often a man labels a woman as a "slut" after he has had sex with her? (Guys, are you really blind to your hypocracy?)

Next, I ask about all the people who say, "I prefer any natural breast to any breast with implants." While I support everyone's right to their own preferences, I have to ask a question. How many breast implants have you seen and felt, up close and personal? As a man who has seen more than a few small, medium and large implants, I have to say that many are quite lovely and natural looking. And whether they look 100% natural or not, they are often still tremendoussly attractive to many folks. This is not to say I prefer implants, or that everyone should get them. I'm just saying let's not make blanket statements, and to each his or her own.

Because they are the owner's breasts, we have no right to say she should have not had the surgery; or she should have had them made smaller, larger, etc.

It saddens me to think any woman feels she needs to have implants to be attractive or wanted. I believe a man should be much more concerned with what is behind and above a woman's breasts. However, I also recognize the importance of initial attraction, and visual appeal. And only a fool would deny our culure's obsession with breasts, and with "bigger is better."

Can we stop making blanket judgements about women and implants? And maybe we could look at what is really important - the woman inside the body.

OK, I'll get down off my soapbox now.
 Sensitive P. Ness
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 157
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Posted: 12/28/2008 12:58:39 AM
Unless it's for a medical reason, I'm not one to be for them.

I like my woman to be natural.

However, if she's got enormous ones? and it causes medical issues? I'd support a reduction!

I want my woman to be healthy. That's my #1 priority.
 ob1kanobee
Joined: 5/21/2008
Msg: 158
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Posted: 1/23/2009 8:17:18 PM
There is more money being spent on breast implants and Viagra today than on Alzheimer's research. This means that by 2040, there should be a large elderly population with perky boobs and huge erections and absolutely no recollection of what to do with them.
 Bfriends4now
Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 165
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Posted: 4/29/2009 5:25:11 PM
Implants are probably not healthy in the long run for the woman, risky.

I do not like the way they look , i can always spot the artificial appearence right away, in a bikini, fully dressed, or at a girly joint. And thye feel like the bottom of a 2 liter Coke bottle on a cold day. I too like Ds but probably no bigger, even if thye sag a bit. Seeing them turns me on, and I love the soft senstiive feel of them. The last woman I dated had small Bs but thye were very sensitive and touching them was a thrill!!!!!!!!
 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 168
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Posted: 5/2/2009 2:10:56 AM
I think most folks just wish that after a woman gets a new set of implants, that she does NOT run around in low-cuts fishing for compliments & looks. Or even more annoying, trying to screw everything in town.

B'sides, all a gal has to do is take Depro-provera for a few years, increase her dairy/red meat diet, and the dang things will GROW naturally. My wife went from a B to DD...of course NOW she wants 'em down to a regular D again...lol

Natural increases are WAY BETTER than surgical.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 169
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Posted: 5/2/2009 2:22:24 AM
Implants are ugly and feel weird.

That said, I saw a girl the other night who showed me hers, and she got the saline kind. I was really impressed. They felt and looked real until she laid on her back and they didn't droop to the sides. She got hers done because breastfeeding made one of her boobs massively bigger than the other. That's a more than acceptable reason in my book to get it done - especially when it's a good job like that.

But yeah, other than a reason like that, or an acting career, or cancer or something, fake boobs are a deal breaker for me. The drive for a person to actually go under the knife for cosmetic surgery like that under the age of 25 like I like em, does not say good things about the personality behind it.

Plus I like smaller breasted women. YMMV.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 172
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Posted: 5/2/2009 3:25:35 PM
I think it's funny when girls complain about their big boobs hurting their back when they're overweight....

Perhaps if one worked out, lost weight, had their boobs shrink, and got some muscle, it would not be an issue...

I dated a girl who was a 34DDD and she had no back pain because she worked out regularly.

Just a thought.
 benspurr
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 176
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Posted: 5/17/2009 4:06:03 PM
Implants aren't just for whores attempting to look more attractive. Many women have them for medical issues, including for after surviving breast cancer.

Breast implants are no more different than dentures/braces/spacers. Sometimes they're needed for medical reasons, sometimes people just get them just to look more attractive.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 178
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Posted: 5/18/2009 10:51:27 AM
I will always chose natural,all women are beautiful, and at all ages,what makes them beautiful is feeling good in there own skin, enough of the plastic society already
 benspurr
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 180
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Posted: 5/18/2009 11:15:29 AM
Everyone saying they want natural breasts or nothing...

So I guess you guys refuse to be with anyone who's had any dental work (fillings, braces, etc)?
What if a woman wore glasses or contacts? Are you too good to be with her, too?

It just sickens me that there are a lot of guys out there who claim they dislike women with implants when a lot of them have them for medical reasons (breast cancer is a lot more common than you people obviously think). It's the second most common type of cancer after lung cancer.

I have a very, very close friend who has different sized breast implants because of a benign breast condition. She's been upset about it for six years now, and I find it so disgusting that men claim they wouldn't want to be with her because her breasts aren't all natural. **** you.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 181
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Posted: 5/18/2009 11:30:16 AM
Cry more Benspurr.

Life's not fair. That said, I hate implants but if a woman legitimately had them done for medical reasons I would not hold that against her.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 183
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Posted: 5/18/2009 12:06:36 PM
Why don't you get a lift instead of implants?
 brendantime
Joined: 10/31/2008
Msg: 185
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Posted: 5/18/2009 3:21:49 PM
I hate implants. I hate the way they look, the way they feel and the way they taste. I can't figure out sometimes why girls go through cutting them selves and putting those inside them just to give an image of a barbie doll.
 8soldierfalcon8
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 186
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Posted: 5/18/2009 3:45:12 PM
I hate how they feel, I hate how they look, I hate that they stick up when the girl is laying on her back, I hate that her nipples have very little sensation anymore....


Half the fun of playing with a girl's rack is the reaction you get. When they're fake... nothing.
 michaeld70
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 187
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Posted: 5/18/2009 3:46:43 PM
I have never been with a woman who had implants and have personally only known 2 that had them, a 40+ year old divorced coworker and a mid 20's wife, my sisters friend after her 2 kids. There were a few links on an earlier post with before/after pics and I was shocked at how many perfectly fine smaller breasts were altered, many of which I would consider "perfect". I have seen so many implants that look awful, but some that look really good and are hard to tell if real or not.
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 190
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Posted: 5/19/2009 8:34:15 AM
Sorry CJ, count me as #6. I HATE fake boobs. They look horrible, feel horrible, they dont move like normal flesh does and there are scars to boot. Regular porn is practically unwatchable to me because of all those women with two orange (or grapefruit or cantelope!) halves stapled to their chest! Yuck!

I want a woman who's self esteem and sexuality are NOT defined by the size of her chest. Being sexy and sensual is in their head, not their body. Ladies DONT DO IT, your natural body is better than anything a Dr can stuff in there. Although I fully understand reconstruction after cancer and the like...

And Pamela Anderson? Makes me wanna barf.
 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 191
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Posted: 5/19/2009 8:45:35 AM
A lot of young guys like them...and then when they realize that the majority of women who got implants had their nipple cut out for the insertion...which kills all feeling in the nipple...not to mention most of the breast...WHICH IS HALF THE REASON WE PLAY WITH 'EM. Now doc's put the nipple back on in a "Hard" state so most guys can't tel that it's not US that's making 'em hard, they're like that ALL the time. And the women still can't feel squat.

I worked in topless bars for many years...not only do I prefer women with natural breasts, I even used to have in my profile before I got married that I wouldn't even DATE current or former topless dancers...mostly due to their attitudes. I didn't date Blondes, either.

Pam Anderson?? She makes teenagers & immature men horney because she pops out a lot of cleavage..any gal in good physical condition could do that. Angelina Jolie got a fake rack as well...even though hers were growing quite nicely prior to the surgery...if she had waited they'd be where she got them surgically altered to now.

Most guys are attracted to the SHAPE of a woman first...few look inside to see what a screwed up psychological trainwreck they are until it's too late. It's no wonder there are so many single mothers that are hot...but empty& worthless inside.

It's like they say...Fawk a Blonde for fun...have long-term relations with Brunettes...and if you are kinky, stick with a Redhead.

I married a redhead who got her DD's from using Depro-Provera for 8 years. She went from a B-cup to DD. The only other change was that she drank more milk. Natural growth, full feeling, and YEEHAW!! :D

NATURAL GROWTH IS FAR BETTER THAN SURGICAL AUGMENTATION!!!

USE DEPRO-PROVERA!!! it only takes a few years..but Oh My the benefits!!! And it costs a whole lot less as well!!

 michaeld70
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 194
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Posted: 5/19/2009 11:45:45 AM
every man on Earth gaulks over Pam Anderson

Shes also a celebrity, anyone on tv has millions of fans, Pam Anderson is irrelevant to any implant thread.
How many boob jobs has she had now, I heard she had a few problems and many surgeries. I may recall seeing a pic of her mangled boobs between implants, not pretty, it coulda been someone else, was a while ago and I never was infatuated with her to start with. Does she even feel anything anymore?
To me, they just dont look sexy unless they are the very small percentage that actually do look real.
I know, I must be shallow, for not accepting a woman as she is, I should accept the fact that she isnt herself with those new plastic bags, I should.....wait, I was totally happy before and so was she ....
 benspurr
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 195
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Posted: 5/19/2009 11:48:41 AM
Pamela Anderson is a traitorous whore who has an unattractive face anyway.
 2truetou
Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 197
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Posted: 5/21/2009 2:27:51 PM
What???

I am an RN with a Bachelor's Degree Cum Laude, and work in the field of plasitic surgery. Where are you guys getting your information? Cut the nipples out? Lose sensation? Feel fake?

No. If they have to lift the nipples up, they leave the nerves intact and cut a slit in the skin to move them up. That does leave a pretty nasty scar. That is usually done with a reduction, or sometimes a lift. Most of the time, they leave the nipple alone altogether.

Fake boobs are like everything else. You get what you pay for. You can buy a Toyota, or a Ferrari.

My Gynecologist was doing my yearly breast exam (while I was laying on my back) recently, and had to ask me if they were real. She complimented me, and said my surgeon did an excellent job. I almost fooled her.

If there is loss of sensation, the girl had a substandard surgeon. Not hard to find!! As far as my sensitivity? Mmmm??? Not lost at all; better than ever, because the visual of someone playing with them is sooo much hotter!

Who is superficial? Women who are just trying to conform with todays unattainable standards of beauty (it's tough out there being single), or someone who wouldn't even consider dating someone based on one asset, or lack thereof? If someone was perfect for you, but had big feet, would you rule them out? That is definitely close-minded, and superficial.

Shallow? Too hard? Fake? Superficial? You guys just aren't feeling up the right girls!!!!

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