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 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 246
Would you date a Tomboy ?Page 11 of 12    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12)
oh & FYI PrinceCC- Im not sure if that was a jab or not but I DONT get wasted. Saying "slammed" a beer was meant tounge & cheek..I take my time, maybe you should take a big shot of "humor"?


Actually wasn't aiming at anyone, I just made that out as a general comment of what I find unattractive, the fact that you felt this was aimed at you though, speaks volumes.

As to the definitions put forth, sure you can find a definition in the dictionary but its like VOLUPTUOUS, no ONE agrees on the same definition (check the thread) so really its kind of useless, what one considers tomboy another doesn't.

If tomboy = doesn't wear much make-up and likes playing sports/being active/working out/does martial arts...then hell yeah sign me up...but to me it hasn't meant that, generally speaking the tomboys i've encountered, (I know i'm gonna get knocked for this, but this is my personal experience) they are almost like guys with boobs and a Vag, burping, farting, tooling with cars, mudding, hunting, fishing, drinking beer, the majority also have not been what many would consider attractive and so on.

As with everything i'm sure there's a degree of tomboyish-ness and it varies from woman to woman. Which I think is also a deciding factor. I mean if you read enough of the answers on here, you'll agree tomboy means something different to everybody.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 247
Would you date a Tomboy ?
Posted: 3/1/2010 7:22:48 AM

Hike the Appalachian Trail?


Wood nymphs. Damn. Forgot to mention that aspect.


I've got a permit for a three week river trip down the Colorado River through the Grand Canyon a year from now.


Have heard how they allocate most of those permits to the commercial outfits, and how difficult it is for a lone wolf to get on (waiting list is, like, years). Well done! Yeah, the Colorado waves can be huge, usually straight, but the Gauley, imho, is way better, and the New, with a little water in it, is a blast, too.

Water nymphs. Yeah, them, too. lol
 *Closer*
Joined: 11/5/2009
Msg: 248
Would you date a Tomboy ?
Posted: 3/1/2010 7:37:03 AM

I've got a permit for a three week river trip down the Colorado River through the Grand Canyon a year from now. Not an electric outlet in sight. Would sure be a great date for the right tomboy!



Damn...too bad I'm taken.

Would you do the cooking?

I might dump my guy for that date as long as
we could get really dirty in our tent!
 wvwaterfall
Joined: 1/17/2007
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Posted: 3/1/2010 7:44:43 AM

Have heard how they allocate most of those permits to the commercial outfits, and how difficult it is for a lone wolf to get on (waiting list is, like, years). Well done! Yeah, the Colorado waves can be huge, usually straight, but the Gauley, imho, is way better, and the New, with a little water in it, is a blast, too.


Hmmmm ....how to keep this remotely on topic.....

Yup, it's been a long wait for this permit. My last trip was in '98. Not a lot of do-it-yourself private permits available, but this will make my seventh trip since '84. I generally aim for 8-10 participants, mix of genders and skills. I think it's safe to say all women participants meet the tomboy test.

As for comparing Gauley, New, and Colorado, that's like comparing sex experiences. While certainly some rank higher than others, I hope no single one stands out as 'best'. I've had 150-1000+ days on each of those three, with memorable magic moments on each. Think of day trips on New or Gauley as great one time experiences, three weeks out of touch with the rest of the world while totally immersed in a constantly evolving Canyon trip as more of an extended relationship.

Great Tomboy experiences all!

dave
 ManicMelanie
Joined: 7/10/2009
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Posted: 3/1/2010 9:11:42 AM



boobs and a Vag, burping, farting, tooling with cars, mudding, hunting, fishing, drinking beer, the majority also have not been what many would consider attractive and so on.


THIS tomboy:

boobs: yep, nice ones ;)

Vag: check

farting: nope (at least not in company)

burping: nope (can't even get a good one if I try)

tooling with cars: sometimes

mudding: never been, would go if asked

hunting: no way, am a wannabe vegetarian

fishing: no thanks, unless I go along to hang out

drinking beer: ick, prefer white zinfandel, rum, whiskey or flavored schnapps

attractive: most men think so

Happy being a tomboy.

 Badboy4shur
Joined: 10/25/2009
Msg: 251
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Posted: 3/1/2010 10:24:43 AM
That depends on alot of factors.
When I was in my late 20's I dated a girl for 5 yrs who was without a doubt the most intriguing woman I ever met.
She and I did the following together....
Hunted,fished,trapped,bailed hay,worked the fields,partied,sat at home,watched sports(her idea not mine....I'm not much of an armchair athlete),went out on the town(she would wear "peasant dresses and no underwear....ULTRA sexy!!!!)rebuilt the motor in my truck a couple of times...she was better at the mechanics part than I was)We swam naked together at midnight in the creek by her house we made love on the shore by the moonlight and we had one **** of a great 4 yrs together.
I loved that little girl more than I can even explain.She actually armwrestled a guy at a local watering hole one night and won....he paid up....she was awesome.
Then she decided she needed to have a baby and at that time I was not ready for that kind of commitment .I take bringing children into this shit hole of a world very seriously and we parted company.
.I will obviously never forget her and her ways but I have never found anyone like her since and I am now in my early 40's.
She was one hell of a shot with a rifle and could fillet a bass for the grill like no body'd business and she loved me with her whole body,heart and mind.We just weren't meant to be together.
I miss her much and yes.....I would absolutely without question date a "tomboy" girl again.
I guess this long winded( and please excuse me I'm feeling kind of sentimental today) answer is a resounding "YES".....I would.
 Water75
Joined: 11/23/2009
Msg: 252
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Posted: 3/1/2010 12:26:14 PM
because a tomboy is more like a littel sister to most of us.but put on that sexy dress and it changes.not everyday but give him something to think about.i date models and the model thing will not last.there always looking for the next best thing.
 wvwaterfall
Joined: 1/17/2007
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Posted: 3/1/2010 4:13:11 PM

Damn...too bad I'm taken.

Would you do the cooking?

I might dump my guy for that date as long as
we could get really dirty in our tent!


When you're hanging out with a tomboy the cooking duties get shared, don't they? But it's easy on Canyon trips. I go through a local outfitter who quizzes us on our preferences and buys and packs all our food, plus we go through them for any needed gear we don't already have. We all take turns cooking, one day on, two days off, leaving plenty of opportunity for creative off-river activities whether in a tent or up a trail!

But I had a companion lined up for a trip once who I thought wasn't taken until her boyfriend called me, quite irate, just a few days before the trip started. Don't want to go through that again!

dave
 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 254
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Posted: 3/2/2010 8:08:23 AM
^^^
Not all women who aren't tomboys are high maintenance bud, and maybe some guys don't want women who hunt and fish, hell I don't...I only shoot guns in the service...
 GiveMeReason
Joined: 2/15/2010
Msg: 255
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Posted: 3/2/2010 9:32:19 AM
Interesting thread you all have there...
Coming from a wallet in the back pocket of her Levi's, motorcycle riding tomboy, I'd have to say that attraction is in the eye of the beholder. I am very independent, and that in itself is a turn off to a lot of men, I don't think it is just the short hair and the adventurous personality. But hey, even this tomboy knows how to glam it up when the occasion arises. I personally don't care whether or not a man wants to date a tomboy, or not. Anyone that refuses to get to know someone based on looks alone is just stupid, and probably missing out on many interesting opportunities! To each his own!
 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 256
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Posted: 3/2/2010 11:14:48 AM
I disagree with the physical part...would you really go up to a person of the opposite sex you didn't find attractive and talk to them and try to get their number...generally speaking no.

do they have to be your vision of PERFECT, no.
 MySpoonIsTooBig!
Joined: 2/20/2010
Msg: 257
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Posted: 3/6/2010 8:20:12 AM
Hells, yes, I'd date a tomboy!

Although I don't have a single "type" I'm interested in, I'd have to say that petite, thin, or athletic tomboys probably top my list & generally = RAWR! for me in a big, big way. The vast majority of the girly-girl Barbie clones of the world just don't do it for me & never really did. When I was younger & was just starting to actually pay attention to girls, the short-haired tomboy who did her best to knock the ball out of the park during Phys Ed was waaay hotter to me than the wannabe supermodel who couldn't even be bothered trying to swing the bat for fear of chipping a nail. Years later, I still don't feel that a short haircut & a dislike of flowery dresses negatively affects a woman's femininity in any way. If she watches sports (or better yet, plays them), drops the odd F-bomb, & likes a beer once in a while, I'm putty in her hands!

I might take the attraction a bit too far, though 'cause I've actually found myself attracted to enough short-haired lesbians over the years that I've been known to joke about being a dyke trapped in a man's body. I'm not talking about the butchy ones sporting lumberjack shirts, crewcuts & belt buckles bigger than my head, mind you, but still...
 MsMicki
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Posted: 3/6/2010 9:23:41 PM
THIS tomboy:

boobs: yep, plenty of boobage

Vag: yep, and works well too!

farting: well, we are all human....but some of us do have some class.

burping: been known to!

tooling with cars: change my own oil and can change a flat tire.....but the rest I leave up to my mechanic!

mudding: My 4 X 4 or yours?

hunting: I've bagged 1 buck and 2 does.....but these days I prefer you kill it......I'll cook it.

fishing: Got my own gear and even bait my own hook! I get a bit "girly" when it comes to cleaning them tho.

drinking beer:not a beer girl.....but I can drink whiskey straight up with the best of 'em!

attractive: in the eye of the beholder, but I definately don't look like a boy!
and I'm told I look just as sexy in my black mini as I do my bib overalls!

I also mow my own yard, trim my own trees, dug my own pond, can plaster a wall, lay tile and just recaulked the tub and put in a new ceiling light. Why? I'm single and I've taught myself how to take care of my things!
Would gladly share all these duties w/ a man!

Happy being a tomboy.
 candid_1
Joined: 6/14/2008
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Posted: 3/6/2010 10:01:51 PM
LOL, I'm not a tomboy... I'm a woman. I can shingle a roof, build a deck, cook dinner and suck the paint off a barn wall from 10 paces... I wear full makeup to garden, but will cut the nails for fishing... my tool belt is suede with flowers... I can squat over 200, but look graceful and fragile... I can swear like a longshoreman, but charm the pants off any man... I wear stockings, garters, and skirts, but own a dozen pairs of steel toe boots - leather and suede in various colours and styles - after all, I am woman - wanna hear me roar?

You don't have to look like a dyke to have the soul of a tomboy.
 Dare to
Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 260
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Posted: 3/7/2010 2:15:28 AM
^^^^Yep me too.. A woman who can do stuff!!

I work out... yes, with heavy weights... I'm not bad with a gun... I can beat many men at a game of pool... Ive had my own motorcycle for 30 years.... I luurrrv rum... I'm a volunteer firefighter.... Ive ridden and worked with horses since i was a child, And lots of the other stuff the ladies before me mentioned... BUT... I can turn every single male head when i walk into a room when i get dressed up.. And when i was single i certainly didn't lack for quality male attention... So i guess a lot of men do like a tomboy. I haven't had any complaints..
 LinuxD
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Posted: 3/7/2010 6:10:16 AM
Gimme a tomboy over a princess any day..
 backwoods7090
Joined: 2/28/2010
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Posted: 3/9/2010 1:00:37 PM
aslong as it had all the women parts and they where not added on parts like below the bellybutton cut off add a hole! and i do not have to gut the critters she shots!
 downforit2007
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Posted: 3/9/2010 3:56:22 PM

Guys like us as friends but would rather date girly chicks and basically ignore us.

Not THIS guy! I think tomboys are wicked awesome! I think it's cool for a girl to be involved with sports and other athletics. Rock climbing and hiking and fishing to be involved as well! It would be nice if I could hang out with a special someone who I could play one-on-one with for basketball, practice pitches for baseball, and other stuff. Having a woman who shares your interests in playing the game is just as cool as one who would stand in the bleachers to cheer you on.
Just my 2 cents. Pass it on.
 HauntGuy
Joined: 12/30/2009
Msg: 264
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Posted: 3/10/2010 2:34:30 PM
Tomboys can be really hot! I can't put up with all the preening and strutting the girly girls do. I like a girl that can get her hands dirty and not have to worry about breaking a nail. So do not despair ladies, there is hope :)
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 265
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Posted: 12/15/2014 12:32:13 AM
I love the non-stereotypical female.

The world needs more Tomboys!
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 266
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Posted: 12/15/2014 7:31:08 AM
Sure. If there is some physical attraction. And she still can be feminine when the situation calls for it.
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 267
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Posted: 12/15/2014 1:30:11 PM
I've worked with quite a few women in construction that don't wear make up on a regular basis, like to play sports instead of just watching and they are quite feminine. Certainly would not mistaken them for men at all.

These women come with the benefit that they are not the"stereotypical princess" that can't change the tires on a car. They also don't need a man to pay for anything to feel like they are being treated like a woman, as their egos are quite healthy. So certainly no complaint from them that men are paid more than women because they had the common sense to take the job that paid more that the men were doing.

Now, nothing against the stereotypical princess.
They are just not my cup of tea.
And yes, I know that ALL women who wear make up and become a secretary do not fall into the princess category or are unable to change the tires on a car.
So for those who are looking to start a flame war go for counselling,
as my intention is not to slam, insult or bash the stereotypical woman....
I'm just stating my personal preference like we ALL do on these forums

My comment on the "Coffee Date" thread >
"After reading these uncalled for, hateful responses....Maybe the reason I prefer women who don't wear make-up and wear plain clothes....
is because they are less superficial and hateful."

was directed at those that made the uncalled for, hateful responses.
Of course there are tomboy women who don't wear make up that are superficial and hateful... Duh!
Preferences don't filter out imperfections in all of them.

So start looking to start a flame war people.
You either like Tomboys or you don't.
Hate doesn't not have to enter the equation.
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 268
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Posted: 12/15/2014 6:02:15 PM
You like tomboys and not princesses. Awesome. So what is your point?
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
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Posted: 12/15/2014 9:48:00 PM
You get a guy who is into sports and he may want the tomboy. Probably make more of a good friend and that is the basis for any good relationship. However whether she would be sexually appealing, perhaps not.
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
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Posted: 12/16/2014 9:57:37 AM

You get a guy who is into sports and he may want the tomboy. Probably make more of a good friend and that is the basis for any good relationship. However whether she would be sexually appealing, perhaps not.


Thanks for your opinion.
I'm not into sports and find tomboys attractive.
Your opinion of whether a tomboy would be sexually appealing is obviously skewed.
Plenty of beautiful, sexual appealing tomboys out there.
As there are plenty of ugly feminine women who rely on make up to have some appeal.
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