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 mainegrad
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 19
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boredcountryboy...you can do either to me anytime...

The rest of you can peek through the windows and decide whether we are making love or F*ckin!
 altmusicfan
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 20
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Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 6/8/2005 7:39:15 PM
"Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as meaningless experiences go, it's pretty damned good." Woody Allen
 BlakmanXXX
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 21
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 6/9/2005 3:53:34 AM
Making Love is great but fcking is AWESOME !!!
 mainegrad
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/9/2005 4:58:31 AM
^^^ hmm, really? I'm shocked! I never woulda guessed...LMAO
 mainegrad
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 23
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 6/9/2005 5:28:12 AM
ahahah gus....

Making love means..you actually have to like the person you are doing it with

F*cking means....anyone will do..and it's even more fun when you really hate the person
 79dude
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 24
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 6/9/2005 5:48:07 AM
...i'll tell you once i make love...
 79dude
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 25
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 6/9/2005 6:18:33 AM
LMFAO!!! ^^^^ ^5!
 singguk
Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 27
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 6/9/2005 6:36:16 AM
TO MAINEGRAD
i agree to you , loving making is with some one you have feelings and are in a relationship, and ****ing is where you get any one of a woman and have sex,
 altmusicfan
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 6/9/2005 11:49:01 PM

what is the difference between making love and ****ing


about $50 to $100 an hour (my bad)
 normajeane03
Joined: 6/5/2003
Msg: 29
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 6/11/2005 12:58:53 AM
i never calling it making love. it's just having sex or ****ing to me.
 Alistair10
Joined: 4/27/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 7/18/2005 6:45:48 PM
If you don't know the difference you need help
 1fixitman
Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 33
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 9/23/2006 8:12:13 PM
everyone is different. Women cherish the act of being intiment as being close with another. For most guys this is just sex. They are just happy they are having sex. They usually cannot just enjoy the presence of the woman because they are concentrating on not screwing up. I prefer to enjoy every last inch of her body.
D Rock
 Stillalicious
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 35
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 9/24/2006 12:11:33 AM
Fvcking is when it is strictly the act to release the sexual frustration where it is truly only the animal instinct coming out.

Making love is when the act is about expressing your feelings and making sure that the person you are with is fully aware of your emotions.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 36
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Posted: 5/31/2008 6:19:13 PM
finally an honest post; I am the opposite; I usually make love and rarely have sex. It means a lot to me to sleep with someone so I dont do it with many people.
 mrmark19682006
Joined: 1/22/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 5/31/2008 7:20:58 PM
Saw a shirt once....
"Making love is something my wife does while I'm F-ing her " LOL
 damn_am_i_ugly
Joined: 5/28/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 6/1/2008 10:28:50 AM
to me anyone can fukc each other but when you are having sex with someone you are in love with you can do anything and i mean anything with that person and i would still consider it making love because it's with someone you deply care about so i had a preference i would have to choose making love because i have had sex and sex with the people i have loved over the years has always been 100 times better than just the sex
 SideDishes
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 39
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Posted: 6/5/2008 2:25:09 PM
All the post address this issue and the major theme seems to be correct. There is obviously a time and place for everything. And once again depends on two people not just one person. It is outward focus and being selfless and making sure your partner is pleased. The mood is also a factor. Sometimes youjust want some straight hardcore booty to satisfy appetites and build of of sexual tension. Go for it! And sometimes you want a passionate deep sensual eperience...enjoy that too!

Personally, I do enjoy a balanced variation of the two.

 Branes
Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 6/5/2008 7:16:10 PM
These romantic, hearts and flowers notions about sex are wonderful, but the bottom line is sex is sex is sex. And f*cking is just a less acceptable term for the act.

Making love is f*cking someone you care about.
It can be slow, fast, gentle, rough, sensuous and tender, or rip your clothes off and rut like dogs in heat. But once the clothes are off, and two bodies come together, it's f*cking, whether it be between lovers, strangers or friends.
How many women in the heat of passion say "make love to me" to their lover?
They might say it before, but when the action is hot and heavy, the f word takes over.

At it's basest level as a purely physical act for gratification, it's a primal act, devoid of feeling, much like a porn movie. At it's highest, between two people who deeply love each other, it can become almost a spiritual one. But it's f*cking nonetheless.

Of course, this is just my opinion. I could be wrong. :)

 Branes
Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 41
Difference between Making Love & Fcking
Posted: 6/5/2008 8:14:39 PM
making love is what you tell her you are doing. ****ing is what you tell your buddies you were doing

That about sums it up for most guys. Unless it's with someone you care about, and God help the guy who says anything crass about it. We may be sexist among each other where casual "affairs" are concerned, but where the heart's involved..we demand respect for the lady.

As for kissing and telling, I don't think you women should be commenting on that. From my experience some of you are worse than the men. We don't usually describe the woman's vagina to our friends. I have a female friend who told me recently that she was dumping her latest boyfriend because his "package" was too small for her.
She started going into detail and I told her I didn't want to know. That's more information than I really wanted. And I'm a guy, if she would talk about that with a man, what is she telling her female friends? And I doubt that she's unusual.

I was the oldest guy in a technical school about 16 years ago, so the young girls saw me as no threat, kind of a father figure, I guess. Some of the things I overheard them say about guys would make male locker room talk look tame.

It's like when we were in high school. You'd tell a girl a dirty joke and she'd act all offended, like her virgin ears were assaulted. And unbeknowst to us guys, 5 minutes later all her friends heard it.
 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 42
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Posted: 6/5/2008 8:34:25 PM

f@cking is primal animal lust.

The only time I allow the primal animal beast out of his cage is with my love.

She trusts me and I love her so much I can let him romp and still keep a hold of the reigns so he wont hurt her....much.
 Crowbird40
Joined: 4/27/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 6/6/2008 7:13:11 PM
Wow miashakti!...


Love is gentle, love is kind
love is a lulaby sung in the evening
a waking smile shining forth in the morning
to hold and be held

Love is a carress on the face
love is warm affection
the deepest of emotions
reaching past the kiddneys
to the bowels of the soul

Love is looking into each others eyes
the window of the soul
Love is the loosing of self
forgeting who what and where and when you are
of merging so that there are not two, but one identity

= =================================

But alas. What do I know of love, for I have never felt its warmth upon my face. My mother must of loved me for some brief moment in time, for here I stand before you this day. Other than that though I feel like a blind man groping in the dark. I dream of love though. I always have since the young age of 13 and beyond.

. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . - Dolphin Dreams - .....
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