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 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 168
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For those of you who enjoy rough sex:Page 11 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
No vanilla for me.I want a woman who is into kinky things like foot worship,spanking,golden showers,face slapping,spitting,bondage and all that good stuff.I have a problem with keeping an erection during sexual intercourse so I don't even want that.I wouldn't be happy with a woman who didn't like these things.
 Merrylass
Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 169
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For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 7/8/2008 6:11:16 AM
It seems for some people the pain and pleasure wiring is crossed. I don't know how or why but I know that for me, pain translates only as 'dammit, that ****ing HURT' and there's no 'in a good way' at the end of that sentence.

I knew someone once who liked it rough - he said it was because he didn't really feel much sensation otherwise. I wonder if anyone's ever figured out how and why some people respond so counter-intuitively. We teach the little kids to not put their hands on the stove because it will hurt - fascinating that 'hurt' becomes 'pleasure' to some of them when they grow up!
 Merrylass
Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 171
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For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 7/8/2008 1:32:18 PM

We talk about pain a lot but what we're really talking about are intense sensations. The "whoosh" of an alcohol flame across the skin as it is quickly extinquished, or the feel of a blade across a breast, or the intense pounding of a heavy flogger followed by the sting of a whip or cane are all sensations that *are*, in fact, pleasurable to many.


Oh, I get that. I'm just wondering how one set of nerve endings read that as 'golly this is fun' while others (perhaps the ones more geared to long-term survival?) read it as 'I'm not enjoying this at all'. I mean, if the velociraptor was chomping on your arm, it wouldn't be evolutionarily fruitful to hang around for more, would it?
 SuthernFlair
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 174
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For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 7/8/2008 3:31:11 PM
Never liked the vanilla but to start out that way getting to know. The wildness I guess is the nature with me along with the coaxing and talking back and forth to get her wilder and totally into it is hot. Its amazing seeing it happen and enjoy seeing all the sheets on the floor all sweaty with smiles. out of breath Not into the pain but wildness "oh yeah". Vanilla always needs some flavor added with my thoughts.
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 180
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For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 7/11/2008 8:10:08 PM
[Quote]I need rough sex, can't live without it, pecially when I'm drinking, throw me around, mess me up, yell at me, slap me, I want spanked hard & yanked around by the hair, love to spank men & pull their hair til they cry, when you cross that line you can never go back to vanilla, too borring.
That sound so hott.I want a woman to do all that to me
 RobDaWolf
Joined: 7/30/2009
Msg: 185
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Posted: 8/14/2009 10:59:52 PM
There's a fine line between kinky and rough. Kinky can be anything from dressing up, to have plastic sheets, a bottle of oil and a bag of feathers with a whip ready to go. Rough can be just that: ROUGH. Close to the edge of danger and violence, but never quite going over. But it can also be kinky AND rough at the same time. I'm in the BD/SM lifestyle. More of the DS than the SM. Not into inflicting massive amounts of pain, but a little slap and tickle, carrot and stick, that goes a long way. Tie down and tickle torture, a little spanking or paddling and hair pulling of my partners, it's a healthy thing if both agree to the rules before hand as to what is and isn't allowed. I've been in this for a LONG time, and I'm saying it's like what a person finds beautiful. It's all subjective as to what's defined as kinky, and what's defined as normal.

Rob
 michele6259
Joined: 12/29/2007
Msg: 191
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For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 8/15/2009 6:58:50 PM
Holly Golightly loved your post!
I love to eat CremeBrulee ... but I don't want to eat it all the time.
Variety is good
 goodlyracer
Joined: 8/5/2009
Msg: 192
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Posted: 8/15/2009 8:42:14 PM
Holy-Moly....... Girls girls girls....Every now and then, If your not soaking wet with sweat standing in front of anything that moves air across your body with your arms stretched out wide , breathing heavy after and hour and a half of absolutely mind blowing sex, going WTF just happened, YOU AREN'T LIVING!!! But no one can keep that pace every night, so just meaningful casual satisfying for the most part is fine. After all, when you pull the Vette out of the Garage, do you drive 150 MPH everytime?
 CoolMintCreme
Joined: 8/18/2009
Msg: 194
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Posted: 8/25/2009 9:37:48 PM
It has been so long since I had sex that I no longer remember what I enjoyed.
 Tarah0128
Joined: 2/25/2009
Msg: 195
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For those of you who enjoy rough sex:
Posted: 8/25/2009 10:09:47 PM
Rough sex????

Isn't that what the extreme fighters do? Yeah! That looks so hot & nasty

Grunting, groaning, sweating, burping, scratching, bleeding...

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!! I'm feeling sexy now

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