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 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 509
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Sweetie...I am almost 42 and I still get asked for ID! Why is it embarrassing to you...and what makes you think it has anything to do with your boobs?!

Take it from someone who has bOObs...while I love my breasts...finding clothing that fits properly is mucho harder...the bras stop looking sexy after a B or C cup (I buy mine in bulk when I find one with 2 hooks on back or less than an inch in front!) and not knowing if someone is looking at the total picture, or just your tits, is a PITA!

Not to mention...I think ANY size natural breasts look far better than fake ones! ;)
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 511
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Posted: 7/3/2008 6:02:58 AM
I know its been a yr since you posted, but I hope its not too late. I personally HATE fake boobs. Your body is MUCH more sexy when its natural.

I love porn, but as soon as I see those unmoving, gravity defying coconut halves that stick out from a thin womans chest, I have to delete it - its SUCH a turn-off!

Your body is beautiful the way it is and a REAL man would never not date you or think you arent sexy just because you have a smaller chest. And besides, as you get older, most likely they will fill out more anyway.

Just say NO to fake boobs!!
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 513
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Posted: 7/3/2008 6:35:54 AM
Darlin' I have counselled many many women who have wanted to, and have had, boob jobs over the years and let me tell you that it is what makes YOU happy. No-one else. I have never had someone tell me that after they had a boob job that made them feel sexier that they wanted it reversed. For health reasons yes but that is old school now, they know what they are doing. Just today I was told by a beautiful girl that on POF she had to put a cleavage shot up to get a meaningful number of emails, now while that may just show or reinforce the shallowness of males it does say something so if that is what you want then go for it and more power to ya.Just be happy sweetheart, it's a long life to go through not feeling good about yourself, however if I can say one thing it's not the boobs that makes ya it's just you.
 supernovastunnah
Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 516
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Posted: 8/3/2008 10:38:35 PM
boobs wont boost your self confidence...loving your natural body will....the guys that are attracted to big fake boobs are so much lower in quality than the ones who are attracted to a womans natural body...dont be an empty vessel
 spenn
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 517
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Posted: 8/3/2008 10:41:14 PM
I'll give you my honest opinion. It doesn't matter to me the size of a woman's breasts. I love them in all shapes and sizes. I had an ex who complained that hers were too small. I told her constantly that it didn't matter and I still got excited everytime her shirt came off.

Bottom line, if you date a guy that complains about them...lose him.
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 518
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Posted: 8/3/2008 11:00:41 PM
I just had to post here to the OP. All these amateur psychologists who really don't have a clue what you are going thru. I work in the field and have seen many women gain a great deal by having an enlargement or in fact a reduction. Search your motives and if you really want to do this for yourself not because someone is pushing you then do some research and find a well credentialled surgeon. I can tell you that if it were as easy for men the line up would stretch half way around the globe. A surgeon who really knows his stuff will tell you that loss of nipple sensation is rare, it can happen though so be sure you know why you want this then make your own decision based on your research and good luck with whatever your decision is
Paul
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 519
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Posted: 8/4/2008 7:28:39 AM
Well, Pleasurelimits...if you work in the field, you should also know that the best and reputable surgeons discuss with their prospective patients, the REASONS they want implants...and do not just implant anyone asking for such. They consider their expectations and their reasons for such...and if it has anything to do with low self esteem where they think the boobs are going to "fix" everything...they typically refuse or send them to counseling first!

But of course there are also the less than reputable surgeons who will implant anyone, regardless! Like the ones who will do a second surgery and create grossly oversized breasts for someone who is doing such for attention.
 Green Eyes In Florida
Joined: 12/17/2007
Msg: 531
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Posted: 8/16/2008 9:36:02 PM
As one woman that has been "blessed" with more than my share of "bosom", believe me, it ISN'T what it is cracked up to be. You get STARED at ALL THE TIME, some even TALK TO YOUR CHEST as if they are expecting an answer. Trust me...this has been going on since I was 15.

I'm NOT going to say that I DON'T love my physique or want to change anything, but just letting you know that you SHOULD be happy to be alive, have what you have and flaunt your best features. YOU have to be comfortable with YOU in order to fulfill your dreams and goals...no one is going to do it for you.

Good luck with your confidence building..that is the most important for now.

~~Beth~~
 Optimistic for 2008
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 539
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Posted: 8/17/2008 5:23:36 AM
OP, Don't you DARE touch those lovely boobies of yours....well touch all you want but never go under the knife.... having said that I am not against breast enhancements but in your case....Extremely cute, petite girl with perfect boobs...YOU don't need to change a thing. I wanted to email this to you but couldn't because of the age limits you are accepting emails from.
 Scintillating_Angel
Joined: 5/2/2006
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Posted: 8/17/2008 7:04:10 AM

As one woman that has been "blessed" with more than my share of "bosom", believe me, it ISN'T what it is cracked up to be. You get STARED at ALL THE TIME, some even TALK TO YOUR CHEST as if they are expecting an answer

Yeah that's for sure - I had to remove a really great photograph from my profile because it was a shot from the waist up and I was so sick of the nasty tacky little emails wanting to know just exactly "how big ARE those things, baby?".

In addition, trying to shop for pretty lingerie when you are a DD goes from the sublime to the ridiculous. Try going into Victoria's Secret with great big 'uns and finding something sexy that will fit you. Many of the cute clothes for women our size are shapeless and just plain ugly.

My brother told me once that touching a woman with a boob job was like making out with a water bed -

Nothing wrong with learning to love the skin you're in - and judging from the responses here, there are actually men who don't select us for the size of the fat deposits on our chests.
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 541
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Posted: 8/17/2008 8:01:04 AM
Wow...this thread is still happening? LOL

Yeah...and pic number two....if you had big tits, you could not pose as such without them flopping out! ;)

Personally, I think being proportionate is what is nice...and your breasts look perfectly proportioned to your slender bod, sweetie! :)
 Angelnurse10
Joined: 6/10/2007
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Posted: 8/17/2008 8:06:18 AM
I am only a 34C, but most men I have found think thats big, so some men still talk to my chest. It gets annoying at times. Don't get a boob job to try to attract men. Only do it if thats what will make you feel better.
I have found that over half the men I have talked to on POF like my legs, so not all men are breast men.
You are cute and petite and I think a boob job would make you look a little unbalanced.
Good luck with your decision, but like I said, only do it for you.
 HarleyKat~
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 547
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Posted: 2/27/2009 9:47:49 AM

No-one is ever happy with what they have.....


I is. LOL

I love my breasts! Even more with hardware!
 the_only_guy
Joined: 9/29/2008
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Posted: 2/28/2009 1:41:06 PM
Wow. So much about so little, so to speak.

So whatever happened here. Did she find self esteem through mammarial enhancement? Never saw her pic since she's probably long gone by now. Just how small was she?

I always say it's the nipple that makes the breast. Take Farrah Fawcett - please! No, really, she wasn't that big at all but her nipples sticking out of a wet "T" was outstanding. They were like mini-marshmellows on pear.

And I might be wrong but it always seem to me that generally speaking the smaller the breast, the more sensitive the nipple. Knew a pretty "flat" girl that used to turn into a turbo blender when lips met the buttons. When you're tongue's sweeping cleavage it seems like women with gargantuanna are just thinking, "Hey! My face is up here!"

Then again, I think melons are sexy.

Then again, I need to do more research!
 parklabrea
Joined: 1/4/2009
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Posted: 2/28/2009 6:04:45 PM
I understand the problem from a man's point of view. I have to get a penis reduction because I keep getting bruised on my lower thigh. I have to bend over to scratch the end of it. When I'm in a bathing suit people point and laugh and some of the men cover their crotches and weep. When I crouch down to look at sandcastles I usually knock them down. Having sex with women is so uncomfortable for them that they often say, "One more hour and then I want you out of me."

When it's cold out I have to wrap a scarf around it and I almost blinded a midget at an orgy, when I got excited.

Yeah, I understand how ladies with tiny tops feel. Me, I find small boobs to be sexy and cute. But what do I know, the blood is always rushing to my head. And I don't mean the head on top of my neck.
 friendly_chatter
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 564
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Posted: 3/15/2009 11:37:55 AM
I have big boobs but they are often ignored by hubby!
 friendly_chatter
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 565
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Posted: 3/15/2009 11:38:54 AM
A P cup??? Are you kidding me?
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 574
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Posted: 4/4/2009 11:25:11 PM
I think men like big boobs cuz they are big boobs!
 Trishinwi2009
Joined: 2/24/2009
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Posted: 5/4/2009 7:48:56 AM

I have always been really self-conscious about how small my boobs are


I don't think many women are completely happy with what they have...I'm on the other side of the spectrum being overly endowed there and I can feel self conscious too.

Do what makes you feel good about YOU. If I had the means I'd certainly consider a reduction and lift LOL!
 Hootch66
Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 599
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Posted: 5/4/2009 1:26:27 PM
Baby, don't be self conscious. Like most guys, I like most boobs, but if i want to be really honest, small boobs are definately the best. Most girls I've been with have had big boobs and they're fun and all, but the small little titties are definately what gets me going. I think you're pretty lucky, and there's a lot of guys out there who would agree with me. Small boobs are often perkier, and the nipples are more sensitive - us guys love that!
If you can't find any guys who like your boobs, give me a line :)
 michaeld70
Joined: 5/6/2009
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Posted: 5/12/2009 7:06:21 PM
I'd say dont do it, there are risks (like any other surgery) but most women tend to be fine. I myself have never been with a woman with "plastic boobs", and only one with a reduction because of back problems. I take the person and her body as she is, but tend to prefer A-C cup size.
 Astrovan101
Joined: 4/29/2009
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Posted: 5/12/2009 7:54:20 PM
Personally I like small boobs, always have, and i probably always will. Big boobs r ok but it depends on the person really. You shouldn't let other people judge you, and then let that judgement affect you. U r who u r, and if a guy doesn't like u for who u r. Then give him the boot, he is not worthy of ur affection or time. Remember, boobs r boobs, some r small, some r big, but they they all serve the same purpose. I noticed guys, like myself usually judge boobs on a girl, always wanting what u can't have. But after years of wanting, I've settled for what comes my way, and like it.


 WalkingInLondon
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 612
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Posted: 7/2/2009 5:41:59 AM
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Did you know OP that breast implant surgery can take away sensation in the nipples?

Mine are very small too, but I'm not about to risk losing that purely for cosmetic reasons.

Oh Wafta, did you know that sometimes when you get implants done correctly, from below or thru the belly button, the sensation becomes GREATER? It is amazing!

As a former small chested gal, I was insecure about having small breasts, it was something that always bothered me. I used padded and push up bras, but when you take them off, you're still left with no boobs.

I was gifted on my birthday one year with breast implants. Best gift I ever recieved. God Bless the gifter, will be forever grateful!!!

I love them, feel better about myself and my body image, got the new silicone ones, so they feel soft and natural and I highly recommend that any woman who wants em, gets em!!! And yes, guys, sometimes we DO do it for ourselves!
Beth
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