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Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 432
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There are advantages to being small breasted.

They don't get in the way..they are perkier, you don't have to wear a bra. Clothes are easier to buy (ask a very large breasted woman how difficult it is to find shirts that fit, especially if her chest and boob size are quite different) Boobs aren't the only part of a woman men find sexy...really. I've met lots of men who actually don't like larger breasts.

And the main one...they still look great at 40! Gravity has less to grab on to.

Wait at least until you are done having children. You may want to breast feed and sometimes the surgery can mess that up. Also..a lot of smaller women get bigger as they get older. I don't know why, but it's been true for me. Started as a 30AA at 20 and am now 34b.

I've seen a lot of fake boobs..having worked at strip clubs. I've only seen about 10% that looked natural, especially on thinner women...and some were horridly botched. Honest.
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 433
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Posted: 9/6/2007 10:13:13 AM
I agree with this last statement about breast size. It is much more of how they fit you and your body type, then the size of them alone.

A thin or athletic body turns me on much more then large breasts, and I have always been an "eye" and "thigh" man when viewing an attractive woman. How you dress yourself to enhance all your good assets is half of the battle, and the other half is self concept.

There have been a couple or women that I have had relationships with that had breast implants, and when enjoying sex, I had to look past the feel and texture of the implants that are very apparent when involved in sexual activities. It did not mean that I did not enjoy those women or how the implants may have enhanced their body types, dress and self image, but when in bed and making love, I have not experienced where they have turned me on more then natural breasts.

Just my opinion.......
Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 440
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Posted: 9/7/2007 5:51:01 PM
*blinks* ummm yeaaah ooook
Joined: 9/26/2006
Msg: 448
Posted: 10/11/2007 9:09:39 PM
Here's the rub. I am always soo turned on by what is "sexxy" and sexxy is "the package" ... it comes in all shapes and sizes.. tall short fat skinny busty and small.. its the confidence you communicate in feeling good about yourself and accepting who you are.. and being proud of it. I have met and seen some of the most sexxy and hottest women who are not big breasted...

I have always maintained that everyone has pluses and minuses.. and you use what you have to fulfill your potential. People are going to do whatever they do, you cant control that. but you can control how you respond... and if they cant see how hott you are... then they are missin out.. they might try to intimidate and make you feel self-conscious but the best thing is to smile with confidence to let them know you don't play that head game...
Joined: 6/24/2005
Msg: 451
Posted: 10/14/2007 3:16:15 PM
I know it has been a while since you posted so I hope you haven't gone and had anything added! As far as I am concerned, small is great. Small is sensitive. Small is elegant. Small is proportional. Small are wonders to behold. Small are SEXY! So don't do it! There's lots of guys out there who (yes, truly) will appreciate you for who you are and your breasts for how small they arereally do love what you have to offer.

Anwyay, there 's m two cent's worth,a few months later.
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 455
Posted: 10/14/2007 5:35:59 PM
Okay, whoa... here is my two cents for what it is worth....keep or sweep...up to you.

I have big boobs and would trade for small ones any day. Mine are natural, but let me tell you the truth.... Yes, you will get attention, but for all the wrong reasons...Most men will be talking to your boobs half the time and the other half trying to figure out how to get you into if you want to be treated like a sex object by all means get bigger boobs but also be prepared for chronic backaches, neck and shoulder aches from your bras, and not being able to find swimsuits that fit properly or even shirts sometimes. Know the sugery complications from implants and that you may be prone to an increased risk of breast cancer since mammograms will not be able to pick things up properly. Hate to tell you but big boobs also have a tendency to sag as you age....

If you want my advice...stay with what you have...lots of famous women that were sex symbols etc did not have big boobs.....sexiness and confidence comes from the inside, not your bra size.
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 474
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Posted: 10/18/2007 7:27:26 AM

I have now decided that I am gonna get a boob job to boost my self- confidence and make me feel sexy.
My niece had such large breasts that she finally had a breast reduction done. I note that as she was growing up and getting into dating that she complained bitterly about all the remarks about her big breasts and how much attention it drew.

I have always had small breasts and did endure the "small breast" jokes earlier in life, but that's all they were ... jokes. In the end, I had four little babies that I was able to breast feed well, often much better than those ladies with the "big breasts". My husband also joked about them, but after several years of marriage, I discovered that he really was just joking ... he's a "leg" man and likes small perky breasts.

I think you'll find that there are a lot of men out there who truly enjoy small, perky breasts on a woman. I can say this much ... I'm glad I do not have big breasts as most of the women I know who do have them ... complain from time to time about it. They complain about not being able to find bras that fit appropriately, about not be able to find clothing that fits appropriately.

And the biggest joke they make now is talking about their breasts hanging around their waist when they take their bras off. That does not happen to me ...
Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 480
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Posted: 10/18/2007 2:25:22 PM
One thing about women... you have straight hair,you want curly... you have smaller breasts, you want bigger breasts... we are constantly thinking wishing whatever, if my hair were thicker, if my hair were longer.. we do the grass is greener all the time. I have nothing against implants, my mother has them. Myself, I have DD's, I like my breasts, but I hate how it is hard to find the right tops, or a tank top that would look so cute and sexy on you looks slutty on me... just make sure in the end you do it for yourself. Now you have had relationships, your obviously a beautiful girl just the way you are... men are attracted to more than just breasts, you need to remember you are more than a chest... you are a person with a sense of humor and personality worth knowing. Sexy isn't just how you look, people can be shallow (but avoid those people), focus on those that enjoy you for you and maybe take some notes... in the end your an adult, your going to make up your own mind. I just don't want to see you with a forum post in a few months asking why men don't like fake breasts that much... everyone has their opinions, which is why it is so important to make sure you do it for yourself, you will never make everyone happy.
Joined: 8/6/2007
Msg: 482
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Posted: 10/18/2007 8:29:43 PM
More than a handful is a waste? I beg your pardon! It's only a waste if your man doesn't know what the hell to do with them to begin with!

Leave the big boobed girls out of this.
Joined: 8/6/2007
Msg: 483
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Posted: 10/18/2007 8:31:07 PM
Thank you for setting the record straight. lol lol lol
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 508
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Posted: 7/2/2008 8:41:33 PM
Personally I don't have a particular preference, but I can assure you that small chested women with slim athletic bodies are very attractive.

Forget the implants...
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 509
Posted: 7/2/2008 9:17:16 PM
Sweetie...I am almost 42 and I still get asked for ID! Why is it embarrassing to you...and what makes you think it has anything to do with your boobs?!

Take it from someone who has bOObs...while I love my breasts...finding clothing that fits properly is mucho harder...the bras stop looking sexy after a B or C cup (I buy mine in bulk when I find one with 2 hooks on back or less than an inch in front!) and not knowing if someone is looking at the total picture, or just your tits, is a PITA!

Not to mention...I think ANY size natural breasts look far better than fake ones! ;)
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 511
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:02:58 AM
I know its been a yr since you posted, but I hope its not too late. I personally HATE fake boobs. Your body is MUCH more sexy when its natural.

I love porn, but as soon as I see those unmoving, gravity defying coconut halves that stick out from a thin womans chest, I have to delete it - its SUCH a turn-off!

Your body is beautiful the way it is and a REAL man would never not date you or think you arent sexy just because you have a smaller chest. And besides, as you get older, most likely they will fill out more anyway.

Just say NO to fake boobs!!
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 513
Posted: 7/3/2008 6:35:54 AM
Darlin' I have counselled many many women who have wanted to, and have had, boob jobs over the years and let me tell you that it is what makes YOU happy. No-one else. I have never had someone tell me that after they had a boob job that made them feel sexier that they wanted it reversed. For health reasons yes but that is old school now, they know what they are doing. Just today I was told by a beautiful girl that on POF she had to put a cleavage shot up to get a meaningful number of emails, now while that may just show or reinforce the shallowness of males it does say something so if that is what you want then go for it and more power to ya.Just be happy sweetheart, it's a long life to go through not feeling good about yourself, however if I can say one thing it's not the boobs that makes ya it's just you.
Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 516
Posted: 8/3/2008 10:38:35 PM
boobs wont boost your self confidence...loving your natural body will....the guys that are attracted to big fake boobs are so much lower in quality than the ones who are attracted to a womans natural body...dont be an empty vessel
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 517
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Posted: 8/3/2008 10:41:14 PM
I'll give you my honest opinion. It doesn't matter to me the size of a woman's breasts. I love them in all shapes and sizes. I had an ex who complained that hers were too small. I told her constantly that it didn't matter and I still got excited everytime her shirt came off.

Bottom line, if you date a guy that complains about them...lose him.
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 518
Posted: 8/3/2008 11:00:41 PM
I just had to post here to the OP. All these amateur psychologists who really don't have a clue what you are going thru. I work in the field and have seen many women gain a great deal by having an enlargement or in fact a reduction. Search your motives and if you really want to do this for yourself not because someone is pushing you then do some research and find a well credentialled surgeon. I can tell you that if it were as easy for men the line up would stretch half way around the globe. A surgeon who really knows his stuff will tell you that loss of nipple sensation is rare, it can happen though so be sure you know why you want this then make your own decision based on your research and good luck with whatever your decision is
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 519
Posted: 8/4/2008 7:28:39 AM
Well, Pleasurelimits...if you work in the field, you should also know that the best and reputable surgeons discuss with their prospective patients, the REASONS they want implants...and do not just implant anyone asking for such. They consider their expectations and their reasons for such...and if it has anything to do with low self esteem where they think the boobs are going to "fix" everything...they typically refuse or send them to counseling first!

But of course there are also the less than reputable surgeons who will implant anyone, regardless! Like the ones who will do a second surgery and create grossly oversized breasts for someone who is doing such for attention.
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Joined: 12/17/2007
Msg: 531
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Posted: 8/16/2008 9:36:02 PM
As one woman that has been "blessed" with more than my share of "bosom", believe me, it ISN'T what it is cracked up to be. You get STARED at ALL THE TIME, some even TALK TO YOUR CHEST as if they are expecting an answer. Trust me...this has been going on since I was 15.

I'm NOT going to say that I DON'T love my physique or want to change anything, but just letting you know that you SHOULD be happy to be alive, have what you have and flaunt your best features. YOU have to be comfortable with YOU in order to fulfill your dreams and one is going to do it for you.

Good luck with your confidence building..that is the most important for now.

 Optimistic for 2008
Joined: 5/2/2008
Msg: 539
Posted: 8/17/2008 5:23:36 AM
OP, Don't you DARE touch those lovely boobies of yours....well touch all you want but never go under the knife.... having said that I am not against breast enhancements but in your case....Extremely cute, petite girl with perfect boobs...YOU don't need to change a thing. I wanted to email this to you but couldn't because of the age limits you are accepting emails from.
Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 540
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Posted: 8/17/2008 7:04:10 AM

As one woman that has been "blessed" with more than my share of "bosom", believe me, it ISN'T what it is cracked up to be. You get STARED at ALL THE TIME, some even TALK TO YOUR CHEST as if they are expecting an answer

Yeah that's for sure - I had to remove a really great photograph from my profile because it was a shot from the waist up and I was so sick of the nasty tacky little emails wanting to know just exactly "how big ARE those things, baby?".

In addition, trying to shop for pretty lingerie when you are a DD goes from the sublime to the ridiculous. Try going into Victoria's Secret with great big 'uns and finding something sexy that will fit you. Many of the cute clothes for women our size are shapeless and just plain ugly.

My brother told me once that touching a woman with a boob job was like making out with a water bed -

Nothing wrong with learning to love the skin you're in - and judging from the responses here, there are actually men who don't select us for the size of the fat deposits on our chests.
Joined: 3/30/2008
Msg: 541
Posted: 8/17/2008 8:01:04 AM
Wow...this thread is still happening? LOL

Yeah...and pic number two....if you had big tits, you could not pose as such without them flopping out! ;)

Personally, I think being proportionate is what is nice...and your breasts look perfectly proportioned to your slender bod, sweetie! :)
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 542
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Posted: 8/17/2008 8:06:18 AM
I am only a 34C, but most men I have found think thats big, so some men still talk to my chest. It gets annoying at times. Don't get a boob job to try to attract men. Only do it if thats what will make you feel better.
I have found that over half the men I have talked to on POF like my legs, so not all men are breast men.
You are cute and petite and I think a boob job would make you look a little unbalanced.
Good luck with your decision, but like I said, only do it for you.
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