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 YamIhere
Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 26
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Di, thanks

I do believe that out there somewhere that person exists. The thing that bothers me about having an overabundance of skepticism is will I recognize that person if we cross paths? I doubt I will. When the one person you felt you could trust with your life smashes it to bits, it’s hard to open your mind toward trusting anyone else. The path to my heart has always been through my mind. At this point, however, my mind has become a pit bull guard dog with allegiance to only one person. Everyone else is a potential threat.
 ladydi8
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 27
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 10:25:54 AM
well yammers i am not gonna believe tha you will miss the perfect person cuz of bein skeptical...God grant this gal a club and the wits to use it...cuz this feller truly deserves it an if his future happiness starts out with a headache...it shouldnt end with a heartache
 tahkox4321
Joined: 3/10/2005
Msg: 28
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 10:37:55 AM
i dare say skeptical....
 YamIhere
Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 29
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Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 10:38:25 AM
Di,
It better be a pretty big club ... or at least have some spikes ... to get my attention
 Ticketoride
Joined: 6/3/2004
Msg: 30
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 2:08:37 PM
Wiser YES, skeptical, NO.
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 31
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 32
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 2:10:10 PM
I'm no wiser then I was when I was skeptical....which hasn't really changed much.
 kitkat10385
Joined: 10/24/2004
Msg: 33
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:10:21 PM
I'd like to think that I've become wiser from past relationships and heart breaks. Have you seen that movie "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"? Its one of my favorites, but in case you haven't seen it, its about this procedure you can get done, to erase certain memories, that you want to forget about. I've thought about, and IF it were possible, I don't think that I could erase much from my past, especially past relationships, no matter how much they hurt. I think that from experiencing everything you have in your life, you become who you are, now. You know what to look for in a person, and what to avoid. Just my two cents. Would any of you agree, or want to erase certain memories? Just curious.
 w82b
Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 34
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:17:01 PM
I have learned what love feels like. I patiently wait for that feeling to be restored in my heart.

Is that wiser? I don't know.
Skeptical? No.
 indigo rose
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 35
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:19:31 PM
Not really...slow learner here\
could I get a nice man to tutor me???
 B.S.N
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 36
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:25:57 PM
You dont need a male tutor, just become friends with my ex...you know her name... SATAN...lol
 profitina
Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 37
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:28:14 PM
My past relationships have made me SOOO much wiser. I'm not the gullable romantic I once was... but in the process I have become much more cynical and wary of guys. But I think thats part of the learning process- if you left your heart open to everyone you meet you'd be doomed to forever have it squashed.
 B.S.N
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 38
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:28:58 PM
I dont think it has much to do with learning, it has to do with taking your time and finding a good person... where they hang out I have no clue...lol
 B.S.N
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 39
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:31:20 PM
Profitina,,, the whole world is romanticized...santa claus, easter bunny....lol get the point... I wonder if marriage is another romantic absolute we place on our selves...HM!
 redneckgirl133
Joined: 11/18/2004
Msg: 40
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:32:31 PM
I`m definately wiser....soooooo much wiser...LOL redneckgirl133
 B.S.N
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 41
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:34:56 PM
that is what i deal with also...its a normal process,,, but we need to realize -- not evry woman will be the same...there is someone out there for you....just take your time,,, and have fun
 B.S.N
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 42
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:36:57 PM
sean g. dont allow your past to affect your future..... it is hard to deal with someone breaking your heart... especialy when they were so close to you, that you probably didnt see it coming... but he(thats life) lets go forward.....yes
 profitina
Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 43
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:38:18 PM
Hehe... I love the Easter Bunny!!! But... I used to be an overwelming romantic- I honestly believed that when people fell in love everything just falls into place and is perfect. I've actually BEEN in love now though... and it was kinda disappointing. I still think that theres someone out there for me somewhere though. If not, someone's playing a cruel joke...
 B.S.N
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 44
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:46:50 PM
There is someone out there for you, youll see. when your not expecting it ...love will clobber you...lol The world is based upon romantic thoughts-- santa claus, easter bunny, because if it wasnt the world would seem dull and boring... Love is very romantic-- Here is a romanticised thought for you...in school they tell you as a child-- YOU CAN DO ANYTHING, you can be president__ I call bull,,,, you would have a better chance at becoming a professional b-ball player-- and even that would give you the odds of 1 in 2 million... so we are raised with romantic thoughts... but there is some one for you... just dont fall into the trap of how romantic and special it is supposed to be-- that will make you unhappy... lol
 profitina
Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 45
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 3:52:16 PM
Haha...I'm a very compassionate person and I'm big on the 'you can do anything you wanna do' thing. I think that part of me is the part that lets me go back for more after I get my heart ripped out again... cuz I always have hope that everything will be ok next time.
 B.S.N
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 46
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 4:00:45 PM
I hope it will be ok for you... just dont fall in to the romantic crap set forth, because if you do-- you have preconcieved notions about how it is suposed to be, and what you think its supposed to be like... Well youll find out your idea of what it is supposed to be like is tottally different from his...this will cause problems... Just go into it with the thought of it being hard work,, and through your effort--it can be done... not through your its not supposed to be this way... ideals.......... well i got a POlitical science essay to finish,, so i must be going... good talking with you.. and if any of you want to talk more in depth about any of my views--- contact me i would love to hear from your peoples perspectives... Bye Lloyd
 çòúntrÿLÏn
Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 47
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 7:36:49 PM
MUCH wiser... stronger... I think everything happens for a reason.. whether it's bad or good... it has made me who I am today and I don't regret any of it....
 ladydi8
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 48
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 7:44:04 PM
^^^made you a GREAT person lin...and i agree with ya on that one
 YamIhere
Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 49
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Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 8:45:32 PM
SoulDragonN,
When you can't trust your own judgement, what/who can you trust?
 çòúntrÿLÏn
Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 50
Have your past relationships made you wiser or more skeptical
Posted: 5/12/2005 8:57:37 PM
awww thanks Lady... back atcha hon !
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