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 Christian seeks Christian
Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 26
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It is a mans job to provide and support a female and children. Non supportive men, men who refuse to provide, who use the term gold digger are verbally abusive males, using the word gold digger, ho, biatch, eic. is done to verbally abuse women. Such verbally abusive men are most often robbers and purse theif men who also rob milk and cookie money from children. Such men do not provide for women or children, they run out when the bills are due, they refuse to put a roof over a woman or childs head and they are obvious verbal abusers and physical abusers of women, and very often physical abusers of children also. They are broke men, bust out men, greedy men, selfish men. exploitative men, men in deep debt, bust out men, mentally ill men, wanna be pimp men or cheapskate men who refuse to support a female. Such abusers will rob women blind or work women to death if they can. Such men are abusers and wanna be giggilos and very dangerous as they will lie, rob, con, rape and even kill to get money from women, children (think child sex porn peddlers) the elderly or other males. They are purse theif males, robbers, that get furious when a female or court insists they step up, be a man, do their husbandly duties, or fatherly duties and work and pay the bills. Men who call women names like gold digger, b-tches, ho's, etc. are verbal abusers who are pissed because those men want to rob any woman or children they can. Gold diggers as opposed to what...... Sh-tdiggers? These men would not know gold from sh-t or fools gold, they do not know sh-t from shinola, they are just cheapskate non supportive men who refuse to provide for females, they are female haters and women and child abusers that refuse to provide. They are undesireable males, avoid them and call 911, or use pepper spray if you meet one.
Women must have financial empowerment and administrative empowerment if only to avoid and reject non providers and non supportive men and make sure such men who abuse women and exploit children, (think men who exploit children as child slave labor, etc.) women are now empowered to reject such abusive men, and abusive men must be kept away from women and children and locked in prison cages where they belong. see ** Spam Link Snipped **
 realdream7
Joined: 2/5/2007
Msg: 27
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/23/2007 5:36:57 AM
I think we should reverse this question in another thread. (Men, what do you YOU want from women other than money (and sex)?) H*ll, I just want a guy who can stand on his own two feet financially and has a j-o-b. Ooo such high expectations I have. Seriously in the new millenium I think the playing field has leveled out, and there are just as many men looking for women with money as vice versa.
 chauntie
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 28
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/23/2007 5:52:55 AM
i dont care how much money a guy has if i meet him off of here i have my own money to pay for myself and im toally independant i dont go on here looking for a guy to support me what i look for on here is to either make friends or to find a friend with benifits, looking for a good lay and nothing else, later
 chauntie
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 29
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/23/2007 5:55:34 AM
actually to turn this story around on the guys i've meet 1 or 2 guys who have smoked all my smokes drank all my booze on a date, and just plain took advantage of me so heres the thing if i meet up with someone i pay for my own stuff as so he does fair is fair that way we dont owe eachother anything and we can all have a good time, later
 Playfulgal
Joined: 1/12/2007
Msg: 30
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/23/2007 12:07:29 PM
More money? hehe
As most of the women here have pointed out.. we have our own money. We just don't want to be supporting his broke a**. I've done that twice. First with my ex-hubby and second with a fiance who decided after he moved in with me that he "needed to stop working and review his life plans."
So yes money has become an important issue with me. He needs to make as much or more.
But going back to the "other than money" part... I want honest, kind, caring, responsible, wise and sexually compatible with me. I want romance and gratitude for those things I do for him. I want an equal exchange of ideas and efforts to make things good for us. But really it all comes down to chemistry. If I don't feel that spark of attraction it won't matter how much he has or how kind he is, it's just not there.
 Tukabirdy
Joined: 4/1/2007
Msg: 31
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/23/2007 12:41:22 PM
What I'd like to have from a man?

1. A good kisser and someone who understands that hugs and kisses from me don't mean sex right that moment but probably later for sure!

2. A friend who I can agree and disagree with and he can do the same with me.

3. Someone I can be strong for and help out in hard times without him becoming embarrassed about it.

4. Some one that understands woman's role as a mother/caregiver and how much work goes into family.

5. Being emotionally available to me and willing to talk when we need to.

Money? Those women who want only money shouldn't be messed with anyway.
 Wanda49
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 33
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/23/2007 2:26:28 PM
Be genuine... know how to be honest... have some idea how to communicate..... know how to care about someone other than yourself... Find one person to work together to have a caring relationship with and stick around longer than a week without sneaking around and sleeping with every woman on the planet......

That would be good to start with.... Not many guys know how to do any of that.
 DonQuay
Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 34
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Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/23/2007 8:54:25 PM
Why is it an offensive question? Have you not read so many other posts on this site ...such as .... 'Why do men only want sex' etc?? I've addressd this particular 'offense' before oin this topic ...... if people cannot read all these posts ...... why be offensive by accusative statements. LEARN TO BE TOTALLY INFORMED (it's within your own grasp!) BEFORE YOU JUMP TO A CONCLUSION.

Oh ..... and for AMBERZAMBER that says I'm screaming out for a 'gold-digger' in my profile .... why can't I put up some holiday snaps .... or write a silly verse ....??
(Mind you .... she did cream some other guys profile also .... Third page near the end ... .... and then an ex-boyfriend in that post ....)

It's this 'in-your-face' attitude that is not attractive ....... to me. The tone of some of these posts is so anti-man ....... I just need a man for sex ... and walking the dog ..... I have my own money ...
Precisely ..... you HAVE your own money ..... an equel relationship requires it isn't yours or his ....... its joint! Or am I saying something really offensive again? I note that the two guys on here that were very ..... pro .... 'Women, what do you want from men other than money ? '...... didn't get any replies. It's a debating 'forum' people ... debate! The guys that all jumped in with pro touchy-feely stuff - 'I love women ..... not sex ... and don't believe women are after my money' ..... on the first page - or so - seem to be absent now .......... why?
:) And one person know's my name ..... thank you for that courtesy. :)

Hugh
 janedoexyz
Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 35
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/23/2007 9:01:41 PM
I want a man that will spend time with me. All I ask is for someone to talk and laugh with me, and come around on Friday, Saturday night. Sunday would be good too.

I'm funny as I can be, as long as you can throw the ball. If you can't throw the ball, then it drops. And I stutter. I can't make a friendship, I can only contribute to it.

J
 asianace10
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 36
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/24/2007 7:18:09 AM
I have my own money, I don't need a man for that, but I want a man with a generous heart and that is not stingy with his money; but more importantly a man with a love for God and the Bible and a love for people and that cares about others including his parents and siblings.
 Amouredknight
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 37
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/24/2007 3:40:53 PM
As most American women really aren't interested in romance or trully a relationship or would it not be trully happening for them?

And this next statement is *Not Even Me* by a long shot. But in noticing the gals in California and Nevada there are certain things one sees repeated over and over.

Many, did I say many? Many females seem to sacrifice the integrity of a solid relationship for a mere sexual liason; even if they realize that this male who studed them is doing the same thing to others all month making his rounds!


Since some people have bought into a illusion that will one day backfire upon them should they later get mad when their madness haunts them?

I've talked to various girls who tell me how scandolous their gender are. Of how most brides now, as they prepare to be 'Bridezillas' are like prostiutes in how they conduct themselves in marriage. Just like many women tolerate their husband playing around, or from the Biblical perspective, whoring around, as they may or may not be doing the same. But eventually they know they have ammunition to take him to court as all they really wanted was a house and the fixings anyhow. The girls who were more honest than most said most brides are just as low as their cheating husbands as they just didn't care and even encouraged it for financial security like a woman in a brothel or 'street walking'.

So maybe sometime when their Moon cycle triggers the energy, they may want to be studed every now and then *if* they can find a low-life male who doesn't really understand what is happening they can hook up! Some want loyalty totally in these out of wedlock liasions of a steamy encounter just as the Queen Bee has to rule. And others know and do not really care whether he was with women they do not know; just as long as they do not know it's comfortable for these women.

Like I said this is not even my apirations, but one dosen't have to be blind to notice many females are just after a 'stir-purr-thank-you-sir'; and would hate it if they found out who the other hers were in their scandolous stallion's life. Of course most will not go looking for them in that they *do not really want to know*!

Sad the 'tramp behavior' of both genders upon the continent; but that's just where we live!
 Latina1056
Joined: 10/7/2006
Msg: 38
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Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/24/2007 3:50:36 PM
oh dear dear dear.. What a question. Not all women want men for their money because not all men have money. Ok that taken care of. Women want a man that can have a descent conversation I myself prefer that he dances or at least moves to the beat. Don;t have to be a ballroom dancer. One that is not a player that is bad besides being a liar.. And please drink your vitamins and know how to kiss and hug... Sex well that would help because if you have nothing going for you you are in deep s__t...
Just my 2cents
 lucilou
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 42
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Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/25/2007 7:24:24 PM
I can always work to make money, but to find the right man is something else. A man who has a lot of money, handsome, and romantic why not? Money is easy to find, I just need time to work . Other than money I want a romantic and passionate man who will be faithful in a relationship, someone to love and I wanted to be loved also.
 FallenAngel1978
Joined: 6/14/2007
Msg: 43
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/26/2007 8:54:38 AM
Hell i never wanted any man's money , I always worked for my own...all i ever asked for was honesty and respect and affection, which apparently was too much to have asked for...But hey to each his own i say!
 T.L.S.
Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 44
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 7/26/2007 2:15:10 PM
Ty,From all the women whom have posted before me!we are not all that complicated to figure out guys!We want your time,NOT Your so called money!,Honesty,Faithfulness in a monogamous relationship!LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!And understanding!How hard is that to understand?Terri
 musicianfriend
Joined: 7/23/2007
Msg: 45
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Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 8/6/2007 10:06:56 AM
Excellent answer!
 miraclgal
Joined: 6/22/2007
Msg: 47
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 8/6/2007 8:56:56 PM
I want kind words.......................affection real affection...............................
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 48
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 8/7/2007 2:49:44 PM
OP

Women, what do you want from men other than money ?


Sounds like you've made this assumption your truth. We women wold be wasting our time trying to tell you anything differently. You must not have any. But what's really crossing you up is not the money you don't have,it's the chip on your shoulder about it.
Cindy O
 miraclgal
Joined: 6/22/2007
Msg: 49
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 8/7/2007 7:24:54 PM
Oh Yeah I also want a red dress..........
 ketch
Joined: 8/24/2006
Msg: 50
Women, what do you want from men other than money ?
Posted: 8/8/2007 3:12:13 PM
please refer to dining scam thread.

ketch
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