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 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 13
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How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?Page 4 of 4    (1, 2, 3, 4)
I know a guy that's into Granny panties.

I know a guy that's into capris.

Women are sometimes randy, some more than others.
 Bezoar
Joined: 4/6/2007
Msg: 15
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 7/31/2007 8:49:01 PM
only a rich man, or a man who looks like an underwear model can get casual sex without paying a hooker forit. THe rest of us are stuck just daydreaming about sex period. SO the answer is NO.

most of the less interesting men are stuck having to pay for it with hookers. WOmen have no problem with getting sex.
 h0ldfast
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 16
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How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 7/31/2007 9:23:52 PM
For the average guy, finding no strings sex is difficult, frustrating and expensive. For a skilled player or an unusually attractive (rich, famous, handsome) guy, it is easy.

The cruel irony is that women, who don't really want sex all that much, can get it for free anytime they want, whereas men, who actually crave it, usually have to do without.
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 17
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 7/31/2007 10:14:50 PM
Very very few guys can bat nearly 100% in getting laid when entering a bar. It also depends on the bar/environment. It's easier for a girl because she can be blunt about it -- a guy can't, even if he's modelesque. He'll still bat well, but not close to 100%. A modelesque guy would require a lot of game to bat nearly 100% at a regular bar with a decent ratio. All guys require game to bat at their peak. Girls don't need the game -- they just need lips to communicate what they want! lol

Now, if your standards are really really low for a one-nighter girl, I would say that at a club, any decent looking guy with a handful of game could bat close to 100%.
 randomstoic
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 18
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 7/31/2007 10:28:12 PM
Probably very easy. Very few women have yarn fetishes.
 dave sarkowski
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 19
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 8/1/2007 1:32:49 AM
100% is impossible for a guy, but for frequent NSA, he has to do four things:

1. be attractive

2. be able and willing to lie, charm, seduce, and anything else that will get him in favor

3. lower his standards should the need arise

4. Have balls of steel. If you ask 100 women to go home with you in a night, chances are one of em will say yes
 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 23
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 8/2/2007 4:11:24 AM
Easy for either sex if that's what you want. . . . Catch is, lol, it really isn't what 95% of us do want. . . . At least not at the price.



 EC22
Joined: 4/25/2007
Msg: 24
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 8/2/2007 7:50:09 AM

Returning to the original topic, yes, any woman who isn't a total dog can get sex any night (or day) of the week if she isn't too too picky.

For any man to even come close to that, he will have to either lower his standards further than the Mariana fault (deepest spot in the Pacific ocean) or pay for it.


I generally agree with that. A man would either have to be very attractive or charming to have NSA ( no string attached ) sex on a regular basis. A woman could be average looking or below average looking and still easily find NSA sex on a regular basis.
 dpd22
Joined: 11/9/2006
Msg: 26
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 8/4/2007 12:52:18 PM
Even 'hookers' can be somewhat selective. They can turn down ugly men because there are some decent looking and good looking men that would pay for sex. I guess some men would rather pay for guaranteed sex then spend time and money on dates that might or might not end up in having sex. A man can find 'no-strings' sex, but he can't be that picky. He might be turned down a 100 times before he finds a woman that agrees to having 'no strings' sex.
 EC22
Joined: 4/25/2007
Msg: 27
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 8/4/2007 12:58:50 PM
CJGregory,

You misquoted me. I said a man would have to be either very attractive OR charming. Look at msg 71.
 MONEMPERER
Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 29
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 9/9/2007 4:58:48 AM
its not really all that difficult just learn how to talk and any given night depends on whether you are willing to do it with uglier people than yourself. or just find alot of girls with the same morality.

any time any city I have wanted to get laid I go out and find a girl to get laid with

relationships are the problem for me not getting laid

weird story sidenote

my mom went ot the bar with her friend the friend wanted to get laid she could not find a willing guy in the bar.
 SAIUN
Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 30
How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 9/9/2007 7:34:23 AM

Any reasonably attractive, outgoing, honest and fairly intelligent man can find no string sex if that is all he really wants.

I may as well give up now.
 Keithslegacy
Joined: 6/20/2007
Msg: 32
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How easy is it for a guy to find no-strings sex?
Posted: 9/10/2007 12:12:47 AM
REALLY hard.....unless you're a Player.
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