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 4ms4me
Joined: 4/24/2010
Msg: 674
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I'm about to get a special levy for a roof replacement, about $10,000 ... so I'm gonna change my answer: anyone wants to pay me to marry them, I'll show up in my best dress, AND there'll be GREAT sex after, all your favorite kinds ... (we don't have to live together, I got my own place)
 ModernTLC
Joined: 10/2/2011
Msg: 675
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/24/2011 4:51:12 PM
Is it a business transaction or a relationship?

Why would they show statements to prove assets when you leave with what you came with....what's the point?

Sounds dull and lonely.....PASS!
 whataboutbob9
Joined: 10/23/2009
Msg: 676
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would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/28/2011 1:28:55 AM
I dont know if I this is considered marrying FOR money, but I find that each person having a similar amount is GOOD
 fit2date
Joined: 9/18/2009
Msg: 677
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/28/2011 2:14:03 AM
So much BS replies and self-righteous answers. The honest one say yes. The others are trying to pass on their infinite wisdom through their dumb philosophy.

I know people want to do the right thing, but what difference is this relationship, on a relationship perspective, from most relationships that are in their five year mark. I like to see the same offer from a mediocre rich woman and see how many men will truthfully say no. Any man HERE that says no, is a liar or using their fake moral character to score some points with the female viewers.
 TedJMill
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 678
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would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/28/2011 10:36:50 AM

Any man HERE that says no, is a liar or using their fake moral character to score some points with the female viewers.


My answer tends toward no, and that's neither a lie nor a matter of moral character, real or fake. I just wouldn't consider it a worthwhile deal. I have a good salary now, and I can buy what I want; I have an apartment I like, get my books and DVDs, take vacations every year, etc. I don't care about having a house, or designer clothes, or gold Rolexes, or whatever. So really, the only thing I want that such a marriage could offer me is the opportunity to retire from my job. And since I'd then have the equivalent of a job anyway, having to do what the wealthy wife wants and keep her happy or she could cut me off or divorce me, it isn't really worth it.
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 679
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/28/2011 10:45:56 AM
^^


And since I'd then have the equivalent of a job anyway, having to do what the wealthy wife wants and keep her happy or she could cut me off or divorce me, it isn't really worth it.


yes she would probably demand that you have sex with her, I think
 tigerspawn
Joined: 8/9/2011
Msg: 680
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/29/2011 1:05:08 AM
No I wouldnt but i know people that have.
 kcladyz
Joined: 8/7/2009
Msg: 681
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/29/2011 8:02:37 AM
No, I do not date men for money, but I would like a guy to be slightly better off than me. I dated rich men before and they were always ***holes. The have a over-feeling of entitlement over you because of how much more money they make than you. ither that or they are too busy to make time for you
 golddiggerliermowfo
Joined: 7/25/2011
Msg: 682
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/29/2011 9:00:11 AM
Kim your going to marry this guy for money please KIm how can you do this to be talk to me for a secound then block me omg . Im going to have a heart break down .
 HelloSunset
Joined: 8/19/2011
Msg: 683
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/29/2011 7:12:38 PM
No I married for love; and inspired him to be a very successfull business man.
 christyis4real
Joined: 7/6/2011
Msg: 684
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/29/2011 7:24:39 PM
Heck To The NO. :)
 kanlai
Joined: 5/13/2009
Msg: 685
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would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/30/2011 5:54:53 PM
I like men with money , but no way I'd take one who is not attractive to me.
Look at all the things you'd have to do in bed with him, it's just not worth it unless you're going to starve. I have a very weak stomach.
 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 686
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/30/2011 7:11:08 PM
Why wouldn't you just make your own?
 watcomgal
Joined: 2/28/2010
Msg: 687
would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/30/2011 7:14:47 PM
Life is to short to be married to someone that you can't stand to watch the person eat,walk or even breathe. No after all the "getting to know you" is over then there has to be something to keep two people together, sexual attraction is usually the big one!
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 688
Would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/31/2011 1:01:32 PM
Agreed..!!
I'd marry ^^'_Shakti_'^^ if she lived under a Bridge..!!
But I wouldn't marry Roseann for the oil rights to Kuwait!!

 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 689
Would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/31/2011 1:23:37 PM
Do you reckon that means I'm marriage material ?

Lol..
 OyVay...
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 690
Would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/31/2011 1:28:19 PM
Gee, I think I see another match made on POF!! You 2 should get a room!
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 691
Would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/31/2011 1:30:38 PM
*****
(Don't bet on it, 'Oy....'....She'll Slam the door with the old
"You're Too Far Away" - dodge..!!)
Still...She IS Cute...ain't she..??
*****
That's MY reconing...!!
...other than you're ~looking for~ 'Friends'....
I've always wanted to see the Red Deer area..!!
I'll even bring my skates..!!

(Should I put a Stopwatch on this one..??)
 Aries_328
Joined: 10/16/2011
Msg: 692
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Would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/31/2011 1:43:47 PM
Funny, I randomly poked through some of the 38 pages of posts. I didn't see one real 'yes'. The only yes responses were from guys and mostly joking.

So, if everyone says 'no' than why is it so common. Is it just 'no' for the type of women that post on POF forum boards? Or is it a less obvious 'yes'. If they are moderatly attractive with a realtively palitable attitude it is now 'love' and of course marriage.

A lady would never say yes for money. But yes ends up being the answer?

38 pages of no. :)
 Fleuron
Joined: 8/18/2010
Msg: 693
Would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/31/2011 2:50:51 PM
^^^^ Speaking for myself, I responded to the scenario described in the OP, even though it was six years ago.

And it wasn't presented to women only.
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 694
Would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/31/2011 4:50:57 PM
aries~

"So, if everyone says 'no' than why is it so common."

it isn't so common. there are very few women out there that would marry some one simply for money. that goes for men as well. most people would not even date someone that long if they were a complete jerk off even if they were loaded.

...and what about all the married men on this website trolling for sex? some of them are very wealthy, no longer love their wives, yet do not leave because if would cost them too much money. then out of the side of their mouths they go on and on about so-called gold diggers. well, imo, they are the real gold diggers; they are the ones that are staying in an unhappy marriage because it's "cheaper to keep her."
 Aries_328
Joined: 10/16/2011
Msg: 695
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Would you marry for money?
Posted: 10/31/2011 5:51:24 PM

it isn't so common. there are very few women out there that would marry some one simply for money


Yeah, you are probably right.
 geeballin24
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 696
would you marry for money?
Posted: 11/1/2011 3:43:44 PM
I been waiting for my sugar mama all my life..had a couple but not ten million lol I say, tell me where to sign. There is more than just attraction and some people can be average but with the right personality be very attractive! So I guess it depends on how u are but as for me I cant say I would not considerate it. Stars do it all the time. Look at the playboy grandpa. His mansion rockin every night!
 kissingkimber
Joined: 8/16/2011
Msg: 697
would you marry for money?
Posted: 11/1/2011 3:58:09 PM
Never, I want Love that is unconditional. Money is not LOVE!
 OyVay...
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 698
Would you marry for money?
Posted: 11/1/2011 4:01:43 PM
Aries said "I didn't see one real 'yes'."

So what did you expect? Someone to actually say "yeah, I'm all about the benjamins, I'm a golddigger!"

Now who would do that? What person aside from the few guys who made a remark, they could easily attribute to a joke. Would you want to be the person to be belittled for the next 20 pages?

My point was and is, money can and does play a role. Always has, always will, especially with women. Money is to women, what looks are to men. If you want to boil it down further, many would refer to it in a different way men look for sex, women for security. Neither is better, and no one wants to lay claim to it.

Now that may upset more than a few. But it's a fact of life, especially in these forums and profiles on POF. It's hard to open a single page of threads, without a woman accusing guys of going for looks over substance.

Equally it's about as impossible to open 10 profiles of women at random, without seeing some veiled reference to job, security, stability or whatever word you wish to use for money or income.

You've read 38 pages of drivel to arrive at the same consclusion.
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