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 haywiresue
Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 3
nice guys mean girlsPage 2 of 2    (1, 2)
I have some girlfreinds who are mean - to others, not me, cause I wont put up with that crap. So when they are mean to other women, I tell them they are being mean/nasty. When they do it to a guy - I usually take the guy's side, if asked my opinion.

There really is no place in a relationship for being unkind, nasty, mean or taking advantage of the other person.

All I can say is..........................Shame on you....................that is not very becoming.
 spellingbee
Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 7
nice guys mean girls
Posted: 9/8/2007 8:03:50 AM
Oooh... I like where you're going with this! :)

And sometimes people are considered "mean" when they don't have narcissistic personalities at all... and not because they necessarily view other people poorly... but because they sometimes view the behaviour (like, oh say, pandering to the lowest common denominator of the masses) of some other people poorly.

Call it "mean" if you must... I figure that sometimes you just gotta be cruel to be kind. I don't have a problem with what anyone thinks of me when I challenge the ideas and actions of others. I'm comfortable in knowing all I'm doing is encouraging people to be the best they can be... even if my methods are sometimes considered questionable and my motivation isn't always understood.

 Fort Garry Dark
Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 9/13/2007 4:32:25 PM
Well the OP asked how do you cure a mean girl? I don't think there is a way. Mean is just mean.

Now when a nice guy meets a "bad" girl there is a whole lot that can be done - maybe not a cure so much as an exploration of all the bad things she can do. That can be fun.

Is that right ls?
 Fort Garry Dark
Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 9/13/2007 9:04:42 PM
Well I do like Scenario @2 more - in that I'm not real fond of being "stuck". Especially with that!

Yes I want to change that girl - but we need to have a talk first.
 freckleswithluv
Joined: 1/20/2007
Msg: 26
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Posted: 9/20/2007 9:50:34 PM
Just had to post it!........Well part of it anyway! lol!

Sad girls, sad girls
you such a dirty bad girl
beep beep uh, uh
you bad girl, you sad girl
you such a dirty bad girl
beep beep uh, uh

Donna Summer
 CraigGrande
Joined: 10/30/2008
Msg: 28
nice guys mean girls
Posted: 7/7/2010 8:27:42 AM
Huh? What do you mean? Why would being nice be considered bull s!%#?
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