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 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
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It is all about as interesting as watching paint dry.
 discreet/longlasting769
Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 32
has free porn on the net become the middle-aged post-divorced person's new & safe partner?
Posted: 8/23/2007 10:35:56 PM
This post is a very honest and true to life. After a 30 year marriage ended, I am alone, middle age, and bruised. I realize the difference between porn and real life , but watching amatuer porn, which I find is authentic, at least gives me a release until I feel ready to engage the opposite sex again. Sometimes, it is safe when safe is what you need at that particular time. I don't think it will be forever, nor a substitute, but at least I still feel somewhat alive. It is better than nothing for me. And then there is the old adage--use it or lose it.
 RJ_58
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 36
has free porn on the net become the middle-aged post-divorced person's new & safe partner?
Posted: 8/26/2007 7:24:03 AM
I was going to reply to this post..... But I`m afraid I`m to busy right now....teehee!





Just kidding!!! It is healthy in moderation....:-)
 Spence56
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 37
has free porn on the net become the middle-aged post-divorced person's new & safe partner?
Posted: 8/27/2007 4:15:33 AM
I don't think that this is exactly what you mention here. However, I do think that this kind of thing is often the only thing that allows a little sanity in a person (male or female) that is looking for someone new but as so many of us attest, it takes a lot of fishing to find one you don't want to throw back! It's pretty tough on other people when you allow yourself to get into serious relationships just because you want sex and then once you get your fill you just dump the other person. Why not keep your head while looking! (so to speak)

It also seems to me that as we get older and have mounted (sorry for the pun) experience upon experience, it's just interesting to see something different. "Porn" is by definition just something that one finds sexually stimulating in media. In the old days Beethoven's music was often found to be just such a stimulation that really irritated many for the same reasons todays Pornography does.

There are many men and women at all age levels that like this kind of added stimulation. There are also lots that don't. Although I have to admit that there are some people that will never graduate from pornography to reality, but that is only because they make no effort to be attractive to the opposite sex anyway. Perhaps it's better that they stay in the cyber world and away from people they would ultimately just make miserable anyway!
 AdvisorX
Joined: 5/10/2007
Msg: 38
Porn is not the illness on the net
Posted: 8/28/2007 11:41:27 AM
the electro-magnetic field on the computer and the freqency of the images that are
broadcast via the net match those in specific areas of the human brain. The brain's
and the computers electro-magnetic fields become one. At that point the brain cannot
accepts that the porn is within it self and not external. The brain is also put into an
alpha state and that causes a release of certain hormones for our pleasure receptors.
This makes viewing on the net more what you might call addictive but what i would
call a "severe attachment". The person unlike a herion addict will not go seek day
and night to get his/her fix but in the presence of the computer electo-magnetic
field will want to go to inter-net porn. When the person is on the net and especially
if they are in the adolescent to before peak sexual period of the life then they most
often will spend excessive hours viewing such material. That material becomes a
substitute for the real person sex and when they are with a real person then the porn images become the predominant factor of what the sexually attractive person should appear to look like sexually and physically, though on a subconscious level. The porn viewer is programmed to what is exciting from the many perfect women that he has viewed or she has viewed.

There are 45million internet porn addicts in the US and 40% tha seek treatment are females. Where as with paper and VHS based porn the % of women is minor. Clearly, there is something very different about internet porn. It's the electro-magnetic field. What is physical attraction? Elector-Magnetic?
What does sex do? Release pleasure hormones.
So does internet based sex.

This is producing seperateness between the sexes
especially because there are skills and values that
must be used to woo a woman to have sex and these
skills and understanding are not being learned and
developed. Because these are not required for inter
net based sex.

For women on the net, only payment is required
and the male can be abusive to any woman legally
on the porn sites. Afterall they don't feel a thing
and they always respond with a thank you
and want more pay more.

Jim
 AdvisorX
Joined: 5/10/2007
Msg: 39
Porn is not the illness on the net
Posted: 8/28/2007 11:46:17 AM
This is the correction:
At that point the brain accepts that the porn is within it self and not external.

i removed the word: "cannot"
thanks, jim
 northwoods57
Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 41
has free porn on the net become the middle-aged post-divorced person's new & safe partner?
Posted: 12/19/2007 5:46:22 PM
your cute!! Free porn on the net..YECH!! I rather have the real woman, that knows what she has, and knows how to use it.
heels are good, she can tease the hell out of me..and I love her rubbing herself up against me feels me getting aroused. Then we do something about it.
Its called FOREPLAY!! I love it. Plus a bottle of good white wine, to relax us.
A bottle of wine, little kissing and playing...used to be called..fooling around.
 countrygalatheart
Joined: 1/6/2007
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has free porn on the net become the middle-aged post-divorced person's new & safe partner?
Posted: 12/19/2007 6:46:32 PM
I haven't done the internet porno sites......I am sure just lots of moaning and groaning and fake boobs and blah, blah blah. I don't think it has changed that much probably just more fake bodies and fake noises! Give me the real thing any day and I'll make your day!

I have a girl friend that had a boyfriend that watched pornos ALL the time. He could not get into the mood and out of the mood without watching pornos. Now how much fun is that????? For her that is??? He was totally addicted to it. Needless to say he is now an exboyfriend. LOL I know of another family that has now split up because her husband was also addicted to pornos!

I guess, each to their own and what you do behind closed doors is your business as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. I could probably understand men getting off on adult pornos, but don't even get me started on child pornography!
 Thorgodofthunder
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 44
has free porn on the net become the middle-aged post-divorced person's new & safe partner?
Posted: 8/11/2012 12:56:12 AM
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 BLONDE_ANGEL845
Joined: 6/30/2012
Msg: 45
has free porn on the net become the middle-aged post-divorced person's new & safe partner?
Posted: 8/11/2012 6:57:10 AM
holey moley- talk about raising the dead, LOL!
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