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 Keithslegacy
Joined: 6/20/2007
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Usually because we're too busy concentrating on trying to do a good job. At least, that's my reason.
 Bethlet
Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 27
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 12:19:26 AM

Why dont you tie strings to his limbs so you can REALLY control him for YOUR pleasure...

Am I the only one here who has no problems with that concept either?


*Raises hand. No problem at all. Thats why I have a huge poster bed....and not one of those wimpy poster beds. This sucker can take a lot of struggle............

heh.

omg, did I say that out loud? Lord, forgive me......

 taal
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 28
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 12:24:29 AM
I'm actually the complete opposite - I mean, I love the little sounds a guy makes, but I can't make any, almost. My last boyfriend was just shocked when I gasped into his ear. I just can't do it... I think it just makes me automatically feel like a porn star if I start moaning, which I know is completely illogical but I can't help it. I'm SILENT except for heavier breathing.
 loranz
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 29
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 12:40:30 AM
This Is Funny hahaha.......i will make noise yes specially when a woman goes bobin for tha great apple.......but what turns me off is when a women moans like shes literally crying ....thats a huge ass turn off.
 Vyper┬«
Joined: 10/10/2005
Msg: 30
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 12:53:55 AM
If it's "like that," I'll let her know! I've had one or two sessions where I KNOW I woke up some folks across town!

But not all sex is scream/moan-worthy. In fact, most is simply "adequate" to get the job done. But, if my partner makes it her business to give a standout performance, from me she's gonna get a standout response. Hell, maybe even a little applause afterwards!
 B771102
Joined: 2/7/2006
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 7:02:12 AM
I will also agree with the concentrating on what we are doing part.
Guys are not very good at multitasking like women are.

Now we have to talk too....? I dont want to yell out the wrong thing.

Woooo Hooooo!!!! Becky!!! ...... errr, oooops, sorry Lisa, how are you doing down there ??

Better to stay quiet.
 babyfuryswipes
Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 32
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:23:07 AM
Yeah some guys want to lie there all quiet like a blow up billy doll. Sorry, but that does NOT get me off. Then there are the ones who talk way to much and your thinking "shut the F* up, i'm trying to concentrate!" hahahaha

So the guys who are posting that the OP is to demanding or whatever. I guess those are the ones who don't care to get their lady off? wham bam thank you maam!
 Epica
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 33
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:36:13 AM
I like to hear my man enjoy himself. I don't know about full out moaning, but grunts and sighs work just as well for me. If he's not making any noise and just going through the motions that's all it seems it's about--the mechanics, instead of sharing the passion. So yeah, little noise is always appreciated just so I know he's enjoying it.
 NJFFCapt
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 34
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:54:03 AM
I am actually very vocal during sex and I love it when the woman I am with is the same way.
 NJFFCapt
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 35
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:56:58 AM
That's the attitude.
 Schadenfreudian
Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 36
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:14:09 AM
[Moans using American Sign Language]
 69_dude
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 37
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:40:36 AM
sometimes we are focused on not releasing too early...
sometimes we are too focused on what you are doing... really enjoying it
and sometimes we are in public and no one at the MacD's needs to hear that!
LOL
it is something that I have to remember to do now and then... which should be a compliment... but alas... I can see how you would not see it that way!
 Schadenfreudian
Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 38
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:51:54 AM
I guess men really aren't that great at multi-orgasmic-tasking.
 Anazdaddy
Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 39
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 9:53:54 AM
I love the uncontrolable sounds that come from a woman. I love the heavy breathing, moaning, grunting, groaning. The only thing I don't like so much is screaming..reminds me too much of faking . I trully believe screaming only happens when a woman is faking it or in pornos..such a turn OFF. Soft moaning and whimpering is very much a turn ON.
I myself don't moan so much as grunt and maybe when I am about to have a huge big 'O' I let out a long deeep moan.
 goodkissa
Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 40
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 10:21:05 AM
how much noise can a man make when it's all happening in the subway or on the brooklyn bridge or in the back seat of a taxi cab or in central park...or...or. C'mon now be reasonable.
 passionteman
Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 41
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 10:25:04 AM
I tend to moan when I cum as it just comes out of me for some reason..

and..

I squeeze her real hard too while cumming and moaning. Some find it sexy while others don't.
 Doc514
Joined: 3/1/2007
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 10:27:16 AM
I for one seem to have the opposite problem, having been with women who are quiet while partaking of the fun and frolic. Bet you thought I was going to say I was TOO noisy, LOL didn't ya'll. I enjoy the sights and sounds of sex, making them and hearing them. Sound and voice can be so erotic I think. Talk dirty to you, OK, groan and grunt for you, OK, I for one can multi-task. I want the woman to know I am enjoying it with her, if I don't speak or make some noise, how is she to know, oh yes, the BIG SMILE on my face afterwards is nice--but I like immediate feedback and I think most women do also. Hmmm, maybe I need to be louder or do more grunting etc, it has been a while....

Doc
 BAD_BABY
Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 43
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 10:33:43 AM
SOME GUYS ARE JUST SHY- IVE NEVER HAD A PROBLEM GETTING A GUY TO MOAN BEFORE
 Schadenfreudian
Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 44
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 10:48:20 AM
After having thought about the nature of the question...doesn't this, guys, sound eerily familiar? Like the times when, often inopportune, she asks what's on your mind? [feels a chill creepin' up his spine; memories of a long-ago panic attack]
 Harmoniegirl
Joined: 7/9/2007
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 11:55:17 AM
Moaning is good...but I want him to moan cause he wants to...not because I told him to. As we r on this topic...any parents (or nonparents too...but kids are the reason we had to keep it down) in here do it with out making a single noise? It's fun..try it...maybe some extra hair pulling,w hispering, kissing, squeezing goes one..but damn...its fun!
 RSAndrew
Joined: 3/23/2005
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 12:15:05 PM
Not everyone moans. Just like not everyone likes certain foods. Everyone is different, though I cannot stand if a girl doesn't get LOUD. Moaning is something, but being LOUD is my preference, and furthermore, when she starts getting loud, I start vocalizing. Not necessarily moaning (though it occurs at times), but dirty talking to my lover.
 agoodfit
Joined: 7/15/2007
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Posted: 8/13/2007 1:09:28 PM
Im one that does not usuallyt like 'talking' when bumping uglies. I want to concentrate on the pleasure not the words. But! there was one person who was noisy when very aroused and it sent me WILD! He would have some sort of animalistic grunt, it turned me on and he got thye benefits from it... boy, I miss him (smiles)

I would not want to TELL anyone to make noise - it should come naturally, just as I would not want to be told to be noisy. If its there, its there...
 jtw1974
Joined: 6/18/2007
Msg: 48
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 1:22:16 PM

Not everyone moans. Just like not everyone likes certain foods.

**me adds 9 1/2 Weeks to the Netflix queue**
 dana_mcmurdy
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 49
WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 2:11:53 PM
A little positive reinforcement is a good thing. then again, that look in the eyes can usually give even more information!
 rudy199
Joined: 8/4/2007
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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me!
Posted: 8/13/2007 4:41:15 PM
I, personally, am a screamer AND a moaner. I tend to moan during, then I scream THEN.

And, yes, it feels better when I scream and moan. 'specially moan.
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