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 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 29
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you've grown up I guess; and realised that sex is silly and overrated.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 30
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 11/4/2007 10:37:46 AM
Wrinkly sex! *shudder*
 JustinSayne
Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 33
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 11/6/2007 3:28:41 PM
I think some people confuse sex drive with simple emotional and intellectual hook ups. I have a s strong a sex drive as ever but I also know just meeting an interesting woman can be as satisfying as the actual sex act itself.

And of course I wouldn't say no to Angelina Jolie or jennifer Aniston. I'm not crazy just a little nutty.
 swingpup
Joined: 10/21/2006
Msg: 34
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Posted: 11/7/2007 1:37:09 PM
Nope.....per your post you're OK. I know that as I approach 50 I find that my urges are for much more refined women. Yes, it's a 3-5 night event but with women that I find that truly do it for me then what I did say 20 years ago. Relax and simply enjoy.

Here it is........Young bull and old bull are standing on the hill, looking around. They see a lot of cows. Young bull says "Let run fast down the hill and then **** couple of cows." Old bull says "Oh, no! We just walk slowly down the hill and then **** them all".
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 44
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:22:05 PM


My mother is 75 and has a more active sex life than I do.. I ask myself "What is wrong with this picture?" lol
Ewwwww wrinkly sex
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 46
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 11/28/2007 7:51:14 AM

Ok so I have been thinking alot lately and I've noticed that I no longer get the strong sexual urges I use to get when I was in my 20's is it just me or does everyone have the same thing happen when they enter into their 30's. Now I know I would still have sex if the offer came about but I dont feel the need to go and actively search for it like I did when I was younger. Tell me there is nothing wrong with me here people.

On the contrary, it's much worse than it was in my 20s. My sex drive could kill me one of these days. I am almost 40, and it doesn't seem to be waning AT ALL. More like building. Yikes.
 where oh where
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 57
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 12/10/2007 2:29:55 PM
interesting thresad,

I am 47 and I think I am just getting started

I have never enjoyed sex this much
or had the opportunity I have now to enjoy sex this much


I did not date much and married young so i wonder if I am
........ making up for not making out more when I was younger ....................

maybe baby, but I am having some good safe fun now
Still looking for that perfect partner.............

ta ra


 USN065
Joined: 11/28/2007
Msg: 62
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 1/24/2008 8:43:05 AM
God I have a stronger drive now then I think I ever had! and sadly it isn't getting and weaker...seems like the older I get the stronger it gets with no one who appreciates it around...

Damn..looks like its more porn and more masturation for me....lol
 kolijah
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 65
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 1/25/2008 10:25:54 AM
You crack me up! I blew cranberry juice out my nose...thanks


 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 66
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Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 1/25/2008 4:31:30 PM
am 53 and still peaking!!!
 rayrae
Joined: 12/30/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 2/7/2008 6:40:24 PM
Outlaw i totally understand what you are talking about, and believe me, there is nothing wrong with you. when guys hit their 30s, there is so much more going on in the mind other than sex. Stuff like SUCCESS SUCCESS SUCCESS, meet the right girl and you will be back in your 20s
 leo\leo
Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 71
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Posted: 2/8/2008 7:49:52 AM
When i was in my 20's i was looking to put my seed out there lol.but now that I'm over 30 it's not about sex any more but i'm looking for love wow it's alote hard to find than sex's
 shanedk
Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 77
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/15/2008 12:24:32 PM
Personally, there's NOTHING wrong with my sex drive...but when you get to this age, I think you get your priorities straight. Yes, there's a deficiency in energy levels etc., but the drive is there, but the will just gets overcome by other things. Romantically, for me it's a lot more about having someone to hold and be with, love and be loved by, and to be there for each other. Sex is great, but it's only a small part of things. I think you get a better appreciation for that as you mature.
 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 78
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 3/15/2008 3:02:59 PM
Thank GAWD it slowwed down some.

On the other hand I know about and enjoy a lot wider range of sexual activity now.
 jugularpot
Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 80
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Posted: 3/22/2008 6:56:47 AM
My sex drive was fairly low in my twenties when I was married - but perhaps now I am in my naughty forties and single it has soared sky high. Probably my taste in younger men helps!
 bandc
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 85
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Posted: 3/29/2008 9:28:26 AM
thers nothing wrong with you that a sexual confidence boost wouldent cure
 bandc
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 86
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Posted: 3/29/2008 9:29:03 AM
thers nothing wrong with you that a sexual confidence boost wouldent cure
 ShadowLands
Joined: 3/25/2008
Msg: 89
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Posted: 3/31/2008 9:37:04 AM

Ok so I have been thinking alot lately and I've noticed that I no longer get the strong sexual urges I use to get when I was in my 20's is it just me or does everyone have the same thing happen when they enter into their 30's. Now I know I would still have sex if the offer came about but I dont feel the need to go and actively search for it like I did when I was younger. Tell me there is nothing wrong with me here people.
You're wierd. Seek help or seek hotties.
 Lucky_Vet
Joined: 3/27/2005
Msg: 93
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 4/4/2008 10:19:08 PM
welcome to old age. My drive dove 35% when I hit 30, and 50% when I hit 35. Different for guys, but one thing's certain: Life is much more enjoyable with the large head doing the thinking!
 footluva
Joined: 4/7/2008
Msg: 96
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 4/26/2008 12:45:29 PM
I guess everyones different,I'm 35 and I have sex with my wife twice a day. I masturbate one to two times a day.I've had a high sex drive for about a decade.I guess I last anywhere between twenty min to an hour lol I'm a beast dude
 GbBengi
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 100
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 5/3/2008 8:50:12 AM
Hello,

My name is Ben and I am insatiable ........(17 voices in background "hi ben") haha

Really though, I probably couldnt get enough if I wanted. Now, Im not talking this friday nite at ten o clock before bed being used for a ten minute impalement, and being good for the week. I am talking about the whole sexual package, not only the act of intercourse itself. PDA, groping, making out like high-schoolers, flirting, mutual masterbation, fondling, tickling, cuddling, just not being able to keep your hands off eachother, heck I dont even mind a little bit of public lovin. I dont need an audience at 40 bucks a pop. But the occasional boat ride ending up on a remote beach with very few people around......

I swear if I lose these desires before 50 it might be a blessing in disguise LOL.
 ABCGIRLZ
Joined: 4/25/2008
Msg: 103
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Posted: 5/3/2008 6:01:02 PM
DANG!!!!!!!!!!

I am in my 30's and I want it all the time
BUT..it seems all the men just want it one time.....when I was younger I did not want it as much
 GbBengi
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 104
Sexual desire over thirty?
Posted: 5/3/2008 9:17:57 PM
LOL im confused, Im sure I didnt say I wasnt knocking one off every twenty minutes, I have to cuz once the dry spell is over I wanna last a few minutes! lol
Maybe yall are talking about someone else, cuz i stated that I am insatiable!
And why is that post being copied and pasted in different forums, lets get some natural flow to the conversation!
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