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 cool_girl_here
Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 26
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We all would way better off if we married johnies and hookers since I don't think they take pride in their scores;everybody here does.
 upforadventure
Joined: 6/27/2007
Msg: 27
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 10/3/2007 8:29:38 PM
I'm not sure what planet some of you come from, but where I'm from girls aren't blabbing about how they can "sleep around like the boys". I'll assume the strangeness comes from the fact that this is the internet where there are no real social consequences.

There was a wedding I recently attended (in 2007, not 1957) there was a cute girl who, when the boys were talking, happened to have her cover blown when we found out that she had slept with numerous guys in the group. Her social status changed from "prize" to "easy target" within minutes, and has stuck.
 Beholder
Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 28
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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 10/4/2007 1:17:06 AM
You know it is ironic how a guy is a lover when he had over 87 women in less then 3 years but if a woman had half that she is considered a slut.

Actually if I'd heard that I'd probably just call the guy a manwhore... wait you were talking about yourself... um, no offense intended...

I have a dream that I will one day live in a nation where we will not be judged by the notches on our bedpost, but by the content of our character!

Yeah... I'm pretty sure that's how that went.
 Blonde_charm
Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 29
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 10/4/2007 4:30:44 AM
IMO.... if you want to lie, the factor to which you divide is up to you. I personally think its a huge waste of time.

And there is a huge difference between lovers, and bangs.

I do think generally speaking women are more selective because regardless of what you look like, there is always some men willing to do anything. (SOME not all)
 BeachLover76
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 30
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 10/4/2007 8:45:12 AM
Women probably don't want to admit to how many men they have slept with thinking that it will taint your opinion of them. I wouldn't say that all women are very selective about who they sleep with, I just think that maybe they think it could go somewhere and it doesn't, therefore the number climbs. No big deal.
 captainbaud
Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 31
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 10/4/2007 10:42:08 AM
My philosophy is the more experience she has, the more she can teach. I don't care how many lovers a partner has had, though I prefer that they've had a decent number. That's what medical testing is for. As long as a person is healthy, it doesn't bother me one bit.
 nvu
Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 32
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 10/4/2007 11:04:27 PM
you dated a lot of women over the years how many? do we do the 3 rule or since were guys if we say 30 it was 10 i had a girl tell me she was with over 50 guys sometimes it,s better not knowing to me 50 might as well be 150 cause you get thinking if theres 10 guy,s you know there wanting more than one incounter i could go 4 or 5 times in a night with some half a bottle vodka.
 SassySky
Joined: 7/28/2007
Msg: 33
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 10/6/2007 11:15:34 AM
This is so stupid.. I have never added or multiplied. I mean why, I also have the don't ask policy as long as they can pass an STD test.. Aren't down on main street, or had all my friends in the last 2 years. I don't care none of my business.

OP not calling you stupid just this theory of people judging other people
 Fuzzymutt
Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 34
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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 10/7/2007 1:58:31 PM
Okay..... so you multiply by three for women........ but you STILL need to divide by one hundred for most men! Therefor, I think the ladies still hold the moral high ground. Besides, all things considered, we are all being driven into a sort of frenzied, sexual competition by society as a whole. The key difference, I think, is we men seem more intimidated sexually, than most women. Truthfully, guys, when was the last time a woman grilled you for hours about who had the best feeling kitty.... her or one of your exes? I think we'd all be better off if we never broached the subject.
 NYCmasterplumber
Joined: 8/17/2006
Msg: 35
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/6/2012 2:14:31 PM
Not a problem when a woman has lots of lovers as practice makes perfect

I joined the navy @17 and had relations with over 87 women in less then 3 years not including several three some 's

As a plumbing contractor I lost count how many women I had some type of sex with I gave up counting after 560

not including BJ's I received or head I gave to several of my female accounts that wanted to save themselves for marriage
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 36
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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/6/2012 3:51:52 PM
I would hope she had as many men as needed,to be a great lover, one or one thousand who cares
as long as she's clean
 marcus_biggs
Joined: 4/2/2011
Msg: 37
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/6/2012 5:33:30 PM
women do this when they are afraid of being rejected and marginalized by goofy guys with the term slut.

when really.. she's sexually advanced.. probably learned a lot of tricks from other guys.. and she likes to **** a lot..

the sad part is she's looking for someone, and filling that vooidddd. with 30 di.cks.

she is copying guys and can't be very happy... because naturally.. women would rather be selective like the poster said.
 greenwoman11
Joined: 1/14/2011
Msg: 38
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/6/2012 5:34:11 PM
It seems to never matter what the number is going to be. Because it will always be too high! Wether in reality it is 1,10 30 , 50 or 100 it will always be to high... So don't ask!!! and hopefully she will not ask you!!
 TheSilentMan85
Joined: 9/1/2010
Msg: 39
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/6/2012 6:10:03 PM
^ Just like what Chris Rock said ;)

I don't want to know if her number is significantly higher than mine, which is 5.

Given the cards I was dealt, I think 5 is pretty decent ;)
 Heyitsmeagain82
Joined: 4/30/2012
Msg: 40
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/6/2012 10:56:48 PM
I think a woman that has had to many 'lovers' in her life is liable to cheat on your or betray you in one way or the other. I don't like it when a girls been with too many guys its a turn off for a serious relationship... i can't take a girl serious if she has spread her legs that many times in her life.. that's a slut to me.
 Mfforal3
Joined: 4/25/2010
Msg: 41
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/7/2012 3:16:19 PM
This reminds me of the joke where the wife admits to her husband she has cheated on him 3 times but only did it to help him:

The first was when he needed to get out of a speeding ticket, and the next day the ticket was void...

The second was when his bank loan was rejected, the next day he got approved....

The third was when he was running for mayor of his city and was 500 votes short..... he became mayor!

Cheers!
 fivefingerspleaser
Joined: 5/4/2012
Msg: 42
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/7/2012 4:21:46 PM
^^ what does that say about Laureen Harper? egads!
 BornVillan
Joined: 3/26/2012
Msg: 43
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/7/2012 4:26:43 PM
Great point !!!
 BLoNde__ANgeL
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 44
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/7/2012 5:57:08 PM
Many years ago I went to PP 4 my Pap & the chatty nurse told me how they recently had a girl in who was not quite 30 who admitted to about 100 lovers...I had to laugh, cuz @ the time I had a slutty 29 yr old friend who also went to PP the week b4...wondered if they were one in the same...
 7thour
Joined: 12/2/2011
Msg: 45
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/7/2012 6:38:06 PM
probably the same rule book of three that says a man expects sex after the third date or he is gone.
 CountryCowgirl9
Joined: 12/19/2011
Msg: 46
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/7/2012 6:47:16 PM
I always say... it's none of your business... actually, guys haven't really asked in a long time.

sounds better than I lost count somewhere around 35 and have slept with a few more since college.
 aylasowner
Joined: 3/23/2012
Msg: 47
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 5/7/2012 9:18:50 PM
If a woman admits to 10 and it's actually 30, who gives a shit? Are we still clinging to the double standard when it comes to sex? Look at it as a sexual resume and just figure that more experience means better work. Dumb asses.
 alphapete
Joined: 8/2/2012
Msg: 48
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 8/28/2012 1:12:17 AM
men alway say more while women always say less. its the way it is
 alphapete
Joined: 8/2/2012
Msg: 49
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 8/28/2012 1:13:16 AM
If she says 10 it is probably 10

if she say its 10 its 16 plus
 Dolphina
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 50
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 8/28/2012 3:20:26 AM
scorpiomover thinks the problem lies in the so-called "fact" that women get emotional about sex and that having sex so many times means getting emotionally damaged through so many encounters. As a woman who has had several sex partners, I can tell him he's wrong. I have not got emotional with every sexual partner. I have had good sex and bad with men I don't even remember, because I haven't cared about them per se. Not every sexual partner warrants emotional involvement. The men I have loved and the men I haven't loved, on the other hand, are few; these, only, are those I've been emotionally involved with. Sometimes sex is just sex, for women as for men.
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