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 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 51
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It is no one's business how many lovers a woman has had and she may well lie because of judgmental male attitudes. So guys, you will never know. Men exaggerate typically and women minimise. However I remember every one I have had sex with and how many can say that? I also knew all their names.
 jarhead7221
Joined: 4/18/2012
Msg: 52
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/1/2012 4:40:05 PM
wats the diffrence if they put out u win no matter wat unless she ends up with a****then ur a loser for not noticeing
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 53
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/1/2012 6:54:56 PM

I think that if you can't remember the number, or can't remembe their names, then it says something about you as a person... and not in a good way...

LMAO,, then I must be a bad person,,, or a very lucky man, who is having senior moments...
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 54
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/2/2012 5:55:51 AM

Adopt the famous policy "Don't ask Don't tell"

I have adopted this very policy and it works! lol
 BrockLee74
Joined: 9/9/2011
Msg: 55
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/2/2012 8:40:54 AM
One night stands tend to make coming up with a total somewhat hard. Especially if there was a string of them over a short period of time.
 LOADED HOSE
Joined: 4/19/2010
Msg: 56
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/2/2012 3:21:08 PM
"If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30"


who cares?
 BrockLee74
Joined: 9/9/2011
Msg: 57
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/3/2012 11:39:05 AM

Why is that? It's just counting


Only if you are keeping track. I never cared. So I never kept track. I couldn't even remember names of some of I wanted to.
 DarthPhoenix
Joined: 9/5/2010
Msg: 58
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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/3/2012 10:51:40 PM
Hmmmmmmm! Depends on the woman as one factor and what stage of life she's in. I've noticed that college years are the wildest years for a female where they are pretty much open to any and everything. Its at this point of freedom that they will experiement and test many waters so its safe to say that they rack up the most mileage doing their college tour but there are other factors to consider like molestation and family structure plus environment.
 Justcallmeleez
Joined: 8/16/2012
Msg: 59
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/3/2012 10:58:49 PM
Thank you. What does it matter who or whom we have done? Men want women who know what they are doing don't they? How else do you learn? There are reasons for ones actions....
 Justcallmeleez
Joined: 8/16/2012
Msg: 60
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/3/2012 11:00:29 PM
Try the death of your significant other... people do stuff for a reason.
 MDIYM59
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 61
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/4/2012 4:20:51 PM
The other thing people haven't mentioned is, if a person truly has had many lovers, what are the chances that they would be happy with just one person for the rest of their life? 20 or 30 lovers is one thing but if they have been with triple digit lovers or more, I doubt that they could remain faithful to just one person. I'm sure some would disagree but I for one don't want to be with someone that promiscuous, STD's aside.
 MDIYM59
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 62
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/4/2012 8:50:40 PM

A person who tests clean after having 1000 diferent partners has the same chance of contracting an std from the next encounter ans anyone else does on their next encounter, even a virgin. The promiscuity argument due to stds is really lame.


Agreed that's why I said STD's aside.
 next2me
Joined: 9/3/2008
Msg: 63
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/5/2012 9:55:14 AM
I don't think it's even right to ask anyone about their past lovers. Plain & simple...it's their business not yours!!
 Happy Dude 63
Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 64
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/5/2012 11:03:50 AM
I have read some good replies to this, on the first page. Dont have time to read them all.

I would say, I really dont care and would not even think to ask. I guess if a woman began to tell me she has slept with
"tons' of guys I would wonder as to what her possible long term attachment capabilities to me would be. BUT,,,,
I dont think I would think bad of her in anyway. I would certainly not be insecure as to how I "measured" UP on any level or criteria. All puns implied are completely on purpose... :)
I think this is a high school topic.....
 Serephena
Joined: 9/2/2012
Msg: 65
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/5/2012 2:36:29 PM
Who cares ? Who cares how many men a women has been with? How many women have the GUY been with? It's a new day and age and women can do the same things as men have always done.
 MeanMocha
Joined: 5/2/2012
Msg: 66
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 9/5/2012 7:03:06 PM
Completely agree! Who cares how many men a woman sleeps with before you met her... unless you're very old fashioned.
 DeepLover209
Joined: 6/22/2015
Msg: 67
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 4/13/2016 12:30:00 PM
they say 10 premarital lovers is ideal by scientific standards but really i think it depends on the type of woman one is looking for
 bamagrl68
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 68
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 4/13/2016 9:34:27 PM
fsu1965- One lover or 30, Why does it matter so much to some people?
All I care is that I'm their last lover and that's really all I have to say on the matter.
I'm sick of the subject, especially slut shaming women while patting men on the back for doing the very same thing, that's lame.
 ginghamgal
Joined: 2/13/2016
Msg: 69
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 4/14/2016 6:32:08 AM
I don't pay attention to any of these so called "stats".
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 70
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 4/14/2016 6:46:50 AM

I'm sick of the subject, especially slut shaming women while patting men on the back for doing the very same thing, that's lame.


It works both ways though. If a man has a high number of sex partners, some women will assume that he is a "player" that is just using women for sex.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 71
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 4/15/2016 8:04:04 AM
I never even ask - what for ?

By my age, if I date a woman who is around the same age and became active in high school .... well, I probably wouldn't want to know what the number is by now anyway.

I go by how a woman carries herself NOW. Even if she went thru some phase earlier in life, it's irrelevant if she is now in a different phase of her life where our priorities now match.
 Chromis1
Joined: 9/9/2015
Msg: 72
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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 4/15/2016 9:26:53 AM
It wasn't until my current girlfriend that I needed a second hand to keep count. So, no, I don't have much to talk about in the golf locker room.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
Msg: 73
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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 4/15/2016 4:00:01 PM
If I have had 10 lovers and say so, that is about the right number. Not that it is anyone else's business but where does this stupid theory come from? Men may say they have had 30 lovers but you can bet they are exaggerating by the same token lol!! Please take all that you read on this board with a grain of salt.
 bamagrl68
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 74
If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 4/15/2016 9:48:20 PM
Butterchickenchuck- EXACTLY what I was trying to say, only better. Bravo! :)
 HealthySkeptic
Joined: 8/3/2010
Msg: 75
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If a woman admits to 10 lovers, she's probably had 30
Posted: 4/15/2016 10:57:24 PM

Chromis:
It wasn't until my current girlfriend that I needed a second hand to keep count.


Haha, Chromis. If I count back 30 some years, and do manage to find a new girlfriend someday, I will finally need my thumb on my first hand!

Prior to that 30 some years, I wasn't counting, and can't remember. Besides, I would first have to define what "sex" is. And maybe even have to define what "is" is.
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