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 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 702
Sex with minorsPage 8 of 35    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35)

Any man that states he has slept with anyone under the age of 20 past his 25th birthday is off my list.
You're probably too old for him anyway.
 ADRAIN
Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 703
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/7/2008 1:34:08 AM
LOVE

This is going to seem funnie because although i am 21 and i know it is rong because she is so young being 16 and all i told her how i feel and i told her that i would never touch her till she's 19 and i told her that if were really serious that when she becomes of age i will be here for her and i told her i had no problem waiting for her for three years because what my morals tell me is that 15 and 21 looks bad to soca couiety and when you tell some one that it's like 19 and 24 don't seem to bad and people can except but now what makes me mad is people will now take that girl who waited three years to be with her boy friend ( she save's her self for 3 years for him keep in mind) and now get's labled as a slut thats not right if you really love some one you don't rob them of there virginity when there so young instead if you love them you just be there for them as support and comfort and some one to talk to and thats it if you still feel the same in three years that minor that you were oh so crazy about just became a wife because you never violated her and HAD RESPECT for her when she was younger !!!!!

i do belive in love and at that age you crazy if you think they know what that word means and yes there are sick fuc*ers out there that get off from takeing avantage of minors and all i have to say is they deserve to be SHOT ****ED AND PISSED ON !!! so all in all if she means that much wait the couple years you'll thank ur self and she will have a greater RESPECT for you !!

sincerly yours: Adrian Hamilton
 ADRAIN
Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 704
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/7/2008 1:47:30 AM
alright one of my ex's was 16 and cheated on me with a 30 year old so try that out for nasty. This is going to happen no matter what we say or do this is the age of tomaro people except it society is FU*KED up i think that as soon as your mature enought to understand the risk of gettin preganut your good and if you fail to protect your self you had better start looking to god for help because you'll get no sympathe from your peers espically because of the age gap and now i belive in that case that guy better learn how to become a man because now he has TWO kids to take care of lol
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 705
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/7/2008 2:01:21 AM
My GOD! Your spelling is terrible for a book merchant. Anyway, is it wrong because society deems it wrong? Or is it wrong because you feel it is wrong? If you truly love someone, would something as unimportant as age and society tell you otherwise?

If you let society dictate the matters of your heart, how true is your love then?
 Blonde_charm
Joined: 9/18/2007
Msg: 707
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/7/2008 3:53:08 AM
that sam I am....

I AM too old for anyone that age but they still contact me. I should up my age requirements... but can't be bothered.

Too bad there isn't a maturity filter.
 Notinit4
Joined: 1/18/2008
Msg: 710
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/7/2008 2:38:56 PM
Taal~ In Canada, where I have lived y whole life, the age of consent is 14 yes but the other party must be under 18 or it is statotory rape. A couple of consenting 14 year olds can have sex but a consenting 14 year old cannot have sex with a 19 year old legally wether it was consentual or not.
 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 719
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Sex with minors
Posted: 2/8/2008 9:02:08 AM
Notinit4... your information is incorrect, the only "close in age" is for 12 and 13 year olds:
you said...

Taal~ In Canada, where I have lived y whole life, the age of consent is 14 yes but the other party must be under 18 or it is statotory rape. A couple of consenting 14 year olds can have sex but a consenting 14 year old cannot have sex with a 19 year old legally wether it was consentual or not.


From the government of canada, justice department...

What is Canada’s age of consent?

The age of consent is 18 years where the sexual activity involves exploitative activity, such as prostitution, pornography or where there is a relationship of trust, authority or dependency. For other sexual activity, the age of consent is 14 years.

Are there exceptions to this?

The Criminal Code provides what is often referred to as a “close in age” or “peer group” exception: a 12 or 13 year old can consent to engage in sexual activity with another person who is less than two years older and with whom there is no relationship of trust, authority or dependency.

Fourteen-year olds are too young to appreciate the consequences of engaging in any sexual activity, even with another person who is close in age. Why won’t the government raise the age to 16 years for non-exploitative activity?

Although there are many views on what is an appropriate age to begin to engage in sexual activity, the fact is that young persons do engage in sexual activity. The Canadian Youth, Sexual Health and HIV/AIDS Study 2003 report by the Canadian Council of Ministers of Education reported that, for youth who reported being sexually active , the average age of first sexual intercourse was 14.1 years for boys and 14.5 years for girls. Educating youth to make informed choices that are right for them is better addressed through parental guidance and sexual health education than by using the Criminal Code to criminalize youth for engaging in such activity.

Has the age of consent always been 14 years?

Although some mistakenly believe that the age of consent was lowered in the 1980s, the age of consent to sexual activity has been 14 years since 1890 when it was raised from 12 years.

http://www.justice.gc.ca/en/dept/clp/faq.html
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 720
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Sex with minors
Posted: 2/8/2008 9:25:53 AM

Children under 20 should not have sex with adults. My opinion. Yeah yeah, I know legal consent is what... 18??



SAD...here it's 14

Kids should be kids as long as they can!
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 721
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/8/2008 11:10:08 AM

If a girl of 16 is being pursued by a man of 25 im going to think there is something wrong with him to be honest, what does he want? someone more pliable?.

What if the girl was 14 and dated a 34 year old. After the breakup she was single for a bit and then dated a 27 year old when she was 16. They lasted 3 years and then when she was 19, she started dating a 35 year old. This isn't hypothetical. This is a real person.

In fact, her mother encourages it because she feels that at least an older guy would have his life sorted out and would be able to provide for her.

Why do we really care so much about how other people choose to lives their lives? Is it because of your dissatisfaction with your own life that you choose to try to meddle around with concern yourself with the lives of people you will never meet?
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 726
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/8/2008 3:16:28 PM
Sex really seems to be a case of "do as i say, not as i do."
Why are you all treating sex like such a bad thing?
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 728
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/8/2008 10:34:43 PM


and you say the mother encouraged this? where do you live? Pedo City?

Well, her mother didn't know about the 34 year old when she was 14. But she actually encouraged her with the 27 year old. Technically, Pedophiles go for pre-adolescents. 14 is quite a bit older.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 731
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/9/2008 10:05:47 AM
So Kynnie, if it is a mental illness, shouldn't we be concerned with helping and curing them instead of giving them a hard time. This is an illness, by your definition, kinda like schizophrenia or diabetes. Those who suggested violence - shame on you. Isn't that like beating up the homeless dude on the street?

Frankly, I don't see why so much ink (or the electronic equivalent) has been wasted meddling in the lives of other people. Sure if it is our kids, you have that choice. But if two people you don't know choose to date each other, what business is it of yours?
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 741
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/10/2008 9:30:51 PM

Same with men who are 28,29+ who put 18-23 year olds as their min age for a woman that can contact them!

That's silly putting a filter on who can contact them. It's not like us men have our mailboxes overflowing in the first place.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 770
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/18/2008 6:35:58 PM
I think we should be fair all around and declare that nobody is allowed to have sex under any circumstance *LOL*
 jf468
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 772
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/19/2008 8:09:02 AM
I think pretty much every guy fantasizes about some attractive female teacher or other older woman in his teens.


A lot of my male friends in high school certainly had a crush on some much older women. A teacher, a neighbor, or in some cases a friend's mom!!.
 GREAT EXPERT 900
Joined: 2/14/2008
Msg: 776
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/19/2008 1:38:02 PM
i bet the pedophiles are licking their chops right now. this is a dangerous thread. very touchy subject. the young girls nowadays look older and dressing sexier than ever, but i'm n0t into teenagers. i like women with a mature mind with substance. teenagers can't hold a mature conversation. i get bored very easily, a woman has to have good mature conversation.
 lonesome wonderer
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 787
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Sex with minors
Posted: 2/20/2008 7:37:13 PM
my older son (20) was talking to me on the phone tonite. he and his girlfriend (19) of 4 years broke up about a month ago. he told me about this girl that he knows (19) has the hots for him and has been trying to grab his attention since he was with his girlfriend. she also has a friend that's (17) that's also very interested in my son and my son is interested in her. he asked me a question with regards to the age and statutory rape and what the age is? i told him that as long as if and when you do have sex that it's consensual. i told him that even though she is 17 she's still not a child and knows how to speak up accordingly. i told him that the age is anyone under the age of 18 even though teenagers are all experimenting things. i told him that it's best not to just have sex especially unprotected and to wait until the time is right and he's with that special person. i told him that i know that he's not going to listen to me and do what he wants to do (he doesn't live with me) but i want him to do what's right. i told him that it's not cool to just have sex because he has the itch to get laid, that's what the palm is for. if my son was more than 4 years older than her then i would tell him to back off because of the age difference with the statutory laws here in pa. ie. if the boy is 16 and the girl is 12-15 then that would be considered as statutory rape, since kids these days are experimenting sex in their teens they have a set age for 18.
 tonymire
Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 792
Sex with minors
Posted: 2/21/2008 10:05:22 AM
Unacceptable, especially in this country.
 Bunnni
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 800
Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 4/10/2008 10:38:21 PM
I'm sorry Nick, but that's completely ridiculous. Not only is it just a double standard which in my eyes is VERY wrong, but it's also just plain SEXIST. It's like you're trying to say that females are a lesser sex; less capable of making rational decisions concering their relationships with others and/or more likely to get carried away and hurt or something, when really that's not the case at all, it's simply the gender role that women have been placed into. I'm sorry, but it makes me very angry to hear someone of your age say something so ignorant. Go back to college, take a human sexuality course, then tell me if your opinion on the subject matter is the same.
 danieljarvis
Joined: 12/25/2007
Msg: 806
Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 4/18/2008 8:50:50 PM
i was eighteen when i had a 14 year old girl friend and she looked like she was around 21,her mother was fine with it and actually congratulated us on it ,she was the love of my life and my mother made us break up,it has been eight years now and i havnt met anyone and probably never will,i am too embarrassed about my parents to be confident anymore and my ex moved on straight away so its not like i even had the power to send her the message,life is sweeping me under the carpet and now i cant wait to get old and die,its just the fact that she found someone else within weeks and i didnt even mean enough to her for her to come and get her clothes and sort things out,i hope that she forgets me like everyone else has,so to answer your question stop your minors from having older partners, even if it is saving the older partner
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 809
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Posted: 10/20/2008 7:21:33 PM
Dude, you went back 6 months to dig this thread up................why?

This is wrong on so many levels that I'm not even going to try to defend it. You can bring a lot of love, and joy WITHOUT sex; and don't even think about trying to use the word "purity." If you touch a 12-13 year old in my family; I'm making CNN for blowing your happy a$$ away.

I can hear the Judge now:
Judge: windloverr, you shot him.
Me: Yes sir.
Judge: 37 times!!!!!!
Me: Yes sir.
Judge: Why?!
Me: I ran out of bullets.
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 813
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Sex with minors
Posted: 12/2/2008 11:00:48 AM
Sex with miners? Now, if it was the right female one, I would have no trouble mining "gold" and hitting the big one!!


HAHAHAHA!!!
 SAIUN
Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 814
Sex with minors
Posted: 12/3/2008 1:05:12 AM

I have been in law enforcement and am going back into the field as we speak and I agree. My only reason would be I ran out of bullets as well. Sick bast@#$%.

That's not exactly reassuring. Aren't you meant to just arrest people for committing crimes? It's the role of the judicial system to hand out the punishments.

I still find the "an eye for an eye" attitude of a lot of people on here surprising. One reprehensible crime justifies another, does it?
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 823
Sex with minors I think this is unacceptable
Posted: 12/4/2008 9:46:03 AM

That being said, teenagers are essentially "brain damaged" until the age of 22...when they can actually make ADULT decisions.


ther eis an actual EXACT age at which "all" people become 'mature'?

like at 21 years & 364 days oldm they ar enot mature, but the next day they are?
hmmm..

funny, because I know 40, 45, and 57 year olds that still cannot make 'adult' decisions..

and some 18-19 year olds that are way more 'mature' than some 40-+ year olds..
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