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 Sparky4point0
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 73
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Sex is better after 30 and before 40. have to get all we can before the downhill slide begins....
 ~LoriMac~
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 76
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/30/2006 12:00:24 PM
No question its better... I think because at this age we can ask for what ewe want...have the experience to really pleasure someone else....are more comfortable with out selves and out sexuality as well as our bodies. I have to say too that i am far more creative and have learned that toys, lingerie and a bit of roleplaying can be sooo fun!
 Sweet Euphoria
Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 77
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/30/2006 3:47:11 PM
Definitely after 30. All inhabitions are gone and you live in the moment. I'm not laying there hoping I orgasm...it just happens, several times.
 wowmom
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 79
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/9/2006 5:23:27 PM
Better, definitly. It is my experience, my knowing my likes & dislikes , my grown up self assurance and desire for health and fitness that make sex better. Live a little, enjoy. Live MORE and you can enjoy more!
 rory27
Joined: 2/14/2005
Msg: 80
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/9/2006 9:14:31 PM
Sex is WAY worse after fifty, that's for sure. I haven't had it since I hit the half-century mark.

'Course, that was only two weeks ago.
 buck711
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 81
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/10/2006 9:23:31 PM
Good question.......but what was sex again?

Buck
 ontario_woman
Joined: 4/3/2005
Msg: 82
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:18:57 AM
After 30, definately!!!









Although, after reading Vodkanice's post, I'm beginning to look forward to 40...
 sparticuss
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 83
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/24/2006 8:26:02 AM
My opinion and experience is that the age has nothing to do with it.

In my opinion the most important thing is how comfortable the girl is with sex and the second thing is how much she's enjoying it. they are similar but not the same.

The third thing is the situation and the circumstances. eg if she's having an affair and her husband packs a shot gun. etc.

Age is a long way back
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 84
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/24/2006 1:15:05 PM
Way better AFTER 30, and I expect it to be even better at 40, 50, 60 AND 70! lol
 WakeDan
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 95
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 8/25/2006 1:04:56 AM
For sure after.

I found in my 30s I have a lot more control. Instead of putting everything in the first round, so to speak, for some reason there is enough left over for 2nd 3rd and sometimes 4th if the planets are aligned.

Its nice to say 'wow that was great....wanna go again?' and she says 'hell yeah' lol.

And for guys, let me tell you, having sex with women over 30 is amazing. I have dated some women in their early twenties recently AND women in their 30s, and the difference is night and day. The 20 year olds may have slightly better bodies (but not always, last gf was 38 and smoked the younger girls in body dept.) but they are shy about them. Worried what you think, lack experience.

The gals in their 30s have lost all their hangups about oral sex so believe me, the BJs are out of this world. And they have no problem trying out new things.

If you guys in your 20s think you are having a good time now, you haven't seen anything yet.
 69cobra
Joined: 7/28/2006
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 8/25/2006 7:05:55 AM
Yes....It's like good wine & whiskey.....It gets better and better with age.
 KatzzMeow
Joined: 12/3/2005
Msg: 101
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 8/29/2006 12:01:36 PM
After all the way!!

It just keeps getting better and better.
 akula
Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 103
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/1/2006 8:24:54 PM
as soon as i have sex again ill tell you.
 purewaxin
Joined: 10/19/2005
Msg: 111
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/4/2006 5:27:04 PM
Why better over 30! Don’t worry brother, it only gets better from here. Now you can leave the lights on….! LOL
 SweetCheeksSD
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 112
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/4/2006 6:43:17 PM
Well...I for one got more sexual after turning thirty. BUT that doesn't necessarily make the sex better. I mean, it all depends on the partner you have. You could have the worst sex ever if the partner isn't into exploring as you may be.

Then again...that's why there all sorts of toys and such thing as self pleasure.
 cndnldy
Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 115
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/5/2006 12:56:02 AM
Sex is much better after 30....absolutely!
 ManeRider
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 117
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/5/2006 8:25:28 PM
Absolutely better after 30.
It's like, it just got easier. I used to get all nervous about sex.
Then, I slowly let go of a lot of the stigma I had attached to it.
 PlaynWithDummies
Joined: 9/18/2006
Msg: 118
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:17:22 PM
I am having the best sex of my life. I wouldnt want to be any younger right now. If I were younger, I wouldnt have the knowledge about sex that I do, hense why I can do marathon sex for a 4 hour stint.
 yawannano
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 119
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Posted: 10/7/2006 8:05:10 AM
I wouldn't want to go back to being in my 30's now, I love my 40's and sex has been so much better!
 Whitetigeress
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 125
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/13/2006 9:56:16 AM
if only i could have the knowledge i have now and the body i had at 20.
 Chiwrtr72
Joined: 6/15/2006
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 12/29/2006 9:07:40 AM
Can the answer be yes to both?
 JustCallMeMike
Joined: 5/29/2006
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 1/1/2007 5:28:03 PM
I agree about it is not about age, but more about the following:

1. Being comfortable around the partner(s).
2. A willingness to give, take, and communicate.
3. And yes some experience.

I have known some pretty awesome 20+ year olds that could rock my socks and some that couldn't. And I have known some people in their 30's and 40's who could do the same. It is about the individual and there knowledge and willingness to please.
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