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Joined: 9/5/2005
Msg: 161
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Better after 30! Hell yeah!
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 164
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 2/6/2007 2:10:10 PM
Definetly better! I think as you get older, you not as shy and worried about asking for what you want and discussing things to make it all more fun!
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 169
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 2/7/2007 8:57:51 PM
Definitely better after 30!!!!! Here's hoping after 40 is even more spectacular!!!
Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 188
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 2/26/2007 7:32:01 PM
Sex is way better as we get older.
Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 189
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 2/27/2007 9:07:21 PM
Yes I agree as well I like the fact that women say hey do it this way I like this that pleases me to the max but believe me it's rare they say anything at all. I heard most of that in my earily 30's but how many time's does one need to be told before they catch on. Now it's all about flow if the person you are with is flowing along with ya there is nothing better nothing needed to be said it's just animel lust in it's raw form no holds bar the squirt and all ends with contentment to the max a star is born good night.
Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 191
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 3/5/2007 7:54:54 PM
I have to say, as a woman...MUCH Better. Less self concious and just enjoy now than in my 20s. Although, at almost 31, not sure if that is enough comparison.

And it could be that my partners in my 20s just werent as good. hahahah
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 201
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Posted: 3/14/2007 9:17:57 AM
Sex gets better as you age, just as long as you and your partner get better too.....

The "act" of sex is left for the young ones to experiment with and learn, but it is "making love" that we mature ones truly enjoy.

No one that I know that is "good" at making love will be thinking the "act" and not the person. It is a "head to toe" stimulation, completing each others needs, wants, and desires. When finished, both should be satisfied, exhausted, and wanting to just lay there and relax with each other enjoying the time spent together.

Just my opinion......
Joined: 1/14/2007
Msg: 202
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 3/30/2007 5:08:43 PM
I agree with most of the women...Sex after 30 or 40 or even 50 is a whole lot better then when i was younger. Many years ago it was just to have sex, but know it is a whole new ball game. The foreplay and every thing else, it a 2-3 hour game and love every minute of it
Joined: 10/11/2005
Msg: 203
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Posted: 3/31/2007 9:50:44 PM
Technically and experience wise it will get better provided they have been doing it. Remember there are still some virgins above 30 so it's no different for them. I think it also depends on who you are with. Some people in LTR's it may not be as good if they are bored with each other. Can get to a wham...bam...let's go to sleep now. For others they will try to spice it up and try things they wouldn't have considered doing when they were younger. For singles having it I think it will certainly be better because the experience comes in. Having said that you may have someone that has only had 1 partner and never experienced much and they will not be very good compared to someone that has done more with more partners or even the same one.
So what I am saying is that as a general rule yes, however there are exceptions.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 209
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/10/2007 10:28:30 AM
Before 30...back when I was too dumb to know better and stuff *LOL* Ignorance is bliss
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 213
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Posted: 4/11/2007 9:20:06 PM
I'm telling you, since I was a wee lad through my teens, through my twenties and now over half my thirties it has always been the sex is always better with a lady that makes your heart pound so hard you crack ribs, then only to realise the blood of your heart subsides as you become erect through a deep kiss and clothes hit the floor.

Really it is way better than having sex alone.

David Jeffrey Spetch
ps. Be good, be strong!
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 217
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Posted: 4/13/2007 9:25:19 AM
SEX............................what is sex? I've heard it talked about.
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 218
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/13/2007 4:47:24 PM
Stlii trying to remember what sex was again..... did it have anything to do with whipped cream and a feather?
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 222
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Posted: 4/15/2007 12:28:45 AM
Better...but then it also partly depends on your partner!
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 224
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Posted: 4/15/2007 8:42:13 AM
I'm 35 and it has only gotten better, but it also depends on who your with.
Joined: 5/20/2006
Msg: 226
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Posted: 4/16/2007 9:28:21 PM
Well, once you hit 30, it's better to have it after 30 than before.
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 229
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Posted: 4/17/2007 10:13:08 PM
Sex is wonderful in your 50's, (I've had the best sexual experiences of my life in this decade) but that can vary by degrees with your partner. I never did care much for casual sex. I still am naive enough to think you can find true love and the best sex is an extension of the way you feel about someone--if it's just physical, it doesn't satisfy in a very meaningful way. But I guess I'm old-fashioned. And I'm sure the majority of men would differ in that regard also.
Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 233
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Posted: 4/20/2007 9:02:42 PM
After 30 for sure
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 237
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/22/2007 10:57:27 AM
practice makes perfect
always learning...
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 240
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/26/2007 7:49:34 AM
Yes.. it got better. But what came before it certainly didn't suck.

Sometimes, the trial and error and fumbling around to get to where you wanna be can be fun.

Main difference is having more of a clue as you get older.

As for the peak question.. I'd kinda like to know when it's over.. I'm gettin kind of tired. Heh.
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 264
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/31/2007 4:56:22 PM
I read this somewhere and I can't begin to tell you where, but I will tell you anyway.

The reason that sex gets better for women as they age is because the lining of the vaginal walls becomes thinner, allowing more and more feeling to penetrate. Along with the fact that she knows herself infinitely better than when she was young, allows for a much increased sensation.

As everyone know, women are muti-taskers. They can acually think about two things at the same time. When they are younger, it is harder for them to learn to focus on what was at hand. However, as women age, they also learn that they can offer undivided attention to something. Men also become more expierienced by leading up to sex by using several different types of foreplay. That gets her mind started on it long before they even get to the bedroom.

Examples include a text message of what he plans on doing to her tonight. A post-it note left in the car about that. Something left in the lunchbox, etc. etc.

I have actually started foreplay 24 hours in advance. With that, the intensity is incredible once it gets to the bedroom!

Needless to say, after 30 is so much better. Heck, the more you learn, the better it gets.
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