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 weewillywinkee
Joined: 12/1/2006
Msg: 192
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I couldn't agree with you more....
 Always Active
Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 195
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 3/9/2007 2:34:07 PM
listen up the sex gets better and better from 30 onward...trust me.....
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 201
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Posted: 3/14/2007 9:17:57 AM
Sex gets better as you age, just as long as you and your partner get better too.....

The "act" of sex is left for the young ones to experiment with and learn, but it is "making love" that we mature ones truly enjoy.

No one that I know that is "good" at making love will be thinking the "act" and not the person. It is a "head to toe" stimulation, completing each others needs, wants, and desires. When finished, both should be satisfied, exhausted, and wanting to just lay there and relax with each other enjoying the time spent together.

Just my opinion......
 twodugs
Joined: 1/14/2007
Msg: 202
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 3/30/2007 5:08:43 PM
I agree with most of the women...Sex after 30 or 40 or even 50 is a whole lot better then when i was younger. Many years ago it was just to have sex, but know it is a whole new ball game. The foreplay and every thing else, it a 2-3 hour game and love every minute of it
2dugs
 Aussie_Striker
Joined: 10/11/2005
Msg: 203
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Posted: 3/31/2007 9:50:44 PM
Technically and experience wise it will get better provided they have been doing it. Remember there are still some virgins above 30 so it's no different for them. I think it also depends on who you are with. Some people in LTR's it may not be as good if they are bored with each other. Can get to a wham...bam...let's go to sleep now. For others they will try to spice it up and try things they wouldn't have considered doing when they were younger. For singles having it I think it will certainly be better because the experience comes in. Having said that you may have someone that has only had 1 partner and never experienced much and they will not be very good compared to someone that has done more with more partners or even the same one.
So what I am saying is that as a general rule yes, however there are exceptions.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 209
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/10/2007 10:28:30 AM
Before 30...back when I was too dumb to know better and stuff *LOL* Ignorance is bliss
 gracey8
Joined: 3/9/2007
Msg: 211
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/10/2007 11:49:02 AM
Well, that about summed it up!!!! Totally agree
 Deepest_Passion
Joined: 4/7/2007
Msg: 213
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/11/2007 9:20:06 PM
I'm telling you, since I was a wee lad through my teens, through my twenties and now over half my thirties it has always been the sex is always better with a lady that makes your heart pound so hard you crack ribs, then only to realise the blood of your heart subsides as you become erect through a deep kiss and clothes hit the floor.

Really it is way better than having sex alone.

David Jeffrey Spetch
ps. Be good, be strong!
 lifesshort03
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 217
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Posted: 4/13/2007 9:25:19 AM
SEX............................what is sex? I've heard it talked about.
 buck711
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 218
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Posted: 4/13/2007 4:47:24 PM
Stlii trying to remember what sex was again..... did it have anything to do with whipped cream and a feather?
 __Tumbleweed__
Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 219
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/13/2007 11:47:26 PM
i am NOT joking....once i hit 30 it was "good". Now at 35 it is "amazing"
 orchidtigress
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 222
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/15/2007 12:28:45 AM
Better...but then it also partly depends on your partner!
 Donrisko
Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 223
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/15/2007 12:43:43 AM
I definitely have to say better I'm only 25 and have had some good times ,but let me tell you it also depends on your health, if you work out ,exercise ,the performance is much better, i've found that out 'cause there has been tmed when I just lagg-off and stop working out. I notice the difference, but age and stamine are definitely , more the BETTER.
 ImDene
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 224
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Posted: 4/15/2007 8:42:13 AM
I'm 35 and it has only gotten better, but it also depends on who your with.
 darkonc
Joined: 5/20/2006
Msg: 226
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Posted: 4/16/2007 9:28:21 PM
Well, once you hit 30, it's better to have it after 30 than before.
 scarletwren
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 229
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Posted: 4/17/2007 10:13:08 PM
Sex is wonderful in your 50's, (I've had the best sexual experiences of my life in this decade) but that can vary by degrees with your partner. I never did care much for casual sex. I still am naive enough to think you can find true love and the best sex is an extension of the way you feel about someone--if it's just physical, it doesn't satisfy in a very meaningful way. But I guess I'm old-fashioned. And I'm sure the majority of men would differ in that regard also.
 Affliiction
Joined: 9/15/2006
Msg: 233
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/20/2007 9:02:42 PM
After 30 for sure
 juhuj77
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 236
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/21/2007 12:13:13 PM
I would have to say YES.
 mochahoney
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 237
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Posted: 4/22/2007 10:57:27 AM
yes
practice makes perfect
always learning...
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 240
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 4/26/2007 7:49:34 AM
Yes.. it got better. But what came before it certainly didn't suck.

Sometimes, the trial and error and fumbling around to get to where you wanna be can be fun.

Main difference is having more of a clue as you get older.

As for the peak question.. I'd kinda like to know when it's over.. I'm gettin kind of tired. Heh.
 sunsetstormx
Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 249
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/1/2007 3:57:49 PM
Definately better!! There's major body chemistry changes, mmmmm. I hear from men that younger women have lower sex drives, but I'm sure there's exceptions all over too.
 here4thecraic
Joined: 8/3/2005
Msg: 257
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/25/2007 12:48:00 PM
I would say better just on the fact that as I have gotten older, I've made wiser choices in partners. That alone has improved the quality substantially.
 1stiamdaddy
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 264
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 5/31/2007 4:56:22 PM
I read this somewhere and I can't begin to tell you where, but I will tell you anyway.

The reason that sex gets better for women as they age is because the lining of the vaginal walls becomes thinner, allowing more and more feeling to penetrate. Along with the fact that she knows herself infinitely better than when she was young, allows for a much increased sensation.

As everyone know, women are muti-taskers. They can acually think about two things at the same time. When they are younger, it is harder for them to learn to focus on what was at hand. However, as women age, they also learn that they can offer undivided attention to something. Men also become more expierienced by leading up to sex by using several different types of foreplay. That gets her mind started on it long before they even get to the bedroom.

Examples include a text message of what he plans on doing to her tonight. A post-it note left in the car about that. Something left in the lunchbox, etc. etc.

I have actually started foreplay 24 hours in advance. With that, the intensity is incredible once it gets to the bedroom!

Needless to say, after 30 is so much better. Heck, the more you learn, the better it gets.
 Sweet_but_in-charge
Joined: 7/22/2007
Msg: 266
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 7/27/2007 3:14:19 AM
After - without a doubt. I didn't feel as hung-up on myself, or my faults. I'm comfortable in my skin, and enjoy myself.
 2 girls short of a 3some
Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 267
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 7/27/2007 4:58:10 AM
hmmmmm

I am going against the grain here and will say

it really doesn't factor in much at all any more for myself personally -- must be the quality of women around my parts - obesity just doesnt do it for me.

have only met 1 woman in 3.5 years who I was attracted to physically.

So honestly its no big deal any more
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