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 nikkisenko
Joined: 9/5/2011
Msg: 435
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Waaaaaay better after 30! I didn't even realize what I was missing in my 20s.
 kelseek
Joined: 4/27/2012
Msg: 436
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 6/3/2012 5:43:52 AM
I so agree....I finding that now in my late thirties my body is so responsive. I guess it's a fair trade.....no more babies for mind boggling sex
 Acehonestlady
Joined: 4/16/2012
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Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 6/3/2012 7:46:02 AM
Personally for me there was no difference before 30 or during my 3os (mind you for the last 3 or so years on my 30s I had no sex). Though in my 40s I am more responsive and sex is far, better.
 iMacgirl
Joined: 3/12/2012
Msg: 438
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:24:34 AM
Much much better after 30 ;-)
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 439
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 6/9/2012 3:25:27 AM
All things being equal, women have better sex after 30, men before 30.

By all things equal, I mean if you are a man and have a long term SO with a dirty mind, sex can't be beat at 25. But so many men at that age only know hit and run. And a women age 35 needs a great partner to really bring out great sex.

We all have a great sex life when we meet the right person regardless of age.
 rdsxn8
Joined: 7/26/2010
Msg: 440
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 6/9/2012 9:50:40 AM
Sex is not improtant really. I have had better sex after 30 but I guess that is cause I have the experance now then when I was younger....I am 35 an have found that sex is not all its cracked up to be. Great it's fun but there are more things to life then sex.
 dove95
Joined: 5/31/2009
Msg: 441
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 6/9/2012 12:32:54 PM
Considering I only started when I was 22, I'd say yeah. And after I turned 32--holy h.e.l.l., I was horny ALL the time. It's slowed down a bit over the past years, but I still have urges lol.
 rocktman1973
Joined: 8/19/2012
Msg: 442
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 9/8/2012 5:07:41 PM
When I was younger, sex didn't last long. A few good pumps and that was it. As soon as I got in my thirties, I learned to control myself and enjoyed it more. I could make sex last longer, try different positions and actually took the time to care. Now that' I'm almost 40 and out of shape, sex is harder. Mind you, it does last longer, but I tend to wear out before I'm finished. But having said that, the woman enjoys it more cause it does last longer and I try to pleasure her before myself.
 Serephena
Joined: 9/2/2012
Msg: 443
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 9/9/2012 6:15:00 AM
For women better as they age-especially in the 40's. I have noticed the best guy lovers I have had have been around 38. The young ones don't have the experience the older ones have.
 light-fantastic
Joined: 5/28/2012
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Posted: 9/9/2012 7:03:37 AM
definitely better. I am in my 50s now and the sex is mind-blowing. I think that experience teaches us and I was a good student!
 greatguy72266
Joined: 7/29/2012
Msg: 445
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 9/10/2012 12:01:09 PM
Much better, turned 46 and getting better
 friendly68137
Joined: 8/18/2012
Msg: 446
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 9/10/2012 11:29:41 PM
I would say sex was better for me in my 20's. At 38 the women my age that I have met ONLY want to replay the same sex they had with the men before me. I simply can NOT do that. I do not want to be a replacement. I would rather meet a woman in her early 20's that was willing to try something new versus the women my age that are just looking to replace what they lost in their last relationships..
 YAMACANMECRAZY
Joined: 9/7/2012
Msg: 447
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 9/12/2012 6:38:55 AM
Are we talking about sex and your physical age? Seems kind of ridiculous. Obviously sex will be better once you understand how to do it. I was married at 24 for 20 yrs. Having the same partner more than once will make sex better every time. That old saying about pizza every night is a lot of bull. Two people who know each other can have amazing sex for years and years. It has nothing to do with your age. So if you have had nothing but one night stands your whole life you may feel like it gets better with age .... but not really.
 AxeMurderer75
Joined: 6/6/2012
Msg: 448
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 9/12/2012 7:23:43 AM
Later. But probably cause I sucked in my 20s and know what I'm doing now, lol
 Silverhawk_tkn
Joined: 12/3/2010
Msg: 449
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Posted: 9/12/2012 9:52:38 AM
I'm going against the grain here, but its way better now into my 40s than it was when I was in my 20s. I think its because I'm so much more confident and relaxed and I really get turned on when my partner is turned on, so I spend WAY more time pleasing my partner and heating up the oven, which in turn makes for AMAZING sex......

And 30s/40s women absolutely ROCK in bed.........give me a mature lady over a young one anyday!!
 _sunny_skies_darlin_
Joined: 8/17/2012
Msg: 450
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 9/13/2012 10:26:19 AM
AFTER!! Definitely! ;-)
 AprilTaurus01
Joined: 6/25/2011
Msg: 451
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 9/20/2012 10:18:36 AM
Depends on the chemistry between 2 people IMO not as an age thing. Generally when you are older and have more life exp what you used to think was good isn't really as good because you have had better and have high standards as you exp more.
 liv_1971
Joined: 9/21/2012
Msg: 452
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 9/27/2012 2:13:29 PM
Definitely better as you get older, you lose a lot of those inhibitions that can weigh you down when you are younger and as you figure out what you really like, start to experiment a bit more and the whole experience seems much more mind blowing.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 453
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/3/2012 2:42:58 PM
Definitely after. More experience, willingness to try different things, less rush.
 chrismac1982
Joined: 9/2/2012
Msg: 454
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/11/2012 2:40:46 AM
After 30 by far. The problem is that most people look like crap once they hit 30 because they were too busy working 70 hours a week and eating pseudo health food. Luckily I'm not one of them.
 Iwannaknowu
Joined: 12/24/2011
Msg: 455
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/17/2012 8:59:18 PM
You turned 30, your sex life is over. (joking)

The sex will always be as interesting as you make it. When you hit 50, it's safe to assume you will then be thinking about the "glory days".


Best,


Duval
 sexysunfish68
Joined: 10/12/2012
Msg: 456
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/18/2012 3:21:57 AM
I feel it can be as we are more uninhibited and can say what we like and want. Depends on the partner of course.
Women typically enjoy sex more as they mature rather.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 10/18/2012 7:31:01 AM

The sex will always be as interesting as you make it. When you hit 50, it's safe to assume you will then be thinking about the "glory days".


I used to think that way when I was younger. Now that I'm closer to 50 than 40, it's never been better. As you get older, you learn to use your brain which is the largest sex organ. The mind/body connection takes time to master.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 458
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/18/2012 9:56:47 AM

The sex will always be as interesting as you make it. When you hit 50, it's safe to assume you will then be thinking about the "glory days".


I am thinking when I hit 75-80 I will be thinking of the glory years in my 60s.
 caulen
Joined: 8/12/2012
Msg: 459
Better SEX: Before or After 30?
Posted: 10/19/2012 5:21:51 PM
Definitely better. Sure you might have more stamina as a younger man, but with age and experience comes confidence and technique. I don't claim to know it all or even be a star, but if I think about my experiences as a younger man, to the experiences I have today, I know I am more considerate, and engage in a more mature emotional level. As well as having the confidence to be more adventurous and creative. But that might take both partners.

Just a thought. IMO.
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