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 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 59
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The problem I find with most responses is that it depends so much on that one event that from here on you will never match. The before that great sex, the after that great sex. And from there on it's just a memory. I've had particular episodes where the sex was so good I still remember, but to me great sex really is variety. Stay fresh with your partner, imaginative. You did it from the chandellers last week. Okay, this week by the fire. Or go out and she wears stockings but no undergarment and you play in public, then go back to your place and ravage each other in an unusual place. Or have a quickly. Last time I had one, then we spent twenty minutes smelling each other giggling, connecting, while I was still inside her.
 Mzzzy
Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 61
What is great sex
Posted: 9/28/2007 10:46:45 PM
Great sex to me is when I am totally wore out and am breathing hard and got a big ole smile on my face.
 genegem
Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 63
What is great sex
Posted: 9/28/2007 11:05:51 PM
Before sex ... everything you suggest.
After sex ... two people satiated and content to relax with quiet conversation and cuddles and pure togetherness.
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 71
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Posted: 1/3/2008 6:26:45 PM
The length of foreplay varies, depending on the situation, I dont really have an opinion there. How long should the actual sex last? Time for actual sex varies but normally (NORMALLY mind you, not always) Good lord, more than 40 mins is quite a waste of time in my opinion, its a slow ride downhill after that. For me 25 mins of rough, biting, clawing, drawing blood sex. Thats just fantastic. You're just so exhausted and aching and hurting in such a pleasant way... good lord... Ive collapsed to a freezing hardwood floor for hours after some crazy sex, neither of us even close to completely concious... mmm.. feels good just remembering it.
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 75
What is great sex
Posted: 1/3/2008 8:43:31 PM
^^Fabulous points, but I must add where you don't need a ball gag and duct tape.
 sandra19
Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 80
What is great sex
Posted: 1/3/2008 10:41:03 PM
Great sex is when u are emotionally connected with your partner in my oppinion..it doesnt matter what u do ..or where u do it ...IF u are with the right person sex will be just great . of course candles ,massages and romantic dinners set the mood and makes it special ..But it can be as special without all the trouble ..u Dont always have to make love if you are in love ;)
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 85
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Posted: 1/4/2008 1:04:29 PM
... it keeps you coming back for more
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 96
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Posted: 1/5/2008 2:37:31 AM

Starts in the mind.... and ends with both people physically exhausted, but smiling

Priceless balance!
 InSydney
Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 97
What is great sex
Posted: 1/5/2008 2:53:20 AM
What is great sex? It's different things for different people. If my partner and I have to take a while to catch our breath then that would be a good sign of great sex. I want a partner who is just as committed as I am to do whatever it takes to make it a memorable moment and I won't settle for just anybody.
 shomesomethin
Joined: 5/4/2007
Msg: 106
What is great sex
Posted: 1/26/2008 1:07:46 AM
If we have to explainit, you wouldn't understand anyway...... keep trying!!
 haywiresue
Joined: 9/27/2006
Msg: 107
What is great sex
Posted: 1/26/2008 11:02:04 AM
Great sex is what works for both people and makes them not feel unappreciated, unloved, or self conscious about what you do together.

If you have to ask, you are not there yet - time to hit the bookstores and adult shops to enhance what you have and improve on what you are doing.
 Tigress
Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 120
What is great sex
Posted: 1/29/2008 11:07:17 AM
Great sex is when everything feels right, including emotions, and it is thoughtful, and both of you climax and feel totally satisfyed!
 Theonly1!
Joined: 5/1/2007
Msg: 122
What is great sex
Posted: 1/29/2008 11:13:19 AM
It's great when I don't have to pull out my VISA after an hour...
 InSydney
Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 133
What is great sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 12:34:26 AM
You know you're having great sex if you're saying this to yourself: "Wow! I can hardly wait until I do THAT again"
 wolflover2008
Joined: 1/25/2008
Msg: 134
What is great sex
Posted: 1/31/2008 4:59:33 AM
when its done and u find urselfs holding each other tight crying cause it felt so good!!!
 simpleman20188
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 147
What is great sex
Posted: 3/21/2008 10:00:19 AM
Great sex is when it extends well beyond sex.

It is being with that person that makes you want sex all the time but you still enjoy the hell out of each other when you are not having sex.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 151
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Posted: 3/21/2008 11:33:47 AM
If you have to ask this question, you've obviously never had it.
 bigshrek
Joined: 11/15/2007
Msg: 157
What is great sex
Posted: 3/23/2008 4:39:43 AM
When the woman is explaining how sex can be to daughters or granddaughters..."Yer dad/grandpa wasn't much good in the sack, but he was a great provider...but there was this one guy who could keep my toes curled..."

Be the man who curls toes!!
 4408joseph
Joined: 1/10/2008
Msg: 163
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Posted: 3/27/2008 3:18:42 PM
When I can talk her down to $10, she doesn't ask 3 times..."are you sure you're not a cop" and I'm not late for I had to take her back to the same corner...
 MelissainMI
Joined: 10/4/2006
Msg: 168
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Posted: 3/29/2008 6:21:05 AM
Last Night!!!!......


Ohh yea, Last Night was great!
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 170
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Posted: 3/29/2008 11:28:16 AM

Last Night!!!!......


Ohh yea, Last Night was great!


Sure,, rub it in,, I should be so lucky,,,
 startle
Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 175
What is great sex
Posted: 8/27/2008 4:27:00 PM
great sex takes time, preparation and energy. to do it right would take 3 to 6 hours. both partners need to be nuts about each other and used to each others body. you would need to include everything you had ever read, done or heard of. leave nothing out and try everything you had dreamed of but hadnt had the nerve to do. at least, 6 orgasms for me and 2 for him would be the minimum. i think i'll do it tonight.
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 182
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Posted: 9/7/2008 2:46:14 PM
God I love the way this lady thinks.The last two women I was with were extremely multi orgasmic , & I think part of it came from my attentiveness & knowing what made them tick like a time bomb. My x had a 30 min O & it was freaking amazing , other than the fact I wasn't allowed to move lol for fear of her losing the intensity .It usually takes me at least 45 min's to achieve mine , but hopefully by then my lady will be on her fourth or fifth & I will still be hard & want to continue with maybe different formats or positions & try to keep a spice & no stress is allowed in the bedroom or on the kitchen table or any other place you deem acceptible.Three hours of sex isn't always like a porno , but more about reading each others wants & needs , because they change with the seasons.There's nothing like making love & looking out the window at the heavy snow fall or making love on the deck in the middle of a rainstorm. Wow talk about some memories.Well that's my 2cents & I don't know if many men are as lucky as I am to have experienced these wonderful things, but good luck to all the fisherpeople Harry
 yngbld3
Joined: 7/21/2008
Msg: 183
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Posted: 9/7/2008 2:48:46 PM
Oh & I meant startle she is beautiful & has an amazing persona
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