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 DAVE632
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DOES THE G-POINT REALLY EXISTPage 6 of 12    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12)
No insult intended but that NONSENSE just proves my point. It's not surprising though considering what I've read from REAL sex experts that there is such an abysmal understanding of female sexuality in the general pop.

X-LAX (?????WTF?) , Physics, colon blockages and gravity determine GSPot activity.

Orgasms are a "sudden overflow"

Who knew?

OK


 DAVE632
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Posted: 1/11/2008 10:45:57 AM
KB, you mentioned THE spots. I'm told that for some the mouth of the cervix causes the same reaction so you can add one more to your list.

The A spot is found on the POSTERIOR wall of the vagina just under the cervix and is believed to be the cause of fabulous orgasms that some women experience during anal sex. If the angle is right the ASpot is being simply being poked from behind. Front or back - whatever lights her tree is good for me.

In my TRY THIS thread over on LIT I hypothesized that these orgasmic trigger points in and around the vagina were simply nerve concentrations left over from the days of natural childbirth. The A and G Spots are in the birth canal and I think before the days of OB-GYNs and even doctors the hard muscle contractions of child birth pushed the bambino up against these areas in the vagina thus triggering the release of endorphines for pain and tissue elasticizers so ripping and tearing were minimized. The GOOD thing is that because of their close proximity or indeed their attachment (part of) to the clitoral trunk, those points are hard wired right into the orgasm center in the brain. BONUS!!!

Learn how to trigger those - and keep in mind HOW - and nirvana awaits. Kegels help (crunches are good for flat tummies but ... orgasms? whatever) and of course there are dozens of other factors which make it work or mitigate it down to a hoHum session but overall if a woman has been trained to G-Gasms (it does take some work early on with some women-other women never get there and I'm completely stumped why that is) getting there takes LESS than two MINUTES and a good lover can keep her G-Gasming for literally hours at a time. Speed and pressure, point, direction and her position all factor in on how intense they are and whether they are a series of undulating Gasms, fairly long periods of constant orgasm or repeated peaks that last a few minutes with a breathing break in between starting all over again - in a minute or so depending on what kind of shape she's in.

The research can be SOOO much fun.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892

sweetheart21 - there are 10 pages of replies. WHO are you replying TO???
 chocolate knight
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Posted: 1/12/2008 1:19:26 AM
actually every girl ive dated has told me ive hit it at some point during sex. i usually know when i do cause i lose my hearing lol
 Cat*Eyes
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Posted: 1/12/2008 7:32:05 AM
Yes, for me the G exists and so does the C and I will tell the lucky guys who gets with me how to find these 2 very erotic zones and how to stroke these 2 very erotic zones.
If you guys want to be with me you will learn where and how to stroke these very erotic zones.
 DAVE632
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WHY DON'T PEOPLE READ??
Posted: 1/15/2008 12:07:07 PM
I don't understand WHY so many people visit these threads for advice and then never read the advice.

Example: There are several threads on whether the elusive GSpot exists or not. Is it real? Where is it? How does one find this thing? WHAT does one do if and when they do find it? and MANY more questions which show and prove an abysmal ignorance on the part of many about things sexual.

After a question on the GSPOT is posted a few people who don't have a clue post nonsense(the "I know but I ain't tellin" are the stupidest) and a few who do have a clue, actually KNOW or have links that will explain some of the aspects of GSpot stimulation, there are another 5 dozen posts asking the same damn questions. WHY do people get on a forum like this, ask a question, ignore a myriad of valid answers and then ask again?? These people will likely NEVER know unless some guy rolls them over and DOES IT to them. They can read but they DON'T so why bother posting a question if nobody's gonna read the damn answer??

Baffling .... Sad.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 1/15/2008 10:05:52 PM
Just spent a few minutes reading the posts in this thread. Amazing how many men AND women have no clue. They talk about hitting it with their tongues.

Listen if your partner can hit your GSpot with his tongue he is a LIZARD, OK?

Clitoral O's are easily tongue induced. G-Gasms are something else entirely. Clits become super sensitive right after an orgasm and are often TOO sensitive to even look at for several minutes after the orgasm has subsided. GSpots on the other hand do NOT get too sensitive. That's why you can use a lot of pressure and speed and keep her cumming - keep her G-Gasms happening - for literally HOURS at a time.

The GSPot too far IN the vagina to hit with a tongue. The way to properly stimulate the GSpot to produce all the G-Gasms that she can handle, is by using considerable force / pressure / speed on it. Tapping, rubbing, circling with thumbs, fingers or toys and all with a couple POUNDS of pressure or you might as well go wash your windows. Because of the location of the GSpot most erections during intercourse slide right over it without providing the contact force to even activate it let alone trigger it into multiples.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 1/22/2008 9:27:46 AM
I'm still a little surprised / disappointed that more women haven't posted to this thread telling guys that it DOES exist and here's where it IS and here's what you do to fire it up properly - even individual reports knowing that not all women react the same way.

Or is it just a gimmie that the vast majority of women in here are as clueless as the guys when it comes to this subject??
 DAVE632
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Posted: 12/14/2008 8:04:31 PM
Obviously there are many in here who have NO FRIKKIIN CLUE what they're writing about but that doesn't stop them from tappin away at those keys and no doubt completely screwing up a few of the dimmer bulbs who read and believe this CRAP!!!


The G point is a point on the vagina that traps the blood in a particular spot, in order for a woman to experience an orgasm. The G spot is constantly changing on each person, because the pressure and blood flow depend on evacutation of the bowels, pressure from the vagina, depending on the menstrual period of the month. In other words, many things affect the pressure that creates the pooling of blood, then the sudden overflow (orgasm) that creates a deep sense of pleasure.




The other thing that stands out is the number of people who suggest it sometimes / might / could happen in some positions. Which means they are ONLY thinking of this in terms of INTERCOURSE. MOST G-Spots are located above the pubic bone on the frontal wall of the vagina. Because of its location it is almost impossible to even hit it with an erection during intercourse let alone exert enough pressure to trigger it properly. Many couples at one time or another have hit the Gspot during intercourse and it has been fabulous but they don't know exactly what they did to make it happen and after some attempts to repeat it they give up and think it was just a freak happening. It's not. Learn the basics and you can have this EVERY time you make love!!

If you are just learning or trying to make this happen I suggest using fingers, thumbs or toys. Once a woman KNOWS the feeling then sometimes they can angle their pelvis just so during intercourse and have the erection hit close enough to bring it on other wise it will be a frustrating waste of time trying to get this to work via straight intercourse.
 misshoney31
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Posted: 12/14/2008 9:54:43 PM
Oh yes the G spot exists!
 DAVE632
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Posted: 12/15/2008 5:02:16 PM
I said the "vast majority of women don't have a clue" - not ALL women. There's a difference and you don't need a PhD in STATS to know that. Even women who have G-Gasms these days are still subjected to a sense of FAILURE if they don't squirt too. Nonsense.

ikiera said:

Is that good enough Dave, or should I be more descriptive, .... say, like when properly done the woman ejaculates!???


When done properly the woman does NOT necessarily ejaculate. The myth continues because the vast majority do NOT have a clue and due mostly to the idiotic porn "squirting" clips and pornos we now have a whole segment of society thinking they are missing out on something stupendous because they do not squirt and that happens even when the woman can be orgasming 30 or 50 times with Gspot stimulation!!

And if you are assuming I'm clueless too (""is that good enough for you?"") I think maybe you missed my thread on Literotica called TRY THIS.

http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892
 ileft
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Posted: 4/12/2009 6:01:54 AM
Well the good news for you men is that us women have 4 sensual spots. The A spot, the G spot and another 2 but I have no idea of the name.

Ask your partner what she likes and how she likes to be touched and you'll be good to go. If you have trouble finding her soft spots get her to show you or just explore, have fun with it.
 _jay_see_
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Posted: 4/12/2009 6:43:00 AM
After all the crap men have to go through just to get ANY sex, it amazes me that they can still be bothered to find the illusive G-spot.
 NoQuarterGiven
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Posted: 4/12/2009 2:18:04 PM
I think a better question woul be does G-Unit really exist. Sadly, the answer is yes.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 4/20/2009 6:19:22 PM
This is acknowledged ALL THE WAY THROUGH my TRY THIS thread on LIT. There is NO ONE WAY to please ALL women ALL the time. Only a maroon would assume that's what the "experts" are claiming.

The Technique is a way for those who do not know how, to achieve this every time they try. It gives them an option. It does NOT work for every woman and I'm not going to get into the reasons why but I do believe MOST women CAN achieve this if they have a patient partner who has read the basics and is willing to try try and try again to get her orgasming like this. For those of you who know this already and you and your partners achieve G-Gasms regularly you already know how good they can be so I won't be preachin to the choir. Please TRY and read this and other posts in the way they are presented - encouraging the attempt, sharing the knowledge and praising the results. I'm NOT writing a RULE BOOK here.


So I simply ask all the "experts" to at least acknowledge the differences of individuals.



It's NOT a big mystery. Here's how to do it EVERY TIME.
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http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892

Basic Technique ideas:

#1: Make sure she goes for a tinkle (urinates) just prior to this. The best way to “experiment ” is for the woman to relax over a bunch of pillows, face down, bum up in the air and legs comfortably wide apart. In that position with her guy either at the side, straddling one leg or sort of in the middle, the best way is with his thumb - inserted and pointing down towards the bed. If you press the thumb into the vagina until the heel of the thumb is pressing into her lips the GSpot will be right under the fat part at the end of your thumb. It’s no harder to find than that. It is a small bump roughly the same size as that fat part at the end of your thumb too so it feels a little like there’s another thumb pressing back. (ALL women have this - all women may not react the same way) Start to rub it. You can rub like you’re trying to get a spot out - back and forth or sideways or in a circular motion - it doesn’t matter. DO NOT do it too hard at first but once it puffs up and gets a little hard, that's when you can get rough with it. She'll feel like she has to go for a pee about then. Ignore her. Hold her down. Tell her to go ahead. Ladies you aren't going to pee. It just comes from some kind of build-up and "about to release" feeling. Just hang on and tell him harder or faster to increase that feeling. The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day.

#2 is: when you've triggered an orgasm, wait about 30 seconds, maybe a minute (no more)and then start again. Just as hard. Right away. It'll happen over and over as many times as you repeat it. DO NOT BE GENTLE !! Depending on what kind of shape she’s in, a slightly longer wait between orgasms is wise(ie. let her start to breathe again). My friends described those orgasms as like being hit by a train. It seems to involve the entire body. If they’ve never had a GSpot orgasm they are going to be amazed. When you do it to them again and again they will be astounded.

At that point an option that they all seem to enjoy is once she knows “that feel” she can climb on and ride you and position herself so that the end of your erection is hitting the same spot your thumb was hitting. She can then have a huge orgasm about every 10 to 20 downstrokes and keep that up until she melts or passes out. Then it’s time to cuddle.

The first time or two it takes a few minutes. Once you've done it a few times you can usually get the first orgasm in under two minutes - no matter what and then repeats every 30 seconds to a minute for as long as she can stand it. An average night means between 8 and 15 giant "O's". A marathon brings between 35 and 50 !!! Trouble walking the next day but Man) Man is it worth the shakes the next day.

One word of warning, guys, NEVER have her squat over your face, suck her clit and poke her GSPOT with your fingers. She will cum so hard and her pelvic thrusts will be so out of control that she will BREAK YOUR NOSE. Trust me on this. To combine the two (oral on the clit AND Gspot) she should be on her back and your face should be sideways to her.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/17/2009 5:24:06 PM
This is kinda resurrecting this thread but I just read your response and I don't understand. Care to translate it into English.


Bet you it's more frustrating to the woman that you sleep with that you dont know than it is to you,,,, are you freakin serious dude?


If you're still around maybe you could explain what the heck you MEAN here.

Answering YOUR post in the simplest terms - I don't sleep with women I don't know - but then I don't think that was your meaning.
 lakelake
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Posted: 6/17/2009 11:59:56 PM

i mean softly swirl your finger around and around her clit, and dont go fast, if you keep doing it you will find the spot


I know your a woman and I'm just a man... but thats NOT your G-spot!
 ForRumOnly
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Posted: 6/18/2009 6:48:34 AM
Yes, it has been found, it does exist.

Not all women have as much G-spot tissue, and not all respond to having it stimulated. The latest research has determined that it is the equivalent of male prostate tissue, and is probably involved in the phenomenon of "squirting."

http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20026872.500-ecstasy-over-g-spot-therapy.html

http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20227101.200-everything-you-always-wanted-to-know-about-female-ejaculation-but-were-afraid-to-ask.html

http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn17165-six-things-science-has-revealed-about-the-female-orgasm.html
 OutMind
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Posted: 6/18/2009 7:26:53 AM
The G-point is half a mile south of Check Point Charlie. If you can't find it, G-o to G-oogle maps for directions.
 matchlight
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Posted: 6/18/2009 11:32:11 AM
I've read about the G-spot, and I'm sure *something* exists in that area of the female anatomy. But I'm not convinced it's as obvious as all the pop literature makes it out to be. Lots on anecdotes--most of them second-hand--but not a lot of real medical research. The tissue that's supposedly analogous to prostate tissue doesn't seem to be there in all women. And even when it is, does that automatically make the G-spot an erotic zone? After all, some studies show that for a lot of men, prostate stimulation's not all that pleasurable.

One fact that's almost never mentioned is that there's a lot more to the clitoris--which is obviously an erotic zone--than the visible part. It branches and extends back along the sides of the outer labia, and the place where the two branches join is at about the same depth as the G-spot and not that far in front of it. Pressing on the front wall of the vagina could also stimulate this part of the clitoris. For that matter, it seems like intercourse would put pressure on the deeper parts of it.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/18/2009 8:50:12 PM
This is the PERFECT example of few people knowing WHAT we're talking about and sadly the percentages of WOMEN who don't know about this is surprisingly high.


softly swirl your finger around and around her clit, and dont go fast, if you keep doing it you will find the spot


Honey, that's your CLITORIS, OK? The G and A SPots are DIFFERENT. They are INTERNAL spots that when stimulated properly (with considerably MORE force than one touches a clit) will "activate." Yes, that means that for many women when you first touch that area there is NOTHING remarkable about it at all. Only after it has been poked into activation does it FEEEL different. With some women it feels like a thumb pushing back at your thumb. Some Gspots feel like soggy cauliflower and for others it is a RIDGE that rises out of nowhere. The main thing is that once it rises as long as she continues to be stimulated and is ok mentally with a complete loss of control of her body to her lover, she (ok - MOST) will have a massive series of orgasms that are triggered whenever the G is poked, rubbed or tapped. IT CAN go on for HOURS!

Reveal, have a look at this site. It should explain everything - including possible initial failure and the need to keep trying.

http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892


I've yet to find the g-spot, and would love to be able to stimulate it!


MatchLight, you're right. There isn't a lot of good REAL research on this. My thread on Literotica (above) has been going for several YEARS now. Usually on pg. 1. There are almost 3,000 responses and 456,000 reads. I find medical research all the time that "proves" the GSpot does NOT or DOES exist. Most of the research is done in a sterile environment with klieg lights, electrodes, video camera and technicians in white lab coats trying to figure out how to get a woman's GSPOT activated. One large research study used cadavers to do this and the results were predictable.

Sadly when a dude in a lab coat doesn't get a good reaction from some ( live ) test volunteer they publish a paper that claims the GSpot is as elusive as the Yeti or the Loch Ness fishie thing.

Read the thread I posted. Read the THOUSANDS of personal testimonials from women who KNOW this works and have been with lovers who either already know this and have taught them or they have taught a new lover how to do this to/for them. These are NOT second hand. Up until recently I never bumped into a woman who did NOT respond to this stimulation as described. There are trust issues that can interfere - I believe BRIEFLY - and that almost ALL women CAN experience this if they have a TRUSTED lover who knows the Technique or any of its many variation. Just because "real medical research" hasn't figured it out yet is no reason to dismiss it especially when you have tried it and reduced your lover to a panting sweating twitching PUDDLE.


Lots on anecdotes--most of them second-hand--but not a lot of real medical research.





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Posted: 6/18/2009 8:55:29 PM

when you have tried it and reduced your lover to a panting sweating twitching PUDDLE.

Yes... yes please. *tremble*
 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/18/2009 9:23:51 PM
Love you too, ladies.

And honestly. I can't help myself.

No. Really. I can't.

BTW, why haven't you posted on my thread? Huh? Howcum? EVERY testimonial is a treasure!!!




http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892

Read the thread I posted. Read the THOUSANDS of personal testimonials from women who KNOW this works and have been with lovers who either already know this and have taught them or they have taught a new lover how to do this to/for them. These are NOT second hand. Just because "real medical research" hasn't figured it out yet is no reason to dismiss it especially when you have tried it and reduced your lover to a panting sweating twitching PUDDLE.



 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/19/2009 9:40:35 PM
Depending on the lady you ask you'd likely compile a list of several hundred "SPOTS" that can and DO in the right circumstances result in an orgasm for the woman. Nipples, ear lobes, soles of feet, back of knees, back of neck, base of spine, scalp, throat (no not like THAT - the outside) are just a few of the spots I've been told about.

The MAIN ones are the clit, the G and A Spots and many women will say they have NO GSpot but another area in their vagina DOES feel incredibly good when rubbed and results in repetitive massive orgasms. The sides of the vagina and the base of the vagina - the bottom (if she's on her back - the other side from the clit) are both areas that will produce the same effects as the GSpot.

This is another reason why this RESEARCH is so essential .... for humanity.
 DAVE632
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Posted: 6/20/2009 6:37:06 PM
This comes from the fact that GSpot stimulation also stimulates he body to produce massive amounts of OXYTOCIN. This hormone is associated with love, trust, affection and just being HORNY ALL THE TIME! The more oxytocin is produced the more they want.


... its the key to making a woman want you more


There are a number of entries on the TRY THIS thread where I describe the TUBA EFFECT and how many FUN memories it brought back for many couples who read that. Yup, it works. .... For some. Tried it again recently and she looked at me like I just fell out of a spaceship and shook her head ... so The STAR SPANGLED BANNER didn't do a thing for her. Come to think of it she was Danish. Damn! I should have memorized their National Anthem. Maybe it woulda worked then ...


Try adding a variable speed vibration to clit by starting with a humming and going to a high/ low pitch ... like blowing a trumpet or spiting raspberries with the tong slightly out.


WOW! THREE! For the ladies this worked for, three wasn't even a start up. I remember one who I thought had had enough after maybe a dozen and when I started to back off she managed to say "doonschtoppppp" or something close. So ... I didn't. She passed out after another dozen or so and I know you can't orgasm while unconscious. AS she was regaining consciousness though I G'ed her again and out she went again. She told me later it felt like dying and being reborn and dying again ... said it was the weirdest feeling EVAR. Orgasm - pass-out - come to JUST as ANOTHER massive orgasm slams into your brain and pass out again. OK I only did that twice. I'm NOT a complete sadist!!

Maybe ENDURE is the part they don't understand. When they say "stop" ... ummm put it this way IF they CAN even SAY "stop" they haven't had enough and at that point it is merely a SUGGESTION!!



Ive never had anyone who could endure more then 3 main "O"s
 mrslipez
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Posted: 2/9/2010 2:05:30 PM
You got it lucky! I have had a lot of sucess with the "G" spot. While it can be a little harder to find in some women, it has always been right there for the taking.
For you women who's partner is having a hard time with finding it, have them pratice a form of massage called Tantric. When learning this, she is almost guaranteed to tell you how much she enjoys you touching her there! Believe me, IT DOES EXIST.
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