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 morganaca
Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 60
Who Does All The Work In Bed?Page 2 of 9    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)
unsure why the women you encountered dont move, if your thrusting enough she should. would suggests you ask them to switch positions now and then or get them so hot and allow them to ride the sh*t out of you. ive had my days when he would burn more than me but then i as well would leave him in dust wondering what the hell fueled that tornado.
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 61
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/8/2007 7:38:26 PM

A woman or girl doesn't just look at your body and jump your bones.


Sorry, but a few of us womenfolk ARE that easy to entice.

Chances are, if I'm really into a guy. I'm thinking aout boffing him long before he even shows up at my door.
 furosuto
Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 10/8/2007 9:16:41 PM
95% of the time, I do all the "work". But that's ok...I rather enjoy it.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 64
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/16/2007 3:01:31 PM
its the jackhammer that digs the holes in the steets
 ~~weeone~~
Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 65
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/16/2007 4:12:33 PM
Sorry...but I have to question this topic...

If I go to bed with a man...I never consider it "work".

Work is someplace I go to to get a paycheque.

Workin' in bed should be fun

~~weeone~~
 morganaca
Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 66
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/16/2007 5:17:06 PM
nick cosmo- i agree, if he yells or wines all day or for that matter if i b*tch all day then even though i dont have an erection still something shuts down.
 kitten23xox
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 68
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/25/2007 10:01:34 PM
tried being on top and it didn't quite work..........or maybe i just didn't know what I was doing.........how do you go up and down? Use your hands or just legs?
 brawnydog
Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 72
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/26/2007 2:02:03 PM

didn't you read the manual...?


it depends...
is the bed chained down or is it gonna a be a kiss you while I do you?
and her mood
reverse cowgirl or just want some head?
 sexyshanny
Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 75
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Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/27/2007 7:22:00 AM
I am more concerned about making my man happy,So i will have to say i burn pounds!!!!!lol.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 78
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Posted: 10/27/2007 11:07:23 AM
Team work.......yes maam......I do enjoy team work.......

OT......If you are good, and they are as well, the work will be much more like pleasure and both will be satisfied, and is that not the whole point???????

Just my opinion......
 irolthgirw
Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 80
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 11/1/2007 6:45:26 PM
Well Dobber, I have the solution for you. It's quite easy when you really think about it. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you tend to choose girls that are younger than you by 5-10 yrs-then there's your problem. You really need to find a woman. Someone older or the same age as you-but in all seriousness, i'd say a beautiful athletic woman in her mid 30's or older will actually rock your world! Give it a try, cuz as a 30-something woman, I have a hard time finding a man with my stamina at any age! LOL!!! from Red-Neck BC
 kitten23xox
Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 81
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 11/6/2007 4:31:39 PM
It shouldn't be work....what are you talking about??
 csod64
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 82
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 11/6/2007 4:39:02 PM
As for me, I'm an "active participant"...
 AwesumSauce
Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 85
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 11/22/2007 12:22:57 AM
It's not work when your into the person your with. If you consider it work your just not that in to her.
 head.cloud123
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 91
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 5:11:22 AM



Holy Sh#T dude you know nothing about women. Women do things all the time to cater to a man's visual arousal requirements. Sexy clothes, makeup, hair, high heels, etc. You should get off your lazy ass and do something then just get a hard on! Women realize that men get turned on visually, do men realize that women get turned on by touch?? Both take alot of effort.


This implies that

-men don't get turned on by touch.
-women only dress nicely for men not for themselves, other women or because their jobs require them to.
-men are all ugly and all dress like slobs.


Are you serious?
 head.cloud123
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 92
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 5:20:05 AM

There are times when I just have to be on top. I feel the need to touch my lover all over and taste EVERY part...


Yes but I don't think the man does nothing when the woman is on top. He still has to stimulate her or move or something. Men don't ever really just lie back and relax.
 iwrbwttbh
Joined: 1/8/2008
Msg: 93
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Posted: 10/7/2009 7:10:54 AM
Hey Vegas!
LMAO That is seriously friggin funny! I dont have a comment but I really had to tell you that, that cracked me up!
Take Care greg
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 94
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 8:29:32 AM

As far as I know most women do those things on the bottom also (touch him, move their hips, etc.)



That would be a big negatory. It's not common. Most of the movement women use in bed with me is a result of what I am doing to them, or an effort to get themselves off. Very rare is the woman that is active in a manner designed to get their man off or keep him excited. The guys I've discussed this with tend to agree, but add that the less attractive the woman is, the less true this seems to be. Having no experience with unattractive women, I have to take them at their word on this. I'm not interested in verifying this point with personal experience.
 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 95
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 8:46:09 AM
hmmm...I've never thought of it as 'work' and I've never been with an underachiever =) ...a few followers...meh..whatever. But no underachievers. And no, I'm not even a little lazy.
 _Icon_
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 96
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 12:35:25 PM
So THIS is what they're calling "work" these days! Nice gig if you can get it.
 head.cloud123
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 98
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 2:02:28 PM
No. 50% of the work should be female. Who cares who is stronger? Do old people or physically weak people not have sex?
 head.cloud123
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 99
Who Does All The Work In Bed?
Posted: 10/7/2009 2:14:54 PM
Well submissiveness to me means that she likes to fufill his desires. So it depends on the man. You can also brag about how much of a stud you were that she had to have you.

How about 49.999...%?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 100
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Posted: 10/7/2009 6:53:47 PM
I really do wonder who these women are that you men are dating?!!

I can't imagine not being an active participant.

The only time I'm not moving......is if you have me in a position that makes it hard to move......i.e........my feet over my head and my body all scrunched up and I'm spending most my time trying not to smother in my own breasts!!

I think the sexiest thing a woman can say to a man is......"My turn"

and btw.......yes , there are men that just lay there when on bottom
 BigBee77
Joined: 4/14/2009
Msg: 101
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Posted: 10/7/2009 7:33:35 PM
It depends on the situation and the person you are having sex with. With me personally, some women are very active (sometimes to a fault) in bed and some are rather stiff (also sometimes to a fault). No matter who I'm with I believe foreplay is essential and plus I value the art of communication. I don't always enter the bedroom with a new female thinking I know exactly how she wants it. I'm not afraid to ask questions. But overall, who does the most work in bed VARIES IN DIFFERENT INTIMATE SITUATIONS. As a man you have to be willing to explore the woman and SWITCH UP OUR LOVEMAKING STYLE to accomodate her sexual needs.
 LongAfterDark
Joined: 5/17/2008
Msg: 103
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Posted: 10/7/2009 8:02:26 PM
It's usually me that does most of the work. I'm most satisfied when the women takes more of an active role, however.
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