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 Becky_LaF
Joined: 2/23/2005
Msg: 67
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exactly, country sugar. that was perfect
 Ldygmr
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 70
do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 1/7/2006 4:40:26 PM

do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man


Usually. On the occasion I will change my mind for whatever reason. Intellectual stimulation usually.
 Angelnurse10
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 71
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do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 8/19/2007 10:33:52 AM
It may take me 6-7 minutes or maybe 3-4 minutes. Don't know if I ever made that decision in 5.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 84
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do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/3/2008 3:50:41 PM
Yes it is absolutely true...at least with me it is. I know IMMEDIATELY
 99sweetgirl
Joined: 10/10/2008
Msg: 89
do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/4/2008 2:39:57 PM
NOT TRUE!!
In 5 minutes I can check him out to see if he is attractive or not, but
I have to start knowing the guy to start having sexual attraction, so it may happen or it may not,
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 90
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do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/4/2008 2:51:43 PM
Maybe in the first five minutes or not, they will know if they are even interested enough in trying......

Five minutes will give you the attraction part enough to even want to think about that, and/or the chemistry needed to take it that far.....

For me, at least, with the women that I have known overall, you may not know if there is enough attraction to warrant chemistry to the point of wanting sex, but you certainly will know if you DO NOT have enough, and do not want to even think about going there....

Just my opinion.......
 CRAZYGIRL26
Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 98
do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/5/2008 2:35:19 PM
i would have to say that most of the guys i been with, i knew right away that it was gonna happen. its all in the eyes!!!!
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 101
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do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/9/2008 2:27:37 PM
5 seconds, not minutes
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 112
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do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/10/2008 11:35:38 AM
I always know!! sometimes it isnt even 5 minutes.

and it doesnt mean I will sleep with him that night..but it is definate for the near future.
If I dont think I will sleep with him..It is doubtful there would be a first kiss. Unless he is really hot! Then I may kiss him but I still wont sleep with him.

another thing....if I know I will not sleep with him..I will refuse to let him pay my tab if we are out together.
 olddog56
Joined: 5/30/2008
Msg: 118
do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/12/2008 6:33:28 PM
to:ubiquitous1, Yes we know but I can honestly say that I have only had sex on the first date one time in my whole life,probably never will again,It's impossible for me to know in 5 minutes if they are"sponge worthy" or not.
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 119
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do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/12/2008 7:11:32 PM
No. However, I often know within 5 minutes that I absolutely have no interest in them.
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 121
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Posted: 12/13/2008 12:39:16 AM
Yes they do.

So, try again tomorrow.
 misshoney31
Joined: 12/10/2008
Msg: 123
do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/14/2008 5:16:36 PM
Definitely not! I have to be in love with a man and in a serious relationship before ever engaging in sex or lovemaking.
 lucky_sevans
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 125
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Posted: 12/14/2008 6:02:47 PM

We know. Don't you men know who you will and won't have sex with?


I have to admit I know the potential is there at the very first touch. I'm very tactile and its very "electric"...


/hand buzzers are *not* funny!
//pop-out snakes on the other hand... funny (& irrelevant).
 _jay_see_
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 126
do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/15/2008 3:20:14 AM
The factors that go into a woman's decision to have sex or not are so immensely complex that they can't be expressed with the English language (or any language).

Suffice it to say, 5 minutes is almost NEVER enough time for a guy to convince a woman to have sex.

(Exception: famous guys)
 ~rain~
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 127
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Posted: 12/15/2008 7:32:04 AM
^^^sorry you have never had any luck!!

I guess you arent "toosexyforthiswebsite" after all!!
 _jay_see_
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 128
do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/15/2008 7:55:47 AM
It's true that I haven't had much luck (or any), but I don't think even the smoothest guys can just seduce into having sex within 5 minutes!
 cw35
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 129
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Posted: 12/15/2008 8:11:05 AM
Since you can't possibly know someone in 5 minutes, the fact that so many women seem to say it tells me which gender wants to be with someone mainly for looks. Amazing that some people will still insist that men are the shallow/visual ones. Hypocrite thy name is woman. Hilarious. What man in his right mind would want to sleep with a woman who would be that judgmental so quickly? No amount of sex is worth bothering with ridiculous notions and attitudes like this.
 GreenEyesGoldenLocks
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 131
do women really know inthe first 5 min. if they will have sex with a man
Posted: 12/15/2008 10:58:56 AM
yes in 5 min I know if I am physically attracted to a guy, he just might say something though at min 6 and change my mind completely or I might find him such a blast to be around as the evening goes on that makes me forget why I didnt find him physically attractive. you have to know more than just the first impression for chemistry..is physical and mental and that takes more than 5 min.
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