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 catkin2007
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 151
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I can't believe anyone in this day and age of practice safe sex would even consider asking this question...
 919rider
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 152
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/31/2008 5:31:16 PM

Posted By: marcob on 10/9/2007 5:02:06 PM
Subject: Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Message: If you know your partner, and are preferably in a long term relationship, then the STD thing is a non-issue.

If your partner (her) knows what she's doing, then "poo" isn't going to be an issue either.

My answer is, yes it is safe. My member survived it quite a few times. You don't have to wear a condom. Just no double dipping. That's no good for her.


This is precisely correct --- people who are NOT in a long term relationship have no business having sex anyway.
 beerbag
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 153
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/4/2009 10:58:33 PM
It can be safe between two people without STD/I's. However both sexes can still obtain infections (UTI and alike) from unprotected anal penetration/rimjobbing/ejaculation.
 Hardtymes
Joined: 5/8/2008
Msg: 154
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/9/2009 3:19:48 PM
Widowedmom,
Take the block off I need to talk to you. Please!!!!!!!!!!!
 IM4U2BWITH
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 155
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/11/2009 2:57:54 PM
As Long as you are Both clean and have no STD then it is safe...I would make sure for yout partners safe and you have read the manual that comes with anal sex so you avoid any tearing, I also wouldn"t do it if for some reason you have any Open sores on your****as that could get an infection....

I personally Have had my Willie in quite a few Buts as well as my Tongue and fingers and never had any Problems.....
 Ameerra
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 156
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/21/2009 3:53:14 PM
You know I just read this whole thread and I CAN'T BELIEVE that never not once was Hepatitus A/C mentioned.

Unprotected anal sex leaves you open to infection with a number of nasty sexually transmitted diseases due to the high number of infectious microorganisms not found elsewhere on the body, and tears, which can lead to direct blood exposure to infected fluid, not to mention the physical damage to the anus and the rectum due to their vulnerability.

Couple that with the fact that many people don't wash their hands and fecal matter get's digested -- yuck!

My sister is a nurse and I don't want to even repeat the stories she's told me. The only way fecal matter can be cleaned properly is with a bleach, so there goes the "enema" advice.


Among the diseases with which anal sex is associated are:
1) HIV
2) HPV and an increase risk for anal cancer (most cases of anal cancer are related to infection with the human papilloma virus)
3) typhoid fever
4) amoebiasis
5) chlamydia
6) cryptosporidiosis
7) E. coli infections
8) giardiasis
9) gonorrhea
10) hepatitis A
11) hepatitis B
12) hepatitis C
13) herpes simplex
14) human papillomavirus
15) Kaposi's sarcoma-associated herpesvirus (HHV-8)
16) lymphogranuloma venereum
17) pubic lice
18) salmonellosis
19) shigella
20) syphilis
21) tuberculosis
22) venereal warts (treatable if external, difficult if up in the rectum)


The high concentration of white blood cells around the rectum, together with the risk of cuts to the rectum and that one of the functions of the rectum is to absorb fluid, increases the risk of HIV transmission because the HIV retrovirus reproduces within the immune system's T-cells/CD4 cells. In addition, tears in the mucous membrane of the rectum can develop into anal abscesses that can become infected.

Unprotected receptive anal sex is the most risky sexual behavior in terms of HIV transmission. Some doctors claim that hemorrhoids (piles) result from vigorous anal sex.

Like smoking, the risks are lower if you do it less often. Chances are you’re not going to get lung cancer from smoking one pack of cigarettes. But MANY teenagers (to avoid pregnancy, to try something new, to please a guy, to stay a virgin) are having anal sex without condoms, and that's just crazy.
 TOwoman1
Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 157
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/21/2009 4:12:50 PM
It's a quibble, Ameera, but the list is longer than need be because you mention problems associated with HPV (venereal warts aka condylomata), anal cancer and then spell out Human Papillomavirus. Hepatitis C is not easy to transmit sexually. Hep A is transmissible more through rimming (mouth on anus) than anal sex. Tuberculosis? I dunno about that. Pubic lice is an infestation. No biggie.

Yes, of course people need to protect themselves and their partners. But let's not get all sex-negative with interminable lists. The most common risks? HPV, herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea and HIV.
 Ameerra
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 158
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/21/2009 4:24:52 PM
I don't think being health conscious is quibbling. Is it better to be more informed or less informed? The last thing I am is sex-negative. I just added to this thread what was missing.

Oh and, during a sex act, if there is oral sex after anal sex, that is your fecal contamination right there, and also if the man is handling his penis and does not wash his hands.

The common risks you've pointed out are no laughing matter.
 TallPaul.
Joined: 10/17/2008
Msg: 159
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/21/2009 7:54:07 PM
HAHAH, thats ****ing hilarious.
It depends on how tight the ass is. If it is REAL tight, then it will likely bleed. Blood = risk. Does either person have HIV? If say, the person with the****has HIV, then it is safe for them. If the person getting ****ed has HIV, it is safe for them.
 TallPaul.
Joined: 10/17/2008
Msg: 160
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/21/2009 7:56:49 PM
Well, all of this stuff matters, yes. But if you are doing it with someone that you are monomagamous with, then, well, do it. Anal sex is da bomb! Byyeee
 casino man
Joined: 1/11/2005
Msg: 161
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/21/2009 8:06:16 PM
I agree have been in a long term relationship and nothing never happened to me....Use enemas sometimes But mostly no..problems here
 TOMic bomb
Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 162
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 4/10/2009 8:23:20 PM
i don't think it would be unsafe if you tamped VASELINE deep down into the peehole! that would block the bacteria!
 buttgirl2X
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 163
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 4/10/2009 9:44:07 PM
I always have anal sex without a rubber....Most of my partners lick my anus too!
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 164
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 4/11/2009 12:29:02 AM
man it's scary OP that you ask this question; the answer is no way in hell is it safe without a condom;

if it was safe then why do so many gay men get AIDS? come on. I just dont get that people are so unsafe with their sexual practices. people seem more clueless than ever.
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 165
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 4/11/2009 7:26:48 AM
Ameerra's list of things to be scared of might be correct, but isnt everything on that list capable of being passed in other ways - through vaginal or oral sex, or kising, or coughing, or blood contact? Anal sex may make some easier to transmit, but the risk is there for ANY sexual activity.

You cant 'create' a new disease through anal sex. If both parties are clean of STDs and other diseases, then nothing can be passed between them. If you are both clean, monogomous and already sharing fluids, then yes, anal sex is fine without a condom. Just be smart about it - go slow, lots of lube, nothing goes from anus to vagina, pee and wash afterwards. I've had anal sex in every LTR I've been in (tested and clean and using alternate birth control) without a condom and neither myself or any partners has ever had a problem.
 shipoker58
Joined: 8/23/2008
Msg: 166
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 4/11/2009 8:09:02 AM
Of all the types of sex NOT to have without a condom...it would be anal sex!

The American Red Cross( which some here think knows nothing) states that as many as 10% of all married women admit to having anal sex on a regular basis. Because of the tiny tears that frequently occur during anal intercourse, it is more susceptible to the HIV possibility. But this is America, we are all pretty much used to getting screwed in the butt in one way or another. And condoms aren't always on hand.


...JMO
 lovedr1
Joined: 4/22/2009
Msg: 167
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 5/10/2009 1:40:57 AM
Anal sex is all to to the woman involved. Some ssay it hot and intense. Safe without a condom meaning in STD's yes but I have done lots of times and women love it. They get a bigger and better orgasm out it. Its all on the woman and how horny she is.
 lovedr1
Joined: 4/22/2009
Msg: 168
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 5/10/2009 1:44:59 AM
Its not safe but likie I saqid if its your only partner shouldnt be a problem as vaginal sex if you are tre to one spouse.
 w4qed-1
Joined: 5/11/2012
Msg: 169
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/26/2012 8:20:03 AM
Depends, do you really TRUST them? if it is your life partner then you already have what they have and a shower will fix most of the rest.
 mojolv
Joined: 10/28/2011
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 3/1/2013 11:54:58 PM
No absolutely NOT. Please carry, store and keep condoms easily accessible. www.themojobags.com is a 3 condom key chain that is airtight, waterproof, sealed and colorfully concealed.
 Kevin1492
Joined: 2/27/2013
Msg: 171
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 3/3/2013 1:22:55 PM
I wouldn't reccommend it. It can lead to STDS and ruin your life. Avoid not using a condom.
 loansharks
Joined: 10/9/2012
Msg: 172
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 3/4/2013 8:24:34 AM
I've done it several times, never been an issue. Plus the feeling of shooting your load in her tight ass is unbelievable
 kmbr66
Joined: 1/8/2013
Msg: 173
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 3/4/2013 1:31:32 PM
OP is right...many do engage in anal intercourse without a condom. Facts are facts.
That being said, if you are in a long term relationship where issues of STIs have been discussed/dealt with, it is your preference.
The poo/ew factor... up to the couple..
 CraigMusselman
Joined: 10/6/2012
Msg: 174
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 3/5/2013 12:47:08 PM
i would rather stick my****lubed up in a ltr guys butt than a chick that bleeds a bucket of blood every month. Its a tight ring people, and lubed nothing really sticks. Dip your finger in crisco, then a jar of peanut butter, then stick it in your mouth tighten your lips and pull your finger out...nothing left right? If you can handle changing a diaper, anal is not even a consideration in the eww factor compared to that.

If both of you have no stds, you are monogmous, you can have anal all you want with no problems.
Of course huge amounts of men are closet cases in the straight world and are cheating on their women, they hit on me all the time and i turn them down.

Every profile on here with no pic is a man cheating on a straight girl, and there is a whole lot of them.
 ScopeTheMarket
Joined: 2/11/2013
Msg: 175
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 3/27/2013 5:09:28 PM
I have never tried anal, but I have always been curious. Is it really any different?
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