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 howbigisyourlove
Joined: 9/1/2007
Msg: 151
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dear tommy34 ... thanks for the rules of disengagement.. I guess coffee is out eh??? anway thnks for the compliment re:people like me sucking bigtime... it is a distant memory but yah ,,,, it happened and sometimes happens to alot of us involved and I believe it was wrapped in a Haagen Daz condom .... oh heavenly hash ... please don't hate me even though you don't wanna date me and I hope becca210 takes you UP or DOWN on your offer you sound safe with or without latex.... I gottah rub linoment on my fungus now and tree hug myself and stop beating around this bush for awhile..... bummer eh...
 studmount
Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 152
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Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/26/2007 6:05:46 PM
Just damn,some sick puppies!
 TOwoman1
Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 153
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/26/2007 7:22:43 PM
Two things: a negative HIV test is accurate after 12 weeks. Most people seroconvert after 9.

In terms of what puts people at risk, there is an equation to explain it. When you look at viral load, add the frequency and type of exposure and then divide that by your resistence: that tells you the risk. For example, there is a whack of HIV in semen. Say a woman has an untreated infection, like herpes or chlamydia, there will be white blood cells present. Her mucous membranes are compromised. HIV attacks these white blood cells and is then carried directly into her blood stream. Moreover, if she is the receiving partner of vaginal or anal sex, which is what is under discussion here, the semen pools, adding to the exposure time. " Bottom" line, both partners need to play it safe for the three month window period for HIV, then get tested for HIV as well as the common infections like gonorrhea and chlamydia. If after negative testing you make the commitment to be mutually monogamous you can put condom use for any of your sexual activities on the table for discussion.
 WarmthNpassion
Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 154
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Posted: 11/26/2007 7:39:56 PM
That would depend on who's anus you had in mind. If she's infected with something, your odds are no different than with vaginal intercourse. You had to know this.

Oh, now I get it, you see who's into anal with the replies that the ladies make. I never would have thought of that.
 msbehavinshygirl
Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 155
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/26/2007 8:14:07 PM
no sex is safe without a condom. silly people, did we forget about diseases anal or no you can still get them.
 stageright
Joined: 8/2/2007
Msg: 156
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Posted: 11/26/2007 8:49:04 PM
with a broom watch out for the splinter cousins. they're real **stards!! sneak right up on ya.
 wizardofossington
Joined: 6/17/2007
Msg: 157
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/27/2007 2:24:13 AM
Anal sex is considered one of the highest risk behavior for transmitting HIV and this is a fact.
 FoxyBigRed
Joined: 11/26/2007
Msg: 158
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Posted: 11/30/2007 2:18:15 PM
Anal sex is never safe.
Because the anus has a very thin coat of mucus, much thinner then the female vagina, the anal lining tares easily and can later turn into an anal absess once fecies (poop) gets into the tare.
 Harry Peter
Joined: 12/25/2006
Msg: 159
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/30/2007 2:22:20 PM
Try the mouth instead. Or a hand job. Hell, hump an armpit, that smells better and is safer.
 TOwoman1
Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 160
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 11/30/2007 3:13:54 PM
The anus, like the vagina and mouth, is lined with a mucous membrane, not mucus. It does not lubricate like the vagina, so yes, it can tear more easily. That is why it is important to learn how to relax the muscles inside, start with something small rather than an erect penis, have ongoing communication to ensure there is no pain and use lots of lube.
 Zentimes
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 161
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Posted: 12/1/2007 5:41:01 AM
BUYACIRCLE
Why don’t GOOGLE & seek out sound medical literature that informs you on "Infection and AIDS" from valid "medical sites" instead of a "POF Forum".

This is not something you should not take seriously. If you are truly uninformed about this issue then Educate yourself to find out the data on anal intercourse without a condom (Male or Female).

How could anyone in this day and age not be aware of where to obtain "THE FACTS ABOUT HIV"! Its not a joke ~

Good Lord, do your partner as well as yourself a favor ~ EDUCATE YOURSELF ABOUT THE REALITY OF AIDS !
 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 162
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/1/2007 6:07:08 AM
I'm just gonna point out that 1 of you guys have gotta have HIV first to transmit it, half these posts make it sound like anal sex without a condom somehow creates aids, like the friction conjures up the HIV virus and gives it to all parties involved.

The only trick is you can never really be 100% sure someone don't have it, blood tests can be mucked up, people can lie about infidelity, hell you can get HIV from blood transfusions because at least in Canada, so many HIV positive people give blood and it's so poorly tested that they slip through.

Anyway even if you're sure you're both clean, there's still the bacteria in there. I'd still say the reason Anal is so much more "dangerous" is because people don't think to wear a contraception when they're workin it in a way that can't get someone pregnant. There's a reason it's called birth control and not disease protection, guess that's just how it's meant to work.
 Dr S J K
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 163
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/1/2007 7:39:51 AM
I been boinking women up the arse all my life with no condom...I am still alive!
 TOwoman1
Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 164
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/1/2007 12:02:02 PM
The blood system in Canada is very well tested. The current risk is about one in 250,000. People got HIV before November 1985, when they began to systematically test for it.
 bicuriousboi2005
Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 165
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/5/2008 11:40:24 AM
No never! I am bi, and i don't even go there with men..Or do i let them suck me or me suck them either..I love for them to cum on my shaved hard abs, love the feel of warm cum.. But i like my strap on done with a condom inside my ass only! Cause its very safe that way. But no real****....
 hardclimber
Joined: 12/24/2007
Msg: 166
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/5/2008 3:32:27 PM
Always use a condom.
 regalrose
Joined: 8/28/2007
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Posted: 1/5/2008 4:39:41 PM
"The American Education System has failed another one."

Oh, you are in your late 20's....another poster, who looked rather young made a statement about being sad that someone asked this question as well. Why? Did it not occur to you that the person was serious, or that maybe they were raised in a time (as I was) where 'the American Education System' as you put it did not teach such things? I am aware that many( if not all) schools now teach sex education rather than leaving it to parents to do, but when I was growing up, there was no such thing in our schools. That happened alot in little backwoods towns, so please people....don't assume someone is stupid just because they may not be as informed as you are. Just kindly inform them since they had the courage to ask in the first place.
 Lick it Up
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 168
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 1/5/2008 5:41:30 PM

I am asking because most anal intercourse is performed without a condom.


And all chicks love to have men cum on their face too....

Stop watching porn!



 custis
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 169
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:00:08 AM
Safe or not, I am not doing it without a condom.
 bayouboy0410
Joined: 11/4/2006
Msg: 170
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:31:24 AM
Actually.... it doesn't matter.... The Anal cavitity of the body is the most sterile part of your body.... A person is more likely to contract a a disease from the virgina than the anus.... However.... do what pleasures both partners....
 TOwoman1
Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 171
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/27/2008 4:59:15 PM
Re: [The Anal cavitity of the body is the most sterile part of your body] I don't know where you got such a notion. Even rimming carries potential risk if the guy being rimmed has hep A or parasites. In terms of STIs, anything you can get from an infected vagina through unprotected sex you can certainly get from the anus and anal area including herpes, HPV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis and HIV. Shall I go on?
 LonestarStar
Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 172
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/27/2008 5:20:59 PM

Actually.... it doesn't matter.... The Anal cavitity of the body is the most sterile part of your body.... A person is more likely to contract a a disease from the virgina than the anus.... However.... do what pleasures both partners....


Idiots giving idiots health advice...
And we wonder why STI's are so prevalent nowadays.

Hey moron! There are plenty of forums where you can flaunt how uneducated you are WITHOUT putting someone's life at risk!
The anal cavity is one of the most bacteria laden areas of the body. Go stick your tongue in one and wiggle it around for a while.
 jcool2
Joined: 12/28/2007
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Posted: 12/27/2008 5:35:46 PM
All the above post our correct! It is NOT safer! I had a friend who use to be a HIV/AIDS instructor for the red cross and he got that question all the time!
 dickwaad
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 174
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Posted: 12/27/2008 5:55:16 PM
It's just as safe as sex with a vagina, as long as you're not talking about gay men.
 widowedmom
Joined: 7/4/2008
Msg: 175
Is anal sex safe without a condom?
Posted: 12/27/2008 6:10:23 PM

The Anal cavitity of the body is the most sterile part of your body.... A person is more likely to contract a a disease from the virgina than the anus....


Excuse me but where did you attend medical school. I think they need to have their credentials pulled. Might I ask which state you hold a medical license for I think they need to investigate the fact that you are giving out very dangerous medical advice.

The absolute worst case of pelvic inflammatory disease I saw in my life was from a young women whose husband convinced her to try anal sex. She ended up in the hospital on iv antibiotics. Any woman who engages in anal sex without a condom is looking for trouble.

If a man is uncircumcised he would equally be out of his mind to try this. It is difficult enough for a man with a foreskin to keep his member clean without introducing it to the bacteria in the anal canal/rectum.

Even if a man promises he will not follow up with vaginal intercourse without washing, a lady would be out of her mind to trust a man in this setting. Passion gets in the way of the best of intentions. Think about how many babies were conceived by the rhythm method of conception.

This is just one educated opinion.
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