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 luneib
Joined: 4/27/2005
Msg: 51
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Well, I only date younger guys, actually, my last bf was 20 years younger than me, and I did ask him if things were to get serious with us, did he want to have children, 'cause if he did, I would either have to adopt, since I can't have any, or let him go, look elsewhere for the love of my life. I would never stand in the way if a guy I was dating wanted children, it just wouldn't be fair to him. But...if two people really care about each other, the chemistry is right, sometimes you can just work things out, he might even chance his mind about having kids, especially since as you mentioned, you have kids. I say enjoy the relationship as it is, but be honest with your bf about whether or not he seriously wants his own kids or not before you get too involved with him. My ex bf does not want kids and he is young, so it just depends on the guy, each guy is so different with regards to that.
 dannyabe
Joined: 3/20/2005
Msg: 52
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/18/2005 5:11:47 PM

Posted By: luneib on 5/18/2005 7:27:22 PM
each guy is so different with regards to that


hey...you got that right and WOW BABY.....you're HOT !!!!!!
 TheSkepticalHippy
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 53
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/18/2005 5:25:32 PM
I thought that you were going back to sleep.
 *BumbleBee*
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 54
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/18/2005 5:47:33 PM
Thanks for this thread .... I think I'll now say yes to the younger guy who recently asked me out on date
 TheSkepticalHippy
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 55
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/18/2005 6:49:46 PM
So, is he like 5 or what?
 *BumbleBee*
Joined: 4/8/2005
Msg: 56
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/18/2005 7:10:44 PM
He's legal, although your "concern" is "appreciated" and your sarcasm is noted.
 TheSkepticalHippy
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 57
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/18/2005 7:20:30 PM
Sorry, can't help myself.

I hope things go well.
 JohnnyF
Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 58
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/18/2005 7:41:05 PM
Go girl, train him right! LOL Good luck!
 TheSkepticalHippy
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 59
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/18/2005 7:43:08 PM
Yep, I'm here for humour. Unfortunately people can be serious here.

I'm just so misunderstood.
 salamander000
Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 60
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36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/18/2005 10:46:03 PM
excuse me I thought this was a place to express opinions, give and take advice, and have an open mind....I will bet you I have dated on a larger age difference than this poster has...doesn't matter, I could this as a personal affront to my dignity, but you have as much right to your opinion(s), as I do mine...

sal, sorry here, but again your way out of line. if you dont like the thread move on plz. just because of your past and your all alone, leave your own bs to yourself. plzzzzzzzz
MM
have a nice night

I happened to like this thread.I often play DA, just because I am bored. Call me a hypocrite,
Call it B.S. I have as much right as anyone to post here.
I get the whole jist of your post except 4 little words at the end....
'have a nice night' what was that all about? BS if I ever heard it....
truth is, I misred the whole thing...my bad there, but does it really matter?
 TheSkepticalHippy
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 61
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 12:16:19 AM
salamander,

Actually you are very correct. You do have a right to post, as long as you don't hurt anyone.

More than once, I've been attacked for being a non-traditional person with non-traditional beliefs. I've mostly been attacked by the religious folk, but I always just apply humor.

So keep on posting. I'll back you up as much as possible.

Remember, you're welcome here and the only person that can send you away is a mod.
 dannyabe
Joined: 3/20/2005
Msg: 62
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 12:20:14 AM

Posted By: salamander000 on 5/19/2005 1:46:03 AM
I happened to like this thread.I often play DA, just because I am bored.

hey....sorry for being stupid....but, what is DA ???
 TheSkepticalHippy
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 63
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 12:24:25 AM
Quite likely:

Devil's advocate

A person that purposely takes an obverse, perverse, or reverse view of an idea or thought than is common or the norm for said thought/idea. This is so they can provoke a debate over those same aforementioned thoughts or ideas.



Well, actually that is the penny version of the detailed definition, but you get the idea.
 dannyabe
Joined: 3/20/2005
Msg: 64
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 1:15:46 AM
yiKes....well, thanks dude
 salamander000
Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 65
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36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 8:55:21 AM
from urban dictionary
devil's advocate
devĀ·il's advocate
n.
One who argues against a cause or position, not as a committed opponent but simply for the sake of argument or to determine the validity of the cause or position.

my apologies to OP for this thread going sideways.....
Back on topic, I agree, follow your heart, peace to everyone,

BTW Granted, taken out of context, it was the "anything is possible with enough effort" statement I was responding to.That is not a logical statement.
 backoftheque
Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 66
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 9:00:01 AM
off topic, sorry: Get off sal's ass..she's awesome..and her opinions are just as valid as anyone elses.
 TheSkepticalHippy
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 67
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 3:58:29 PM
Yep, you can disagree with someone, but you can't censor them.
 Carrie5
Joined: 12/30/2004
Msg: 68
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 4:26:28 PM
Johnny no training involved, tried the training bit for 17 years already LMAO

C
 Carrie5
Joined: 12/30/2004
Msg: 69
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 4:28:35 PM
Danny, it takes all kinds of people to make a world :)
 TheSkepticalHippy
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 70
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 9:06:25 PM
It does?

I thought that all it took was me and that everyone else is here to worship me.
 HollyBerry
Joined: 7/8/2005
Msg: 71
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 9:44:13 PM
giddy up.. guys have been doin the same thing for years and they get praised by their peers for "baggin a hottie"

I personally wouldn't date someone 20.. but I don't have any issues with women that do
 indigo rose
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 72
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 10:12:36 PM
It's just sick and wrong to date those young guys

Hey pretty good to see your face!!!
 DragonRed
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 73
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 10:22:23 PM
When i was a young buck.......waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back the day

Older Moms wanted to do nasty things to Me........
 LfLvRzn
Joined: 12/2/2004
Msg: 74
36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 10:30:54 PM

GREAT THREAD! YOU GO, GIRL! ALOT OF " YOUNG MEN" are QUITE MATURE and know how to TREAT a LADY..............................
GOOD LUCK!
 jacqiO
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 75
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36 year old woman and 21 year old guy?
Posted: 5/19/2005 10:37:46 PM
Not MY thang....I myself, like em at least 30; however for those who do; good for them!!

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