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 mick2521
Joined: 3/9/2008
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There is too much polarization of male sexuality occurring here. It's really sad. I though we were a bit more grown up than that. There seems to be a rush to judge male sexuality, especially by some women and not a few men.
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 227
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Posted: 12/20/2008 5:28:44 AM
Just because Radgy touched and sucked another guy doesn't make him gay. There was a female involved. It would make him bi. Same as 2 women being together doesn't make her a lesbian she could be bi!
 ApplePieFacePlant
Joined: 9/13/2008
Msg: 228
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Posted: 12/20/2008 5:42:50 AM
Darn. I thought OP was going to tell a story about him and 2 other guys.
This thread did not deliver.
:(


Now I want my 5 minutes of reading time back.






Ok. I lied. 2 minutes of reading time.
(I just read the good parts)
 African007
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 229
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Posted: 12/22/2008 11:16:01 PM
I'm seriously addicted to it.
I'm not worried about touching the other guy -especially a high5 or two-because I'm simply not gay or bi.

Its all about watching the women work those two joysticks..
It takes commitment and skill ...
 LonestarStar
Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 230
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Posted: 12/22/2008 11:23:13 PM
I would much rather be with another woman and a man. Two penises sounds like a lot of work!
Either way, I'd never do either with someone I cared about. I've been the "other woman" in a threesome situation, and I walked away unscathed -- the couple, not so much. I think those things are best left for casual sexual partners unless you're just a wild, incredibly secure couple.
 LonestarStar
Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 231
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Posted: 12/22/2008 11:27:44 PM


That's so True. Sorry to say it dude, you're gay. Well that's all there is to it. Straight men don't suck guys.


Not to encourage the double standard of man-man play and woman-woman play, but I almost died laughing when I read this.
You said what every other machismo-filled man in this forum was thinking...
 crimsonandthewhite
Joined: 7/27/2005
Msg: 232
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Posted: 12/23/2008 3:35:51 AM
threesomes have never been my cup of tea

ironically i am bi sexual and people i meet always seem to think i would be down for threesomes once they find out i am bi

it is a stereotype that bisexuals are into threesomes

anyhoo strange enough i am turned on by porn scenes where there is two guys and one girl, i love it dont know y
 Angel-1222
Joined: 11/11/2008
Msg: 233
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Posted: 12/23/2008 8:07:34 AM
I've done a MMF only once. I didn't enjoy it that much. I would much rather do a FFM. The guy appreciates it more, and I think gals are much more sensitive and considerate.
 HoneyI`mHome
Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 234
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Posted: 12/23/2008 8:13:25 AM
some days mz. tam can`t keep up w/1 man let alone 2 men!.. ..
 kkkiiimmm
Joined: 5/31/2008
Msg: 235
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Posted: 12/23/2008 11:21:27 AM
It can be fun. But, in the long run, I think it causes problems. There ends up being jealousy issues: "you enjoyed it more with him, than you did with me." blah blah blah.
 Hypnoticappeal
Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 236
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Posted: 12/23/2008 11:48:04 AM
Only did it once with my wife and a male friend who was living with us at the time. Had potential, but he couldn't work with it (it was her idea). They are now married and we are all still friends, although he is adamant about not sharing. LOL. Would do it again in a minute, but prefer it to be people I am comfortable with and trust. Never did FMF, but would like to.

So, where was that sign up list?
 sunkist76
Joined: 4/21/2008
Msg: 237
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Posted: 12/23/2008 12:47:55 PM
i had one back in college with my then boyfriend and his dorm roommate. however now i stuck to 1 penis at a time during sex.
 Angel-1222
Joined: 11/11/2008
Msg: 238
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Posted: 12/23/2008 9:09:24 PM


"you enjoyed it more with him, than you did with me

Well did you....?
 Renaissance_Dude
Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 239
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Posted: 12/23/2008 9:53:44 PM
Yikes. Can't do it. How can I focus on a mind-blowing brain-body meld with Biff and his wonder-willie crashing my groove?

Pass. FWIW, I did have a GF make hints about this and it freaked me out and we are no longer together because of all the chaos it introduced into the relationship.
 tallmat1972
Joined: 9/18/2008
Msg: 240
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Posted: 12/24/2008 4:36:49 AM
only good with 2 women. or a four some with 3 women. Fun fun times for sure! and seeing all the girls go at each other after I had each of them was hot as hell!
 mikesignify30
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 241
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Posted: 12/24/2008 4:42:13 AM
2 girls and one guy? hell yeah! bring it on!

Two guys and one girl? nah... i don't want some guy's ass in my view while trying to get my groove on with a girl. Thats just uber gay.
 Sexy Nutty Bird!!!
Joined: 9/14/2008
Msg: 242
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Posted: 12/24/2008 5:07:04 PM
A three some can be fun, if it is with the right people
 mick2521
Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 12/25/2008 3:00:56 AM
mikisignify,

Girl-girl is gay too. It's a homosexual act.
 HumorMe*
Joined: 10/17/2008
Msg: 244
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Posted: 12/25/2008 5:02:22 AM
This is a fun post.

I wouldn't ever do the 2 guys and one girl thing.

I know that freeing oneself from inhibitions is good for sex...

but i'd be losing too much control there. lol.

but i might try it sometime, who knows? :
 big22blue
Joined: 1/13/2007
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Posted: 12/26/2008 12:43:59 PM
rather it was two girls--they would always touch and you'd be the burger and not the bun.
 m_church
Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 12/26/2008 12:46:49 PM

Only did it once with my wife and a male friend who was living with us at the time. Had potential, but he couldn't work with it (it was her idea). They are now married and we are all still friends, although he is adamant about not sharing.

Ummm let me see, you shared out your wife to a friend, and now she's married to him....
Hmmm good plan....
No wonder he won't share her out.... doesn't want a repeat of what happened to you....
 Hearttune
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 247
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Posted: 12/26/2008 3:10:15 PM
I wonder what percentage of guys are like me when it comes to this question? I'm not a prude, consider myself erotically open-minded, sexually adventurous in my own way, yet I have had no real desire to explore either a MFM or FMF arrangement. It's just not hard-wired into me. I don't even fantasize about doing it, and yet I consider myself as having an imagination on steroids when I turn it loose, certainly beyond the vanilla. I am actually surprised this is the case, knowing what I do of myself.

I will admit to being turned on by it at times when it came up in some porn thing I was watching; but it's purely been of a voyeuristic/masturbatory nature. I just don't naturally think of, or fantasize about MFM or FMF situations, let alone pursue them.

I'm beginning to think I'm weird (what's new?). Help me out here.
 exarmy30
Joined: 10/22/2007
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Posted: 12/27/2008 5:47:08 PM
I couldnt/wouldnt do it with anyone I had future plans with. It probably be exciting and fun at the time. But Id feel different about it later.
 mick2521
Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 12/27/2008 6:27:22 PM
Hearttune,

You are not weird at all. In fact, you are probably the most adjusted individual. If you can get turned on sufficiently with just one partner in a one-to-one encounter then you are true to your orientation and don't need enhancement with fetish-like arrangements involving a third party.
 corinthians13
Joined: 3/2/2008
Msg: 250
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Posted: 12/27/2008 7:20:48 PM
There's a lot of flack given to couples who involve a third, and honestly, that's not fair. Sex is not parliament. It's not the House of Commons. It's not Congress. It's not court. It's warfare. It's the jungle. It's primal.

Couples can and do engage in this all over the world, and a thriving subculture is built upon it. Granted, anyone with an interest should be absolutely sure they can handle it, but people tend to lean toward the negative too much.

Seeing your love in ecstasy from a viewpoint that allows for free admiration without distraction is breathtaking! Having an openess that allows her to do as she will makes it okay when she does (she's being honest and not cheating -- there's no betrayal or deception involved), and can make it even sweeter when she don't. Either way is win.

On top of that, when your woman is with another man who is better built, better hung, and (whatever other insecurity you may have) than you, and she still has a much better, more intense reaction to you, that can be a confidence and self-esteem booster like no other. On top of all that, the trust that ensues from knowing that you really do please her best brings you closer. As if these were not benefit enough, engaging in this proves beyond all doubt that there is more to your relationship than sex -- if that were all it was, she would feel better with them.

Our perspectives of these things come from a moral revolution that began in Rome shortly before Christ and continues to this day, despite the modern ability of people to be responsible and prevent disease and pregnancy -- something they did not have when the values of monogamy were introduced. In fact, in ancient times, women were the least monogamous creatures on the planet. In ancient Greece, it was the custom at houseparties that male guests would each please the lady of the house out of gratitude for being hosted.

There is a flip side to this, though: What goes for the goose does NOT go for the gander. Women in ancient times had to survive while carrying the equivalent of a twenty pound bowling ball (a baby), which ruled out hunting. A suitable mate then was one who would stick aroud and take care of her. Over time, intelligent evolution led to the need of women for their men to be monogamous. It's a lot easier for a man to hunt for one woman and some offspring than for many. This is the other reason why such values were invented (yes -- invented -- they're NOT natural).

Plus, freedom from the societally-induced requirement for jealousy, anger, and resentment quickly reveals in the evolved male that such things are illogical and unnecessary in the modern era.

What's more important than female sexual monogamy is honesty. More than 70% of wives in America cheat. Ever wonder why?
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