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 Hearttune
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 226
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I wonder what percentage of guys are like me when it comes to this question? I'm not a prude, consider myself erotically open-minded, sexually adventurous in my own way, yet I have had no real desire to explore either a MFM or FMF arrangement. It's just not hard-wired into me. I don't even fantasize about doing it, and yet I consider myself as having an imagination on steroids when I turn it loose, certainly beyond the vanilla. I am actually surprised this is the case, knowing what I do of myself.

I will admit to being turned on by it at times when it came up in some porn thing I was watching; but it's purely been of a voyeuristic/masturbatory nature. I just don't naturally think of, or fantasize about MFM or FMF situations, let alone pursue them.

I'm beginning to think I'm weird (what's new?). Help me out here.
 exarmy30
Joined: 10/22/2007
Msg: 227
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Posted: 12/27/2008 5:47:08 PM
I couldnt/wouldnt do it with anyone I had future plans with. It probably be exciting and fun at the time. But Id feel different about it later.
 corinthians13
Joined: 3/2/2008
Msg: 228
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Posted: 12/27/2008 7:20:48 PM
There's a lot of flack given to couples who involve a third, and honestly, that's not fair. Sex is not parliament. It's not the House of Commons. It's not Congress. It's not court. It's warfare. It's the jungle. It's primal.

Couples can and do engage in this all over the world, and a thriving subculture is built upon it. Granted, anyone with an interest should be absolutely sure they can handle it, but people tend to lean toward the negative too much.

Seeing your love in ecstasy from a viewpoint that allows for free admiration without distraction is breathtaking! Having an openess that allows her to do as she will makes it okay when she does (she's being honest and not cheating -- there's no betrayal or deception involved), and can make it even sweeter when she don't. Either way is win.

On top of that, when your woman is with another man who is better built, better hung, and (whatever other insecurity you may have) than you, and she still has a much better, more intense reaction to you, that can be a confidence and self-esteem booster like no other. On top of all that, the trust that ensues from knowing that you really do please her best brings you closer. As if these were not benefit enough, engaging in this proves beyond all doubt that there is more to your relationship than sex -- if that were all it was, she would feel better with them.

Our perspectives of these things come from a moral revolution that began in Rome shortly before Christ and continues to this day, despite the modern ability of people to be responsible and prevent disease and pregnancy -- something they did not have when the values of monogamy were introduced. In fact, in ancient times, women were the least monogamous creatures on the planet. In ancient Greece, it was the custom at houseparties that male guests would each please the lady of the house out of gratitude for being hosted.

There is a flip side to this, though: What goes for the goose does NOT go for the gander. Women in ancient times had to survive while carrying the equivalent of a twenty pound bowling ball (a baby), which ruled out hunting. A suitable mate then was one who would stick aroud and take care of her. Over time, intelligent evolution led to the need of women for their men to be monogamous. It's a lot easier for a man to hunt for one woman and some offspring than for many. This is the other reason why such values were invented (yes -- invented -- they're NOT natural).

Plus, freedom from the societally-induced requirement for jealousy, anger, and resentment quickly reveals in the evolved male that such things are illogical and unnecessary in the modern era.

What's more important than female sexual monogamy is honesty. More than 70% of wives in America cheat. Ever wonder why?
 Hearttune
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 229
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Posted: 12/27/2008 7:40:18 PM

You are not weird at all. In fact, you are probably the most adjusted individual. If you can get turned on sufficiently with just one partner in a one-to-one encounter then you are true to your orientation and don't need enhancement with fetish-like arrangements involving a third party.


Thanks for that. I feel a little better. :)

I was just honestly wondering how many guys just DON'T have this fantasy hard-wired into them? I suppose there's a shadow side to it, like I have this Russia sized ego that can't conceive of the notion of another man doing it with me, or some primal fear that two women would psychologically strangle me like Medussa until my ego could fit inside of a thimble. I suppose there's that.

Then again, I just don't.

(Sometimes simple common sense rules)
 Sensitive P. Ness
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 230
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Posted: 12/28/2008 1:17:59 AM
Uhhhhhhh...................

Count me out of this here exercise!!
 ghusker
Joined: 8/14/2006
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Posted: 1/14/2009 2:09:35 PM
I don't think I would consider mfm, but I am all for fmf..I have a female friend that we are looking to partner up with another attractive female..Angel-1222 you would be fabulous.........
 Luthion
Joined: 12/1/2008
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Posted: 1/14/2009 2:29:17 PM
The degree to which men apply double standards to this idea always amuses me. Men say they're not interested in mfm but ffm is okay? The problem what that reasoning is this...

Most of the men replying say they're not interested in touching other men. Well, this may come as a newsflash to you guys, but the woman is just as likely to not to be interested in touching other women.

So if you want a threesome and want these ladies touching each other, you should damn willing to return the favour with a guy for her. You'd be surprised how many women like the gay-man thing.

Me? I'm all game, if that's what the person's into.
 Kevinc!
Joined: 8/28/2008
Msg: 233
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Posted: 1/14/2009 2:29:56 PM
well my experince is where i met two women off line and had that happen to me
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 234
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Posted: 1/14/2009 4:21:50 PM

Ummm let me see, you shared out your wife to a friend, and now she's married to him....
Hmmm good plan....
No wonder he won't share her out.... doesn't want a repeat of what happened to you....


So this guy puts an ad in the classifieds saying he's look for a wife to settle down with. Two days later, his mailbox is overflowing with replies, all from men, and all saying, "Here! Take mine!"


Now, before I get taken down hard, It's a JOKE!!! Really!! I don't endorse the sentiment. The debil made me do it.
 CynthiaM
Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 235
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Posted: 1/14/2009 5:07:49 PM
*smackin whytwater upside the head

Now, before I get taken down hard

Nope. Not gonna do it. You'd like it too much ;-)
 SpiggyLib
Joined: 12/8/2008
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Posted: 1/14/2009 6:46:19 PM

So if you want a threesome and want these ladies touching each other, you should damn willing to return the favour with a guy for her. You'd be surprised how many women like the gay-man thing.

Me? I'm all game, if that's what the person's into.


Word. See, there are still a few out there who "get it".
 BuryCaesar
Joined: 1/10/2009
Msg: 237
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Posted: 1/16/2009 5:46:37 AM

I have no desire to be in a MfM encounter. Most men want a 3some with 2 women. I don't even want that, the thought of disappointing 2 women at the same time doesn't appeal to me
So if read this correctly your ok with disappointing one woman , just not two. The man is brave. Or really really dumb.
 coldlogic
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 238
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Posted: 1/16/2009 10:17:43 AM
Um, i think i would like it .
But i dont know if i would or could do it without feeling slightly gross afterwards.
 mbdhforu
Joined: 1/13/2009
Msg: 239
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Posted: 1/16/2009 10:34:43 AM
I have done this before. I was drunk out of my mind, but it was good. Very arousing!
 mbdhforu
Joined: 1/13/2009
Msg: 240
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Posted: 1/16/2009 10:36:57 AM
although I have had sex with two males, I have also done it with another female and a male. I think I like the two females and a male better. I am actually looking for another female to join me and my boyfriend if anyone knows anyone.
 bdrmeyes4u
Joined: 11/3/2007
Msg: 241
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Posted: 1/16/2009 11:04:05 AM
Oh c'mon John...where is your sense of humor? Most women think we are doomed to fail before we even get our clothes off....

I have had thoughts about 2 women with me between them but have yet to do it. Far as being with a couple (man and woman)....that could be interesting....as well as an orgy...just for the sex
 justaguy6302
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 242
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Posted: 1/16/2009 11:37:36 AM
i have had them with men and women, both are fun although if the girls arent bi, the guy better take lots of vitamins. HAHAHAHAHA
 demoronnie1
Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 243
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Posted: 2/28/2009 11:49:42 PM
explain your best experiecie
 demoronnie1
Joined: 8/30/2008
Msg: 244
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Posted: 2/28/2009 11:58:52 PM
i have had 1girl and 2 big**** and she was sqirtinting for hrs
 Caper143
Joined: 8/2/2007
Msg: 245
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Posted: 3/1/2009 5:23:56 AM
I have never done a threesome with two men but it's a huge fantasy.
 vrb1955
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 246
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 3/1/2009 5:27:45 AM
Why? Who want's to know? ..Where you from the census dept?





Why do i get the impression that most people on this site have never had sex, very limited experiences , or very straight sex every time they do?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 247
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Posted: 3/1/2009 6:19:51 AM

I have never done a threesome with two men but it's a huge fantasy.


DITTO!! (but modified slightly for gender purposes). Just seems like a woman's design is more suitable to matching two men, rather than one man attempting two women. Still, just a fantasy, but yeah, huge.
 forumlover
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 248
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Posted: 3/1/2009 9:07:39 AM
I was having sex with the man I was with at a resort down south. We were around the pool at night and thought we were alone, but he noticed someone watching. He asked me if I wanted to tease the peeper a little , and I said sure.
The man I was with asked the other guy if he wanted a little taste of some of this sweet pu$$y.
Athough he was shocked, he came over and sure enough started on me. My man got the best oral ever during this little adventure......it lasted about half an hour, he left and never did say a word.
It was something that never happened to me before...or ever again.
An amazing memory
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 249
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Posted: 3/1/2009 9:38:03 AM
that 3rd guy had some tremendous balls to do that...and he didn't say a word?!?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 250
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Posted: 3/1/2009 9:45:47 AM

and he didn't say a word?!?


HA! A cameo appearance, or just a random extra? They never get the speaking parts, just proud to be in the movie.
Although, if true,"tease" was kinda understated, imho. Bet that guy was standing in exactly the same spot, at the same time, the next night. Lol.
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