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 rjb888
Joined: 4/4/2007
Msg: 32
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That's one fanasty that I won't satisfy.

Would ruin sex for me...I'd alway be asking "honey where's your friend?"
 mlsaarln
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 33
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/24/2007 8:33:19 PM
I hear this a lot:
s a situation where you have to be very secure in your relationshi
but I have to say, I disagree, completely! I think that "playing" in this manner is only safe for those NOT seriously involved. Separating sex from a relationship, in my eyes (and my heart) is possible only when there is no relationship at stake. I know of far too many couples for whom experimenting in this manner was nothing more than the beginning of the end. Sometimes, it is the consequence, other times, the symptom. Far from a prude, I think this only really "works" when there is nothing emotional at stake. Just my two cents.
 Noexcuse
Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 34
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/24/2007 8:41:57 PM
to her defense...she wasnt stupid..it was her fantasy and she fulfilled it...everyone has their own fantasy.
 greeneyedokiegirl
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 35
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/24/2007 8:49:42 PM
Just because you have 2 guys doesn't mean you have to do D.P.... from experience... My as* is exit only thanx! But having two guys at once can be fun... with the right 2 guys... JMO :)
 winterrenegade
Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 36
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/24/2007 8:53:10 PM
I don't believe in 3somes too begin with, I just don't like too share, I want all the good lovin too myself
 occupant
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 37
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/24/2007 9:36:40 PM
My wife has mentioned wanting DP. Now that she's drinking Diet Cokes instead, I have a feeling she wants something else with those initials. I know that if we were to go ahead with it, that the guy would have to be someone we don't know, who would come in, give us the body part we need, and leave, never to be seen again. I'm sure there's plenty of guys who would love to help out, but I do have to wonder if *we* would be able to handle it.

I guess she'd have to get me drunk first.
 blondein_tokyo
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 38
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/24/2007 10:43:58 PM

I hear this a lot:
s a situation where you have to be very secure in your relationshi
but I have to say, I disagree, completely! I think that "playing" in this manner is only safe for those NOT seriously involved. Separating sex from a relationship, in my eyes (and my heart) is possible only when there is no relationship at stake. I know of far too many couples for whom experimenting in this manner was nothing more than the beginning of the end. Sometimes, it is the consequence, other times, the symptom. Far from a prude, I think this only really "works" when there is nothing emotional at stake. Just my two cents.


I don't think anyone would call you a prude for feeling that way; your heart works the way it works. But you don't speak for everyone- I'm in an open relationship, and my boyfriend and I have no trouble with separating love and sex. It IS possible, and it CAN work- for some people, just not all.

Back to the original topic, I love being with more than one guy at a time. Just a few weeks ago at a swing party, I had the chance to be with THREE guys. That was just GREAT!! Really enjoyed it.

And to guys who think women who do threesomes are a turn off....fine by me! Makes no difference, since I won't ever be WANTING to date you, anyway.
 crayonzz
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 39
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:30:11 AM
One of my past lovers did it, long after she and I had broken up. If you are turned on by it then thats your choice. Nothing illegal about it. Strictly your businesss.
 whothehellknows
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 40
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 6:29:00 AM

Yeah, I could do it. But not with any girl I cared about. If I was dating a girl and found out she'd done 3somes or moresomes, I'd be moving on.


Well hopefully your partners would be as judgemental as you are. Let me guess, you are probably the type to sleep with a woman on the first date, then consider her easy because she did the same thing you did.
 taogca
Joined: 7/22/2007
Msg: 41
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having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:34:46 AM
op

Know you asked for women responding, see that men are speaking thier mind also.

when in my 20's--yes, 2 men,1 women
yes, 2 women,1 man
yes, 3 women,1 man
yes,3 men,1 woman

very enjoyable experiences, yes there were adult beverages involved,lol


Dont recall msg#'s
someone asked why males dont touch each other, [homophobia]
women are not raised to have same homophobic issues as men.
 Mae B
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 43
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 1:48:40 PM
Did it.. loved it.. would do it again!
 Ave Caesar
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 44
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 1:50:40 PM
Why are all the hot women in Canada?
 Lovin life......
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 45
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:20:59 PM
I would love it!!! had a menage a trois with me, another girl and a guy!!! Was good but would prefer 2 guys!!
 cllgegrl
Joined: 10/9/2007
Msg: 46
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:33:19 PM

That's one fanasty that I won't satisfy.
Would ruin sex for me...I'd alway be asking "honey where's your friend?"


Haha. I thought that was funny.

I admit that the idea of this sort of situation does sound very intriguing.
On the other hand, as stated previously, it sounds a little trashy.
I dont know that I'd ever try it for myself.
If I was to try it, it could not be with men I was in a relationship with.
From a man's standpoint, I dont think it is gay at all.
Most men are just gigantic homophobes.
To each his own.
*M*
 deliciousmmm
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 47
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:49:38 PM
I would love it myself !!!
 snapdragon1948
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 48
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 7:25:23 PM
Sounds like a lot of fun to me and I'm 59. Just one fanticy that hasn't come true YET. Still working on it. My biggest problem is finding 2 that won't get all up tight about it to begin with . Now to be serious. I wouldn't even consider it if I was in a relationship where the man didn't go for the idea instantly. But a solid relationship would have no problem as long as it was a mutual thing. If I'm going to have 2 men he should be allowed to have 2 women with my blessing.
Yes I have been in a 4 some. NOT BAD but wouldn't do it again. Had fun but the other lady was to aggressive for me and made it uncomfortable. So I just took her boyfriend for mine and let the chips fall where they may. So far he has been a dream come true. I enjoy our time and respect his no strings life style. It's working out great. :
 hevgem
Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 49
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:22:09 PM
I'm with you Mae B - bring it on. love the attention and action.......
 Mae B
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 50
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/3/2007 9:27:40 AM
Exactly! Gives us something/someone to do when one guy needs a rest period... I often find as long as it is well discussed before hand two guys can perform together.
It has always irked me somewhat that the natural assumption is that a threesome is a guy and two girls. Two guys is fantastic!!
 notlookingjim
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 51
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/3/2007 9:48:30 AM
dont believe i want to do any sword fighting with another guy. sorry
 vahbsc
Joined: 1/5/2006
Msg: 52
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/3/2007 12:51:47 PM
I MIGHT DO IT... MAYBE. IT WOULD HAVE TO BE THE RIGHT GUYS, AND NOT IN A TRAIN , I GUESS DOUBLE PENE
 oldmoon
Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 53
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/7/2007 6:43:39 AM
You had your threesome with the wrong guys, wanta try again?
 coca2
Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 54
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:32:39 AM
With threesomes ,actually any sex. Isn't anyone concerned with diseases?? Sure one can wear a condom. But what about oral sex? I worked with sexual disease infected people years ago. Scarry stuff....makes me want to jump in a Hefty bag.
 knightrider2008
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 55
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/26/2007 7:53:26 PM
i would love to have a 3sum but here in mansfield i haven't found women that will do that for me
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
Msg: 56
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having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/26/2007 9:29:29 PM
LOVE IT!!!!

I love having 2 guys at the same time. Love to be in control and tell them what to do.

Totally love being with 2 BI guys. Such a turn on.

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With all due respect and as much as I revere the 14th Ammendment, are you not at all concerned about a much greater potential of a s sexual death sentence? Never, EVER forget how long certain symptoms take to manifest themselves.

As to double penetration, what about mounting a sturdy dildo just high enough on the wall to keep your feet off the floor and pulling you almost off of it as were stroking back? And no, I would not get into the rocking motion for I am naturally averse to being in any let alone immediate proximity to an aroused penis that isn't attached to me. Thinking all men would enjoy something because you've observed one or a few enjoying it is simply irrational and self serving.
 Beedo
Joined: 11/29/2007
Msg: 57
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:34:23 PM
Fantasise about it about half the time,
never done it, hard enough to find one guy
I'm really into, so two at the same time and willing
would be close to a miracle, but guess If my SO was
sharing the fantasy and we knew someone etc etc,
would like to try it once, mayby only once.
dont think its any filthier than two women and
a guy, hell far as that goes.. you can get filthy alone.
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