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 misterdifferent
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 26
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It's an enjoyable experience. I enjoy being a part of pleasuring a woman at a higherlevel. With the extra stimulation it is a blast from the visual stimulation to the physical. It's is not something that I will go into a relationship looking for however I am open to it once trust is built. I am not homophobic nor do I have a burning desire to have physical interaction with a man. Sometimes hands and body parts end up all over the place. It's all about enjoying the moment and going with the flow at that point.

You can take the "worry" out of it a bit and control what happens by having all parties discuss what goes on before hand. Best way to do it I would imagine.
 Pfm1011
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 27
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 10/25/2007 5:10:46 PM
I enjoy servicing a lady with and extra guy , Basically a self propelled dildo,
Had 3 guys and an ex once, very fun .Love to see a woman that can handle it
 christinafree
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 28
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Posted: 11/16/2007 8:37:25 AM
I have done both men and women and really loved both. sounds like you have had the women and sounds kinda 1 sided that you wouldn't try it if you enjoyed the 2 women .
 thatsasecrect
Joined: 9/14/2006
Msg: 29
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/16/2007 8:40:56 AM
I have not done this, but a buddy of mine does this with two of his buddies with anonymous women once or twic a year.

ick. one girl....three men. Nay I say. Nay.
 m_church
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 30
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Posted: 11/16/2007 9:37:31 AM
Yeah, I could do it. But not with any girl I cared about. If I was dating a girl and found out she'd done 3somes or moresomes, I'd be moving on.
Like the one poster said "being treated like utter filth". And this is a good thing????
Sorry a girl who does that just isn't my scene. If she's not smart enough to realise she's just being used as a c*m dumpster she's not smart enough to be dating me.
 1SweetSarah
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 31
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Posted: 11/16/2007 10:19:06 AM
My husband and I are swingers, so we've been in a number of sexual situations...and we've had a lot of fun with MFM...or FMMMM... or FFMM..etc lol
I personally love having all the attention lavished on me...but I think you have to have a certain type of personality to fully enjoy it. If you're shy or self-conscious, you may not enjoy all the attention. I also have a tendency to be a bit exhibitionistic...
To each their own I say!
 twisted_steel
Joined: 5/26/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 11/16/2007 10:21:30 PM

I envy people who are totally open minded sexually and other wise. I think it must mean they are more open minded in general.


I don't know how true this one is and can only speek for myself. I am very open minded sexually. At least I think so lol. But in several other areas of my life I am very closed minded. It might seem strange but sex is the one and only time I have an anything goes attitude. Otherwise my views are rather rigid.
 stephaniezowie
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 11/17/2007 2:34:32 AM
this is what's up

there is a place inside a female that can only be found by double penetration
it is a wild orgasm that happens when the 2 umm d---ks kind of get in a rhythm
of opposite motion

and u men can lie all u want

but it is true that the man does get a good feeling from the other man's motion

and i am not good with words but u know toys work too
 2 girls short of a 3some
Joined: 7/10/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 11/17/2007 2:58:36 AM
what a clever thread to expose peoples morality and find a way the OP can hit on the women that enjoy this

sex -- what ever happened to

one man + one woman = good time

why do donkeys and midgets and all associated crap have to be involved ?
 ISHTAR38
Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 35
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 11/17/2007 5:33:14 AM
Hey, I'd love to watch two very cute guys go at it!!

 YadaYadaYada_again
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 11/17/2007 7:38:24 AM
woohoo! for a D.P.!!!!!


I have been in that situation twice now. Once with straight men and once with bi men...the bi men are MUCH more fun...they weren't nearly as focused on me as they were on the whole picture which was awesome! With straight guys they are so worried about their balls touching it becomes almost like a task.
 m_church
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 37
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Posted: 11/24/2007 7:43:25 PM
I'm pleased for you. I'm glad for the other guys too... At least they have a funny story to tell all their buddies and casual acquaintances about.....
 rjb888
Joined: 4/4/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 11/24/2007 8:17:22 PM
That's one fanasty that I won't satisfy.

Would ruin sex for me...I'd alway be asking "honey where's your friend?"
 mlsaarln
Joined: 9/23/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 11/24/2007 8:33:19 PM
I hear this a lot:
s a situation where you have to be very secure in your relationshi
but I have to say, I disagree, completely! I think that "playing" in this manner is only safe for those NOT seriously involved. Separating sex from a relationship, in my eyes (and my heart) is possible only when there is no relationship at stake. I know of far too many couples for whom experimenting in this manner was nothing more than the beginning of the end. Sometimes, it is the consequence, other times, the symptom. Far from a prude, I think this only really "works" when there is nothing emotional at stake. Just my two cents.
 Noexcuse
Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 40
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Posted: 11/24/2007 8:41:57 PM
to her defense...she wasnt stupid..it was her fantasy and she fulfilled it...everyone has their own fantasy.
 greeneyedokiegirl
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 41
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Posted: 11/24/2007 8:49:42 PM
Just because you have 2 guys doesn't mean you have to do D.P.... from experience... My as* is exit only thanx! But having two guys at once can be fun... with the right 2 guys... JMO :)
 winterrenegade
Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 11/24/2007 8:53:10 PM
I don't believe in 3somes too begin with, I just don't like too share, I want all the good lovin too myself
 occupant
Joined: 11/21/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 11/24/2007 9:36:40 PM
My wife has mentioned wanting DP. Now that she's drinking Diet Cokes instead, I have a feeling she wants something else with those initials. I know that if we were to go ahead with it, that the guy would have to be someone we don't know, who would come in, give us the body part we need, and leave, never to be seen again. I'm sure there's plenty of guys who would love to help out, but I do have to wonder if *we* would be able to handle it.

I guess she'd have to get me drunk first.
 blondein_tokyo
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 44
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Posted: 11/24/2007 10:43:58 PM

I hear this a lot:
s a situation where you have to be very secure in your relationshi
but I have to say, I disagree, completely! I think that "playing" in this manner is only safe for those NOT seriously involved. Separating sex from a relationship, in my eyes (and my heart) is possible only when there is no relationship at stake. I know of far too many couples for whom experimenting in this manner was nothing more than the beginning of the end. Sometimes, it is the consequence, other times, the symptom. Far from a prude, I think this only really "works" when there is nothing emotional at stake. Just my two cents.


I don't think anyone would call you a prude for feeling that way; your heart works the way it works. But you don't speak for everyone- I'm in an open relationship, and my boyfriend and I have no trouble with separating love and sex. It IS possible, and it CAN work- for some people, just not all.

Back to the original topic, I love being with more than one guy at a time. Just a few weeks ago at a swing party, I had the chance to be with THREE guys. That was just GREAT!! Really enjoyed it.

And to guys who think women who do threesomes are a turn off....fine by me! Makes no difference, since I won't ever be WANTING to date you, anyway.
 connieisgood
Joined: 11/13/2007
Msg: 45
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Posted: 11/25/2007 4:23:18 AM
I did it once, as one of things do to before u die. not sure I'd do it again!
 crayonzz
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 11/25/2007 4:30:11 AM
One of my past lovers did it, long after she and I had broken up. If you are turned on by it then thats your choice. Nothing illegal about it. Strictly your businesss.
 whothehellknows
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 47
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Posted: 11/25/2007 6:29:00 AM

Yeah, I could do it. But not with any girl I cared about. If I was dating a girl and found out she'd done 3somes or moresomes, I'd be moving on.


Well hopefully your partners would be as judgemental as you are. Let me guess, you are probably the type to sleep with a woman on the first date, then consider her easy because she did the same thing you did.
 taogca
Joined: 7/22/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 11/25/2007 8:34:46 AM
op

Know you asked for women responding, see that men are speaking thier mind also.

when in my 20's--yes, 2 men,1 women
yes, 2 women,1 man
yes, 3 women,1 man
yes,3 men,1 woman

very enjoyable experiences, yes there were adult beverages involved,lol


Dont recall msg#'s
someone asked why males dont touch each other, [homophobia]
women are not raised to have same homophobic issues as men.
 iRap07
Joined: 10/29/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 11/25/2007 11:05:13 AM
Funny thing firts time i had sex it was me and my friend on this one girl, it's pretty fun
especially when the girl's really into it then everything goes smoothly i don't know about the voyeuristic thing getting turned on by seeing a guy do a girl i focus on what i'm doing
but yea you might be surprised at how many men get turned on by that and as that one girl said it's a porn thing lol.
 hardcoredaydreamer
Joined: 8/17/2005
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Posted: 11/25/2007 11:13:11 AM
i would totally love to do a 3sum some time! although in my imaginings it's always me and another girl and guy. The thoughts of two guys doesn't turn me on as much. Although the other girl would have to be a bit of a lesbian and more interested in me than the bloke..
Really in reality the whole thing could potentially be a huge blow to the ego. I mean what they said in SATC is totally true 'in a 3sum always be the guest never a series regular'.
the more i think about it the more i think it should remain a fantasy.. ALTHOUGH if i was really drunk, a little stoned and with hot rugby guy and a hot (although not intimidatingly so) girl then it might be fun..
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