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 ngat73
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 76
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If that is what turns you on more than anything, you might want to consider yourself bi-curious...at least for now. If you a posting on this subject and that curious...bi-curious can quickly changed into bi-sexual. I don't know alot of bi-sexual men, but I know alot of gay men.

 blondein_tokyo
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 77
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/27/2007 10:59:24 PM
Um.....just because a guy is excited at the idea of watching a girl get fvcked by another man doesn't mean he's gay....if that were true, then all guys who like to watch porn, are also gay.

Threesomes can be great, with the right people, at the right time. It's not for everyone, but I seem to handle it just fine!

 ngat73
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 78
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/27/2007 11:26:55 PM
No offense...but in the heat of the moment...when everyone is hot and horny. Don't be surprised that one man can over-power another. It happens in jails. I see this on television of course. But, if it is with willing participants...you never know what happens. I said bi-sexual not gay. The men that I have been acquainted in my past usually don't like other d**** to be around in the sack with them. Bi-sexuality with women are openly accepted and with men it isn't.
 ngat73
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 79
Liberating . . .
Posted: 12/28/2007 10:15:30 AM
Well...if you have a guy deciding to stick his****up in another guy or help out by sucking his**** or grabbing his penis even in the heat of the moment he would be considered to have bi-curios tendencies which will make him somewhat bi-sexual.

I think many sexual women that are hetersexual don't have the a problem with having two men. But, from my experience most men that like or care for you aren't going to have any of that unless he is somewhat bi-sexual or maybe just curious. But, how many times would you do it to mantain the "just curious" title before you are considered bi? Most guys won't or don't want another fucking his woman. Unless it was someone he considered a "bitch" or "whore" anyway. Sorry just using terms I have heard when men to refer to those types of women.

Me...I try to be very intuned and honest with myself. I guage my reaction to certain situations to slot me in a category when my friends have these subjects up for conversation. At this point in my life I am not really bi-curious and think I love men 96.9% of the time. So, if I was bi the chances would be very low. I had a dream about almost having sex with Britany Spears two weeks ago and woke up and immediately told my friend and analyzed the dream and the mechanical penis she seem to have surgically placed. We didn't have sex and I was turned on and was frustrated because we don't follow through. But I wondered why I dreamt about her, well the tv was on and they were playing Britney Spears all day or night I guess on entertainment news. I woke up wondering why I didn't end up dreaming about Angelina Jolie instead because if I were into woman she seems to wreak of sexual energy that is a big turn-on. Who wouldn't fuck Angelina Jolie?

I think I would kick ass munching carpet or clitoral stimulation or knowing my wat around a womans anatomy because I am a woman, however the curiosity or the heat of the moment might lead me to participate but from my experience the comfort level or enjoyment is not there so therefore I concluded that I am not bi and that it was just a curiosity factor or phase because I am so open to different groups and types of people for friendship. And, swingers and homosexuals love converting unsuspecting people into their world. At least from what I have seen.
 T-baby1305
Joined: 12/14/2007
Msg: 80
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/28/2007 10:37:10 AM
yum! I would totally do it I just like stuff like that :) Iam not a ho or anything but i cant say i dont like it if i dont try. The thought of it is rather attractive.
 m_church
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 81
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Posted: 12/28/2007 11:05:39 AM

As for the guys not touching each other, well that may be true for some guys, but in the heat of the moment it sometimes happens, and it usually doesn't seem that important at the time.

Had an incident many years ago. Met this woman at a bar and she was with her "brother" who was staying at her place... She told me she was single, and eventually I ended up back at her place. So we're in the bedroom, and next thing I know her "brother" has snuck into the room and tries to join in. I was so surprised I slugged him. He spent the rest of the night on the floor....LOL
When I left, I noticed mail on her phone table addressed to MR and MRS.... even funnier...
 ngat73
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 82
Liberating . . .
Posted: 12/28/2007 11:32:00 AM
I am telling you those swingers goes through various ways and efforts to get you in the situation. I've heard it all. For many years I just thought it was odd a couple would want to spend time with me by myself even if I had a boyfriend. How odd I thought. Often times, I was not curious enough to explore why. But the more creative ones, the ones that befriend you, or friends that you have grown up with that found this lifestyle can easily lure you in a compromising situation because they know your weaknesses (i.e. alcohol, breakups, food, massages, drugs, or whatever) to get you to their nest/home. I had a girlfriend that called me to verify whether I would like to come over because they ran across some great oysters and would pick them up if I were to come over. That was three phone calls until I finally said no don't go through the trouble. Than there followed another few calls to let me know that they got the steaks on the grill but there is plenty for me to come eat. I joke with her about it all the time and she just laughs. But it really is uncool for your girlfriends to unexpectantly work you up for their boyfriends or SO to share with them. Now, she claims she doesn't pursue friends. Right? Um...hmmm. I thought I was a friend?
 blonde chickie
Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 83
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/28/2007 11:44:20 AM
Yes I have had a 3some with 2 guys, and it was hot !!! I enjoyed it as much as they did
 curious54
Joined: 9/10/2007
Msg: 84
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/28/2007 11:51:22 AM
I don't consider myself gay at all. I have no problem with them, I'm just not one. I love breasts and p***y too much. However I had a very close friend (happened to be a guy) that I talked to about sex. We both agreed that if the opportunity arose we could, would be involved in a threesome. No strings. Just enjoying the moment. The thought of having a woman between us was a huge turn on. Never got to act out this fantasy...yet.
 ngat73
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 85
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/29/2007 1:53:21 AM
Go Riders: Funny. I was actually watching that movie in a smaller theater off of Sunrise and near the beach in Ft Laudrdale and thinking the same things. I was with like 3 gay guys. They were in heaven. Great movie.
 biglove33
Joined: 9/24/2007
Msg: 86
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/29/2007 7:16:56 AM
i have done it a couple times before me and a buddy did it with this women a couple of times it was great
 Bewildered100
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 87
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Posted: 12/29/2007 7:58:02 AM
Umm, was there a sign-in sheet in the lobby?
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 12/29/2007 10:28:53 AM
As I would not share my guy with another girl - so he would not have to struggle to accommodate both which quite frankly he could not - so two guys & me would also not work as my capacity is quite old fashioned and in good working order only when fully focused one on one. to slacking.
Would I like to feel like a third wheel in the carriage? NOPE. Answer is tandem then.
Oleeee!

 nplink777
Joined: 9/3/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 12/29/2007 7:05:46 PM
Nicely put "in" there...did a foursome once and as steph said there was that motion..but still my compliments to the girl she was out of this world
 serendipity~fate
Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 90
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/29/2007 7:41:18 PM
In my younger years I experienced several different types of sexual encounters, 3sums, with two men and myself, and two women and one male, 1 male and 3 women etc. Only one time ( the first time) did it happen when I was in a relationship with one of the men. It ruined the relationship. He had begged for over a year , and I finally gave in..BIG mistake on my part, he never ever saw me or his best friend the same after that. I think it takes a special couple in order to seperate sex from love. My other experiences were fun and good tho, but the men never wanted to touch or even get close to one another. AND its best to have that kind of fun with experienced players, other wise it can be very dull and boring!
My "SUM" days are over, I like consentrating on one man and one man only now. But I had some great fun!
 birdybabe
Joined: 8/7/2007
Msg: 91
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Posted: 12/29/2007 7:46:25 PM
Been there... done that... and the times I did it were so great that they thoroughly met and exceeded my fantasies- so I could totally live the rest of my life and not ever do it again.

Those experiences (in my experience) are not forced- they just happen naturally. It's also not my regular sensual preference... but exceptions were made on the few situations when the chemistry and seduction were perfect!

In bigger cities there are whole subcultures devoted to the 2 guys on 1 girl. Look up the words "cuckold" and "hotwife" and see if those definitions sound like what you want- then you will have an easier time finding what you seek.

Good luck!
 hardridenbadboy
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 92
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Posted: 12/29/2007 10:24:18 PM
Been there, done that and it was fun and I'd do it again. Hell..... I have. lol
 regina25
Joined: 3/17/2007
Msg: 93
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Posted: 12/30/2007 5:01:58 AM
I totally agree with lilmskinky

I am very much into 3 somes and the best are with two gay or bisexual guys. They are so sensual and caring or can be whatever you want. I enjoy being with women as well because we understand our needs without having to go into detail.

3 somes are my way of life style and I don t care what anyone thinks of it.
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 12/30/2007 5:03:31 AM
Threesomes are horrible no matter the woman to man ratio. Boo threesomes.
 meckino2008
Joined: 12/23/2007
Msg: 95
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Posted: 12/30/2007 10:55:45 AM
Op is taking about cuckoldry. Hes a cuck. Not a threeway. Might have better luck if he switched to 'other relationship' and changed 'studd 'to 'cuck' something or other and there was something in it for the couple besides his fantas


a cuckold is a man who watches his wife / gf and then cleans her up after ....

wife and i are swingers so i do know about alot of these things ..from friends .. have a friend thats into this so i know this for fact ..
 needsomefunnnn
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 96
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Posted: 12/30/2007 6:30:23 PM
Is that 2 bi guys or not-I've met some women that have had a go with 2+more-just a sexual thing one wanted to try more(she had 4 in a session-had an open limit-just see how it goes kind of thing-sounds like most of the guys were pretty quick-then- next.
 needsomefunnnn
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 97
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Posted: 12/30/2007 6:47:34 PM
Just wondered -is this a scaning exercise?-find out whos interested?
 caring2sharing
Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 98
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Posted: 12/30/2007 9:42:12 PM
wow two women and 1 guy as Rodney Dangerfield would say..that way the women can talk after my 2 minutes are over
 WarmthNpassion
Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 99
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Posted: 12/31/2007 5:07:55 AM
Pleasing a woman is very pleasant for men. Her excitement is total joy. It seems that a woman could really enjoy having two men to please her. Imagine her getting passionate kisses from one man while the other guy is kissing, well, somewhere much more private between her legs. That would not be possible with one man alone so the options are many. Think that she would enjoy four hands caressing her body at once? Yeah, sounds pretty HOT to me.

You would think that women would totally enjoy this and want it all the time. My experience is that most women want to have this experience once and then that’s it. They have tried it and now are more interested in something else they fantasize about that they have not done. Also, few women have actually gotten a DP because most guys are not into being that close to one another. Most MFM’s, one guy works her top half while the other man works with the bottom half then they switch. There may also be times where both men are not constantly with her and she goes one-on-one with one guy while the other waits for his turn to go one-on-one. Hmmmm or so I have heard.

 nogo3
Joined: 2/26/2007
Msg: 100
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/31/2007 12:06:49 PM
hell, 2 guys and one girl, thats tame stuff.
if you want real fun get 5 guys and one girl, now that is a real riot and tons of fun, but you do need a girl that loves lots of sex.

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