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 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 151
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Did it, liked it but its not an every day or routine activity. Which means when I do get it.... WOW!!!!!
 inlabutnotalaguy
Joined: 5/7/2008
Msg: 152
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/17/2008 8:14:47 PM
Let me review the situation...

You're a guy.

You're in a room with a woman and you have an erection.

There's another guy in the room ALSO with an erection.

You SEE his erection, and yet you maintain YOURS.

You're GAY!

The woman is only there as an excuse.

You don't need an excuse to rub up against another guy's penis, just do it.

(plagiarized from a comedian, but he's right)

I had a couple of friends in College that would often pick up a random woman, bring her home, and tag team her. When they were recounting the most recent conquest of their last victim I had to stop them when they got to the point of describing stretching her out. Either one penis in the Vagina, and the other in the Anus, balls slapping against each other. Or both of them simultaneously in her Vagina, possibly their Anus, therefore rubbing penises together, surrounded by Vagina.
Never had the heart to tell them how homosexual that really was. They considered themselves entirely hetero. Sorry, but if you're involved with another penis, crossing swords or not, you're leaning WAY over the fence.
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 153
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/18/2008 6:16:05 AM
So inlab.... by that description and explanation alone means that EVERY time you watch porn with male/female, you are gay. You are looking at some other guy's penis do a woman and getting turned on by it. Now you will probably say you hate porn (while secretely having 200 titles in your "other" vid library lol).

The dp issue...thats something else but there are many men who DO NOT want any genital contact between themselves while doing a lady at the same time. One at either end, one watching while one does, there are more than one scenarios that DO NOT involve contact for the two penises.

I beg you to discuss this and make sense without looking like you had a brain fart.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 154
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/18/2008 11:53:47 AM
well its not on my list but my woman gave me a threesome with another girl so im indebted to her ..so if she wants a threesome with two guys ..her wish is my command ..i am in no way concerned that it would make me gay or make her love me less ... actually any fantasy she has as long as im there will be ok with me ...if she told me she wanted to have sex with five guys and three creatures form outer space .. i would try to arrange it ... i would only get pissed if she went alien hopping without my knowledge
 FriendlyTeddyBear
Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 155
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/18/2008 4:23:14 PM
OP, It turns you on because you're a closet homosexual. I only watch lesbian porn.
 inlabutnotalaguy
Joined: 5/7/2008
Msg: 156
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/19/2008 12:21:38 AM
Bingo! Lesbian porn!
Actually, I did date a woman who when she watched porn, only liked watching Gay guy porn. Interesting.
As for watching hetero porn, the idea is that you put YOURSELF in the position of the guy having sex with the woman. If a guy is having sex with a woman and another guy. He's IN the situation having sex with the woman and the other GUY. Having sex with another guy...... is homosexual sex.
Besides, I personally like getting all of someone's attention during sex. I don't want them watching TV, I don't want them texting anyone, I don't want them having sex with someone else while I'm trying to make love to them. Similarity I like to give all my attention to someONE. In a threesome, at each and every point someone is being left out because someone's attention is split.
 squireknight1
Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 157
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Posted: 9/19/2008 3:11:10 AM
nothing nicer than a woman in charge telling her two bi men what to do
 LandedInLA
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 158
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/19/2008 8:08:26 AM
Very true squire.

By the way, two women together IS lesbian. I kind of thought that was a given, but that's not what we're all talking about is it. Kind of a non-sequitur. Where is that a double standard? True, lesbians are much more accepted, specifically bi-lipstick-lesbians, but that's not our topic.

Additionally, yay for fantasy number (whatever) 'girl with two guys' or 'guy with two girls'. One way or the other, it means you're not enough for them, and someone has to be brought into the mix. Whatever reason, rationale, or excuse you use to be sleeping with more than one person, you're not monogamous. Just say it out loud for what it is. "I'm not enough for you" or, "You're not enough for me". Same goes for the example of a guy with a girl where the girl is free to have sex with girls on the side. Girl says, "I'm with him but I just need to be able to play with other girls" Guy says, is ok with it as long as she doesn't sleep with any other guys. She's just not that into you to be with only you. If you're with another person, you're with another person.
These relationships aren't destined for long term stability, but experimentation, and finding out your sexual orientation is what growing up is all about. Sure, someone is going to come back saying they have been doing it and are in a long term relationship. Right. Get back to me in a couple of years. (sure there's a miniscule percentage that have some sort of duration, but you're probably not them) Later down the road.... let's get married/have kids/etc.... Now we're settling down and that was our experimental stage, left behind us.... doubtful chance of that working. Gene's out of the bottle.
 facepainter
Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 159
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/19/2008 10:49:53 AM
I actually did this a couple of times in my early 20's with a woman 14 years my senior. I guess my first real MILF expierence. She was seperated / going through a divorce at the time but still lived with the guy (whatever) so we would hook up whever she was available. We would ocassionally go out of state for weekend trips and essentially locked ourselves in the hotel room. There were previous discussions about threesomes but never actually had the guts to go through with it. On this particular weekend after a few warm up sessions and a couple bottles of red, we agreed to head to the hotel bar and pick up a complete stranger Female or Male and try it just this "one" time. Naturally it was a little more difficult to find a woman willing to participate but males were of the abundance. She picked and after we spoke to him and layed the ground rules (no guy/ guy stuff) we all agreed to head back to the room.

I have to admit it was really hot seeing her enjoying the expierence. The visuals of her getting it from both ends, on her knees going back and forth satisfying us orally, and even when i had to take a break just watching her getting pounded was a major turn on for me.

The next day however, as some posters presiously stated, was a differnt story. The hangovers didn't help but she got really pissed at me for "letting that happen" going on about that should've stayed a fantasy, crossing the line, etc....On our drvie home we obviously discussed it throughly and as she recalled more of the evening she realized that she really did enjoy it but I guess you could say was somewhat remorsefull. She was probably just angy with herself and it was easier to blame me.

She didn't contact me for over 2 weeks and I thought it was surley over becuase of the incident. About a week and a half after that completely out of the blue she calls and tells me that her Ex is away for the weekend and to come over and let myself in through the garage because she had a suprise for me. Naturally I couldn't get over there fast enough and as I walked into the living room there she is on the couch taking it from behind by some dude that turned out to be her neighbor. smiling she simply said I thought you could come over and help out. so ofcouse I went to work but that was the last time. ahhh....she was fun. I may have to look her up again.
 trayc91007
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 160
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/21/2008 4:50:39 AM
Have done it, more than once, will definately do it again if given the opportunity. No, they didn't accidently touch.
 iyamnot
Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 161
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Posted: 9/21/2008 5:26:30 AM
two's a couple, three is definitely a crowd. It's hard enough to find one good one,
women are now looking for two !! geesh !!
 funguy828
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 162
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/22/2008 2:57:15 PM
wow, I never knew soooooo many girls had threesomes
Sorta hott....I might have to show more interest in this subject...sorta suprised
 FriendlyTeddyBear
Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 163
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/22/2008 7:52:33 PM
If a the bisexual man didn't love his woman that much. I don't think he would have any problem shareing her with a bisexual guy. The only time a woman can have sex with 2 guys. Both guys would have to be bisexual.
 theotherguy82
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 164
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/22/2008 8:19:00 PM
Can't say it appeals to me at all. For one thing I have enough trouble finding someone who's willing to go as long as I can (and often do). It's partly a function of medication so I'm not trying to toot my own horn here, it's just a fact for me. I'd either be stuck on the sidelines or putting the other guy in that spot. On top of that there's the fact I'm not at all interested in men so it wouldn't do much for me having a guy around. If someone I was with wanted to explore that sort of thing it'd have to be in a swap type situation, in which case it'd better be a bloody secure relationship as stated numerous times above.
 Sidney23
Joined: 6/9/2008
Msg: 165
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Posted: 9/22/2008 9:47:51 PM
Thats not a 2 way thats a gang bang. I have done it one time I must it was fun.
 MileHiGuy
Joined: 9/16/2008
Msg: 166
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Posted: 9/24/2008 7:11:34 PM
I've done this a few times. My partner was in an experimental stage where she wanted to try it all. While I'm not Bi, I didn't have any problem with accidentally touching the other guys. When we were done and I was cuddling with my partner she said that the stimulation she got from DP was incredible. She said the orgasm was so hard and lasted much longer than ever before. She said that every time we did the MMF threesome the feeling was amazing.
 CynthiaM
Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 167
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/24/2008 7:46:54 PM
yes
yes, and
yes - at the time
never again
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 168
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/24/2008 7:59:44 PM

yes
yes, and
yes - at the time


As Susan Sarandon said to Kevin Costner's back after the "long, slow kisses that last three days" farewell:

Oh, My!!!
 ali.fayad
Joined: 8/30/2007
Msg: 169
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/25/2008 12:36:40 AM
i just wana have it with one were the hell are all there open minded fishes
 tomrksr
Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 170
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/12/2008 3:47:01 PM
right on girl, now if I can only find a middle age woman that thinks like you in my area.
 tomrksr
Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 171
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Posted: 12/12/2008 3:52:19 PM
As a swinger without a partner at this time, I agree. I might ad, you look like the type of woman I been looking for, your husband is a lucky guy.
 kaelys420
Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 172
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Posted: 12/12/2008 4:02:25 PM

Why do the guys not touch, but if it was two girls and a guy the girls do?


It's a male taboo for one. The other is that, speaking for myself, I don't find men attractive at all.
 shannalee83
Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 173
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/12/2008 4:17:05 PM
I have had a 3some with two guys several times with my ex husband. Don't know if I would do it again, but time will tell. =)
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 174
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/12/2008 7:43:30 PM
Trying to arrange one now!!! Damn schedules...
 Angel-1222
Joined: 11/11/2008
Msg: 175
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 12/12/2008 8:32:58 PM
If the guys aren't macho men with big mouths and big egos, it could work.

I really enjoy having two men touch me and caress me, and turn me on. When the guys aren't inconsiderate, and trying to poke their thingies anywhere they will go, then this could be a good thing. You HAVE to be selective.
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