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 Patarey
Joined: 5/24/2008
Msg: 151
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Me and my boyfriend had a mmf but it was akward........the guys didn´t even want to be close to eachother.....strange my boyfriend at the time brough it up.

my ffm was a hoot, 2 girls together know how to kick it..........

and I´ve never had an all female........
 toomuch13
Joined: 6/28/2007
Msg: 152
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 6/29/2008 11:08:43 PM
That would be like being the middle of an Oreo cookie! One man has eight hands when he has sex. I can't imagine two guys all over me. One man is plenty.
 hotwife4u
Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 153
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 7/13/2008 4:44:56 AM
Well I have had them and love them MMF that is. two guys playing with me is a great turn on. We are in love and committed and I think it has to be that way it just sex with the other guy but with my guy it is making love.
I do hate homophobic guys that are so afraid of something touching something else. In my experience all these guys that hate gay people or talk bad about them are hiding the own insecurities. It sex not anything else open up you never know how much fun you can have.
 ndulj
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 154
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 7/13/2008 6:24:10 AM

that the guy would have to be someone we don't know, who would come in, give us the body part we need, and leave, never to be seen again

That's always been my question: A third that you both know and trust or a complete unknown you will never see again?
 joes59
Joined: 5/10/2008
Msg: 155
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:28:48 AM
I love 3somes.......anyone in the Binghamton area interested??
 marriedbutlooking63
Joined: 7/3/2008
Msg: 156
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:03:12 AM
I will admit to having both the MMF and FMF...both were a blast and very very exciting.....the MFM was nice because I knew both the other people....was jsut a complete trust thing......and yes veen the men were into it.......not that much but there was some touching going on....now the FMF thing was jsut mind blowing only because it is like a wet dream cum tru..so to speak.....watching both women make love to each other...and then being able to get in the middle even direct some of it....oh my.....all i can say is BRING MORE ON....please
 sahasrara10
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 157
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:06:08 AM
Boring. It is hard for me to concentrate on what I am doing and what is being done to me at the same time, so both end up being a distraction. Not all it's cracked up to be. I have done it on a few occasions and would rather have just one man.
 whothehellknows
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 158
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 7/14/2008 6:29:10 PM
I did a MFM with a female friend once (with whom I had a previous intimate relationship). It was fun, checked it off the bucket list, everyone enjoyed themselves, but it did not live up to the 'fantasy.' But I have found that to be true with all the alternative things that I have lived out. No regrets, but fantasy tends to be much better than reality. Atleast in my experience.
 open minded 1
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 159
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 7/14/2008 6:46:25 PM
Who says they don't touch?
 open minded 1
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 160
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 7/14/2008 6:51:16 PM
I am in Binghamton every weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 cowess
Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 161
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 7/14/2008 10:58:30 PM
Hi there
Good to some women love sex with 2 guys.

It's such a turn on.
No holding back if the girl like's men on men which i think hot for the girl ,then go for it.:
 3b83
Joined: 9/1/2008
Msg: 162
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:26:25 PM
I always thought about it but I never did it. I guess the same reason why men think its so great to be with two women is the same reason I think it would be great to be with two men. Just think what is better then d*ck? Two of them. I guess I just couldnt get past the rep. Girls who do things like that are considered nasty, and i dont want to be looked at like that. Pluss, if you do that with your guy how will he feel about you afterwards. Will he think of you as less then or will he start thinking, Hummm, I wonder if she liked him mre then me. Cause thats what I would be thinking if I was the guy
 BoogieKnight
Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 163
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/15/2008 4:10:19 AM
does sound kinda hot with th right people. and remain friends afterwards would be good
 shilleng
Joined: 4/30/2008
Msg: 164
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/17/2008 1:15:51 PM
what about the double D??? can/did you hang??
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 165
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/17/2008 1:30:47 PM
Did it, liked it but its not an every day or routine activity. Which means when I do get it.... WOW!!!!!
 inlabutnotalaguy
Joined: 5/7/2008
Msg: 166
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/17/2008 8:14:47 PM
Let me review the situation...

You're a guy.

You're in a room with a woman and you have an erection.

There's another guy in the room ALSO with an erection.

You SEE his erection, and yet you maintain YOURS.

You're GAY!

The woman is only there as an excuse.

You don't need an excuse to rub up against another guy's penis, just do it.

(plagiarized from a comedian, but he's right)

I had a couple of friends in College that would often pick up a random woman, bring her home, and tag team her. When they were recounting the most recent conquest of their last victim I had to stop them when they got to the point of describing stretching her out. Either one penis in the Vagina, and the other in the Anus, balls slapping against each other. Or both of them simultaneously in her Vagina, possibly their Anus, therefore rubbing penises together, surrounded by Vagina.
Never had the heart to tell them how homosexual that really was. They considered themselves entirely hetero. Sorry, but if you're involved with another penis, crossing swords or not, you're leaning WAY over the fence.
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 167
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/18/2008 6:16:05 AM
So inlab.... by that description and explanation alone means that EVERY time you watch porn with male/female, you are gay. You are looking at some other guy's penis do a woman and getting turned on by it. Now you will probably say you hate porn (while secretely having 200 titles in your "other" vid library lol).

The dp issue...thats something else but there are many men who DO NOT want any genital contact between themselves while doing a lady at the same time. One at either end, one watching while one does, there are more than one scenarios that DO NOT involve contact for the two penises.

I beg you to discuss this and make sense without looking like you had a brain fart.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 168
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/18/2008 11:53:47 AM
well its not on my list but my woman gave me a threesome with another girl so im indebted to her ..so if she wants a threesome with two guys ..her wish is my command ..i am in no way concerned that it would make me gay or make her love me less ... actually any fantasy she has as long as im there will be ok with me ...if she told me she wanted to have sex with five guys and three creatures form outer space .. i would try to arrange it ... i would only get pissed if she went alien hopping without my knowledge
 FriendlyTeddyBear
Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 169
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/18/2008 4:23:14 PM
OP, It turns you on because you're a closet homosexual. I only watch lesbian porn.
 inlabutnotalaguy
Joined: 5/7/2008
Msg: 170
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/19/2008 12:21:38 AM
Bingo! Lesbian porn!
Actually, I did date a woman who when she watched porn, only liked watching Gay guy porn. Interesting.
As for watching hetero porn, the idea is that you put YOURSELF in the position of the guy having sex with the woman. If a guy is having sex with a woman and another guy. He's IN the situation having sex with the woman and the other GUY. Having sex with another guy...... is homosexual sex.
Besides, I personally like getting all of someone's attention during sex. I don't want them watching TV, I don't want them texting anyone, I don't want them having sex with someone else while I'm trying to make love to them. Similarity I like to give all my attention to someONE. In a threesome, at each and every point someone is being left out because someone's attention is split.
 mick2521
Joined: 3/9/2008
Msg: 171
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Posted: 9/19/2008 2:18:02 AM
Blondecharm,

Well said.

There definitely is a man-made double standard which perceives any touching between guys as "gay" in the derogatory sense as well as in the real sense. On the other hand, any touching between women is considered "normal". I personally think that this double standard has arisen because of porn. Porn has normalized female-female touching at the expense of male-male touching. Because porn is pervasive, society has formed opinions about sexual experience based on porn's double standard.

All in all I think men need to relax and stop perceiving any interest or contact as gay. It represents a rush to judgement. There is too much of a rush to judgement based on the slightest hint of an interest that one man might have in another man.
 squireknight1
Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 172
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Posted: 9/19/2008 3:11:10 AM
nothing nicer than a woman in charge telling her two bi men what to do
 LandedInLA
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 173
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Posted: 9/19/2008 8:08:26 AM
Very true squire.

By the way, two women together IS lesbian. I kind of thought that was a given, but that's not what we're all talking about is it. Kind of a non-sequitur. Where is that a double standard? True, lesbians are much more accepted, specifically bi-lipstick-lesbians, but that's not our topic.

Additionally, yay for fantasy number (whatever) 'girl with two guys' or 'guy with two girls'. One way or the other, it means you're not enough for them, and someone has to be brought into the mix. Whatever reason, rationale, or excuse you use to be sleeping with more than one person, you're not monogamous. Just say it out loud for what it is. "I'm not enough for you" or, "You're not enough for me". Same goes for the example of a guy with a girl where the girl is free to have sex with girls on the side. Girl says, "I'm with him but I just need to be able to play with other girls" Guy says, is ok with it as long as she doesn't sleep with any other guys. She's just not that into you to be with only you. If you're with another person, you're with another person.
These relationships aren't destined for long term stability, but experimentation, and finding out your sexual orientation is what growing up is all about. Sure, someone is going to come back saying they have been doing it and are in a long term relationship. Right. Get back to me in a couple of years. (sure there's a miniscule percentage that have some sort of duration, but you're probably not them) Later down the road.... let's get married/have kids/etc.... Now we're settling down and that was our experimental stage, left behind us.... doubtful chance of that working. Gene's out of the bottle.
 facepainter
Joined: 2/22/2008
Msg: 174
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Posted: 9/19/2008 10:49:53 AM
I actually did this a couple of times in my early 20's with a woman 14 years my senior. I guess my first real MILF expierence. She was seperated / going through a divorce at the time but still lived with the guy (whatever) so we would hook up whever she was available. We would ocassionally go out of state for weekend trips and essentially locked ourselves in the hotel room. There were previous discussions about threesomes but never actually had the guts to go through with it. On this particular weekend after a few warm up sessions and a couple bottles of red, we agreed to head to the hotel bar and pick up a complete stranger Female or Male and try it just this "one" time. Naturally it was a little more difficult to find a woman willing to participate but males were of the abundance. She picked and after we spoke to him and layed the ground rules (no guy/ guy stuff) we all agreed to head back to the room.

I have to admit it was really hot seeing her enjoying the expierence. The visuals of her getting it from both ends, on her knees going back and forth satisfying us orally, and even when i had to take a break just watching her getting pounded was a major turn on for me.

The next day however, as some posters presiously stated, was a differnt story. The hangovers didn't help but she got really pissed at me for "letting that happen" going on about that should've stayed a fantasy, crossing the line, etc....On our drvie home we obviously discussed it throughly and as she recalled more of the evening she realized that she really did enjoy it but I guess you could say was somewhat remorsefull. She was probably just angy with herself and it was easier to blame me.

She didn't contact me for over 2 weeks and I thought it was surley over becuase of the incident. About a week and a half after that completely out of the blue she calls and tells me that her Ex is away for the weekend and to come over and let myself in through the garage because she had a suprise for me. Naturally I couldn't get over there fast enough and as I walked into the living room there she is on the couch taking it from behind by some dude that turned out to be her neighbor. smiling she simply said I thought you could come over and help out. so ofcouse I went to work but that was the last time. ahhh....she was fun. I may have to look her up again.
 trayc91007
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 175
having sex with 2 guys at the same time!!
Posted: 9/21/2008 4:50:39 AM
Have done it, more than once, will definately do it again if given the opportunity. No, they didn't accidently touch.
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