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 thatguy276
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 4
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So is EVERYONE out of my league?Page 2 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
Don't worry too much about it dude, it takes the ladies here a little while to warm up to you. They would rather sit in the forums chatting about their naked boobies not being indecent, lol. A good way to get email responses is to post to the forums and let the ladies get to know you a little then email some you've talked to in the forums.
 SLAFFA
Joined: 8/13/2007
Msg: 5
So is EVERYONE out of my league?
Posted: 10/22/2007 10:19:26 PM
Wow OP. You have actually had at least some respond back? As in RETURN your email? Amazing... If you get back more than 1 or 2 outta ten you ain't doin' too bad.
Just the nature of the beast here. Congrats on getting some back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 6
So is EVERYONE out of my league?
Posted: 10/22/2007 10:42:35 PM
Yes.

Technically.. because "leagues" are utter bull$hit.
 gmm765
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 20
So is EVERYONE out of my league?
Posted: 11/28/2007 10:31:59 PM
Don't send e-mails. It's a waist of time , and it is horrible on your ego and self-esteem.

There are far too many attention whoring females on these dating sites, and by sending e-mails all you're doing is boosting their egos at your expense. Not good.

Just post on the forums . Then you can connect on a more meaningful level and with more selectivity and you don't have to waist your time validating the many (shallow) attention seeking women who come to these dating sites.
 Kelley-88
Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 21
So is EVERYONE out of my league?
Posted: 2/14/2008 6:00:45 AM
Your "About Me" is terrible. Some examples follow:

First off, no schizophrenics, crackheads, or satan worshippers please. OCD is fine though (you probably keep things tidy). DELETE, that is turn off.

If we're eating together and you have something on your plate that looks good, then I might be inclined to steal some of it. DELETE, that's terrible.

If you can put up with that then I might put up with whatever weirdness you've got going on. And I know you have weirdness, don't lie DELETE

If you want a shot with me then you gotta bring something to the table. DELETE and stop boasting. That would turn any girl off.

Take the advice you have received and get a profile review.
 AdrianEsquire
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 23
So is EVERYONE out of my league?
Posted: 2/14/2008 7:45:20 AM
Why are you holding the infant? Your profile is not very good, in my opinion.
 Kelley-88
Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 24
So is EVERYONE out of my league?
Posted: 2/14/2008 11:25:46 AM

If you want a shot with me then you gotta bring something to the table. DELETE and stop boasting. That would turn any girl off.

I wouldn't call that boasting. I will say, however, that the qualities that statement implies would turn almost any girl ON if delivered in person.

Having that confident self assured attitude is good. Saying the words is bad. If a guy say says, "If you want me, I demand..." Forget that, who does he think he is?
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