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 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Anything deemed sexual outside of your relationship is indeed cheating and should not be contemplated as regular activity. If you do - be prepared to have your relationship abruptly ended!!
 SILady10306
Joined: 12/20/2007
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 1/1/2008 7:56:02 PM
my vote: It's cheating...a sexual experience is a sexual experience.
 Ave Caesar
Joined: 11/11/2007
Msg: 90
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:07:12 PM
I'm not sure whether this is a suitable topic. This is a private matter, really.
 1brnsuga
Joined: 3/28/2007
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:33:14 PM
YES!
Listen, my rule of thumb is if you are involved, and you use anyone other that your significant other to "get off"...it's cheeting...PERIOD!
 agoodguyinny
Joined: 11/22/2005
Msg: 100
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/4/2008 3:40:54 PM
Cheating implies deception, so if you are hiding it from your partner, then yes its cheating. If they know and are OK with it, then its not.

Its funny, my ex is the one who made the rule (somewhat jokingly) that if she caught me doing anything interactive with a person, that she would 'cut it off.' I agreed that it was cheating and never had any interest nor gave her a reason to suspect I did. The irony is that she was the one who strayed, first with cyber and then in person. I guess she was lucky that I wasn't as extreme in my reaction to her cheating as she would have been!
 Mirage111
Joined: 3/8/2008
Msg: 101
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/4/2008 4:02:15 PM
Is he doing it behind her back without her knowledge? Its not the act of sex that breaks up a partnership its the dishonesty.
 Lucky_Vet
Joined: 3/27/2005
Msg: 103
 Jack Leballs
Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 109
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/30/2008 7:58:07 PM
it's not cheating.

if they meet and start doing it in person, it is.
 fridayboo
Joined: 10/25/2005
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/1/2008 4:37:11 PM
Hell no....Look at as live nudy pics or an interactive porn
 Nesaia
Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 120
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:19:36 AM
I have no problem with a guy watching porn or fantasizing about celebrities. However, if they're having webcam sex, to me, that's cheating. To me, you're interacting with somebody else in a sexual way. I wouldn't even tolerate swapping nude pictures through email. You're interacting with a real human being, trying to get them aroused.
 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 121
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 1:18:24 AM
Just the fact that anyone would question this shows a huge lack of character; of course its cheating; doing ANYTHING with another woman that you wouldn't do with your wife and girlfriend present is wrong. If there is nothing wrong with it have him do it when she is there next time. Good God.
 fridayboo
Joined: 10/25/2005
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:59:24 AM
My wife and I for the most part would never leave each other. My wife is very hot and good in bed...but we are very comfortable with ourselves sexually, and I don't think that a disease free non-committed fling over the net is cheating...and nether does she...There are times that she or I might not want to be bothered by sex...so we'll quickly say "go and handle your buisness". I've had relationships like these for years with select people and they even admit that it helps put a little spice back in their own relationship. Relax a little people and open your minds a little. I think women who think that the same monotonous missionary styled sex is gonna cut it and make their man happy are sadly mistaken. Live a little! You have to make things exciting...the little and big brain has to be stimulated on different levels constantly. Things like role-playing or envisioning others while making love can make it better for both. No wonder the divorce rate and the "physically" cheating rate is so high in this country.
 SomethingManly
Joined: 4/18/2008
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 10:00:39 AM
I guess everybody has their own definition of cheating, but in my books this is definitely cheating.

This isn't a porn movie or magazine, it's a real live person he/she met online. If one were to view this as "porn" and not cheating, then what's the difference between that and having both of them in the same room and doing the same thing live....just not touching each other. The only difference is the internet link seperating them.


 fridayboo
Joined: 10/25/2005
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 10:30:37 AM
no, don't be disturbed by it. men masturbate all the time, websites help that, and it's a natural urge. be glad he's healthy enough to have that sex drive. he's with you and what he's doing online will NOT lead to an actual physical encounter. If he's going to see someone else physically there's nothing you can do to stop it. in fact, it may even calm his "urges" enough to actually reduce the chances of him having a physical affair.
 Ravenstar66
Joined: 8/27/2007
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 mthomjmark
Joined: 2/27/2008
Msg: 128
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:17:35 PM
Just because you dont think its cheating Friday doesnt' mean its not. Relationships are about monogamy; not about getting off like a german shepherd every time you want.

I think your relationship is very strange. What cracks me up is you say no wonder the divorce rate is so high; well the divorce rate is so high because people want to have sex with others. Cheating and money are the main problems. To say we are so uptight and that we should allow cheating is a joke. and if there is nothing wrong with it then why dont you do it in front of your woman.

And no one said they are just wanting to do it in the missionary position; trying to go to the other extreme to justify your behavior is ridiculous.

The STD rate is now 25% in the U.S.; in the African American community its 40%; look at the latest National Institute of Healths studies; Its higher for adults because of more partners; I guess they are just living a little.
 fridayboo
Joined: 10/25/2005
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 12:28:44 PM
my point exactly mthomjmark, can't get STD's online. It's safe, any feelings are quickly dissolved, your both relieved and you can get on with your relationship and life. No disrespect mthomjmark, but maybe our sex drives aren't the same. I have an extremely high sex drive but that doesn't give me a reason to refer to you as a Panda or Sloth does it? Your right in noticing that my relationship is not the norm...I wouldn't use strange...but just not the norm. I have done it in front of my WIFE mthomjmark....and it turns her on like crazy. She wouldn't mind doing it as much...but their aren't as many hot guys as their are hot women online willing to explore.
 Willsniffurundies
Joined: 4/7/2008
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 1:22:05 PM
All jokes and insecurities aside, people, this is only the internet! It is NOT real! Of COURSE it is NOT real!
GET A GRIP!
 Willsniffurundies
Joined: 4/7/2008
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 5:25:50 PM
This is the internet! It is not real! Webcams and cybering are both just extensions of fantasy, fiction, NON-reality!
Do some of you NOT get that!?
There is nothing else to say!
 Patarey
Joined: 5/24/2008
Msg: 134
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 6:00:35 PM
Not if he does it while I´m watching him............
 fridayboo
Joined: 10/25/2005
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/3/2008 8:12:36 PM
Hell yeah Patarey that's what i'm talkin bout. Damn DazzyB.....Masterbating is cheating....what the hell...can you please be the master of your domain.
 fridayboo
Joined: 10/25/2005
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/4/2008 4:10:18 AM
It's naive to think that people don't fantasize about being with other people. Masterbating is perfectly normal , it doesn't mean he is not satisfied with his sex life or something like that , it's a normal healthy behavior we tend to perceive as strange because of the way masturbation was handled by religion. I think cyber-sex will eventually be a norm and possible healthy outlet....unless of course some anal retentive people try to make it against the law as an act of adultry. (I be stroking, that's what I be doin)
 Willsniffurundies
Joined: 4/7/2008
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/4/2008 10:31:50 AM
AGAIN, we don't want to be sidetracked here by personal insecurities, okay?
The internet is not real!
How do I explain this?
How about this:
In some states--adultery is illegal or being MADE illegal--ask a lawyer for details.
Adultery is cheating.
Thing you do online (an nowhere else) is NOT adultery.
Therefore, adultery is not cheating.
Finally, if you are going to bring up masturbation at least spell it correctly!
There is a U in mastUrbation because yoU cannot mastUrbate without yoU!
 SomethingManly
Joined: 4/18/2008
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/4/2008 8:36:46 PM
^^^^We heard you the first time. Please respect that some users in this thread disagree with you.
 Willsniffurundies
Joined: 4/7/2008
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 6/4/2008 10:17:26 PM
Actually, no, not everyone DID "hear" me the first time.
SOme people post without reading ANY of the previous postings.
What I have been trying to point out-respectfully or otherwise--is that you can look at a piece of white paper & say it is BLACK or any other color but white. . .BUT the paper is STILL in reality white and not black.
Webcam sex is not real. That is all I have been saying.
If the question was phrased: in your own opinion do you feel that webcam "sex" is as bad as cheating then I would say some of the responses would be appropriate/acceptable/make sense (you choose the term).
Sorry my last posting was misunderstood.
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