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 logs2bcut
Joined: 12/23/2006
Msg: 201
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i'm currently seeing a divorced woman who divorced her husband when he did the "webcam" thing while in Iraq. she said her vows are sacred and he violated them. i'm glad he did cause we get along great.
 yna6
Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 202
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 3/12/2009 1:26:27 PM
Some courts are agreeing that it is cheating and granting divorces because of it.
As far as I'm concerned, if it isn't physical, it isn't cheating. But, that's my opinion. The idea of using it as foreplay is kinda cool!
hmmm...wonder if that would make me a freak? Naww......no worse that looking at naughty pictures together and taking things from there.
 cute_asme
Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 203
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 3/15/2009 5:29:56 PM
YES...YES...YESS......YESSSS...HELL..YESSS
 Pontoon guy
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 204
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 3/18/2009 8:58:40 PM
not cheating in a the traditional way. but i think that some would think so and i can see it on a emotional level and a trust factor,now this being said, why not join him ( or her) and do it together.
 NoMorePsychos
Joined: 2/23/2009
Msg: 205
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 3/18/2009 9:05:51 PM
Men think it's not cheating, women do. HELLLLLOOOO, it's cheating. It may not be physical but it's entering into a sexual act with another person. Emotional cheating is just as bad.
Basically, with the exception of a few sick minded individuals, men aren't getting what they need at home so instead of actually screwing around, they turn to the internet. Well heck, with all of the cyber sluts out there today, who can blame them, no?

YES, hands down(or on) it's cheating.
 Pixy Dust
Joined: 9/6/2006
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/20/2009 7:17:46 PM
As with many things on the internet society hasn't caught up with the do's and don'ts legally or otherwise. I too would feel that it's cheating because of the fact that it is up close and personal between two adults. What is to stop them from taking it one step further to physical. Just spend enough time weblive with someone before one or the other says "let's meet"... yeah in my book it leaves a door wide open and it's not something I want to deal with as "ok" if I am in a relationship.
 daydream angel
Joined: 2/24/2009
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Posted: 4/20/2009 8:20:04 PM
Id would depend on one thing.Would Joe do it in front of Jane?If ist acceptable ta do it in front of her then go for it.If hes hidding it , look out! Jane may have a knife and the show going on will lean more to the dramatic thriller side.It might get more interesting .lol
 MandaKay
Joined: 4/13/2009
Msg: 208
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/20/2009 8:42:54 PM

Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?


Is he/she getting paid? Cuz if so...that's just extra income.

But...I don't think it's cheating. I think it's stupid. But not cheating.
 Vincent Alexander
Joined: 4/7/2009
Msg: 209
 hardngood
Joined: 2/22/2007
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/22/2009 10:29:40 PM
that's low life cheating if I ever saw!
 chemistry74
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 211
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 2:26:22 AM
Yes, my opinion is...it is a big deal. If me boyfriend did this...it would all be over instantly. Not just for the physical act but for the emotional too. Sex in any way shape of form should be between two people who are in love with eachother. I can respect that this isnt for everyone but it should atleast be agreed upon before hand...
 ridenhi
Joined: 12/17/2008
Msg: 212
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 6:45:07 AM
If i were married and found out my wife was on cam it be cheating ..lol..thats just the way we all would think.who u kidding
 newblue1970
Joined: 3/7/2008
Msg: 213
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 7:22:23 AM
Its really pretty simple - cheating implies DECEPTION. If you are in a committed monogomous relationship, and you're hiding something like this, then yes, its cheating. If you tell your SO "Hey, I'm gonna go have some cam sex with Suzie, be back later..." and she says back "OK, have fun!"... then its not cheating.

Web cam, cyber sex etc is connecting interactively with another person. Its not like a porn vid, and its sharing an intimate part of your life (your sexuality) with someone who is not your SO. And, since this seems to be more of a guy thing, turn it around - how would guys feel if their woman we cybersexing and webcamming with other guys? Most likely you'd be pretty pissed.
 LAIDBACKANDREAL
Joined: 4/17/2009
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 ForRumOnly
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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 7:54:46 AM
If you are interacting with another person, then I'd say it's cheating. However, I think there are shades of grey here too. Web-cam sex is not as bad as real-sex, IMO. If there's no interaction, then I don't think it's cheating - masturbation to a mental fantasy or to a picture or even a porn video would not be - you're not interacting with anyone but yourself.

Ultimately, it depends on the couple and what they agree on.
 Andi_4U
Joined: 10/29/2007
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Posted: 4/27/2009 10:02:47 AM
It's cheating, plain and simple. If you are in a loving intimate relationship, why the need to look for outside sources?
You can not compare playboy to interactive cyber sex. You don't have a prayer of meeting one of the playboy models to have physical sex with them. How many men have actually met and had intimate relations with someone off the net? Very easy to do. Many marriages and relationships have broken up for this very reason.
For me, it would be a real concern that he is not satisfied in the relationship and it would only be a matter of time before he looked elsewhere.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 217
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 2:06:34 PM

If you are interacting with another person, then I'd say it's cheating. However, I think there are shades of grey here too. Web-cam sex is not as bad as real-sex, IMO. If there's no interaction, then I don't think it's cheating - masturbation to a mental fantasy or to a picture or even a porn video would not be - you're not interacting with anyone but yourself.


Dayyymm!! I split hairs for a living, but this /\ is real skill!!!

OP, your "friend" can either puff out her chest cuz she's married to a porn star, or throw a flag and argue about it. Either way, there's probably not alot she can do to modify that behavior- it either corrects itself with time, or . . . . not.
If my partner was working the crowd, either "virtually" or otherwise, I'd take a step back, let her have that stage, and probably fade into the curtains. Buh-bye! But with a smile.
 xzanthius
Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 218
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 4/27/2009 2:08:06 PM
If you have to lie about it then I'd consider it cheating.
 GoodmanGreg
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 219
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 5/8/2009 4:54:29 AM
YES. Much as I hate to say it, it is cheating. There's really no way around it. I know the temptation has been there for me and I can think of times in my life when I indulged while being involved with someone. I never felt good about it. Someone said earlier something about having to "hide it" makes it cheating. Unfortunately, as I see it, they are right. I think we also have to go back to the very concept of the GOLDEN RULE, that is "do unto others as ye would have them do unto you". Ask yourself "would I mind if my partner/lover/wife/gf/so did it behind my back?". If you can answer that then you will have answered the question for yourself. As always, there are grey areas as someone has mentioned and the answer to this is subjective, but to "thine own self be true". Bottom line, its cheating.
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 220
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 5/8/2009 6:49:45 AM
Cheating is the act of lying to a partner or spouse. You can cheat by eating meat if you are vegetarian (bad example), cheat on your spouse by being emotionally connected to someone else in a romantic way, or sleeping around.

The arguement cyber is not cheating... its cheating if the spouse or partner doesn't know.
 maevisola
Joined: 3/17/2009
Msg: 221
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 5/15/2009 4:16:46 PM

IF THERE IS NO ENTER COURSE

 Elgalawaat
Joined: 11/24/2008
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Posted: 12/15/2009 12:50:40 AM
From no where I had a woman contact me on Windows messenger and make a show naked on her web-cam. It was not really that amazing. I say this is not cheating. The Internet made us do crazy things.
 ~Pedro Sanchez~
Joined: 10/5/2009
Msg: 223
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 12/15/2009 1:37:19 AM
Ay caramba...no way jose! That's not even in consideration...I never find anyone else attractive when in a committed relationship, yeah weird, eh? Dunno...never have and suspect never will....I suppose that's what commitment to me means...in thought and in deed...yeah, just an old fashioned porn star. I stick to one partner but make love heaps (or sex sometimes, depending on mood, time of day and planetary alignment).

Faark...webcamming is bad enough...an ex used to strip on cam...was just too polite to say it didn't do anything for me. I wouldn't want to anyway cos I was freaking 6,000 miles away! Let alone be webcamming with other women...I hate to sound like a prude, and I know I am not....but I won't do it. Its blatant cheating, and am sure to get a lightning bolt courtesy of Moses with love from above as soon as I log off the webcam.
 RickyGR
Joined: 10/9/2009
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Posted: 12/15/2009 5:39:00 AM
NO ENTER COURSE

What a moron
 fasttodraw
Joined: 10/13/2009
Msg: 225
Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people?
Posted: 12/15/2009 6:52:55 AM
I think the big questions are: Why is he doing this? Is there an underlying reason? Not getting enough, obviously. What has this character done to communicate with his partner?
My wife is terminal. I search on line for willing masterbaters, for a number of reasons. My wife does not want to open the marriage up for me. She has no desire what so ever due to the drugs, and I'm not looking to ruin things, but I need an outlet. I'm sick of masterbating with a woman present who has no interest in my sexuality. It doesn't seem fair, but I signed up "for better, for worse". She doesn't know about my antics, so I feel bad...but balance in your life is really important. The question is a loaded one and is very subjective. Totally depends on your point of view. I have tried to communicate my needs to my wife, but she doesn't feel comfortable with letting me stray. This is the next best thing. I'm not proud of it, but I have needs that are not being met.
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