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 janedoexyz
Joined: 1/1/2007
Msg: 75
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kakleen,

You got it all figured out at your young age. My goodness good for you. Thank you for your post full of wisdom. I'll carry that thought.

J.
 Born2bewild62
Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 76
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He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 10/26/2007 7:51:16 PM
Poorlittlefish, this dude has a major major malfunction. Or else he's hedging his bets because you are so awesome that he's afraid that you will dump him the moment someone you like better comes along. Don't know what else to say. Maybe you need to hedge your bets too.
Good luck.
JF
 Terrible Flirt
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 78
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He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 10/26/2007 8:36:55 PM
Is there any chance you could convince this guy to write a book detailing his technique?

Seriously, your options are walk away and never look back (you may run into your self respect just over the hill), or stick around for more of the same, along with a continued decline in your emotional well being. Good luck OP.
 mcbobly
Joined: 8/28/2005
Msg: 93
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He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 10/30/2007 1:38:03 PM

He told me he really likes me, "I look nice", he enjoys spending time with me, enjoys sex with me but he sees me something along the lines of a "good friend," saying that for him it's too early to think of me as his girlfriend and relationships start with friendship. He seemed to imply that you can only call someone your girlfriend/boyfriend if you are in love with them.

Been there just did that, talk about confusing. We were having such a great time too, that was until she decided to give her abusive ex yet another chance. I was like WTF? I know she had more fun in the last 5 weeks with me than she had with him in the lst 2 years. Oh well, her loss. Hang in there littlefish, like me (hopefully), you too will find a good one that is less complicated.
 Jax_xx
Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 97
He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 11/8/2007 6:00:13 PM
Run now!!! Seems to me this guy is keeping you on the side ........he obviously has a wife or a girlfriend.....or someone else he is interested in........cut your losses now.....if you are sleeping with him, you seem him rarely, you cant go by his place...........you already know all you need to know.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 103
He doesn't see me as his girlfriend, don't know what to do now
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:05:42 PM
laugingwhatever says


You choose, take the control back and make him eat out of your hands, because right now you ARE BEING played.


Cool. I love this line. It gives us guys more amo to dump you. Or to say, well, she dump me. So tell all the girls. Go, do.
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