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 Lookingforasweetone
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 1
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I think men are the reason girls go lez or bi. I have lotz of gay friends and the girls say it was because of the guys they dated......
 Lookingforasweetone
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 2
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 5:17:50 AM
Now i dunno a bout that i havent had very many gay guys as friends....i think for females it might be the media but i think with guys its something they cant help it is jsut the way they are i dont know though i just thought I'd ask
 Charming Archfiend
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 3
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 6:03:08 AM
Definetely,coz other guys dont know how to treat a girl...
 marathonman11x7
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 4
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/17/2005 2:18:46 PM
There is NO conclusive eveidence that says people were "born" homosexual.
Yes,MANY homo/bi sexual women mention negative experiences with men as reasons they try alt. lifestyles.
The media does NOT bash WASP males as much as it suports them
The porn industry(controled BTW by wasp ) is a HUGE promoter in the glorification of woman/woman and 3some lifestyles.
There is alot of HYPE based upon fiction concerning woman/woman sex
Many men will say they find displays of male homosexuality repulsive to see, yet are turned on at times by seeing female displays of homosexuality
ex.woman/woman sex can be found on/in "straight" porn, not man/man

I had a woman from a date site (match) contact me in a very nice email to say she had been with 4 women in the past 17 yrs of "lesbian life"after being having negative experiences with men since college.She now after 17 yrs of lesbian lifestyle came to the conclusion that its all about the soul not gender.......I simply feel that women(and men) are often disillusioned by the negativity and do MANY things that are dysfunctional but frequently are in denial.The frequency of FWBs as well, I think are signs of people who are disillusioned and get into dysfunctional situations while staying in denial. I'm just saying....stay away from the STD's that don't often get discussed Spiritually Transmitted Diseases........ever hear of the old saying "if you lie down with dogs,you're bound to get fleas"?.....same concept
In our interactions with people there is energy transference...the more intimate the greater the transference or risk thereof. Abusers,users,cheaters,liars,theives,confused,negative attitudes,those frequently in dysfunctional relationships,whiners and more are all people with STD's
 BlakmanXXX
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 5
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/18/2005 7:35:49 AM
Homosexuality, Bisexuality and Lesbianism are BIOLOGICAL FACTS imprinted
in a person's brain and body BEFORE birth. It's impossible for a heterosexual
person to become GAY or BISEXUAL. It' s also impossible for a GAY person to
become STRAIGHT. Get it ?
 marathonman11x7
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 6
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/18/2005 10:47:55 AM
@ supergirl......thank ya maam


@Blakmanxx
I challenge you to find conclusive sceintific evidence that shows "Homosexuality, Bisexuality and Lesbianism are BIOLOGICAL FACTS imprinted
in a person's brain and body BEFORE birth."

Not even the leading homosexual groups believe that about "bisexuality". I don't mean to offend but your statement that homosexuality bisexuality is fact is....well...........INCORRECT My statement is NOT gay bashing,so pls don't take it that way.Still,there is NO conclusive eveidence supporting homosexuality as a imprintin the brain before birth.NONE! What you MIGHT be refering to are studies (past and ongoing) on the question of genetic PEDISPOSITION.Now there seems to be a POSSIBLE link or "gene" that predisposes SOME elements of sexuality.Even if those studies prove conclusive in the future.They still seem to rule out as most scientist do bisexuality as a possibility for prdesposition.Also,more to my earlier post being pedisposed is like being predisposed to alcoholism,if you don't drink you never become an alcoholic genetic predisposition or NOT ......follow?
 myalias
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 7
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/19/2005 7:55:05 AM
NO THEY ARE NOT--IF YOU HAVE A BUILT IN TENDANCY TO WANT TO NIBBLE ON ANOTHER WOMAN--NOBODY IS GOING TO STOP YOU--CHRIST ON A COOKIE-WOMEN SHOULD STOP BLAMING MEN FOR THEIR INSECURITIES AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEMSELVES--NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT BUT THERE ARE A LOT OF THEM ON POF--THEY WANT A MAN TO BUILD A NEST FOR THEM--YET THEY WANT TO BE LIBERATED AND FREE--BAKE YOUR OWN CAKE AND THEN YOU CAN EAT IT YOURSELF--THEN YOU MIGHT LIKE WHAT IT TASTES LIKE!
 KnightWithoutShiningArmor
Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 8
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/19/2005 8:37:06 AM
I can totally understand why a woman would want to be with another woman, even if only experimentally. If I were a woman, I would be....hehe

Still, there has been a study that suggests there are strong chemical reactions within the brain to the pherenomes of a particular sex. These areas in the brain which are most active when smelling the scent of another sex seem to correspond to that persons sexuality. Homosexual, or even Bisexual, men and woman get more stimulus, or as much brain stimulus, from the same sex as they do with the opposite sex. This study suggests we are genetically influenced in our sexuality (which would mean your sexuality is just a much a genetic trait as your hair color). I don't necessarily endorse this theory, but it does have merit.
 agenteightysix
Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 9
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Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/19/2005 9:09:51 AM
not all gays are born that way, only about half have a gennnetic disposition to it. The other half are envirmental changes through abuse or abuse
 BlakmanXXX
Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 10
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/21/2005 4:25:33 AM
I am bisexual. It's not a bad experience with women that made me that way. It's a fact of nature. I have looked at men and women even as a kid and found both to be cute sometimes. I didnt tell people about the men because I didnt want people to hate or harass me. I'm a bi guy. sue me !
 marathonman11x7
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 12
Are MEN the real reason why most girls go lez?
Posted: 5/21/2005 9:29:47 AM
There is NO conclusive eveidence that says people were "born" homosexual.
Yes,MANY homo/bi sexual women mention negative experiences with men as reasons they try alt. lifestyles.
The media does NOT bash WASP males as much as it suports them
The porn industry(controled BTW by wasp ) is a HUGE promoter in the glorification of woman/woman and 3some lifestyles.
There is alot of HYPE based upon fiction concerning woman/woman sex
Many men will say they find displays of male homosexuality repulsive to see, yet are turned on at times by seeing female displays of homosexuality
ex.woman/woman sex can be found on/in "straight" porn, not man/man

I had a woman from a date site (match) contact me in a very nice email to say she had been with 4 women in the past 17 yrs of "lesbian life"after being having negative experiences with men since college.She now after 17 yrs of lesbian lifestyle came to the conclusion that its all about the soul not gender.......I simply feel that women(and men) are often disillusioned by the negativity and do MANY things that are dysfunctional but frequently are in denial.The frequency of FWBs as well, I think are signs of people who are disillusioned and get into dysfunctional situations while staying in denial. I'm just saying....stay away from the STD's that don't often get discussed Spiritually Transmitted Diseases........ever hear of the old saying "if you lie down with dogs,you're bound to get fleas"?.....same concept
In our interactions with people there is energy transference...the more intimate the greater the transference or risk thereof. Abusers,users,cheaters,liars,theives,confused,negative attitudes,those frequently in dysfunctional relationships,whiners and more are all people with STD's
No men don't change a woman she does it by CHOICE most often.Too many real life occurances to show this to be true.No eveidence to show otherwise.Why do some make that choice? Hype/lies mythical slogans like "only a woman can know best how to please another woman" and the fact that there are often thin lines between freindships and desire.
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