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 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 2
At what age do females LOSE THEIR sex drive???????Page 2 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
Females lose their sex drive??????? That's scary.

The only time I ever lost mine was if I wasn't into the person in question, or found out they weren't so hot in bed.
 lie to me
Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 3
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 10/28/2007 9:59:04 PM
OP, are you talking about 'menopause'? I've heard that some (few) women may have the urge 'slightly less' when they encounter 'M', but not that they've lost it. I'm thinking that it only happens when our partners stop being able to 'turn our crank' - 'rev us up' - etc.... - and then, they really only seem to have 'lost it' with just that man - the actual urge is still there - but thankfully so are toy shoppes and prescription meds (we get the toys, men get the meds). Rock on ladies!
 blondago56
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 4
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 10/28/2007 10:01:57 PM
"at what age do females 'lose' 'their sex drive?" hhmmm..., i'm 51 at the moment, i think i 'lost' my sex drive temporarily in 1981 & 1983 when i gave birth to my children..... Other than that, i've always had it & known its whereabouts! ;-)
 thatguy276
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 5
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 10/28/2007 10:48:24 PM
They don't lose it, they just get bored with one guy and move on to the next, so it seems.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 6
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 10/29/2007 2:15:49 AM
it usually happens about 3 years after the wedding.
 Cecilia1956
Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 8
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 10/30/2007 12:37:05 AM
A woman lose her sex drive? Ummmm they don't if they have the right man that can make the hair stand up on the back of their neck, put a shiver down their spine with just the right kiss... with the right man a woman will never lose it!
 lie to me
Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 9
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:12:47 PM
^^^^---- that may or may not be true... The guy will generally still manage to 'get there', while we're left wondering "is that all?".
 abrethoffreshair
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 10
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:39:27 PM
I wasn't aware that we do...hmmm...we learn something new everyday. The older I get, the stronger mine gets...God forbid should I ever lose that...I think I'd be ready to lay down & die if/when that occurs. Just go ahead & shoot me because life won't be worth living then!
 orchidtigress
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 11
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 10/30/2007 7:18:38 PM
Think it only increases for women- at least with attractive and skilled men.
 asteliapuff39
Joined: 8/9/2007
Msg: 14
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 10/30/2007 9:57:00 PM
never ha ha.
I still wonder that... I thought by the way I was going at it... I was going to lose it...
but well its been 8 years since I started... almost 9... and I am still loving it :D
 El_Mariachi
Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 20
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 12/10/2007 8:12:00 PM
Dunno.. but if I ever do.. get a pine box ready for me cuz I'd rather be in the ground when that time comes.
 that sam i am
Joined: 10/27/2006
Msg: 23
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 12/12/2007 3:46:14 AM
Unfortunately, women do not lose their sex drives even long after the past-due date.
 debnco
Joined: 10/5/2007
Msg: 27
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At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 4/30/2008 3:15:51 AM
Hell I'm 43 and I don't know . I think you get more drive as you get older .
 musicianfriend
Joined: 7/23/2007
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Posted: 5/2/2008 1:19:32 AM
I agree with some o f the women on here. If a man makes her feel loved and sexy...she wont loose her sex drive.

Sex is a mental condition. Stimulate her mentally and BAM!!! There she goes. Its pretty easy Sherlock.
 TheEmeraldTeardrop
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 29
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 5/4/2008 2:48:42 AM
If she's married, I would say the day she has the last child she wants to have.

What I think no one wants to discuss is there are an ungodly amount of women out there who "settle" for someone to marry or get into a long term relationship with. If you pick someone, not because you really love them, but because they seem stable or you feel lonely or there's some void in your life you want filled, then you picked them for the wrong reasons and that decision will manifest itself in your sex life. Or your lack of a sex life.

I've seen quite a few situations where the woman settles for any man at some point in her later life with a good job and who won't mistreat her and instead of taking responsibility for that decision, she just blames her partner for not being romantic enough or loving enough or whatever enough.
 GreenOlivesYum
Joined: 11/27/2007
Msg: 30
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 5/23/2008 2:04:46 PM
I think females lose their sex drives when the men become paunchy and arent worth screwing anymore.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 5/27/2008 2:07:04 PM
I prefer to wait until I have "both" feet in that grave......but what do I know......I am just the 800 pound gorilla in the room.......

OT.......Most women will lose their sex drive, when they are no longer into you.....go figure......

Just my opinion........
 Pleasurelimits
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 35
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 8/24/2008 6:26:32 AM
I sometimes work in aged care and I can tell you the oldies would breed like bloody rabbits if they could. They definitely practice like there is no tomorrow, padding around the halls in stocking feet and still make plenty of noise even into their ripe old 80's
 kasandroid
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 37
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 8/24/2008 2:56:14 PM
When they sign up for an account on POF.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 38
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 8/24/2008 5:42:08 PM
FYP Neitzchean:
I'm more curious to know at what age women acquire a sex drive for an amorphous lump of bitterness?


Yeah, it's not the age, it's the object of desire. No desire=no sex.
 happyfree1959
Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 41
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Posted: 8/24/2008 10:39:14 PM
I think it is at what age do woman start their sex drive, after 40 and it gets better as you get older. I worked in a nursing home women in their 80's were still going strong.
 SteveinHP
Joined: 8/12/2008
Msg: 42
At what age do females loss there sex drive???????
Posted: 8/31/2008 9:18:59 PM

They lose it about 2 seconds after the first time their man farts under the covers and makes a dutch oven.


And women never do this, am I right?
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