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 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
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I would like to find a partner and go at it for a year and get my own results, if you don't mind, thank you very much.
 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 122
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Posted: 1/26/2010 9:59:31 PM
Didn't know there was such a thing as good beer...personally they all taste like garbage.
 Joel246
Joined: 3/23/2008
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Posted: 1/26/2010 10:33:35 PM
That's fair Kaylie. I don't think eating a burger last night is going to have a big impact... but you will notice the difference between a vegetarian with a fruit heavy diet and a meat lover. You'll also notice the difference with smokers.

I do believe the alcohol has a more noticeable immediate impact. I have specifically noticed on multiple occasions a girl tasting and smelling less appealing the day after heavy drinking. I'm talking about long term partners where I have a good feel for what their 'normal' is.

Also, beyond taste, and this is just my own theory, (less backed by what I've read), I think alcohol actually changes the consistency in men, making it thicker. This may be because it dehydrates your body leaving less liquids to be mixed in? Not sure. I wouldn't go spreading that thought as researched, but it is food for thought.

And I've heard many accounts that asparagus directly make sperm noticeably bitter. Particularly bad. I'm not just extrapolating on the pee effect on that one. Not sure if this is different person to person.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 124
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Posted: 1/26/2010 11:04:31 PM
I need to stop drinking Coors then. Being part Celt I drink whiskey usually. Or Guiness. If I have a lover and she has a oral fetish, I make sure pineapple juice is part of my regiment because usually that is the most desirable taste, so I have been told by a couple of lovers.

When I was a virgin, the first girl I had went down on me and was the only girl I have ever met who didn't like semen in her mouth. It kinna put me off of sex for about 5 years the way she acted. But since, I have never met a woman who wasn't hungry for it more than once. My kind of girl.
 Joel246
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 125
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Posted: 1/27/2010 12:03:07 AM
haha

[/waits for someone to change their tagline cryptically to "taste may vary" without explanation]
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 1/27/2010 12:42:39 AM
Kayliecat REALLY interesting point you make on the enzyme issue. I wasn't aware asparagus didn't effect everyone; but the enzyme thing make perfect sense. Just like some ethnic groups and the inability to metabolize alcohol effectively. On the poop/pee thing; again, I absolutely agree, it depends on the mechanism of metabolism and excretion of that particular item. Our metabolism also changes as a product of our age, and, as we age, we have to adjust or intake accordingly.

Regarding the day to day thing, I would be very curious as to you partner's diet. Was he a sweet eater, (other than you, LOL)? Did he eat sweets/fruits all the time? Never? Did he ever go on binges? I haven't personally experimented with all of the different recomendations made; but I DO go on sweet eating binges from time to time and have gotten specific feedback after eating a bag of (please forgive me) Jelly Belly jelly beans, or York peppermint patties. (Ok, YES, I sometimes have the diet of an 8 year old). If your current lover is a sweet eater, have him try the peppermint patties, or jelly beans, and see if it makes a difference. Also on the day to day thing; everything you take in has an effect on your excretions; so someone altering one thing or another may not have a significant effect based on everything else they are putting into their body. ie, while juice and sweets may help; they alone, may not be enough to overcome the effects of someone who smokes, drinks strong bitter beer, and eats nothing but brats and asparagus every day. However, someone with a less toxic diet can absolutely make a difference with only a couple of alterations. For the record, I have personally had partner's who made comments about effects of taste based on things I've eaten as recently as 6 hours before; and I've had several close friends make similar comments about themselves and their lovers.

mmmm.tonyI would like to find a partner and go at it for a year and get my own results, if you don't mind, thank you very much...
For a guy who refuses to even engage in oral sex; you spend a lot of posts advertising for a woman who will not only go down on you, but who will swallow . REALLY??
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 1/27/2010 1:25:43 AM
mmmm.tony ARE YOU F*CKING KIDDING ME?!?!?! Your history shows 33 posts; and 25 of them are about blow jobs and swallowing; and you won’t even go down on a woman!!!!
I mean I don't feel anything with cunnilingus so I don't go there


This is just a sampling:

I made a T-Shirt years ago on the one that had, 'Got Milk?' on it. I did the whole arrow thing pointing up and it then read, 'Got ^ Man Milk?' Don't know what happened to that shirt, but I godda make anudder.

I look more for equilibrium. I tend to end up with women who seem to adore the male form and have no problem lavishing affection on it with their mouth for the most part.


Then to add insult to injury:

When I was a virgin, the first girl I had went down on me and was the only girl I have ever met who didn't like semen in her mouth. It kinna put me off of sex for about 5 years the way she acted. But since, I have never met a woman who wasn't hungry for it more than once. My kind of girl.
Followed by:
it can be mutually fulfilling. But a lot, I dare say a majority do not see it as that but see it as a 'favor' that should be imposingly returned. When it's not, then a fella gets called names and the tantrums of the dissatisfied get more apish and neanderthal to try and use slander, ridicule and ostracism to get you to conform to their slant on the idea.
I don’t know whether to laugh or cry! Let me get this straight…you are “kina put off sex for about 5 years because a young girl didn’t like semen in her mouth; then have the balls to whine and moan about other women “throwing tantrums” after swallowing????

Wild Man, I’ll tell ya; I’ve been on and off these forums for over two years; and you absolutely take the cake. Dude: I have a gift for turning a yes or no response into an 8 page thesis; but in your case…I’m speechless.
 ICMUD
Joined: 11/2/2009
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Posted: 1/27/2010 3:43:44 AM
i was doing some reading up on this and it turns out that its true fact,
that if a man farts just before he cums it will taste bad, but if he farts 1 hour before hand it will taste some what better..
if he dont fart none of the above matters
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 129
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Posted: 1/27/2010 10:00:16 AM
Yea, I agree. What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. It's like, if you sleep around and play the drinking random human body cavity fluids is yummy, game. Then I can see why all the ranting about it not being fair to trade sexual favor for favor. But if you are in a compatible relationship, with a compatible partner and don't play musical beds. It really isn't anyone else's business what you do.

This is just kind of a show and tell where the indoctrinated ones don't like it that there are realities outside the box. So the insults, analysis and denigration starts based on stone age mentality.
 wright5675
Joined: 12/9/2008
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Posted: 1/27/2010 3:06:57 PM
Dude...

I hear ya... But if you expect her to swallow... Why wouldn't you kiss her afterwards? I'm dealing this very issue right now. I give her hours of oral delights including drinking her honey. She's giving me shit about drinking mine "Cuz it tastes gross". So I've offered that if she took it in her mouth for me... That rather then swallowing it... She could spit it in my mouth to prove that it's not gross! How about that?

Rob
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 1/27/2010 4:14:19 PM
^^^^ If you want her to swallow, start small. Come some place on her besides in her mouth; then play with it, taste it, tell her what it tastes like, then share a tiny taste with her. Let her get used to enjoying your orgasm with you. Than let her get used to how comfortable you are with your own come; playing with it, or tasting it. Cum on her breasets, then lick it off. Then let her get used to the taste, very slowly, tiny tastes at first; maybe just kiss her after you have licked your cum off of her breasts. The warm fluid on her breasts should be a pleasurable sensation; followed by your lips and tongue circling around on her nipples, "cleaning it off", is certainly pleasant feeling; then a kiss where she can barely taste the cum you have just licked off of her. Let her taste it on your breath, DO NOT "save" her some, and give her a large taste! Make everything you do, playful, fun, and loving; making sure she's comfortable before you go to the next step. Another good touch is that after you have cum on her, wherever that happens to be, tell her not to move, and without telling her what you are doing, get up, run a washcloth under hot water, wring it out, then run the warm washcloth over her body. That's a wonderful sensation after sex whether you've cum on her or not. Besides, semen, dripping off of you onto the sheets, or drying up on you and getting sticky or flakey, can be a bit unpleasant. The trick is to remove ALL unpleasant sensations/experiences associated with semen; and replace them with positive sensations and experiences.

The magic answer is to back all activity up to the point where she is very comfortable, and enjoys the activities; then slowly, over time, step by step, take it one tiny step further; and hold there until she is comfortable before proceding to the next step; and make each step fun, playful, and non-threatening or intrusive. Some women may be uncomfortable the first time they see you taste your own cum. No problem, it is a sterile, natural, bodily fluid that JUST came from your own body. It is not evil, LOL; and with the right diet, the taste can actually be sweet; and if you don't have any in your mouth when you go to kiss her, she can taste it on your breath without having to "experience" it.

Also, any guy who cums in a woman's mouth without telling her, would absolutely deserve it if she clamped down, teeth first, as hard as she could. NEVER EVER do anything without letting you partner know in advance.
But if you expect her to swallow... Why wouldn't you kiss her afterwards?
Any man who is afraid of his own body, or semen, has NO right to ask someone else not to be, or get upset when they are. I am firmly in the school of, "Never ask someone to do something you aren't willing to do yourself."
 Joel246
Joined: 3/23/2008
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Posted: 1/27/2010 4:26:42 PM
Great post windlover, excellent practical advice all around, and like your philosophy. Some women WILL just find it gross, and that's fair too. As this thread has mentioned, you can consider altering your diet to try to make it less gross for those that are undecided.
 windloverr
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Posted: 1/27/2010 5:20:57 PM

I have a hard time not gagging when I brush my teeth!
Several things here: One: you don't have to deep throat to give head. Make sure your lover is aware, and doesn't get too exuberant, so you can relax and enjoy yourself without fear that he's suddenly going to thrust down your throat. And if he does, puke on him, that'll break his a$$. Lot's of woman have delicate gag reflexes, but are able to go down on their partner and swallow. Don't believe what you see in porn; I've only been with a couple of women who could deepthroat; and it's really not a serious issues. If you just "get off" on him grabbing the back of your head and thrusting into your mouth; no problem here either. Just angle the penis up a little bit so he's hitting the roof of your mouth when he thrusts, and not the back of your throat. The sensations are nearly identical for him.

On the gag thing, if you really want to do something about it, it takes time, patience, and practice. Keep putting things in your mouth, to the back of your throat, and holding them as deep and as long as you can; over and over and over. It's a matter of relaxing, getting used to the sensation, and dulling the reflex. After a while the reflex will start to get dull, and you'll be able to insert bigger things deeper, and hold them longer. For me personally, the actual sensation of being deep throated isn't nearly as big a turn on, or arousing, as the mere fact that it matters to her, and she is willing to try. If I can look down and see that she is doing something that gives her some physical discomfort, but she's doing it to please me...I get a whole new appreciation for her; and a whole new motivation, to throw her down and give her several more orgasms, before I let her "finish"!

Also, thanks for the positive feedback
 Joel246
Joined: 3/23/2008
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Posted: 1/28/2010 5:28:27 AM
It makes sense that they're not all the same. Hygeine and diet are complex, and in my experience, there is also a unique scent to every person, that I believe is part of the hormones they're producing. I think smell is a huge part of lust and attraction actually. But you'll have to go back to windlovers post to see more on why different foods and drink affect diet, I just know that I've seen it in practice and it definitely works to me.
 Mmmm.Tony
Joined: 1/13/2010
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Posted: 1/28/2010 8:46:10 AM
Gag reflex is common. It can also be psychological. I cured a friend of mine of it after she suffered forced gagging for a good part of her life. She loved fellatio but couldn't enjoy it for the gagging. It was psychological to be sure, but some people do have ultra sensitivity in their throats. Takes a lot of patience and practice to over come it. Not to mention a good coach or someone to encourage you. A desire to over come it wouldn't hurt either.
 anhtony35
Joined: 6/18/2008
Msg: 136
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Posted: 1/28/2010 9:43:17 AM
As a guy it is common sense that a girl cannot possibly love the taste of semen. Common it has an odour and looks like jelly but women I have met if they like you will do it for u. To be honest I am not too keen in a woman drinking my semen. Love making is more than just drinking a man,s seed.

Tony.
 Joel246
Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 137
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Posted: 1/29/2010 10:25:56 AM
Dear callmejen,

You're my hero.

Another interesting point in there though... we've been talking a lot about taste, but there are also factors that affect quantity and consistency. Obviously if a guy comes twice in one session, the second time will be much less, but that first come will be based a lot on how long you string em out... if the guy it worked up and close to coming for a long time, there will probably be a lot. If it takes 5 seconds from touch to shoot, it shouldn't be much.

Also some guys consistency is very watery, while others are very thick. I'm not sure how to directly manipulate this, but I'd guess it's somewhat based a lot on how dehydrated you are, since drinking alcohol makes it thicker, and grosssss. Don't know too much on this topic though.

Together we'll come up with the ideal swallow situation though!
 kevintm123
Joined: 3/7/2017
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Posted: 3/23/2017 4:24:45 AM
I had never cum from just oral until I met up with an old fiancee (from 30 odd years ago).
Last weekend after a night out she got me off 10!! times over the course of a Sunday lie in without so much as a stroke with her hand!
Totally unbelievable but true :))) Stung like hell when I got in a shower later but you know I really didn't mind? :)))
 Groovygirl101
Joined: 10/6/2013
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Posted: 4/11/2017 6:02:22 AM
The taste is the same whether I have feelings for him or not. The enjoyment of sex can be better if you have feelings but let's be real here, sometimes sex is just really good regardless of feelings.
 drinkthesunwithmyface
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Posted: 4/12/2017 4:41:56 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWr1Yf0Ck2Y&t=5s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNWZDRi9D9Q&t=3s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOENUWCxfqA

Haha!
 drinkthesunwithmyface
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Posted: 4/12/2017 4:52:11 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3nz5Xn4xfQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zu0c6stl6N8
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 4/19/2017 11:04:53 AM

First of all, her "honey" isn't the same as yours and there is no comparison.

When a gal quirts, it has much of the composite as a guy's juice. Tastes vary in the more complex watering hole of a gal VS a guy. Just her wetness, yeah, is very different though. But I don't think he was referring to that...

Second, what you describe above as a trade off is the grossest thing I ever heard.

But it nixes your third premise -- that it's not up to a guy. If he's willing to have her backwash of his juice -- well, he's going out of his way to show her it ain't so bad. Personally, I could never volunteer being snowballed. With that said, it CAN be up to a guy on how gross/good/mild/sweet it is! Per the 1st Youtube link, one of the comments stated:

My cum smelled like strawberry air freshener, no lie, my gf said it was ridiculously amazing but it was bizarre how sweet it was. Turns out I had Diabetes .... the high blood sugar made my cum sweet as candy, but at least my cum tasted like strawberry flavored punch. I say ... TOTALLY WORTH IT :)?

That's a good tradeoff, eh? ;)
 south_city
Joined: 10/12/2013
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Posted: 4/22/2017 9:27:05 AM
Some people may taste better than others. But I don't think being in a committed relationship would make a man's semen or a woman's "juice" for a lack of better term taste better than it would otherwise.
 ontarioman14
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Posted: 6/5/2017 1:52:53 AM
I am a gay male and enjoy swallowing some semen is bitter some taste sweet,I think it depends on the person.eat more sweets and semen will taste better,after all you are what you eat
 sugarlandguy
Joined: 1/3/2013
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Posted: 6/14/2017 5:00:53 PM
Good job.....On trying to revive this dead horse thread.

Just a thought;

If it tasted like "chocolate". Then knee-pads would be in style.
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