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 indigo rose
Joined: 11/25/2004
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Go with who ever makes you happy! This peach is ripe not rotten ...YET
 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 252
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Posted: 8/10/2005 8:55:40 AM
As the norm , I mean the norm , I do not say all , most are fatter and flabby when they are older but every now and then there is the rarity to see that one older lady that stops the people cold in their tracks , I dated a few women in thier 40's that most guys of any age drops their 20 year old girlfriend to watch , it is the same for guys , most as they get older are fat and flabby but everynow and then there is a conan within a large group of these older guys ,and women are all over them , they choose the younger ones also for the same reason I mentioned .

For me personally it is that , the firmness of the body and the freshness of the skin , most younger ones take care of themselves and do not let themselves "go", too many older ones let themselves go causing the stereotype ... the norm , I mentioned .

Younger ones look firmer bodywise and skin is fresher. but my main reason was that the older women cannot and will not adapt to my lifestyle , I am younger than my age , I do so many things that are not even acceptable or to people my age tastes , I go clubbing alot , I go to punk rock concerts I try to go to most newer music concerts and newer venues , I am used to changes , and dislike old foggie stuff , most people want to stay in the culture and music that they had in highschool , I surf with a bunch of people still in highschool and just starting college . i tried to hang with people who are my age or older and all they do for the most part is talk about work and lounge at bars , and they dance very rarely only go to clubs with 70's and 80's music , where the flabby and divorced with much bagagge hang and talk about their ex spouses kids and jobs. It shocks me that as people age , they have a less propensity or habit or facility for having fun unless they are drunk or are having sex.

Sorry, but older people are not much fun sometimes, alot have mean angry streaks because of past experiences, have alot of baggage , usually do not want to adapt to any place which may be perceived to be for the younger crowd. Even most dress older and seem out of place at places I like to go . I had women say they want to leave because the party or place was way too noisy and crowded for their taste , they want to just talk at a coffeeshop and these women were the very hot older ones ,they felt old everywhere I took them , they felt better in a crowd of fat flabby lounge lizards at places that smelled of old stale air. They like to go to concerts of people of their high school era only usually in Las Vegas .

I like stuff that is much too "crazy " for older people to accept and much less embrace .

If I found an older lady that loved going out almost everyday and was constantly doing some project or activity , i would prefer them but usually that is not the case . I usually prefer women who are just starting college and are still in the fun mode with little baggage , they are usually firmer , leaner , fresher skin and have alot of life in their eyes and personalities .

Why would I want to accept getting the evil eyes from their teenage or younger kids and having to see their exes every weekend when kids are exchanged , I have done that alot , baby sitting for them and met ex in laws , just seems too much work and not much fun usually being with most older women , every now and then there are exceptions.

One women I dated , her daughter wanted to have a secret thing with me , that was not right , just gets too complicated for me sometimes .
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 253
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 8/10/2005 9:02:51 AM
You know some OLD people. I wouldn't be interested in them either
 indigo rose
Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 254
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 8/10/2005 9:15:21 AM
geez sdboy...now I feel bad sucks to be old! And Tall
 louispointe
Joined: 8/9/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:18:51 AM
I like younger women simply because I'm socially/economically/emotionally immature. On just about every level (other than purely biologically) I'm probably about 29 or so.

I have a crappy job, no idea what I want to do with my life, listen to cute indie bands and watch foreign movies, go on walks in the city and play at the river. People in their 30's don't do this kind of stuff. People in their 30's are all serious about life. I tried that and it didn't work.
 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 256
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:19:28 AM
sdude - you're profile says you're 27. now i'm not sure if i believe that or not but i am really and truly 32.

guess what? i am much fresher and a lot less flabby than you.

louis - what kind of people are you hanging out with????
 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:20:51 AM
feels bad to be an oddball and short
 poshrat
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 258
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:21:29 AM
Hmm..well there is a cliche that older women are like a fine wine, and only a connoisseur can appreciate this

But there are also some who have been badly bottled and stored in the dark for years resulting in a bitter taste, that can resemble vinegar.

So..who is to condemn an older man for admitting he prefers the sweet, ripe, juicy grape, straight from the vine, still warm from a summer's sun..?

and as a statement like that could have me in intensive care..you know what to bring if you come to visit me in hospital
 love269
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 259
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:25:09 AM
This is an interesting thread. Honestly, to each his own. I just don't know if it is a question of some men thinking younger is necessarily better, but maybe these men are thinking the following in regards to younger women (I don't agree with these, just some I've heard):

Younger women can be or are
1) less complicated
2) less critical or judgmental
3) less jaded by past experience
4) simply prettier because of skin appearance and body tone (shallow, but can be true)

Again, I don't necessarily agree with these as they can be true or false depending on how both parties view it and specific individuals. I also hate categorizing anyone.

I personally like women with 5 years or so within my age as we can share life experiences better. However, I have known younger ladies who are extremely mature and worldly who can put older ones to shame that way. Quite a few on this site in fact (shocked to see their young age after reading wonderully mature intelligent postings).

I personally like the aging process. I honestly think my wife has gotten better looking with age. I don't have a fairy tale marriage, but that doesn't change how I view her. Having said all this, I think again, for whatever the reasons we like what we like, I happened to like those my own age a bit more. Just a certain comfort level.

 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:26:48 AM
Si cutie , , hahahaha , what age do you think I am 20 or 50 ?, hehehehe,

I do not know if you are less flabby than i but I even work out at my desk at work , sit ups and pushups , need to be fit for the surf . I am not a hardbody but will be by the time the year is over with , I have danced at some of my friend's bachelorette partys , just for fun , cuz they asked .

Si cutie , you are a cutie anyhow
 louispointe
Joined: 8/9/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:28:12 AM
SICutie, your awesome.

I'd go out with you in a heart beat if you were within a 100 miles.

But you know what I mean ... people in their 30's can get that "Kindergarden teacher" fuddly look to them. The kind of people you made fun of when you were a teen.

And honestly, girls in their 30's look at me, with my crappy dead end job making little money, and think to themselves, "man, what has this guy been doing the last 15 years ?". I ask myself that too, sometimes. Girls in their 20's seem less concerned about that kind of stuff.

Fortunately, I can usually get away with being 30, ha.

I just went on a date with a 20 yo (I know, I'm a pervert), and she thought I was just marvelous (I think ?). I thought she was marvelous too ... but unfortunately it is doomed. Daddy doesn't think it is so marvelous, and she is surely a daddy's girl if ever there was one.

Shame too, as she is really cool (and emotionally we met in the middle somewhere around 25 probably).
 louispointe
Joined: 8/9/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:30:25 AM
poshrat, I hope I'm like you when I grow up.

:)
 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:31:20 AM
ok now don't make me feel bad for getting upset with you!!!

i thought you were older to be honest. i do have 5 years on you but i like going to punk rock concerts last may i broke my toe at one which was a shame as i had to have an ugly purple toe in sandal season.

i work out and nothing on me is flabby. the world is way too big and way too diverse to generalize the way you do.

maybe i'm not considered an "older" woman yet by all and maybe i'm not a "younger" one either but i am divorced and baggage free.

shame on you. you got me all confused
 indigo rose
Joined: 11/25/2004
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:34:23 AM
nothing wrong with wanting young women go get 'em..said the Cougar with a smile
I haven't dated my age group in twenty years..but I have met some damn sexy men in their 40's and may have to rethink that young guy stuff...smile!
 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:36:13 AM
thanks louis. actually all of my friends, even the married ones, are still fun loving people. we haven't lost one to old age yet.

why i'm better than a 20 year old is that not only was i adorable at 20 but i'm smokin hot at 32. i'm smarter, more funny and better in the sack. there's lots to be said about experience.

i have no issue with you dating a 20 year old. she's legal and you're not that old. i couldn't date a 20 year old without wanting to hit them and i like to go out for drinks.

now, i won't put up with any BS, i have no desire to jump through hoops to keep a guy and i am pretty set in my ways. some guys call that bitter. i call it being in control of my life.

and....i've done well in the genetic lottery so you'll already know i'll age well. at 20 there's no telling!!
 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:41:26 AM
Si cutie , hahaha , older yes I look older sometimes , burning both ends of the candle can do that , damn you are so cool .... punk rock concert , broken toe in the mosh pit ? , well last month I was traveling overhead and I was dropped on a girl and her 5 girlfriends proceeded to beat me up , it is so much fun getting beat up by girls , hehehee , fetish I guess. I did not generalize if you read my post , it said that alot of them are one way and cause the stereo type to be created. I never said all . It is only my experiences , not assuming all are like that , I have been stressed out by alot of women and their baggage , the worst situation was when I babysat a woman's sick little girl while she went groceryshopping and then the ex in law came and I had to entertain her too , the women was intercepted by her friends and I ended up babysitting both until late night , I mean complicated and stressfull situations like that or all the bitterness and crying and insecurity of all the woman's exes or just the one ex.
I do not mind the children , I love them I am a family guy at home the cleaner and nurturer but the drama that surrounds some ready made instant families kills me .

SI cutie , you seem very cute , maybe fun and not old at all , very young for you .
 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 9:45:06 AM
well that lady sounds rude and has probably always been rude. age would have nothing to do with that.

you also don't have to be old to be divorced or have kids. i'm only divorced, no kids.

so see!!! people are a case by case thing. don't close your mind
 blondblue
Joined: 4/23/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 10:01:04 AM
I personally think there is no right age of person you should be with,but one of the ladies hit it right on the nose with the whole sexual peak thing being early forties. Take some advice from the women on this guys. Any guy who`s been there knows what I mean and those who haven`t need to get out of that whole "I need a younger woman"phase and face reality...but thats just my opinion and what does that mean to all the dating world ???

Ladies , I`m "blond&blue". short for blond hair blue eyes . I have a great sex drive to keep up with all the 40 plus woman and Im available . the 40 is an age ,not a waist.

But...looks do account for the abilities of some men to be able to actually have sex without Viagra . It`s all about chemistry.

I have a question for the person who started this forum......Why is your profile without a picture ???????????

AND to the rest of you I think Its ok to like woman who are younger and better looking Because woman only want guys with money so later on in life they can divorce well and go out and have all the sex they want with those able bodied guys like YOURS TRULY

LADIES...... Feel free to message me ......
 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 269
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Posted: 8/10/2005 10:09:44 AM
AND to the rest of you I think Its ok to like woman who are younger and better looking Because woman only want guys with money so later on in life they can divorce well and go out and have all the sex they want with those able bodied guys like YOURS TRULY

now see i would have messaged you but i'm too young and the above statement was stupid
 love269
Joined: 5/24/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 10:19:34 AM
@ SICutie:

Yes, the above statement was stupid, but there was truth in it and you always present that. I bump into you often on forums and I don't think you are bitter or stuck in your ways as you've suggested. You are just upfront and have a keen sense about things. Nothing wrong with that at all.

As for this topic: Tons of deceptive reasons out there why people like younger or older. The individual should at least be honest with themselves as to what attracts them to whatever age.
 poshrat
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 271
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Posted: 8/10/2005 12:59:08 PM
@louispointe

Thanks for the compliment..but I would warn you some mother will be pointing you out to their offspring and saying..'You go on behaving like you are, and THAT'S what you are going to grow up like!"

LOL!

I am going to post my favourite epitaph here..seen in a country churchyard in UK

'The Wonders of the World
It's colours, Lights and Shapes;
These have I seen.

Look Ye also whilst Ye may'.


And what is more beautiful than to be sat by the water in summer..birds singing, butterflies wending their ways around, and seeing a young lass emerging ..the lights in her hair, the colours of the rainbow surrounding her shape from the sunlight catching the water droplets

Ahhhhhhh...

BOTHER..Knocked my coffee over my keyboard!
 trvlingman
Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 1:03:20 PM
younger women are better?????
mabey it,s because I,m still young but I cant stand younger girls.
theyre dumb loud and generally a pain in the ass to be around.
I cant stand the sound of a giggly girl.

thats probably why the youngest girl I ever dated was 2 years older than me
 SICutie
Joined: 6/8/2005
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Posted: 8/10/2005 1:07:18 PM
loves - i don't know how much truth is in that. i mean are you kidding me??? ever been divorced? nothing i would go through lightly. but thanks for your compliment
 sctrrdr69
Joined: 12/28/2004
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Posted: 8/10/2005 1:48:09 PM
younger... older... it has a little bearing on personality types, but not too much. What does age have to do with it anyway? I've dated younger , and I've dated older, no preferance either way. I have had a slightly younger one who used to go only with guys younger than her,changed her mind about older guys after me,hehe.Has nothing to do with personality, knowledge and ability.
 Toronaga
Joined: 7/13/2005
Msg: 275
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Posted: 8/14/2005 4:36:02 AM
My belief is not that younger woman are better or worse than older, I think youth and experience each has their advantages. Experience tends to involve less drama and more skill ;) but youth tends to mean that they haven't done it all already, and discovery is the single greatest thing there is in life. Next to love that is.

Basically IMHO whatever the age, to me, the right mindset is crucial.
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