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 equus2
Joined: 9/4/2007
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???Page 17 of 23    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23)
For me, I would prefer a younger woman for reasons I didn't see mentioned: I am 44 years old and have never been married. I would like to have a family. This site is loaded with "Divorced, Have children, Don't want children" women. Frankly, while I am the same age as many of these women, we are on the opposite sides of the spectrum in our life stages, not in terms of physical or psychological maturity, but simply in terms of our family aspirations.
 Take_a_Lap!
Joined: 7/21/2007
Msg: 402
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Posted: 9/12/2007 11:41:32 PM
Well, well, well! equus2! I guy with the same reasons and aspirations as me. Hang in there guy!
 Telepylus
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 403
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 9/13/2007 12:02:21 AM
there are things that make older women better
and things that make younger women better

so that is why

and what is ugly is when people cannot accept the simple truth of things, like nature.
an older woman is going to be better for one reason, Wisdom.
a younger woman is better for a different reason, the Virtue of Youth.

it is bad when women deny the Virtue of Youth just because they themselves are no longer youthful.
find the virtue in your wisdom.

for example, after a woman turns "baby-having age"
whether she has a baby or not doesn't matter, she's at the age where naturally it's time for her to shift her focus from outwardly being a child, to inwardly raising the world's children.
and men too.
this is the natural honest wholesome order of all life, and those who don't recognize it are not respecting wisdom, they are ignoring IT.

i love wise old women, they're my favorite, and because i'm a wise old man.
that doesn't change the fact that infants and toddlers and tweens and preteens and teens and young adults still have the virtue of youth that is beautiful and worthy of all our loving attention.

So please tell me...what is it with some women that think younger men are better???
lol
younger men are such dorks!!!
 ManeRider
Joined: 5/22/2005
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Posted: 9/13/2007 12:10:37 AM
2 years running and 412 msessages later, I'm piping in



The bottom line is a simple as Pavlov's dog. We see a female, our heads turn in orchestrated unison and the eyes are full of adultery. What could be less complex? We see a s s, we like a s s we want ass. I mean other wise we look at her face and eyes and think, 'Hmmmm she would be a good one to bear kids.' This I find highly unlikely. Usually it someone who is fun, exciting, engaging, pretty and pretty cool. I don't think there are many guys out there scheming to live forever through the youth of a relationship with a young woman. Sort of like that Jethro Tull song 'Aqua Lung'

Bro, you couldn't be more right.

I hearby resign my pen
 Bbbashful
Joined: 10/8/2006
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Posted: 9/13/2007 5:43:43 AM

...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???


I was looking for someone to share my activities with who is close to my age but I wasn't having any luck. Even the POF personality matches are mostly younger women who are 10 to 15 years younger.

I really don't understand why this is.
 blueskyer1980
Joined: 9/5/2007
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Posted: 9/13/2007 6:08:57 AM
Younger women are more beautiful, energitic, passional?? Maybe. It is just my thought. Cuz recently I am on a dating site meetrich.com, there are quite a few young girls and ladies. Frankly, they are really more attractive. I find my new girlfriend there. LOL

Sorry, I just spoke our what i think.
 blueskyer1980
Joined: 9/5/2007
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Posted: 9/13/2007 6:09:09 AM
Younger women are more beautiful, energitic, passional?? Maybe. It is just my thought. Cuz recently I am on a dating site meetrich.com, there are quite a few young girls and ladies. Frankly, they are really more attractive. I find my new girlfriend there. LOL

Sorry, I just spoke out what i think.
 camancheman
Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 408
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Posted: 9/13/2007 8:00:35 AM
Myself, age is not a big factor. This is a touchy chat because at a certain age, people start to see they are getting older, not able to do as well as before. Not all mind you, but some. Then they are out in the dating world, remembering what it was like before to date. Then they realize it isn't the same world out there and it seems more difficult. They look around and see men (and women) stating their preferences of the age they would like. Personally, I don't look at the men's (lol) but I have noticed that alot of women look for someone younger men than them. Again some, not all. I've questioned this myself. Is it for looks, sexual, or what? What you say of making one feel younger can do here as well. I think it is a personal thing for each of us, not wanting to accept our aging. Or for some, maybe they want a younger man or woman thinking that they will preform better in bed. I know that isn't a fact... Who knows. We all have our own reasons.
 ANGELPS
Joined: 8/11/2005
Msg: 409
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Posted: 9/13/2007 8:02:28 AM
A male friend told ,me because they are tighter...there skin is tighter and softer....and they are purer...no sags, wrinkles,.....
 camancheman
Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 410
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Posted: 9/13/2007 8:13:42 AM
Well there is a point to what you say angelps. Take a look at your average women's mags., they always have young skinny and beautiful women on there. You never see a woman past 30-35 and even then, that is rare. Most are hardly out of their teens. This is what we have become, what our tastes look for I guess. Personally I look at these "girls" and see starvation and what they have to go through JUST to get the chance to be in the book. It is a tough and terrible thing they have to do to succeed. My daughter is slender like that, and she hadthe chance to model. I told her no..."You don't want to go through that". Once I explained thisto her, she changed her mind. There was a movie out years back about this and it was absolutely horrifying to me. Anyway, back to the topic. It is the general feeling of men and women BOTH that they want what the man mentioned to you. And to the young lady above that said because we want to be seen with a younger woman. THAT my dear is NOT true. I don't look for a prize to show off to the world, I look for who can be happy with me and I her. Whether older or young, THAT is the main purpose and goal. In fact, I am seeing one now that is 12 years younger than me, we have NO problem with this ourselves. And she is the lady in my heart, not to be shown off like you say. (Not that she couldn't be...lol)
 wild heart
Joined: 10/14/2007
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Posted: 11/6/2007 9:44:39 AM
I understand the reason older men like younger women. Believe me I do. We all want to remain young.

My father has been there done that. He also had a child at 40. His advice? Rarely does it work out between an older man and younger woman. Nor is it all that great to have a child at 40.

I am personally looking for someone around my age (I find 7 years younger pushing it for me) - but rarely do I ever meet men I am interested in around my age online. I get a ton of views and chats from men who are out of my age range. In person, however I do meet alot of men my age. I know what age range I like, having dated both ends of the spectrum.

My father's and my view: What do you have in common with someone with a 20 year or even in some cases 10 year age difference? Eventually the rosy part of the dating wears off and you are left with reality.

As for children, while medical science has come a long way to ensuring safe births for older women, I would not want to be "old" and too tired to do something with my child. Which is exactly what my father told me. He and I agreed it was not fair to the child.

So here we have a ton of men in their late 30's and beyond wanting to have children, but not able to find a woman to do so. They meet a younger woman, but they cannot connect with her. They meet an older woman, but she does not want to have children. I am sure that there are women out there who are the same. In the past two years, I had to re-consider this, and I did some serious thinking and made a choice/compromise. Seems to me some people need to do the same.

Now, I don't think it is wrong for a couple to decide to have children in their 40's as they are free to do as they wish and I would never think them wrong for their choice, but my personal opinion is as above. I congratulate and am happy for any friends of mine who decide to go that route.

This does not include fostering or adoption, as one can adopt or foster an older child.
 cyn3100
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Posted: 11/7/2007 2:55:03 AM
I think it's wanting whatever they think they can't have. When most guys were teenagers, they fantasized about college girls, pin up poster images of adult actresses, their french teacher or their best friend's hot Mom. Once guys get older, it's girls so young getting them would be a miracle!

Right now, it's en vogue for younger men to seek out older women, the Demi/Aston syndrome. Europeans have been doing that for centuries.
 cupholder
Joined: 12/23/2006
Msg: 413
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Posted: 11/7/2007 8:01:41 AM
Irony overload.

Hmm, I wonder. Let's browse some female profiles.

Oh look, a majority of them want -their age- to +10 years above them. Gee, I wonder... Could older men be after younger women..... gasp... because younger women are after older men?

INCONCEIVABLE!
 A-New-Beginning
Joined: 9/5/2007
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Posted: 11/11/2007 8:19:20 AM
I'll save you some time and energy on this post. Younger, Older, we just don't care much either way men are interested in better looking. In fact in my opinion I think what would make most men happy is if we can find a woman you is attractive and treats us right, once we find that we just say to hell with this rat race.
 BK2008
Joined: 11/30/2007
Msg: 415
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Posted: 3/8/2008 10:35:47 AM
Well, if this site is a true indication, older woman, 50 and above, are brain damaged, bitter, picky to the point of paranoia, tired, set in their ways, flabby, wrinkled, not open to new interests, chock full of serious issues and personality disorders....need I go on?

Young women want to live and experience life. The old ones are done living life and "have one foot in the grave." They are looking for a "fantasy man" hoping he will make them forget how horrible a person they've become.



 ejesq
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Posted: 3/8/2008 10:38:07 AM
Because they don't want a serious relationship with an equal.
 lolLori
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Posted: 4/1/2008 2:16:45 AM
Its not true they just like the body. or Trophy not to mention if the younger woman isnt a mind blower, highly unlikely they like these younger woman if they are mature and wanting a big family they are not likely to get the older man if there even would be an inclination on their part..Because Young woman Like young men
 Indigo rose
Joined: 3/17/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2008 6:51:38 AM
I guess if you have a face and body that won't trip that age-dependent switch
from attraction to repulsion you should go for it. Why wouldn't a forty year old man want a young sexy woman?? Duh!!!*shrugs*
Women, you need to understand something....this whole process is perfectly natural.
It happens to all males, including members of the animal kingdom. Think of the caterpillar. He spends lots of time munching shrubbery, but one day, out of the blue, he tells his wife "Dammit Rose, I'm sick of shrubbery."
As is always the case with a wife, she does not understand him - in this case, because her brain isn't much larger than a pinhead, but also because he seems like a complete stranger now - he's a totally different insect. Soon he leaves to live in his own cocoon, and emerges with a whole new "look" - fast mode of transportation, bright colors, and gold jewelry. He soars into the sky, feeling free, and Rose watches from far below, and feels conflicting emotions - sorrow, because she may have lost her mate, but also a strange kind of joy, because he is about to be eaten by a bat.
 meteor 54
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Posted: 4/1/2008 7:21:53 AM
Indigo,
Our new...DR. ZEUS !!!

 Greg8002
Joined: 3/11/2008
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Posted: 4/1/2008 9:00:19 AM
I think some men could find younger women attractive, for various reasons. To speak personally, I find both younger and older women have various attributes which are attractive. Younger women can often be extremely beautiful in a physical sense, especially if they know how to show their sensuality. Older women tend to be more stable and mature emotionally and also more nuanced and subtle in their interactions with men and women, and usually their emotions are better integrated with their intellect and sexuality. I seem to get along best with educated women approaching or over the age of 30. So I tend to find women around my age or slightly older most attractive.
 brainznbeauti
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 421
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Posted: 4/1/2008 9:24:37 AM

Why do women tend to oogle little teen boys then? They do look at younger men and go "mmmm...nice", I've seen and heard women talk this way as if they're inspecting a piece of beef.



Who is looking at TEEN BOYS????? I haven't looked at anything under 30 since I was 25... Women look for stability and maturity, none of which is found in a TEEN BOY. Sounds like one of those Mary Kay Letourneau types. Men just want to fool someone young and dumb into thinking they are greater than they are. An older woman would know the story on a has been...hence the attraction to very young women. Either that or they are tired of older women pretending to be young. I guess it works both ways.
 outofthedesert
Joined: 12/9/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2008 9:31:57 AM
Maybe those men think they are dipping into the fountain of youth. Sorry guys, it won't make you younger.
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
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Posted: 4/1/2008 9:36:16 AM

So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???


it might not be so much about them being "better", as such... but, well, they're young - energy high, skin smooth, youthful body and face, excited about new experiences, often more pliable and naive... not hard to see why a bloke would wanna be with a younger woman when you look at it that way

of course, it depends on what a guy *is* looking for...
 life_of_leisure
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Posted: 4/1/2008 11:06:58 AM
> Sorry guys, it won't make you younger.

Mere projection. Only women are obsessed with staying/appearing young, with being able to say things like "young at heart" or I look "not bad for my age". Men know that many perks can accompany increasing age, like being taken more seriously, and that things which were not even remotely possible at age 20 are at something closer to midlife. There's no illusion that the youth of The Bod will rub off via close contact, but that doesn't detract one bit from her appeal.
 Nightwing66
Joined: 8/1/2006
Msg: 425
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Posted: 4/1/2008 11:19:09 AM
18 pages of man-bashing, yet when a woman says she's in love w/ a hot younger man who feels the same way...it's all "You Go girl!".

How about we just let people chase who they will w/out judgement & rejoice when a couple finds hapiness regardless of their respective ages?
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