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 wild heart
Joined: 10/14/2007
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???Page 19 of 23    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23)

As for the chasing thing....here's a story I have posted a million times on here and not ONE person has refutted or debated it:

8 year olds. He comes over, she runs away, he chases her for a while and then gets tired and goes away. 5 minutes later he is back, she runs away, he gets mad and goes away again, 5 minutes later he's back again. Where did they learn this behaviour at 8 years old???? I don't think they learned it, I think it's inside of them. It's going to take many many decades for that to change. Read the forums, most women will NOT contact a man. I don't think that many men are willing to sit around alone paying heed to a "new mentality".


See, yet again nobody debated or refutted it.....
 Sweetenuff074
Joined: 7/28/2007
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 10/4/2008 10:14:40 AM
My opinion is some men think younger women are better because they don't realize the worth of an older woman. Their ego gets in the way. If he is 50 and goes out with a woman his age she will possibly be a reflection of his maturity age wise and physically. Keeping it real, what some men don't realize is some women in their 30s are in worse shape, mentally, physically, intellectually, and spiritually then a woman his age or older.

As some men ripen in age they become depresed with the thought sexually and physically they can't do all the things they did at 30 as quickly and as thoroughly when at the age of 50. So being with a younger woman psychologically helps build their stamina, self esteem and ego.

Sweetenuff
 Sweetenuff074
Joined: 7/28/2007
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Posted: 10/4/2008 10:21:39 AM
My opinion is some men think younger women are better because they don't realize the worth of an older woman. Their ego gets in the way. If he is 50 and goes out with a woman his age she will possibly be a reflection of his maturity age wise and physically. Keeping it real, what some men don't realize is some women in their 30s are in worse shape, mentally, physically, intellectually, and spiritually then a woman his age or older.

As some men ripen in age they become depresed with the thought sexually and physically they can't do all the things they did at 30 as quickly and as thoroughly when at the age of 50. So being with a younger woman psychologically helps build their stamina, self esteem and ego. Temporarily erasing the FACT they are getting older.

Sweetenuff
 arthur56
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 454
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 10/6/2008 5:07:06 PM
I gotta get into this thread, because as that rarity of rarities, yes younger women are wonderful to look at, no question, but it comes a time when just looking ain't enough and you have to start talking. I don't want to go out with someone who doesn't know that Paul McCartney played in a band before Wings. I want to know where they were when JFK was shot, because when it is all said and done, talking to each is what is left. I am no "old man". I could probably out work, outdrink, and out do a number of things with men half my age. and, it is not because of pphysical fitness. I am not in a gym everyday, actually the last time I saw a gym was in high school. But my mind and my willpower allows me to do the things I. I don't want to be someone I am not, and too often the men that go for the women 30 years younger, are not being themselves. They are trying to prove something, to themselves, ex wivers, friends, whoever will be looking.

What the hell is wrong with aging gracefully. We have been influenced by Vogue, Elle, Playboy, Hustler, GQ, and god knows what other magazines to become a butch of clones for the advertising industry. Personally, give me a woman who is within 5 years of my age and has had pride in her appearance, and I will take her over any 25 year old drop dead gorgeous girl. Besides the 25 year old is younger that my daughter.
 heywhatchadoin
Joined: 8/26/2008
Msg: 455
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Posted: 10/6/2008 10:18:24 PM
Here is a novel thought- how about dating someone who you find attractive, enjoy being with, and have something in common with? If who you are with intrigues you, and makes you walk around with a goofy grin all day, so be it. If we are all adults, why does age have to play such a big factor?
 GreySpot
Joined: 9/18/2005
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Posted: 10/6/2008 10:36:34 PM
Younger women? Beats me! I mean, they are nice to look at, but what do you talk to them about? I think women mostly improve with age, sorta like wine, lol.
 WanderingRain
Joined: 3/9/2008
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Posted: 10/6/2008 10:55:39 PM
A lot of people won't admit it... but if the opportunity arises, would most of us really turn it down?
 vrb1955
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 458
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Posted: 10/6/2008 11:15:45 PM
What amazes me is that if a older woman pulled this same stunt she would be tagged as a cougar ( a term I detest) where as a older male is a stud.

I do appreciate a younger man's attention.I am flattered but like another poster said . I want to be with someone that knows who the Fab Four were, or saw Stevie Wonder when he played intro forthe Rolling Stones. They remember Dallas, Knots Landing,Twilight Zone, Outer Limits, That Girl,Love American Style

And yes I do remember the day John, Robert ,and Martin were killed
 Amazing Amanda
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 459
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Posted: 10/6/2008 11:27:10 PM

GreySpot: Younger women? Beats me! I mean, they are nice to look at, but what do you talk to them about? I think women mostly improve with age, sorta like wine, lol.

The world didn't end with the Fab Four or at Woodstock, or even when JFK died. Some young women can carry a conversation about TODAY'S issues better than many older men. A younger woman can learn from the wisdom of an older man and an older man can be made to feel young again by being with a younger woman and seeing the world through fresh eyes.

I do agree with you GreySpot about women improving with age, the same with men I'm sure. I plan on being a very fine wine when I get older.
 Ear to hear
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 460
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Posted: 10/7/2008 7:45:52 AM
Gotta laugh on that one...younger woman tend to not know how to treat a man as an older woman does...be it experience or the time she takes treating a man but younger woman and Ive only been with a couple dont have a clue...lol.Most dont take the time to kiss and relate bfore any real action...might be just the fantasy of being with the young chicks but hasnt been one of mine!I prefer my age or older,well from 40 on up anyway...no woman that could be my daughter...lol.
 vrb1955
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 461
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Posted: 10/7/2008 8:00:27 AM
No the world did not end with the Fab Four or Woodstock or any great leader being shot dead in their prime . We just sited those events as page turners in American history and we were there to witness them. It's what we have in common with each other.

You read them in a history book. I have no doubt some young women can carry on a decent conversation about world events. Especially if they major in that subject in school

The biggest problem I see with an older man dating a younger woman is the younger woman drains this guy's bank account and then he wants to whine and moan about . What did he expect ? That his charm was going to carry him to the finish line Oh Please

Just had another thought . How can date a generation of people you have so little respect for? How many times have I seen young people put down some over 40 or 50 on the internet and in real life ? How many disrespect the very people that gave you life ,a place to live, and a good education. I admire you for your youth but some of you have the manners of goats .Evident in the replies that dipped in venom when they were typed.

What was that great line in Fried Green Tomatoes after Kathy Bates rammed her car into a smart a** blond 20 something's car

Because I have better insurance !

 Amazing Amanda
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 462
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Posted: 10/7/2008 6:46:46 PM

vrb1955 : I admire you for your youth but some of you have the manners of goats .Evident in the replies that dipped in venom when they were typed.
Did you say some of us young people have the manners of goats ? Did you dip that reply in venom when you typed it?

vrb1955: You read them in a history book. I have no doubt some young women can carry on a decent conversation about world events. Especially if they major in that subject in school
I was told of these historic events by my parents and my college professors. I can carry on a conversation about historic events because I'm intelligent. I don't have the emotional connection that those who lived the events have but that doesn't mean I'm clueless.

vrb1955: The biggest problem I see with an older man dating a younger woman is the younger woman drains this guy's bank account
Sounds like a stereotype.

vrb1955: How can "you" date a generation of people you have so little respect for?
Another stereotype. I was taught to have respect for my elders and you won't find evidence to the contrary.
 Plastic Sturgeon
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 463
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Posted: 10/8/2008 8:55:28 AM
I just have to shake my head! All those that say, this attraction for younger
women must be some sort of crisis, or compensation for something! BS!
Another poster said that we should just go with what we find most attractive!
Hmmmm! Maybe there is some correlation there! Do you think?

And, some men do this, simply because they can! And the aspect of not having
anything in common is just more BS! Besides! I don't see a whole lot of compatibility
in many other relationships anyway, so why bring that up in this instance? lol

I have also found that younger women also have not added as many demands and
criteria to their agendas. Logically, the opposite SHOULD be true, but it isn't!
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
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Posted: 10/8/2008 10:10:41 AM
Trees are so beautiful when they are mapped with time...so are we!
 jackster121
Joined: 9/2/2008
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Posted: 10/8/2008 10:16:14 AM
eye candy that's why. It makes no sense to me. i want a mature woman I can relate to on isuues of the world and reminisce about the past with her. It is almost like buying a sports car. You look good when you're in it and think it impresses everyone.
 ManeRider
Joined: 5/22/2005
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Posted: 10/8/2008 3:04:05 PM
AMazing Amanda:
You have some amazing moral judgement if you refrained from hazing the old goat that reached WAY down inside herself to offer us up some of her diatribe. Old women are truly hateful to younger women, which is particularly one of the reasons guys avoid them like the plague. And I commend you for not retaliating to her venomous remarks. Jealous old hags aren't worth wasting your time over, so my hats off to you for not giving her stomach a turn with the knife.

It's encouraging to know someone like yourself can see past the age gap. So many other countries worldwide have long since known the benefits of younger women dating or marrying older men. Men mature slower than women; that's probably first and foremost, and an older woman, like that goat that ushered her nonsense in a few post back, typically enjoy younger men (as was admitted in her post's) because they've seen their friends do so. That's a psychological phenomenon we're seeing in older women (cougars) today, who feel they're refreshing their sexual libido by fawning attention from younger guys. SOme women think it's ok to do just whatever they saw men doing, even if it's being a user of the opposite sex for merely sexual gratification. Nevermind that the mentaility of that scenario is forever a throwback into a Freudian nightmare.

Go to Costa Rica....BRAZIL.....europe....asia.....middle east..... these people have, for generations, come to appreciate a younger woman and an older man. The reasons are endless. Older men offer maturity that the women's counterparts do not, in addition to financial success. In most cases, the older man is far less likely to stray, and offers a sense of fidelity unmatched in the females gender equivalent. In many cases, there's an interest level that the female finds with an older man, who wants to be stimulated with controversial, in depth thought that her gender counterparts are not capable of. The list continues.


I admire you for your youth but some of you have the manners of goats

Did you say some of us young people have the manners of goats ? Did you dip that reply in venom when you typed it?

I'd say yes, she did, on both accounts.


vrb1955: The biggest problem I see with an older man dating a younger woman is the younger woman drains this guy's bank account

Sounds like a stereotype.


Again, it's admirable you refrained from name calling. At 22, you're most certainly more mature than the woman who's twice your age, who's clearly not able to restrain her disdain for women who are younger than she is, and who clearly illicits less mental faculty than yourself.

Feel free to email me if you'd care to chat sometime.
 Amazing Amanda
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 467
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Posted: 10/8/2008 4:06:43 PM

manerider: Again, it's admirable you refrained from name calling
Thx
manerider: ....hazing the old goat...
Now you're justifying her words and proving her point by calling her a name.

manerider: Feel free to email me if you'd care to chat sometime.
My answer

Amazing Amanda post 474: I was taught to have respect for my elders and you won't find evidence to the contrary.
Chatting with someone who disrespects and calls older people names is not something I'm interested in at this moment in time.
 ManeRider
Joined: 5/22/2005
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Posted: 10/8/2008 4:23:23 PM

Now you're justifying her words and proving her point by calling her a name.


Chatting with someone who disrespects and calls older people names is not something I'm interested in at this moment in time.

SO, now you're justifying her.
BTW, Just what point of hers have I proved?
I have no idea what possesses people to attack others the way she did to you. And I have absolutely no problem calling a spade a spade. I suppose if that derelict side of me offended you, best wishes to you. I tend to take issue with people who are so asinine as to make the initial comments she made. WHat's disgusting to me is how so many older women act so scorned by the thought of younger women dating older men, and whether that offended you or not, I still felt I wouldn't let it go without mention, no different than if someone had made that comment in person or in public.
I stand by my comments.
Cheers
 RENE.V.456
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 469
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Posted: 10/8/2008 4:39:43 PM
look men are very basic and very shallow, so what i say now is not to offend but to tell the honest truth, men go for younger women because they are more fit as far a body, a lot of young women who have no kids have a more perky body type and men like that blame hollywood and the media, men want the stripper, aerobic instructor, and the dreaded bikini blonde, sorry but its true, they don't want the women with the stimulating conversation, 3 kids, and body imperfections, thats not me, my girlfriend has a few extra pounds and i don't mind but most men do
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
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Posted: 10/8/2008 4:48:36 PM
Been killed by death already-I personally want no young thing with no brains, morals, etc.-but that's ME! You may find yourself saying, "My, God, What Have I Done?" ...Once in a lifetime...
 ManeRider
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Posted: 10/8/2008 4:49:04 PM
^^^^^^Moneycheeba, totally a bunch of hogwash.
I work among some rather elite families, and attractive women often follow the money. The homeowner I'm now working for is somewhere near 40, but puts many younger women half her age to shame for the fact that she takes such good care of herself. I'd have no problem dating/marying a woman her age, but they're usually few and far between ,and generally spoken for.
Per example....Sarah Palin is my age,.....had five kids, one just a few months ago. Does she look all disheveled and baggy? I dont' agree with her political tactics, AT ALL, but.... she's very attractive.
If the above poster says men are shallow, I'd say he ought to speak for himself. And as for not caring if a woman is overweight, again, matter of preference. I take very good care of my body, and enjoy more youthfulness than a vast majority of men my age. So, when I eat sugar or foods that aren't supposed to be good for you, I take for granted that I burn a lot more calories and burn out more toxins than most men my age. Thus, I can afford some luxuries. The same holds true with (my) dating younger women.
Trust me, at any age, if she's lame in the brain, good looks or youthfulness is a complete wash. I'm looking for a diamond in the rough, which is precisely how I see myself.


BTW, Just what point of hers have I proved?

Still awaiting a response to that, Amanda.
 RENE.V.456
Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 472
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Posted: 10/8/2008 5:04:48 PM
yeah like you said some older women take care of themselves by working out or watching what they eat, but most don't, i don't know how old you are but i will say i have friends probably younger than you or your same age and most of my friends prefer younger
 Plastic Sturgeon
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 473
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Posted: 10/8/2008 6:12:53 PM
Kind of related, but it NEVER ceases to amaze me how money
definitely helps to keep people younger looking! So, in a world
that so cherishes youthfulness, how can so many people keep
saying money isn't important? Someone isn't telling the truth!
 captainkirk56
Joined: 1/19/2008
Msg: 474
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Posted: 10/8/2008 6:44:55 PM
i enjoy the company of woman my age...but then again...age is only a number..

i still have some life left in this body,,,just i take it a little slower...and nothing wrong with that either...
 arthur56
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 475
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Posted: 10/11/2008 4:45:58 PM
To vrb 1955

Unfortunately so do I, and I remember the exact moments and where I was. but I just want to realte a small story which those of my age may appreciate. Stevie wonder was also known as Little Stevie Wonder. when I was a kid in Montreal, there was a club in Montreal that used to open up their door on sundays, serve no alcohol, so people could see some of the performers. I think it was the Esquire Show Bar. It was the first time I saw Little Stevie Wonder. He was 15 years old at the time, and he was electrifying. I write this only because, when you talk with someone, you need to have a common ground, and you need to relate on more than just a physical basis, you have to relate to their minds.
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