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 stillooking64
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 81
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???Page 3 of 23    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23)
Well lets see I married her when she was 27 ,and I was 32.
The sex was great up until she turned 32 and it was like night and day she was like it isnt important yeah I admit nice but not important to have sex.
Take her back to 27 and she would never make that kind of statment.
I have often been told that she loved how I could always make sure she was satisfied.
I guess I should have not satisfie her that well huh.
after a few children wemon dont want sex as much ,and yes at 40 wemon most women go through a change ,but the sad part about it some dont want to stay faithful long enough to make it too that point in life to be able too satisfie their husband.
So to answer your question on my behalf.
I'ts because younger wemon have less kids so they are willing to be more aggressive with a male .
Also they are not as set in there ways and become stubborn enough to say well if he thinks he's going to get sex then he has got another thing coming.
Like your a born again Virgin.
I guess what im trying to say is loosen up dont try to be so hard us.
Men like soft things ,and that means soft bodies ,and yeah soft affection.
I think yeah a women that will do anything to satisfie their man to no means is always more attractive than the one that has been through a bad relationship too say I did it for the last co.. sucker why do it for this one .
see what I mean.
If an older woman were to treat me like i was what she's been looking for all her life then I would definatly treat her the same.
Enough said bye
 krayon
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 82
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 7:01:24 PM
I gave a response in another thread to do with marriage or living together..which probably belonged more in this one.

Real life experience drawing upon here:

In the last 3 1/2 yrs, I've had 3 marriage proposals. Age range 30-45.

Dating is showing me that a lot.. a LOT of men in their 30s-40s prefer women in their 40s-50s (without so much emphasis on "looks"). Many either have all the kids they already want or simply do not want any biological children.
A lot of men in their 50s or older, want women in their 50s IF they are petite or tall & leggy (sad but a lot of times, the case unfortunately), or..to the extreme..the wayyy younger women...i.e emphasis on "looks". Almost the complete opposite of the younger guys.

I am speaking from my own personal experiences; however, there are certain "biological/forces of nature" reasons which drive this attitude.
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 83
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 7:55:50 PM
The rule of thumb is that the bloom is off the rose at 30. With the junk food diets and early sex, many females are expired at 25. Women who delay getting married until their thirties are ignoring basic biology. Why do kittens stop being cute? WHy do babies stop being cute? Why don't we celebrate the fact that men don't lose their looks and sex appeal as they age? We should look on the positive side of things. I hate sour grapes.


Spazz, it's nice that you're trying to keep your spirits up at your age, but the truth is, the bloom is off most everyone by 30. However, with men it's not just their face and body, like with women, it's also their magic wand, which begins to falter. Eventually, instead of being at the 180 degree angle facing up towards the sun as it was once at 20, it soon begins to aim towards that 180 degree angle that looks down on the street sewers. Life is a b itch, ain't it?
 grubeci
Joined: 10/30/2003
Msg: 85
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:07:25 PM
I will agree old wine and parmesean cheese just is better..but you have to savor...and slow down..and experience...kinda what I wanted withy my young woman as we grew old together....but not lilke cheese...thats cheesy and middle school. Now, I want to grow fast with my old woman? Nope. Older okay? Growing old slowly is better...time slows...down...when you're watching the clock...in her eyes...unwinding to the sound of your breathing...maybe together...at least..thats what hallmark told me to say...Hallmark..who can stop them? They don't make them like they used to and...experience counts. (!) ;)
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 86
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:09:41 PM
Maybe I've been lucky and all the men over 50 and 60 who have made love to me


Wow! And you're 22?

By the way, according to Spazzyone, you have exactly 3 years left before you "expire."
 krayon
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 88
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 8:14:00 PM
sarita has a point. It's biology.
Use to be a closely guarded secret among the ranks (men) but, with the sales (massive quantities), it has now come into the open.

As to what Suzzan said, probably wouldn't know 99.9% of the time when the men were taking the meds. No need to think you would. Also, both men and women like "kinky" if that's their thing...has nothing to do with you being a younger woman with older men.

When common sense is used, the obvious is... obvious.
 a37064
Joined: 6/7/2004
Msg: 98
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/5/2005 10:09:23 PM
HI - I'm an older guy and age doesn't matter so much as attitude. My birth certificate and driver's license say I'm 57 and they are the only things that do. I don't look it. I don't act it. And, I will never ever act old. Most people, male or female over 45 "act old".

I don't want to be with someone who acts old.
 smilincaligal198
Joined: 5/30/2005
Msg: 99
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:22:33 AM
young women make older men feel young again.
 kulin
Joined: 6/6/2005
Msg: 100
 supersomma
Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 101
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 7:13:26 AM
Less baggage, trophy factor, no biological clock ticking like a timebomb, less married friends to endlessly compare herself to.

Cougars want nothing but sex from the guys they date. They don't expect a ring and child.
Likely already have 'em.
 sddude
Joined: 11/4/2004
Msg: 103
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 10:54:15 AM
Dude ,

that sounds rude ....

damn you are probably right though , young chicks are always impressed whem my jeep starts on the first try , makes me look I have it together .


Losing the sexy shine , yeah alot of times that is true , after college some let themselves go a little . Depends how us pigs define that .
 mitgrad00
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 104
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 1:02:09 PM
Oh mine, I know I am going to be hated for this. But this is my observation.

From my experience, North American chicks are generally at their best in their teen years (and some in early 20s). Chinese chicks are the best in their 20s and early 30s. Please note I sued the word generally; individuals can certainly differ.

With a growth hormone infected diet and abundance of sexual stimulants everywhere (TV, Movies, radio, music, internet etc), American chicks grew up so fast. They usually mature in their teen years. (An 18 year old North American girl can easily look like a 28 tear old Chinese girl in China.) Of coure, these things also make you grew older faster, so their looks start to decline in their 20s.

Sorry ladies, please don't take offense. I still love you.
 SecretAgent420
Joined: 3/3/2005
Msg: 105
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:13:40 PM
I dont know about younger women being better. Certianly more attractive. And for several reasons.
First of all, they are in much better shape. Tend to have better and more outgoing attitudes. Often times more adventerous. And true, more easily impressed. Nicer complexions and prettier hair. (Why do older women cut their hair, I hate short hair on women)
Example: Lindsey Lohan or Goldie Hawn = No contest, Lindsey is hot.
Tara Ried or Madonna = No contest, Tara the clear winner in the hottie contest.
But then again, I've seen some older women that will knock your socks off, frikkin hot!!
(And they are all attitude and full of themselvs, no fun, boring too, boring music and boring lifestyle, yawn)

I hate to say it, but older women (not all) tend to be more jaded with more baggage. Comes from being around a bit longer and having been burned so many times in the past.

Who wants to go on a date with a pissed off, hateful, spiteful and hurt woman. Ex husbands and boyfriends, problems with kids and divorces. Who wants that? I dont even want to hear it anymore. We call that damaged goods. And it's sad really, been hurt so many times. Not to mention a lot of been there done that mentality supressing fun and adventure.

Then they do get older and more out of shape, then they get self conscious and start taking it out on you. Like it's your fault or something. Hey, start eating better and get off your fat ass and do something besides sit in the a/c all day watching home shopping network eating snackies. Personally I want someone who can go biking, camping, swimming at the beach (Isn't freaked out about wearing a bathing suit) I dont have time for that, nor do I want to hear it. Either do something about it, or STFU and get on with life.

 bugsybears
Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 106
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:18:33 PM
oh yes he really wants a younger woman and finds out he can't keep up with her.
 mitgrad00
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 107
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:21:51 PM
Quote: "oh yes he really wants a younger woman and finds out he can't keep up with her. "

Hey what are you talking about? We have Viagra!
 Goddard
Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 108
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:31:17 PM
I think secretagent just said what many men think, but we won't say because we don't want to hurt women's feelings.

Anyway, I think men don't need to justify their preference for younger women.

The woman who wants to be attractive needs to work for it, instead of just saying "I'm attractive" and expecting that men justify themselves by not finding her attractive.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 112
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:43:46 PM
secretagent I agree with some of what you said but think "jaded" is not quite accurate. With experience, women learn when men are full of it or just trying to get into their pants. Plus older women are more secure in themselves, usually and not as prone to insincere flattery and men talking up a good line that are full of BS. Last time I played some serious tennis it was with one of my son's friends who was 23 or so we played for several hours, 3 I believe, and HE was the one asking for a break. I'd never had a formal lesson but we tied all our sets. He told me that I basically wore his butt out.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 113
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:46:33 PM
mitgrad If what you want is a little servant girl, then knock yourself out.
 Goddard
Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 114
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:48:32 PM

We are who we attract .

Greeneyes, so if some older women don't attract men anymore, it means that they're not anymore?
 lonertx63
Joined: 4/5/2005
Msg: 115
Knowing limits and one's place.
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:48:49 PM
I haven't read through all this crap, but I've joked around, and that's always the end of it. I never seriously intend nor brag about my prowess with women unless I'm jokin. My situation was that certain things happened over the years from the time I reached 54 that changed my life, and my wife's life forever. It was not the loss of libido, though some is lost a little. Still I was active in the bed till that fateful age when things changed our lives forever. I never again wanted sex with anybody. It was not a matter of inablility on my part. It was the events of life that turned me againest ever personally having sex again. I don't expect anybody to get what I'm talkin about, and it's nobody's g-damned business anyway. Now, as far as hittin 63, and soon to be 64, I know MY PLACE! I am not a g-damned fool, and any ***hole who says I have "lost it", doesn't understand shyt about what I mean. NO, I don't want any friggin sex from anybody. I've always been up front about that. So whoever wants to put me in an age period that is critical of what I say in jokin and trying to have some fun as well as some cynical remarks on life can kiss my ass. Some day, everybody gets older, and things do change. But the understanding of choice, and the way I want to gut some people who would discriminate againest me is a serious business. So, it is best never to piss off a man who feels he has nothing to lose. You don't know shyt about that, and it will stay that way. But to tell a man how he should be, or make a judgement in general that is full of shyt, is stupid, and whoever thinks they are "cool" puttin down older guys better hope they never run across me, cause I can make "accidents" happen. If you doubt it, pray you never meet me. Now, shut up the crap about old farts, and stuff it up your ass. I don't take to anybody who tells ME MY limits, and my Place! I know my place, and don't need anybody who is a dumbass tellin me what I can and can't do.
 awaitingyu
Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 116
Knowing limits and one's place.
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:53:35 PM
meself? I feel young, I look young, so I tend to gravitate more that way...plain and simple.....no age number, just that.
 vionine
Joined: 6/28/2004
Msg: 117
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:54:16 PM
Who do you think gives then the baggage?
Men who unfortunately can not see the beauty of age and wisdom. I feel better than ever getting older, because I am not sweating the small stuff. A-holes are not taking advantage of me anymore. I comfortably speak my mind.

I say those who are hung up on young "chicks" Treat them well. And I am glad to be left to the men with
wisdom and character.
I have many men friends who aren't the least bit interested in way younger females.
 mitgrad00
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 118
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:56:15 PM
Quote: "He told me that I basically wore his butt out. "

How do you know that he is telling you the truth? Or maybe you are a better/more skilled player than he is. Or maybe he is sick/not feeling well that day? Or maybe he just doesn't enjoy this. I know that almost every woman, regardless of age, can tire me out when shopping in the mall. There can be millions of reasons for this.
 Goddard
Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 119
Knowing limits and one's place.
Posted: 6/6/2005 3:58:46 PM
If an older man wants a younger woman, and he's attractive enough (in whatever qualities) to get one, who are you to say he shouldn't?

I just imagined an old man walking down the street with a young girl in his arm, while a chorus of older women crying "leave that young girl and choose me, I think I'm still attractive" pursues them. How do you think it would look?
 mitgrad00
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 120
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/6/2005 4:06:17 PM
@bucsgirl:

Asian women (and Chinese women in particular) are NOT submissive. In the fact, the EXACT OPPOSITE is true.

Allow me to tell you a story. When I first arrived this country, I was shocked that there are a lot of housewifes. Where I am from, both the husband and the wife worked, and hold similar positions. (It is certainly true in my family, both of my parents are retired executives in a car company. My Mom commended a factory of a couple of thousand people!)

Why is China's women's liberation movement much further along? A little history lesson here. When Chairman Mao took over China in 1949, he declared that women hold up "half of the sky". So women did. Girls are very bit of boys' equal in school. I competed with girls in academic subjects such as math and physics through out my school years in China. (And they are tough.)

So in my experience, Chinese women, particularly those first generation immigrants, tend to be tough and aggressive; some of them are tough as nails. (You can bet they won't suck your c*ck and swallow your c*m. LOL) I am serious.
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