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 Mr Vista
Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 176
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???Page 8 of 23    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23)
Some men are at different levels, some women are at different levels...

My last good relationship was with a lady 10yrs my senior at the time the female friends i had (of the relationship kind) werent looking for the kind of things i was looking for...

I think it has alot to do with where your/their heads are at...

Whats age anyway?

Is it that people are just trying to Re-live their youth through anothers image:Vis-à-vis -
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 tuffluv
Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 177
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/9/2005 7:02:28 AM
waterouzel,
Younger women are better for a man who wants children, especially if he has gotten on in years but has not succeeded in passing on his seed. Other than that I personally don't care what age a woman is, and would go for a 60-year old fitness-oriented person over a 20-year old couch potato any day of the week.

Let me answer this question with a question--why do so many women my age prefer younger men?
 stonecoldheart
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 178
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/9/2005 11:02:48 AM
Yeah and what is it with these older bimbos who try to hang on to their youth and date younger men...hey witches of POF...I have a better idea...go to the gym ...work off that cellulite...cause one day your going to be old and ugly...but you already are shallow on the inside....
however on the flip side of this conversation...I dont think age is a barrier for both sexes if it is for love and not for sex or to fool them selves into thinking they are nothing more than gold digging bimbos....
bring it sister
 MasterWindu
Joined: 5/24/2005
Msg: 179
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/9/2005 11:07:12 AM
When we guys get older we feel good and younger when we prove to ourselves we can get a younger woman, makes us feel like we havent lost our edge..yet, lol
 Coach47
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 180
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/9/2005 11:09:55 AM
@stone ... age is no barrier especially since we cannot turn back the clock of time. The fountain of youth can be what you make of it and what you get from it. But your right in the sense that true love sees no walls...up or down.
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 181
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/9/2005 7:34:49 PM

Yeah and what is it with these older bimbos who try to hang on to their youth and date younger men...hey witches of POF...I have a better idea...go to the gym ...work off that cellulite...cause one day your going to be old and ugly...but you already are shallow on the inside....



^^^ ... and then we have the ones who have been rejected by gorgeous, older women and just can't get over it....
 stonecoldheart
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 182
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/9/2005 8:09:35 PM
^^^ ... and then we have the ones who have been rejected by gorgeous, older women and just can't get over it....


and then we have these younger ones who are rejected and make up stories...and scrap off the make up and you will find jimmy hoffa....lol...a young bimbos fate....lol

and no rejections here missy..if shes old or young...it better be a hell of a lot more than the make up or the sagging boobs...

it better be the personality and the woman inside thats not shallow

so eat my boxers man
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 183
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/9/2005 8:26:02 PM
Sagging boobs is something you'll have to tell us all about.

And by the way, wouldn't sagging boobs match a sagging part of the (aging) male anatomy quite well? It'd be like cufflinks! You'll have to tell us 'bout that.
 Goddard
Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 184
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/9/2005 9:52:49 PM
Sarita, what would you think if somebody had, to you and your younger boyfriend, the same attitude that you have to older men and younger women?
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 185
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/10/2005 6:48:08 PM
Hmm... Tango, I don't think 6 yrs is that huge a difference, do you? I don't think that a man marrying a woman 6 yrs younger is marrying a woman with that much a generational difference. 15 yrs, 20 yrs, that's a whole nother story!
 Truebeautycomeswithin
Joined: 5/25/2005
Msg: 186
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/11/2005 2:25:00 PM
It all depends on the person.some younger women look for older guys and some younger guys look for older women.then they are some older men who look for younger women.I guess you really cant judge the person on what they prefer because thats there choice.if
they are legal 18 and on up.thats there choice.but then we still have some people that thinks its wrong if they date and they are still of a legal age.
 IanGilez
Joined: 3/9/2005
Msg: 187
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/11/2005 2:25:55 PM
Age is merely numbers for the right person...
 BrianHA
Joined: 8/18/2004
Msg: 188
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/19/2005 12:04:57 PM
.................If I may pipe in a bit too. I am 44, and I had no misgivings about the past or any regrets about it. If what I experienced can be classified as a mid-life crisis, I'd have to say a brief period of the thrill being gone. What I mean is the thrill I felt for so many things as a younger fellow, was suddenly not there. But I think a clear and rational thinking mind can easily decipher through that and understand the phenomenon for what it is and move on.

Surprisingly I find a good number of much younger women showing their attraction to me since I passed the 40 mark, but if you look at what it could mean in a real sense; the concept holds no joy in it whatsoever for me. All too often I find the conversation is a drag and your priorities and outlook in life are worlds apart.

On the other hand, I've enjoyed almost every experience I've had with a woman more compatible to my own age, although I prefer the more liberal thinking mature woman, and oh..my oh my..oh my..they are so much more uninhibited in mind, body and spirit.

Brian.
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 189
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/19/2005 12:14:08 PM
^^^ Good post, Brian!

I also get approached by younger men who are attracted to me in real life and on POF, but there's nothing like a man my age or thereabouts. Yum!
 peters913
Joined: 11/17/2004
Msg: 190
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/19/2005 12:36:27 PM
Well lets see, I went out Wednesday with a woman who was 38, I'm 30. I took her to dinner at a casino and then we played blackjack for a bit. Actually she drove. I lost my liscence due to a dui. 1st one ever. At any rate, we were all over each other, in the parking lot on the car, in the car and then back to my place. One of my jobs is as a live in nanny partime for a doctors family...So needless to say i had to keep smothering her face with my pillo so the rest of thw household couldn't hear her screaming while i did her. She was great! Perfect bod, even for a mature woman. She kept calling me a machine, which made me push it harder.
Still looking for Miss. Right, Age Doesn't Matter
 ladeyday
Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 191
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/19/2005 3:50:30 PM
I think that older men look for younger women because they can impress them easier than women their own age. The latter could call them on things, whereas the younger woman might not. I also belive that they think that older women have chips on their shoulders, are carrying too much baggage. But if one thinks like that [setting ups such expectations], then it will come true. Because no matter what the older woman says or does, somehow, it will fit that profile. sorry, we all have histories, and admittedly, some of us are more optimistic than others. Another reason is the "Hollywood" factor. Older women in entertainment are extremely disposable. Clint Eastwood can have someone in her 20's and there's not a step missed. No one wants to see him with a 70 year old woman. Thus, real life imitates fiction. Sad.
 New-Beginnings
Joined: 12/19/2004
Msg: 192
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/19/2005 5:10:54 PM
I can only speak for myself. I am seeking younger because of "experience issues". I would like to try to match or get as close to matching sexual experiences. Obviously "close" is as much as I can expect or hope for at my age. I have no experiences whatsoever, so my original hope was to be with a gal in her 20's, but now I am allot more open minded about it. Deep down, I still would rather be with a younger gal, because of "aging" problems, that I have noticed with older gals, also with myself as well. I would like to experience what there is to experience with a younger less experienced gal, the only downfall I can think of is their level of maturity, and knowing ones-self. There again, it all depends on the individual. There are some very mature young ladies out there, that are wise beyond their years. I just have to find her...or someone who is older and is willing to "teach" an old dog some new tricks. Just from my perspective...
 My.02 Cents
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 193
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/19/2005 6:11:30 PM
For several reasons actually...What Feral said is absolutely true...Younger women tend to be more attractive on a purely biological level for procreative purposes...

On an emotional level however...I believe that older men seek younger women because they:

a) Find them "less threatening" and MUCH less likely to comfront them on their crap!

b)They have issues with their OWN age, and are seeking to recapture their own youth...(mid-life crisis)

c) Because younger women will tolerate a LOT more crap from men, simply because they haven't yet learned that in the end the opinion of YOU that ultimately matters MOST...is YOUR OWN!!!!
Dee
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 194
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Posted: 6/19/2005 6:19:44 PM
c) Because younger women will tolerate a LOT more crap from men, simply because they haven't yet learned that in the end the opinion of YOU that ultimately matters MOST...is YOUR OWN!!!!


Thanks, Dee, I think that's a great post. I did want to mention something in relation to this ^^^ last explanation you provided. I think younger women will tolerate a lot more crap for about 1 or 2 days and that's all.

Younger women tend to be very self-absorbed (as young women we look in the mirror constantly, we are obsessed with shopping only, and want all kinds of men looking at us at every turn). I think by the time we women are older (with the usual exceptions) we're wiser, have been around the block, are not self-absorbed, and understand people a lot better. True, we don't put up with bullshit, but we're more likely to know how to handle life and do things, are far more devoted to family, can be counted on more, and are more likely to hang around when someone is seriously ill, than a young kid who just wants to go clubbing and be seen shaking her booty on the dance floor.
 My.02 Cents
Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 195
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/19/2005 6:29:25 PM
@saritam...Yes, good points!!! But when I said that young women would tolerate more crap, what I meant was that they are more inclined to believe that they can "change THAT MAN in X number of days, weeks, months,etc"...What we are "programmed" to do virtually from BIRTH as women in the world!!!

Yes, that self- absorption CAN lead to flightiness and a low tolerance for SOME crap...But I believe that more often it is younger women who are more likely to stay in unsatisfying relationships, perhaps due to lack of experience or confidence from having tested their own resourcefulness???? Dee
 dannyabe
Joined: 3/20/2005
Msg: 196
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Posted: 6/21/2005 11:12:31 AM
hey....this thread has me ---->
i stop using pof to search for a match made in heaven girlfriend......aint gonna happen.
furthermore.....i dont get any hits on POF....and dont care, but would be interesting if i could.

on the other hand.....IN REAL LIFE....
i am busy with a few women and all at the same time.
i have heaps of fun with women that are younger than me......but
women my age .... (ahemmmmm, not gonna let'cha know my real age that is)....is more comforting, just sitting around doing simple things.

i HATE doing garden / yard work.........grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....not my cup of tea !!!!!!!
also....i'm starting to accept women who wrinkles are ok....."yikes"

some of the men that have posted on this thread have a very good point and as negative as they sound.....they do have my support because THEY HAVE MADE TRUE STATEMENT.

i gotta call a spade for a spade......
and if i am a jerk.....d*ck-head....well then, life goes on.....
i do love women.....and Give respect to them in my company.....BUT, i am not a door mat for them......
 Littlefriend
Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 197
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/21/2005 12:01:06 PM
It's all depending on what you're looking for. If you want to find someone just purely for sex, I wouldn't go with an old f*art, but if you're looking for someone to talk and exchange life experience, then don't go for the 18 yrs. old simple as that.
 WarmCuddly
Joined: 2/1/2004
Msg: 198
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Posted: 6/21/2005 12:13:47 PM
This is a great topic. I can only speak from personal experience. I am a 45 y/o male, who is also a single father of 4 wonderful children ,all under the age of 12. For me it is not the age of the woman, it is whether or not she is willing to accept both my children and I. I must be honest here. I have found that a lot (not all) of women my own age are not that willing to take on younger children. I will concede that there are most likely as many if not more younger women that would not want to take on the responsibility either. In my case, I am merely trying to expand my chances of finding that someone special.
 am70sguy
Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 199
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Posted: 6/21/2005 12:18:08 PM
warmcuddly: We're really at that age where the majority of women have kids that are older and ready to leave, or already gone, from the nest and really want to get out and doing things as opposed to being tied down again. It really narrows down the field. But I'm sure when that one comes along, she will be well worth the wait. [ok, that could be self-hypnosis at work...]
 Goddard
Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 200
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Posted: 6/21/2005 1:43:54 PM
I think the solution is leaving everyone look for what they want, whether younger, older, taller, fatter, thinner, whatever, and stop asking why.
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