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 Summertyme
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 201
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???Page 9 of 23    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23)
I have to agree with you. When you get into the old fart category -- my age group -- many of these guys are saying, because they have so much energy or they are so good looking, they need a younger woman! Most of these guys just ride the couch and the remote. It is laughable -- I much prefer a guy within my age group -- there is so much to talk about and life experiences tend to be similar -- far more rewarding. I suppose if these guys are looking for someone 10 - 20 yrs younger, you better stock up on the blue pills and fatten that wallet.
Otherwise, these energetic young ones will be off with the next old sugar daddy. Basically, they really don't want your energy and looks, when guys their age can run circles around you Old Farts -- they just want your wallet -- silly old men!
 Coach47
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 202
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/21/2005 3:01:23 PM
Summertyme, I agree with some of the things you write about, conversations, experiences etc. but I do disagree with one thing .... running circles and couch duty. I find that type of person can be any age for either catagory. Age is not an issue with me, it is the ability to communicate on all levels.
 Goddard
Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 203
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/21/2005 3:05:21 PM

they just want your wallet -- silly old men!

Why silly? After all, they can't take the money with them to the afterlife, so why don't go with a bang?
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 204
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/21/2005 3:07:45 PM
summer Right with you on that. However, I find too many men in the "middle age" group to be couch potatoes just like you said. A couple hours of single tennis, are you kidding? Plus I find also the "has been" syndrone. Talking about the job they used to have, the house they lived in, they're living in the past rather than the present. That gets old and boring quick for me. Or the reminiscing, life was so much better and simpler when I was younger, good grief. I had someone tell me that the definition of old is someone who lives in the past. I thought that was very appropos, there are younger people who are "old" in that sense. Life should be somewhat exciting day by day and you should be looking forward to your tomorrows instead of clinging to your yesterdays. If not, then don't email me!!
 Dreamspace
Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 205
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/21/2005 3:12:34 PM
Tang:

I hear what you're saying, and that's fine. But...

So long as these gents KNOW they're being exploited for money, then it is what it is (prostitution) and if no one gets hurt, then no big deal. However, most of these men are convinced their affections are being reciprocated, not simply bought. They're dealing with mortality...poorly...and this weakness is being exploited for personal monetary gain. I find that reprehensible.

Same goes for sugar MOMMA's too.

D.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 206
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/21/2005 3:20:48 PM
dream When I was in my 20s I had a lot of older guys hitting on me. They dangle the carrott, money, travel, fine dining, gifts. I never bit, that's just not my style, if I did go out with them, it was to enjoy their company only and there was no sex involved. At that age, since I was mature for my age, I could talk to them on their level and learn from them and enjoy discussing many interesting topics that guys my age didn't have a clue or care about. Being an older man's mistress, or any man's mistress didn't appeal to me in the least, I don't like the feeling of being "owned". I did have a few older friends who enjoyed my outrageous sense of humor and depth in talking about serious things. It was a mutual enjoyment of each other's company.
 Dreamspace
Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 207
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/21/2005 3:27:24 PM
BG.,

Hmmm. So long as you were open about all this from the beginning, that's fair enough. But honestly, I only see an older man hitting on a 20-year old for one of two reasons:

1) Display model. Makes him look good in front of his buddies.
2) Sex. Hoping he can sweet-talk you out of your clothes.

You saying you were mature for your age leads me to suspect reason #2.

Then again, I'm NOT an old man. Haven't been there yet, so I'm just speculating and possibly, completely and ENTIRELY full of sh!t. I'll give you that. Ha! Ha!

D.
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 208
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/21/2005 6:25:07 PM

Why silly? After all, they can't take the money with them to the afterlife, so why don't go with a bang?


A prostitute is cheaper. She won't ask the old geezer for his entire estate.
 tyteflows
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 209
 dannyabe
Joined: 3/20/2005
Msg: 210
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/22/2005 12:45:53 AM
once again....i am very entertained by this thread....
the women today on this page sure did write the truth about the old guys vs: young gals.

i have to share my night with you ppL.....
tonight i was with a very good looking lady age 45....
and i gotta say....we have everything in common BUT,
she's into movies and me giving her back rub all night and serving her hand a foot !
i pay and i put out and well....i pay again.....
she never has to foot the bill for anything.....i do it all !

now...i am a fitness dude....i do heavy weight training....i love to walk.....i love to drive and look at water (rivers, ponds, lakes)
i need to be off my *ss all the time.....

sitting around drinking my beer, hard stuff, eating prime rib roast and sea food most of the time is not my gig !!!! thats how you get fat ! so go figure.....not all men are toads !!!!!

i'm seeing three gals in their 40ish ....i love her the most.....
but man O'man....she is one heck of a couch B.....

i am a very lucky man....i'm fit, my skin is tight and most of all i dont have wrinkles....
if you ladys here on this page could see me or know me in real life.....YOU'D think twice about what you stated about men in your experiance being a couch with a remote control and this , that and whatever.....

oh yes....a few post above me, mentioned.....the blue pill......HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
well, a women that i have intimate midnights with (she just turned 41, she''s thin and extremely FIT).....she claims and doesnt understand how i am still rock hard and can go on for a very long time !!!!
SO...ONCE AGAIN...i must have great genes for a guy my age and DONT NEED THE BLUES
 Bunnyfunny
Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 211
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/22/2005 1:06:02 AM
Simple question. All people, regardless of gender, are attracted to beauty. Youth tends to be more beautiful than those that are aged.

Yeah, yeah, forget the 'inner' stuff. When push comes to shove, we all gravitate towards beautiful houses, beautiful sunsets, beautiful clothes, beautiful people!

Viagra? I find it repulsive.

The kind of man who so badly wants sex that he has to take an artificial something to get it, has too little grace, fortitude, maturity about him.

There does come a time in life when it all falls apart. That's life.
 eastwood73
Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 212
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/22/2005 1:08:37 AM
Bullshit,you are a typical gold digger,it is not age it is money
 eastwood73
Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 213
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Posted: 6/22/2005 1:13:02 AM
men are what we are,and women are the same,the Q asked is a stupid one,go to a titty bar and watch them,thats why they think there better....
 supersomma
Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 214
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/22/2005 7:44:50 AM
A few pages back, someone mentioned that younger girl/older guy is just for sex and they didn't care about the experiences of a 21 year-old girl. I have to take the flip side.

I can't stand listening to some older women talk as if they've done and experienced everything before you met them. It makes them sound old and used up and you wonder if there is anything new you could exeperience together.
I like to hear from younger and older women and how they have lived/related to/experienced life. But not have it inferred that I haven't seen anything like an older woman has.

It's the same 'game' just different players.

Viagra replusive? Well, I'm sure if you polled the women on this site, they'd rather have a faithful man on Viagra, then a man chasing natural viagra....another (younger?)woman!
 Coach47
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 215
So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/22/2005 9:31:56 AM
@writing, I agree concerning life and artificial means. But its the relationship that builds the desire and effectively the result. The use of stimulants is not only a "man" thing, nor an "age" phenomenon. Let's not fool oneself between a gold digger or a trophy, they both are around for a purpose. For beauty comes in many forms and age, and it is how one consummes it that makes it beautiful. But ultimately it is the makeup and interaction of the individuals that makes a relationship work .... otherwise it becomes borring and Viagra/ stimulants are required for both sexes.
 dannyabe
Joined: 3/20/2005
Msg: 216
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Posted: 6/22/2005 10:43:03 AM

Viagra? I find it repulsive.
The kind of man who so badly wants sex that he has to take an artificial something to get it, has too little grace, fortitude, maturity about him.


Hmmmmmm....this thread just got more interesting.....
ok ladies .....for those that posted or think that, the blue pill ....ummmmm repulsive.
1/ what about women who get fake tits or a-s-s lift and then some ???
2/ what about women who have shoe boxes upon shoe boxes of make up and fake eye lashes
3/ what about women who can't get wet enough to enjoy sex and need KY jelly.... .
4/ what about the women who ask if they can try viagra.....hahahahahahaha

the day i need viagra will be the day i give up on sex and take up gardening and plant flowers.
my days are number just like any other NORMAL guy (dawg)
then maybe i can start saving my money and use my retirement cash on me only rather than share the wealth !
 dwacorn
Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 217
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Posted: 6/22/2005 11:04:16 AM
Young women are simply easy going. Older women tend to be stuck in their ways, impatient, and expect a man to kow-tow to their every need. Dump that cranky ol' bag and start enjoying life.
 marathonman11x7
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 218
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Posted: 6/22/2005 11:40:30 AM
"So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better?"

On this site it seems it goes both ways. There are many women who are in their 30's and 40's who state they are looking for men in their late teens/early 20's.Why? I suspect men and women who look there as preferences have balance to find.Maturity has nothing to do with chronology.Maturity is relative to perception and level/degree.I believe that the gap between maturation levels of "older/younger" decreases TREMENDOUSLY as men and women past the age of 25.10 yrs age difference of a 29yo and 39 yo is not nearly as telling as a 19yo and 29yo.The physical differences become more pronounced gernerally after the age of 45.I think the physical differences between a 30yo and45yo are generally less pronounced than a 35yo and 50 or more pronounced 45yo and 60.There are exceptions to most "rules".Just my observations.
 SaritaTallahassee
Joined: 12/3/2004
Msg: 219
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Posted: 6/22/2005 8:38:45 PM
Viagra replusive? Well, I'm sure if you polled the women on this site, they'd rather have a faithful man on Viagra, then a man chasing natural viagra....another (younger?)woman!


@ supersomma - I see you’re 30. And by the way, Viagra doesn’t return it to age 30. It merely makes it more like fluffy mashed potatoes rather than onion soup for a while.



Young women are simply easy going. Older women tend to be stuck in their ways, impatient, and expect a man to kow-tow to their every need. Dump that cranky ol' bag and start enjoying life.


@ dwacorn - Hmm... looks like you're still looking.

 neverwalkrun
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 220
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Posted: 6/22/2005 8:51:13 PM
"Viagra? I find it repulsive.

The kind of man who so badly wants sex that he has to take an artificial something to get it, has too little grace, fortitude, maturity about him.

There does come a time in life when it all falls apart. That's life."

My understanding is that Viagra is for men with erectile difficulties due to a health problem, its not an aphrodisiac..Why would that repulsive...Is a diabetic repulsive because they have to take Insulin..

there sure are some weird attitudes displayed in this Thread.. And as for the aging thing my Grandpa is ninety and is out dancing five days a week with his seventy five year old girlfriend.. There is too much generalisation about older people here for my liking.
 bugsybears
Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 221
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Posted: 6/22/2005 9:03:11 PM
they may be thinking they are better in bed. as far as anything else goes, no way.
 lateshift1812
Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 222
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So please tell me...what is it with (some) men that think younger women are better???
Posted: 6/22/2005 9:17:56 PM
I just had this conversation with my best friend. To a lot of guys (I know I am not speaking for all just some) when women reach a certain age they seem to lose to spontainous part of a relationship. All that is on their mind is to settle down and be a respectable mom. A lot of guys like excitement in a relationship. Most young women are good for that. To go have sex where ever you might think of. To something a little risky, exciting. Men that I know tend to crave it throughout thier lives and older women seem to be past that. That's why guys I know keep going after younger women. Cause you get the feeling anything could happen at any time. It might not be the truth, but that is the stereotype that makes us look for younger women.
 squeak365
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 223
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Posted: 6/22/2005 10:01:34 PM
I find myself more willing to do it anywhere now that the kids are raised....well, almost anywhere....












er...do what?




Daggone sumtimers....
Squeak
 dannyabe
Joined: 3/20/2005
Msg: 224
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Posted: 6/22/2005 11:36:04 PM
@lateshift
right on the money man....
however....i feel sex is still better at home....
back seat romance is cool....but ummmmmm....having my knees jam'd and rug burn....nahhhh
to me....sex is ok....i dont like to sit on my a-s-s and do nothing....to much to see and do....
with good company....women of 40ish....ya'h....they have their ways.....and lots of demands.
does drive me nuts at times....but, i admit.....i do get along better with them.
younger women 30ish....i do have fun with them....but ????
anyway....thats all the time i have for this and that on the net.....back to real life matters.
 lateshift1812
Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 225
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Posted: 6/23/2005 6:43:48 AM
Well like I said it's with some men. A lot of men are as boring as the women and you find older women going after younger men cause THEY are bored. Myself I have an exhibitionist streak. Some things I like is having sex outdoors. Having sex in plain sight just too dark to see. Also a big thing for me is rough animalistic sex. A lot of women who want to settle down are looking to be loved, not ****ed hardcore to the point where neither wants to move around the next day (not saying all my sex has to be this way, but I had some good times doing it like that). It's all in what you look for in a partner. If you are wondering why guys do this you're probably looking at the other side of the fence and should be looking at the yard that is right for you. Don't look for a wild man when you are a mild woman, find a good mild man.
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