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 Black velvet 46
Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 26
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"A woman( preferably, with a vegina). The best sex toy i know of..."

Don't you just hate going to bed with a real woman and finding out she has no vegina?
Man i hate when that happens, talk about a mood killer, you're all ready to be a poking and a poking and a poking at something, then wham, no vegina.

I have lost track of how many times that's happened to me. Now i just come right out and ask "Do you have a vegina" because i am tired of those no vegina women.

So i am in total agreement with the above poster, If given a choice, i too would prefer my women to have a vegina.
 IThought UWereAHandpuppet
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 27
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/30/2007 6:38:22 PM
Yes! We have no vaginas. We have no vaginas, today!
I think only vegetarians have a vegina. Others are "equipped" with a vahjayjay!

Still others have the after-market variety!!!!
 Black velvet 46
Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 28
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/1/2007 6:42:05 AM
"Yeah. this is a touchy subject.( and i totally agree with one persons reply in here, ur name is perfect cuz u seem to be arguing both side of the issue) . which is something i don't get, because i dont a clu on what ur stand on the issue is"

Personally i don't use nor will i ever use any of those toys. But just because i am not using them does not mean i can't see the double standard involved. Women are always talking about double standards, I though since this is one of the few against the men , it was worth discussing.
 Black velvet 46
Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 29
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 7:29:44 AM
"I'm confused... are men indicating in this thread that.... they are jealous of BOB!! How is that possible when " DEMONSTRATED" propperly it could be quite entertaining... or is it just me imagination again...."

MYTH i think it's that vivid imagination of your working over time again. A man would have to be pretty insecure about himself to be jealous of a rubber penis....Actually( Now that you brought it up) i can see some guys being intimidated by the "BLACK BULLIT" .
 Black velvet 46
Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 30
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 9:16:00 AM
" Check out some of the toy sites, and you'll see that the fleshlight actually IS rather non-descript, and quit whining over something you're obviously dead set against to begin with"

Wow Cat get those claws out my back will you they are begginning to hurt. I am not whining, just putting a topic on the table for discussion. What is this "fleshlight" you're the secong poster to mention it?.
 IThought UWereAHandpuppet
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 31
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 11:42:56 AM
Oops, where am I? I must have taken a wrong turn ... Toys? I thought this had something to do with Santa ...
 makenziem
Joined: 11/10/2007
Msg: 32
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 12:04:37 PM
Nothing wrong with toys.
 giggleparts
Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 33
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/2/2007 1:01:30 PM
mmm... mmmhhhhmmmm... yeah.... mmmm..... okay.... yep... interesting... mmmhhhmmmm..... mmmmhhhmmm.... ahhhh.... yes.... right.....interesting.....

Oh, and by the way, I like vagina.

So, there's that.

Okay, so I'm glad we had this little talk. Now get out there and be somebody!

the giggleparts - Ron Paul for president
 Black velvet 46
Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 34
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/3/2007 7:06:35 AM
"Oh, and by the way, I like vagina"

Thanks for the clarifications there giggleparts. Even if you hated vagina really that's you own business. We're not here to judge you....... You might actually be protesting too much
 gigigrongbell
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 35
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/3/2007 8:41:28 PM
Ah, sex toys. I totally agree with you. There aren't very many exciting looking toys for men. Nothing I can think of that he would want to bring to bed while I'm there with him, although we do share mine. I have an idea of what some men's toys might be like but I can't find anything resembling them. I love watching him masturbate. That's hot.

Hmmmmm. Maybe I should get into marketing.

There are double standards in porn too. I love watching a man's face when he comes, but you try and find any porn that shows that. Nothing.
I like man noises when they come, again, either drown out by music or he makes as little as possible. Cut loose, give a shout, growl, something...please.
Is it hot in here?
 giggleparts
Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 36
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 12/4/2007 12:38:35 AM
"Oh, and by the way, I like vagina"


Thanks for the clarifications there giggleparts. Even if you hated vagina really that's you own business. We're not here to judge you....... You might actually be protesting too much


It's called comedy folks. I'm a little bit of a ham.... wakawakawaka and sh*t.

But, I really do like vagina... I don't currently have any specifically to like... with my penis. (I keed, I keed... wait.. no)

I go too far on a daily basis.

the giggleparts - Penis + Vagina = Good
 october_skies
Joined: 10/30/2009
Msg: 37
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 6:17:57 AM
Everyone knows that women that use toys are typically desperate women. Any good looking woman who can get a man doesn't need a toy, its mainly only loser women like the ones on this date site that need them because its obvious no man is interested in having sex with you otherwise you wouldn't be on this site. You walked right into that one.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 38
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 9:35:35 AM

Everyone knows that women that use toys are typically desperate women. Any good looking woman who can get a man doesn't need a toy, its mainly only loser women like the ones on this date site that need them because its obvious no man is interested in having sex with you otherwise you wouldn't be on this site. You walked right into that one.


Didn't look at your profile, but are you from, like, Alabama or some like right-minded place? They outlaw such toys, don't they? All I can say, dude, is I hope you were wearing your shyt-kicking' boots when you posted that, cuz you just stepped in it, big time.


I have no interest in dying from
Toxic Twattt Syndrom!

Oh, no. Groan. Yet another threat! I'm kinda fond of the pvssies that get this kind of exercise. And, (but totally unrelated to my tastes), I think they oughta be handing out toys to high school girls, with well-written operating instructions, to enable the young 'uns to learn about themselves. Instruction that has no classes, just homework. That lesson is no less valuable than teaching kids how to cook or balance a checkbook, imo.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 39
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Posted: 11/9/2009 12:27:49 PM
October_skies -
Everyone knows that women that use toys are typically desperate women. Any good looking woman who can get a man doesn't need a toy, its mainly only loser women like the ones on this date site that need them because its obvious no man is interested in having sex with you otherwise you wouldn't be on this site. You walked right into that one.


Um. I'll be sure to point out your ridiculous post to my BF. I have a whole stash of toys that he uses on me. He bought most of them!!! And.. before you even ask.. yes.. he f*cks me on a regular basis too.

I prefer my fingers...
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 11/9/2009 12:49:37 PM

are you from, like, Alabama or some like right-minded place?

Halifax Nova Scotia - yup the same type of place! LMAO
The forums are soooooo funny!!! I'm never leaving!!

I have only ever used sex toys WITH a partner!
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 11/9/2009 2:17:35 PM

I don't use toys nor do I masturbate

That's 'cause you're too busy snoggin' Grandpa! Ya need a hot uninhibited stud to bring ya into the real world! Ya don't know what you are missing!
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 42
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 6:41:42 PM
There are some pretty ridiculous things in this thread, including the OP.

I use toys because I like them, and because I'd much rather take care of myself than find some guy I don't even like that much for just sex. I'll not settle, thanks. I also adore using toys during sex with a partner.

Also, I think the Fleshlight would be crazy fun to play with, and I'd love to use one with a partner or watch him use one on himself until I can't take it anymore and demand his attention. There are some good sex toys for men out there, you just have to know where to look and have a sense of adventure!
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 43
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 11/9/2009 7:39:29 PM
That's 'cause you're too busy snoggin' Grandpa! Ya need a hot uninhibited stud to bring ya into the real world! Ya don't know what you are missing!


My older daughter had a son 6 weeks ago, my first grandchild, and I'm just arrogant and horny enough to call BS on this! Lol. Damn agists. They're everywhere! Lol
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 44
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Posted: 11/9/2009 8:31:36 PM
Men are expected to use their hands and that works just fine, and even that is considered pervy by some. Most women can't use their hand to imitate a penis
so a dildo works better and it's more accepted than her going out to get laid every night by some derelict in a bar because most good men have a girl friend or are married.
Women are not generally good with their hands during sex they need tools.
 Phil_an_derer
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 45
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 8/18/2012 4:58:42 PM
I always leave my 4 litre container of baby oil om my cumputor desk in plain site...I have a fleshlight I can plug into my pc...so everytime the person on the other end hits the space bar it makes the fleshlight vibrate....most women are quite amused....ok everything is true except for the baby oil and leaving everything out in plain site....
 Tgav4367
Joined: 4/28/2012
Msg: 46
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 8/18/2012 5:47:35 PM
Ohhhhh, I hadn't heard about the computer toys! I feel so sheltered.
 NOCLOWNING
Joined: 7/21/2010
Msg: 47
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 8/18/2012 6:09:42 PM
I dont think there is anything wrong with a man having toy's. Its better then him cheating. I think, I would enjoy watching. I myself, dont have any toy's.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 8/18/2012 7:54:10 PM
There are plenty of toys for men in the same store the women are buying their toys in!
When I go to get new toys.....I buy one for him too.......fair is fair!!
I don't expect him to rely solely on his hands when going solo, when I know damn well I don't!
And they are quite fun to use together, no matter which gender they are geared to.
 aussieblues
Joined: 11/22/2011
Msg: 49
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Posted: 8/18/2012 9:00:53 PM
Does his hand count? Is he allowed to mastabate. Do you dictate the visualisations in his head. Get a butt plug for him and have some fun ;-)
 Phil_an_derer
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 50
WTF is up with the double standard when it comes to sex toys?
Posted: 8/19/2012 3:46:46 AM
^^^^^^I can't handle those things...you would have to peel me off the ceiling.....
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