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 lot2offer
Joined: 9/25/2007
Msg: 82
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Making love = you love the person your having sex with

Sex = sex
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 86
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 8:56:08 PM
Having sex is just getting off, well for the guy that is. I don't get off just having sex and that get nothing out of it so I don't like to have sex just to please someone else. Now making love is full of passion and fireworks and electricity and u want it to go on all nite. U both get something out of it. I would never want to have a nite of having sex with a guy when if he only got to know me the making love part is so intense for me. The wait it worth it. U get to know about each other and likes and dislikes and u care about pleasing the other person.
 okimgame
Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 89
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 11:57:50 PM
[About twenty minutes]

Good one.

A couple of extra kisses, according to my ex. :(
 sexyviper
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 91
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 4:27:59 AM
you can have sex with anyone ...you can only make love to the one that has your heart
 manofthesea42
Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 96
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:34:38 AM
I vote for this deffinition. Making love is slow, sweet and very satisfying.
 manofthesea42
Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 97
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:36:31 AM
Hay Cats,
Can I have cookies with my ice cream? mmmmm
 bigflgator07
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 103
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 12:27:34 PM
sex and makin love is almost like eating soup...do you wanna use a fork?...NO... cause i wanna use a spoon to savor every drop !!
 transcend
Joined: 1/13/2007
Msg: 106
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 2:09:14 PM
Initial motivation, degree of emotional involvement,depth of engagement, commitment to creation, realization of whats been created, period of mutual pleasure,
and
How long it takes to remember yourself
 mjk21258
Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 107
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/11/2007 4:49:11 PM
Don't think there is a real good answer to this one. I think you just KNOW when you are making love, it is just so much more poweful.
 Wottacatch™
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 111
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/13/2007 7:19:18 AM
What’s the difference ...I would say........ Hmmmmmm and Arrrrrhhhh
 aleon
Joined: 5/9/2004
Msg: 113
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/14/2007 7:25:27 AM
Sex? What is sex? !!!
 Be_happy56
Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 116
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/19/2007 5:32:21 PM
Well to be honest, I can have sex with anybody, including my self. But I only make love to the one I love..... Same motions different Emotions...
 RulyRedhead
Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 118
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/19/2007 5:53:26 PM
Having sex is the animalistic, primal and passionate. It usually happens we coming of a dry spell. The foreplay started sometime in the afternoon and now its early morning. Pheramones (damn $1 dictionary) its all about the penetration.

Making Love is the cerebral, conscious desire to please, lots of eye contact. The rhythm is slower enjoying the act of being close and coupled. It is much more sensual, kissing, and playing.
Sex-(GOOD) will leave your body aching and spent
ML-(GOOD) may not actually end in orgasm

Sex- Scratches, hickeys, and missing items
ML- The tingle that you feel under your skin, giving you that warm feeling

Sex-The classic pant, nearly die, and passing out
ML-Cuddling in spoons, until your arm aches

They are both part of a healthy relationship, to both LUST and LOVE your partner
 Sea Witch LLC
Joined: 1/22/2007
Msg: 122
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/20/2007 3:41:06 PM
Sex = Makin Love

In an intimate (or committed) relationship, makin love can consume the heart and soul, .... sex, is the spice. Even though it's nice to experience the oneness of makin slow love, it's also nice to flip over and say.. Ok, hunny, now F**K me. LOL...
 JohnEDeep
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 126
What is the difference
Posted: 12/20/2007 4:49:06 PM
I find it fascinating that there's a general consensus among the posters here. Pretty rare occurance in these forums.

Sex I could find easily. As close as the nearest bar. About 50 feet in my case.

Making love is so preferable that I'd scour the Earth for a chance at finding a willing partner.

Wouldn't ya know it, I'm not much of a drinker.
 Sweetenuff074
Joined: 7/28/2007
Msg: 136
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/21/2007 3:41:28 PM
Having sex is two bodies merging together to satisfy their lust. Not feeling it necessary to be intimate.

Making love is when two spirits entwine in their moment of desire for each other. Finding intimacy joining them together in a heartfelt matter. Taking time to show their partner that they consider them and want to hear, feel and see their reactions while their in their intimate mode of making love. Sharing all the passion they feel for each other, and making it last until he can't take it anymore.
 Montreal_Guy
Joined: 3/8/2004
Msg: 140
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/25/2007 3:44:09 PM

What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love


If you have to ask, you'll never know.

It's the same difference as sitting down and eating a Big Mac alone in two minutes versus spending an hour and a half enjoying a fine multi-course meal with someone you love and care for very deeply.
 BKLYNBOY1
Joined: 6/30/2005
Msg: 148
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/26/2007 12:49:41 PM
TRUST ME. YOU WILL FEEL THE DIFFERENCE
 Ravenstar66
Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 151
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/26/2007 2:37:26 PM

It's like the difference between having ice cream and making cookies.

Both of them satisfy a craving, but the first one is quick and easy — ready to go right out of the box and all you need is a spoon.

The other takes some time and the right ingredients and tools to get everything just right... Then eventually it heats to the just the right temperature — transforming it into something else that can continue to be savoured even as the heat is wearing off.

They're both good, just depends on your mood.

Can't have ice cream ALL the time.


But what if you eat the cookie dough?
 crayonzz
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 156
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/26/2007 3:59:20 PM
Lets try fror the triple. (From the male perespective as I'm male)

SEX:
Dont even need to know the girls name. And usually dont if it's a prostitute. They use call names.
Alot of passionate kisses, clothes being ripped off, rug burns, pictures being knocked off the wall, suspenders, stockings, and black stilletto heels and noises so loud the neighbors stop to have a cigerette!!!!!


MAKING LOVE: Dating, and invite back to sleep over, our favorite music in the background... Slow, deep passionate kisses, lots of , louder moans, just to smell her, . Not just enjoying the sex but enjoying the sex with HER!!!

LOVEING: Long term relationship, .Quite comfortable with groping her in front of her parents or kids. Equally comfortable with masturbating in front of her if she has a headache. Sex does not follow the usual dating patter and everythig else pulls secodn fiddle to the dating and sex. Sex is the quiet tiem betwen other activites and occurs all the time. It's less passionate but far more comfortable.

That is the difference to me.
 UR 2 girls away from 3sum
Joined: 12/23/2007
Msg: 158
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/27/2007 9:16:58 AM
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love?
Depending on geo-region and "act" approximately $150.
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