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 waitinginline
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 76
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I'm sure it's already been said, but to me one is a physical act and the other is the physical act with the absence of rational thought and whole lot of confusing emotions thrown in for good measure. Give me making love everytime.
 Barth_Gimbal
Joined: 10/4/2007
Msg: 77
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 7:31:08 PM
This is the best answer of them all. Not the funniest, nor the most philosophical....but certainly the best.
 oldsoul
Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 78
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 7:31:50 PM
Making love....umm... is when his body is on top of yours and his lips are on your lips....and you're both looking deep into each other's eyes as he slowly enters you...and the world cease to exist.... there's no need for words or sounds....and he grabs your hands and holds them tight in his....and you just lay like that without moving....just looking at each other... both completely naked on all levels....mind, body, and soul....to me that is making love ;)

Having sex ....yeah well that's good too...specially if it's with ^^^ the same guy you're lucky enough to make love with also.

 NancyC123
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 79
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:33:39 PM
Freud,
I've had enough knocks upside the head from you, old man! How do you expect to get some lovin' from me after constantly swingin' that damn club?!
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 80
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:36:15 PM
having sex is focused on the climax at the end

making love is enjoying the trip it takes to get there
 kariharte
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 81
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:45:20 PM
You are a woman and actually asked???

Sex is a ton of fun with someone you don't know and have no desire to know in the future. It's raw and exciting.

Making love is what you have to do with your man to keep him happy.

Geeeze..

I am joking of course.
 Savona
Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 82
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:45:36 PM
Hi Tendernsoft,

Hahaha if you need to ask, back to relationships 101 for you ....

Savona

Herding ... you friggen kill me

Someone's been visiting the discount aisle.
 comandingflirt
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 83
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 8:54:12 PM
Sex is the human need for contact and our deep seeded need to procreate. and as preveisoly stated a ego driving act.

Making love is a totallyemotional and spirtal experince that should take both party's to a total new level. one were it is not your needs or wants that matter but your partners. one that does not end at climax but cares over to time afterwards.
were lifedoes not exist outside of the two of you.
 mz taken
Joined: 11/30/2007
Msg: 84
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/7/2007 11:49:24 PM
as the song says:

And if you can't be with the one you love
It's alright
Go ahead and love the one, love the one, love the one you're with
 Nona37
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 85
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/8/2007 3:18:35 AM
I believe that people in love can have both. Making love and sex. I believe they are both essential to a healthy sex life. I remember once in my past, I actually suggested to a man that we have sex, and no, it wasn't someone I was in love with. He stated to me, "I want to make love" so I then took the cue and rephrased my question, "Ok, wanna make love really hard?" lol
 SimplyPeachy
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 88
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/8/2007 9:39:37 AM
Q. What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love?

A. Physical v. Emotion & Soul
 Still2young2care
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 89
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/8/2007 10:52:09 AM
MAKING LOVE - MISSIONARY, KISSING, CUDDLING, SLOW PACE, ETC...

SEX - WHEN YOU GET YOUR FREAK ON ! (slightly faster pace) ha,ha,ha,ha

I'm such an ass for even commenting, I couldn't resist!
 Schadenfreudian
Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 90
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 8:40:40 AM
[quietly, cautiously and hopefully returns the club to its spot in Cave Schadenfreudian]
 NancyC123
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 91
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:13:40 PM
Freud,
That's better...I'm beginning to feel the love again...
 annasthasia
Joined: 5/4/2005
Msg: 92
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 2:07:43 PM
This thread is hilarious.

Now, I have experienced sex and making love.

My goal is at some point in the hopefully distant future and not on POF, find someone where I can interchange sex and making love. (I do prefer to have the same man for this... )

It's a mood thing for me. I am much more physical and making love sounds way too complicated sometimes.

Intimacy... intimacy... blah blah blah... To me intimacy is when you can fart and it does not matter if he hears you...

Even then, I would hope he would oblige by farting also... That, to me, is intimacy!!!
 oldsoul
Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 93
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 2:34:35 PM
^^^

I agree! You know you have yourself a keeper when you can fart and you both end up either
giggling about it, or totally ignoring it...haha!!



 lot2offer
Joined: 9/25/2007
Msg: 94
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 2:41:28 PM
Making love = you love the person your having sex with

Sex = sex
 TenderNSoft
Joined: 5/12/2007
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 4:25:28 PM
Savona

Believe me...I know the difference.

I wanted to see the answer men give versus what the woman give.
 augustapeach
Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 96
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 5:06:52 PM
Theres time when you with your partner you just want have mean raw sex lol and theres time when you want make love..you want to show affection ,,you want to make the person feel special,you want show the person what he or she does to you
 Heart Bandit
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 97
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 5:51:01 PM
Having sex is all about satisfying the physical urge without any deep emotional attachment. Making love is done by those who truly love one another and feel the connection on both the physical and emotional level.
Simplistic explanation, but I believe it's to the point.
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 8:56:08 PM
Having sex is just getting off, well for the guy that is. I don't get off just having sex and that get nothing out of it so I don't like to have sex just to please someone else. Now making love is full of passion and fireworks and electricity and u want it to go on all nite. U both get something out of it. I would never want to have a nite of having sex with a guy when if he only got to know me the making love part is so intense for me. The wait it worth it. U get to know about each other and likes and dislikes and u care about pleasing the other person.
 Herding Cats
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 99
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 10:25:04 PM
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love


It's like the difference between having ice cream and making cookies.

Both of them satisfy a craving, but the first one is quick and easy — ready to go right out of the box and all you need is a spoon.

The other takes some time and the right ingredients and tools to get everything just right... Then eventually it heats to the just the right temperature — transforming it into something else that can continue to be savoured even as the heat is wearing off.

They're both good, just depends on your mood.

Can't have ice cream ALL the time.
 floosie
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 100
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 12/10/2007 10:34:01 PM
About twenty minutes.
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