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 Minau
Joined: 9/2/2007
Msg: 281
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Making love is when he looks you in the eyes and kisses you...
 blssmlvs
Joined: 8/17/2004
Msg: 283
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 4/8/2008 12:37:58 AM
having sex is getting your and saying oH YEAH BABY THAT GREAT THEN "OK gET OF ME NOW " AND SAY I GOT TO GO . AND MAKING LOVE IS SOMETHING AS BEAUTIFUL AS SUMMER WHEN YOU LOVE THAT PERSON SO MUCH THAT YOU FEEL LIKE THE EARTH IS A PLACE IN HEAVEN ... OK SO WHAT IAM A ROMANTIC
 JustAnIowaGuy
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 293
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 5/8/2008 7:16:33 PM
The difference is the level of intimacy. Feeling put forth. "Having sex" is just that....wang bang, you both get off. "Making love" is more drawn out preparing, and more felling attached. More feeling put forth.
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 301
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/7/2008 2:29:31 PM

If women want love they have to separate it out from physical experience so it can match the swirly music of their favorite movie.


Well that explains it...since my favorite movies are like Braveheart, Last of the Mohicans, Man from Snowy River, and yes( Lord help me) Van Helsing...there's no swirly music( I can't STAND 98% of the so called "chick flicks, so sue me and yank my "gal card" LOL)

Personally, I prefer to both make love AND have sex at the same time with the same guy. I can,if need be,separate the 2 on a temporary basis,but since I require both to maintain a meaningful longterm relationship, my romantic goals are a little more challenging and harder to achieve( but you tend to have greater appreciation of that which has required harder work/longer search). I'd LIKE to find that magical combination,but I don't HAVE to be with someone...I'd hate to force myself into a "settled for" relationship and then have the guy I was really MEANT to be with come along, and overlook me because I'm "with someone"( make no mistake the guy I'm really meant to be with is an honorable man who would not be trying to steal away another man's woman, and as a woman of honor I can't imagine too many things more awful than to have to choose between my own happiness or not hurting the man I had "settled for".)
That's my own personal credo, I would not dream of pushing it as more "right" than someone else's.
Cindy O
 UR 2 girls away from 3sum
Joined: 12/23/2007
Msg: 302
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/7/2008 3:35:07 PM
A smart man makes the women believe he is making love so he can enjoy having sex.
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 303
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/7/2008 4:00:55 PM

A smart man makes the women believe he is making love so he can enjoy having sex.

I ran across a guy like that not to long ago, ( we did not have sex, I just KNOW he was that kind of smart),but I couldn't get his wife to sell him to me...
Cindy O
 UR 2 girls away from 3sum
Joined: 12/23/2007
Msg: 304
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/7/2008 4:03:26 PM
I couldn't get his wife to sell him to me
Guess my choice would be the leasing option (you know, the owner/lessor still takes care of maintenance and upkeep)!
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 306
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/7/2008 4:10:45 PM

Guess my choice would be the leasing option (you know, the owner/lessor still takes care of maintenance and upkeep)!

Nah, she wouldn't even lease...something about not being able to spare him...
Cindy O
 LatinFever77
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 309
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/7/2008 7:38:35 PM
At the end of it "making love"= is still sex!!!! I think its an emotional state of mind. Depends what your in it for, the relationship, the person you care for , or the person you just want to get it on with (i.e. no attachments). Making love is by definition something with some sort of feelings and meaning behind it but its still sex. If you are just having sex than i wouldnt call it making love , id just call it sex. So the meaning to the word is held both ways by definition when Making Love/=SEX but you cant associate making love when just having sex. Meaning SEX is not equivilant to = Making Love.
 cutepoet
Joined: 5/24/2008
Msg: 312
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/8/2008 3:18:57 AM
Sex is the rough way, you just want to do it any how, you don't care, any style, (Doggy style, free verse, long stroke, lolipop, 25shots, bullet proof , monkey on a tree, Kung fu, to the left, to the right, swing your rag, on ya face, let me come, roll that boat, on your back, horsing, super man, like a bird), etc..........

But Love Making, is when you get to look into her eyes, and say to her, (YES, I LOVE YOU) saying that to her with a (Firing Kiss) and then you kiss her again, and again, until she's about to explode in your arms.

So OP, you can see there's a great difference between them.
 pokerjimmy
Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 314
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/8/2008 8:54:25 AM
making love is what we make sure you women are doing, because having sex and F...... is lowlife and cheap. So...you get the candles, bubble bath with champayne, Barry white...and you know what we get.
 Delta Hammer
Joined: 4/15/2008
Msg: 319
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:13:53 AM
Sex is physical. Making your body and theirs feel good.
Making love is emotional. Making their soul and yours feel good.
 clubkid66
Joined: 7/6/2005
Msg: 320
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/8/2008 11:55:20 AM
Sex- in the moment, go for your own pleasure, anyone will do.
Love- planned, the other person's pleasure is more important, only one person will ever do
 Frankycadillac
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 323
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 7/8/2008 1:43:35 PM
simple-
Feel like Making Love by Bad Company on the side of love

Flesh for Fantasy by Billy Idol on the side of sex
 OUTBOY
Joined: 8/16/2007
Msg: 325
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/10/2008 4:59:18 PM
Love making is like the moon and the sea ,I was watching one full moon evening as the moon appeared in the horizon ,the sea started to glissen and shimmer with glee as the moon slowly moved its love ,the waves rolled sighing up to me over and over it seemed for eternity ,the beach shone as the moon and sea said good nite to me. whilst sex is wham bam thankyou mam I know what i prefer .
 busmann
Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 328
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/11/2008 4:20:46 AM
put barry white on and let the clothes fall down
 seekinbarrie
Joined: 10/12/2007
Msg: 330
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/14/2008 7:40:10 AM
The intent.

 arkboy51
Joined: 8/8/2008
Msg: 332
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/14/2008 6:33:39 PM
very very true when in love you always want to please your partner
 steve zad
Joined: 5/21/2007
Msg: 335
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/22/2008 7:33:49 PM
I can't believe there's a question about this, sex is sex, making love is wanting your partner more that life itself.
 RoadTrip3500
Joined: 10/28/2006
Msg: 337
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/22/2008 8:13:17 PM
I put this at three categories, not 2...

Making love - primarily for the emotional pleasure
Having sex - 50/50
F***ing - primarily for the physical pleasure
 Single, Sexy, Classy
Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 338
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What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/22/2008 8:14:50 PM
I can't believe you even asked that question-omg!!!!!!!!!!!!
 rob1nyc
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 342
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 8/23/2008 5:28:13 AM
For me, the difference is:
When their is no love or raw emotions involved, it's called sex. When you love someone it's "making love". Simple as that.

There's no greater feeling inside than when your being intimate with someone and you care a great deal about them.
 thecheekychick
Joined: 10/18/2008
Msg: 345
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 10/23/2008 8:19:22 PM
sex when when your young..
love when your old...

hahahahahahah just kidding!!
 Skipe Townne
Joined: 7/14/2008
Msg: 352
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 10/24/2008 9:09:42 AM
mechanically & physically, outwardly they may both appear to be the same but they're not.
Having sex is carnal. Making love is primal. again, it's all in the communicating. for me having sex is, sex that's all. making love is cerebral & cosmic.
 TrewOrFalse
Joined: 9/6/2008
Msg: 353
What is the difference between Having Sex and Making Love
Posted: 10/27/2008 3:58:52 PM
Theres 3 different types of "sex" theres Love making wich is rare, theres ****ing.. wich happens alot.. and theres sex

point of it all is how u feel about the person ur with and the comfort level!
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